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By *ims01 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cramlington

been a member of the site for quite some time now couple of years ? and I,m affraid it in a decline does anyone agree or disagree ?? one thing in particular is the amount of tv,s Iv,e got no direct dislike for them but ??? I think its about time trhey opened up there own wversion of swingers Just a suggestion ? Paul XXX let me know what the general feelings are ? and of course apologies if I have upset anyone in anyway just ?????? m P

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Why??

You would appear to be assuming that other men, fems and couples don't want to meet TV/TS

It would be a bit like me saying I have no actual dislike of people (for example) Over 40, and that there's so many of them on here they should go make their own site.

If you're not interested in TV/TS use your filters and you'll never hear from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ummm - disagree!

Completely. Totally. And in fact utterly!

Haven't used any other site for years and always plenty going on - online and off!

So, sorry you're not enjoying yourself - but right now - can't fault it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally disagree, everyone should be welcome here. To me your post saying "I have nothing against TV's but ??????" is akin to the old "I'm not racist but??????? (PS. not implying for a second you're racist, just a comparison x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DISAGREE

everyone are welcome here whenever you are straight bi tv ts or whatever you are

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I don't like miserable people yet there seems to be loads around....please all leave the site you funsuckers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TV's are what they are, out there and honest in what they do and their preferences.

We have no problem with them as their very nature gives people the choice of meeting them or not.

BUT.....we can understand what the O.P means, as we said on a recent thread and we don't really care if we get shot down in flames or not, the site is becoming more like a gay guy site than a swingers site.

Time and again there are threads started by "straight" bi guys bemoaning the fact that straight guy couples won't meet them.

Bi curious "straight" guys wanting to try sucking cock.

Bi guys, many of them "straight" wanting to be fucked and/or sucked in front of an audience.

Bi guys wanting to meet up with others for men only fun.

Bi guys sending unsolicited messages to single straight guys.

So yeah....we can see where the O.P is coming from.

XXXX

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

Hell no.

Just because I don't want to shag someone doesn't mean that they shouldn't be allowed to use the site.

I enjoy reading forum posts from plenty of people whom I'm not attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disagree!

We love this site and always plenty of interaction with people, we have met and talked to so many genuine people, we are very pleased with FABS!

And ditched two other similar sites because we LOVE it here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Nope I dont think its in decline and no I dont find TV/TS are a problem you are able to ignore anyone you dont like at the click of a button. Their money helps the site just as mine does.

It sure sounds like you have a problem lighten up a little.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"TV's are what they are, out there and honest in what they do and their preferences.

We have no problem with them as their very nature gives people the choice of meeting them or not.

BUT.....we can understand what the O.P means, as we said on a recent thread and we don't really care if we get shot down in flames or not, the site is becoming more like a gay guy site than a swingers site.

Time and again there are threads started by "straight" bi guys bemoaning the fact that straight guy couples won't meet them.

Bi curious "straight" guys wanting to try sucking cock.

Bi guys, many of them "straight" wanting to be fucked and/or sucked in front of an audience.

Bi guys wanting to meet up with others for men only fun.

Bi guys sending unsolicited messages to single straight guys.

So yeah....we can see where the O.P is coming from.

XXXX"

And of course every women part of a couple is bi and wants a bi women to play with her ....but leave the hubby alone. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And of course every women part of a couple is bi and wants a bi women to play with her ....but leave the hubby alone. .. "

BUT.......they don't keep banging on about it, several threads a page!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm heterosexual but I have no problem with other genders using this site and have chatted to them and vice-versa on a purely social level. It's what makes this site so absorbing and fun to use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have blocks on men and TVs messaging me so it isn't an issue but I can also see the OPs point.

I've been on and off the site for over 5 years now. During that time there has been a huge increase in the number of gay/bi/tv guys. a quick glance at the 'latest pics' pages will show that.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

That is probably because they feel safer admitting they are Gay Bi or TV/TS than 5 years ago..

People are still pretty shit on the streets even now but back then in london you would be beaten up or get a knife in the back. .. Just live your own lives ..let others lead theirs .

block button is bottom left !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you could write and complain to the Daily Mail that swinging isn't the same as it used to be?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"been a member of the site for quite some time now couple of years ? and I,m affraid it in a decline does anyone agree or disagree ?? one thing in particular is the amount of tv,s Iv,e got no direct dislike for them but ??? I think its about time trhey opened up there own wversion of swingers Just a suggestion ? Paul XXX let me know what the general feelings are ? and of course apologies if I have upset anyone in anyway just ?????? m P"

see.... let me ask you a question...

lets remove "TV's"... and replace it with "single people"......

a lot of couples could/do the same post?

how would you feel???

for a community that is suppose to be all inclusive, you get some people who are really narrow minded....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is probably because they feel safer admitting they are Gay Bi or TV/TS than 5 years ago..

People are still pretty shit on the streets even now but back then in london you would be beaten up or get a knife in the back. .. Just live your own lives ..let others lead theirs .

block button is bottom left !!"
but why isnt there a block Filter for gay Or bi. Men??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been a member of the site for quite some time now couple of years ? and I,m affraid it in a decline does anyone agree or disagree ?? one thing in particular is the amount of tv,s Iv,e got no direct dislike for them but ??? I think its about time trhey opened up there own wversion of swingers Just a suggestion ? Paul XXX let me know what the general feelings are ? and of course apologies if I have upset anyone in anyway just ?????? m P

see.... let me ask you a question...

lets remove "TV's"... and replace it with "single people"......

a lot of couples could/do the same post?

how would you feel???

for a community that is suppose to be all inclusive, you get some people who are really narrow minded...."

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"That is probably because they feel safer admitting they are Gay Bi or TV/TS than 5 years ago..

People are still pretty shit on the streets even now but back then in london you would be beaten up or get a knife in the back. .. Just live your own lives ..let others lead theirs .

block button is bottom left !!but why isnt there a block Filter for gay Or bi. Men??

"

Or Bi women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is probably because they feel safer admitting they are Gay Bi or TV/TS than 5 years ago..

!!"

True and a valid point. But would a profile on a gay or tv site not be more successful?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"That is probably because they feel safer admitting they are Gay Bi or TV/TS than 5 years ago..

!!

True and a valid point. But would a profile on a gay or tv site not be more successful?"

isn't that like a couple telling you as a single person should be on a dating site as you would be "more successful"....

just let people be... they are not affecting you, your paths never have to cross if you don't want them to....

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"That is probably because they feel safer admitting they are Gay Bi or TV/TS than 5 years ago..

!!

True and a valid point. But would a profile on a gay or tv site not be more successful?"

Not all TVs are gay,lots meet couples and females

By that logic you're saying that they should only meet with other TVs on specifc sites and that sounds horrendously like segregation although im sure you did'nt mean it like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is probably because they feel safer admitting they are Gay Bi or TV/TS than 5 years ago..

People are still pretty shit on the streets even now but back then in london you would be beaten up or get a knife in the back. .. Just live your own lives ..let others lead theirs .

block button is bottom left !!but why isnt there a block Filter for gay Or bi. Men??

Or Bi women?"
..Yip Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its very much getting....i am not having fun therefore the site is shit ....

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I think the OP should creat his own website and decide who can join and who can't

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"That is probably because they feel safer admitting they are Gay Bi or TV/TS than 5 years ago..

!!

True and a valid point. But would a profile on a gay or tv site not be more successful?"

Well I guess that is like saying I have no right to be here ..

A) because im married

B) because im a naturist

C) because im not a swinger..

WHY is it important Im enjoying my time here I pay my way I take part in the forums.. I dont want to go elsewhere I like it here . Thanks..

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I always really really fail to see the issue with people who post about "too many tv's" or straight guys who "hate all the men messaging them" or women who "wish couples would leave them alone" (just a few examples).

The site has tools that give you the ability to filter any gender or age you want... If you use it, there's no issue.

I do see the point people are making about filtering by sexuality. If it was an option then filtering out gay / bi / straight singles would be simple.. but how would that work on here with couples. If someone won't meet bi men but would meet bi women (or vice versa) there's no way to know which member of the couple is which... It's not like M's details first etc??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All i want to know is why cant you block bi guys and bi chicks...?

Just a question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

By that logic you're saying that they should only meet with other TVs on specifc sites and that sounds horrendously like segregation although im sure you did'nt mean it like that"

You're right. I don't mean it like that but perhaps didn't write it down well. I would just have thought that a more ''specialist" area (like tvs) would have more success on a site specifically dedicated to that market.

I think what a lot of people who have been on the site a few years have noticed is that there has been a sea change on Fab. 5 years ago it was very much a swapping and sex sitefor couples and singles first and foremost. Recently it's become more about socials, voyeurism and there has also been an explosion in false profiles. There is no doubt in my mind that the site has gone badly downhill and good people are leaving as a result.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Or Black / Mixed race/ Caucasian scottish

welsh irish.

or heaven forbid Arabs and Turks..

People that say Tits Ohhh I hate that.!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God forbid there was a straight cpl on here looking for Another straight cpl...

The old chestnut...oh he/she can play straight might Not work so saves alot of Time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its very much getting....i am not having fun therefore the site is shit ...."

I'm having fun n this site is soo good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Resists scribbling in red pen all over the laptop screen....sooooo hard to resist!!!*

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

Plenty of cpls want to meet TV's so of course they belong on Fab just like we all do with all our various preferences!We enjoy BD/DS as well as "vanilla swinging" + wouldn't be happy to be advised to leave + join a specialist site.We love fab:it works well with all its tools and sooooo many great ppl on here

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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

[Removed by poster at 05/09/12 22:53:05]

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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

We think only people who exactly match our personal preferences should be allowed on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All i want to know is why cant you block bi guys and bi chicks...?

Just a question. "

For the same reason that we can't block straight couples who keep winking, messaging and contacting us...we'd love a bi filter...it would make our lives loads easier...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All i want to know is why cant you block bi guys and bi chicks...?

Just a question.

For the same reason that we can't block straight couples who keep winking, messaging and contacting us...we'd love a bi filter...it would make our lives loads easier..."

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

I'm so happy to part of the fabswingers site, over the years here I have met so many lovely people as well as just one or two neanderthals but I don't let that spoil my view that this is the best social networking site on the planet, hugz n stuff, xxxx

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