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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all,

I want to learn how to be more dominating in the bedroom, my GF loves to be dominated but I’m a bit crap at it. What tips do you have?

Just in case your wondering she knows I’m on here we’re both enjoying the swinging community.

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By *ams12345Man
over a year ago

london

Watch porn.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

read books on the subject.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

This is going to sound silly but in all honesty find a woman who likes to be dominated and they will show you.

We had a thing with another couple for a few years and the female wanted me to dominate her which like you I was crap at. Through asking questions and her showing me what she wanted I got quite good at it apparently. I always felt a bit uncomfortable with it especially when she wanted to be cho*ed but will admit at the same time as being scared of what I was doing found it a massive turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't watch porn, 99% of it is male oriented and doesn't appreciate the submissives perspective and how it should be enjoyable for both parties. My advice would be to read about it online and understand the many different aspects of the kink, and experiment with your gf and figure out what you both do or don't like. Just be open and honest with each other, it's all about trust.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"read books on the subject.

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This.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is going to sound silly but in all honesty find a woman who likes to be dominated and they will show you.

We had a thing with another couple for a few years and the female wanted me to dominate her which like you I was crap at. Through asking questions and her showing me what she wanted I got quite good at it apparently. I always felt a bit uncomfortable with it especially when she wanted to be cho*ed but will admit at the same time as being scared of what I was doing found it a massive turn on."

I relate to this 100% thank you. I have asked her questions and she explains some stuff to me. I just feel a bit rubbish sometimes that she has to explain so much to me

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By *irebird567Woman
over a year ago

near by


"Don't watch porn, 99% of it is male oriented and doesn't appreciate the submissives perspective and how it should be enjoyable for both parties. My advice would be to read about it online and understand the many different aspects of the kink, and experiment with your gf and figure out what you both do or don't like. Just be open and honest with each other, it's all about trust. "

This

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Hey all,

I want to learn how to be more dominating in the bedroom, my GF loves to be dominated but I’m a bit crap at it. What tips do you have?

Just in case your wondering she knows I’m on here we’re both enjoying the swinging community. "

Talk with her about what she likes, what she is hoping you can provide.

Don’t bother going down the dominating rabbit hole until you have a better understanding of what you both want to explore.

Then make sure what ever you do is consensual and safe.

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