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Where’s the love for Short men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m not in this category .. I’m 6’2 but have been surprised how many women have a preference for tall men..

Ladies.... surely the shorter guy is not such a bad thing.. ? I’d love to hear the ladies opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married to a shorter man, so definitely not an issue here but I do like a 6ft plus guy too

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

There are short men that do get a little love

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm married to a shorter man, so definitely not an issue here but I do like a 6ft plus guy too"

That’s cool.. it intrigued me as to how many ladies have it as a preference... wouldn’t have ever thought it was such a priority for so many women...

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

How short is short?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've only been with one guy who was shorter than me (I'm only 5'2" )when I had heels on and honestly it felt really weird bending down slightly to kiss him his profile had stretched the truth a bit.That made me realise that yes height does matter but as long as they are taller than me when I wear heels I'm happy .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How short is short? "

I guess shorter seems to be a bench mark of 6” ... not my thoughts just what I see on a lot of ladies profile preferences

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've only been with one guy who was shorter than me (I'm only 5'2" )when I had heels on and honestly it felt really weird bending down slightly to kiss him his profile had stretched the truth a bit.That made me realise that yes height does matter but as long as they are taller than me when I wear heels I'm happy . "

That’s fair enough Bo.. but not a high priority.. excuse the pun..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm married to a shorter man, so definitely not an issue here but I do like a 6ft plus guy too

That’s cool.. it intrigued me as to how many ladies have it as a preference... wouldn’t have ever thought it was such a priority for so many women..."

Although I'm not huge by female standards I'm reasonably tall and its nice to feel smaller sometimes. It's a good feeling being able to look up to kiss a guy

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'm married to a shorter man, so definitely not an issue here but I do like a 6ft plus guy too

That’s cool.. it intrigued me as to how many ladies have it as a preference... wouldn’t have ever thought it was such a priority for so many women...

Although I'm not huge by female standards I'm reasonably tall and its nice to feel smaller sometimes. It's a good feeling being able to look up to kiss a guy"

Then start on your knees and you can work your way up. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the same size lying down right? Mind you if I was looking for a guy smaller than me, I'd have to wait until panto season.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"All the same size lying down right? Mind you if I was looking for a guy smaller than me, I'd have to wait until panto season."

I'm behind you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the same size lying down right? Mind you if I was looking for a guy smaller than me, I'd have to wait until panto season.

I'm behind you. "

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"All the same size lying down right? Mind you if I was looking for a guy smaller than me, I'd have to wait until panto season.

I'm behind you.

"

A guy can wish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 5.7 but have a step ladder. Used to date a woman 5.11 which was fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All the same size lying down right? Mind you if I was looking for a guy smaller than me, I'd have to wait until panto season."

He’s behind you... I mean on top of you..

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Being tall is quite high on the list of most Women's 'must-haves' but one of many and to some its a deal breaker, to others its great if they're tall but not a priority,

I think the idea of feeling protected, being dominated "The alpha male" and also how they look together in and out of bed etc

Personally I find myself more attracted to Women of similar height/body size or smaller/Petie probably for similar reasons

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By *dventureSeeker23Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Being a short guy always seems to be an issue here for some strange reason most of the time not sure why?

Its about the attraction in most cases some of the best meets I have had is women is over 5"6 they seem to love a shorter man.

But I don't judge so I know the right people who choose to meet me won't either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tom hardy and Jason statham are short arses..lots of love for them!

Then again I spose with them being film stars it does help

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"All the same size lying down right? Mind you if I was looking for a guy smaller than me, I'd have to wait until panto season.

I'm behind you.

"

Oh no he isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rather like the shorter chaps

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I don't mind men the same height but nothing shorter. I'm 5ft 6. Ms

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s just a little strange how you literally never hear of a guy saying “ god she’s beautiful and a great body and all.. just she’s a just bit too short for me .. oh well..she’s not getting cock..”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 5'1" and most people are taller than me. Does it bother me, no. Does it bother the person I'm with?! If so then we will wish each other well and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 5ft 10. I got bullied at school for being a tall girl. There was always unwelcome comments about being on netball or basketball teams or considering modeling. I hated it. As I've gotten older i endeavoured to put myself in situations where i’m not the lanky girl or the amazonian woman. Even then people comment ‘gosh you're a tall lass’ or ‘are you really 5ft 10?’ Sadly being with guys shorter than myself is on the list of things that attracts unwanted attention for me.

Some might say ‘well you're not getting married’ or ‘people aren’t going to see you’, ‘we’re all the same height laying down’, but its still there in my head, i’ve tried to get over it (yes i’ve met guys shorter than me) but the mental energy required to get my mind right saps the energy required to make it all sexy. Thats not fair on anyone. I do think shorter guys get unnecessary agg on here.

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By *rcuriousmouseMan
over a year ago

in town...

At 5ft8 (ish) I'm probably a bit below average. I reckon there is a misconception that a lack of size is reflected in other body parts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How short is too short ? I'm 5'6 , is that too short ? Not sure

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Dick is 5'6 the right height for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a shorter guy but can never find them

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By *rcuriousmouseMan
over a year ago

in town...

Ah ffs, only left kent a few hours ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a shorter guy but can never find them

"

Where have you been all my life ? LOL

Kent not that far...just saying

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

“ Where’s the love for Short men” - on the top shelf I’m afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah ffs, only left kent a few hours ago! "

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London


"I am 5ft 10. I got bullied at school for being a tall girl. There was always unwelcome comments about being on netball or basketball teams or considering modeling. I hated it. As I've gotten older i endeavoured to put myself in situations where i’m not the lanky girl or the amazonian woman. Even then people comment ‘gosh you're a tall lass’ or ‘are you really 5ft 10?’ Sadly being with guys shorter than myself is on the list of things that attracts unwanted attention for me.

Some might say ‘well you're not getting married’ or ‘people aren’t going to see you’, ‘we’re all the same height laying down’, but its still there in my head, i’ve tried to get over it (yes i’ve met guys shorter than me) but the mental energy required to get my mind right saps the energy required to make it all sexy. Thats not fair on anyone. I do think shorter guys get unnecessary agg on here. "

This. Perfect demonstration of how things work both ways.

Even I went through a phase of only wanting women taller than me. Exactly because all my life I had slurs and piss taking and at best comments like "aren't you short" (as if it was a big revelation - ooh ta hadn't realised. Was wondering why I couldn't reach the porn mags on the top shelf).

But then I realised that I was culprit of the same thing that was influencing my preference.

Now I've been with all sorts - short, tall, really tall, fat, thin, chunky, boney. And I find them all beautiful in their own way. The sexiness lies in the voice, sometimes in the eyes or the smile or even the way they talk or their sexual mind.

I've come to love (or cum to love?) all forms of women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't tell how tall you are when we're horizontal.

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By *aptainBlackstoneMan
over a year ago

Walthamstow

5'4 here and women just naturally prefer taller men, not all, but generally that usually the case and it's only a surprise or new info to people who are tall

It's usually a "I feel more feminine with a taller man" thing from what I could see and guess.

Personally like any height on a woman

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By *dventureSeeker23Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"I am 5ft 10. I got bullied at school for being a tall girl. There was always unwelcome comments about being on netball or basketball teams or considering modeling. I hated it. As I've gotten older i endeavoured to put myself in situations where i’m not the lanky girl or the amazonian woman. Even then people comment ‘gosh you're a tall lass’ or ‘are you really 5ft 10?’ Sadly being with guys shorter than myself is on the list of things that attracts unwanted attention for me.

Some might say ‘well you're not getting married’ or ‘people aren’t going to see you’, ‘we’re all the same height laying down’, but its still there in my head, i’ve tried to get over it (yes i’ve met guys shorter than me) but the mental energy required to get my mind right saps the energy required to make it all sexy. Thats not fair on anyone. I do think shorter guys get unnecessary agg on here.

This. Perfect demonstration of how things work both ways.

Even I went through a phase of only wanting women taller than me. Exactly because all my life I had slurs and piss taking and at best comments like "aren't you short" (as if it was a big revelation - ooh ta hadn't realised. Was wondering why I couldn't reach the porn mags on the top shelf).

But then I realised that I was culprit of the same thing that was influencing my preference.

Now I've been with all sorts - short, tall, really tall, fat, thin, chunky, boney. And I find them all beautiful in their own way. The sexiness lies in the voice, sometimes in the eyes or the smile or even the way they talk or their sexual mind.

I've come to love (or cum to love?) all forms of women."

Well said

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By *edsmudgeMan
over a year ago

oxford

Being bit of a short arse , you’ve got to look at the plus side , it’s all perspective , short legs means it hangs half way to ya knees

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am 5ft 10. I got bullied at school for being a tall girl. There was always unwelcome comments about being on netball or basketball teams or considering modeling. I hated it. As I've gotten older i endeavoured to put myself in situations where i’m not the lanky girl or the amazonian woman. Even then people comment ‘gosh you're a tall lass’ or ‘are you really 5ft 10?’ Sadly being with guys shorter than myself is on the list of things that attracts unwanted attention for me.

Some might say ‘well you're not getting married’ or ‘people aren’t going to see you’, ‘we’re all the same height laying down’, but its still there in my head, i’ve tried to get over it (yes i’ve met guys shorter than me) but the mental energy required to get my mind right saps the energy required to make it all sexy. Thats not fair on anyone. I do think shorter guys get unnecessary agg on here.

This. Perfect demonstration of how things work both ways.

Even I went through a phase of only wanting women taller than me. Exactly because all my life I had slurs and piss taking and at best comments like "aren't you short" (as if it was a big revelation - ooh ta hadn't realised. Was wondering why I couldn't reach the porn mags on the top shelf).

But then I realised that I was culprit of the same thing that was influencing my preference.

Now I've been with all sorts - short, tall, really tall, fat, thin, chunky, boney. And I find them all beautiful in their own way. The sexiness lies in the voice, sometimes in the eyes or the smile or even the way they talk or their sexual mind.

I've come to love (or cum to love?) all forms of women."

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know what the day about short men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am 5ft 10. I got bullied at school for being a tall girl. There was always unwelcome comments about being on netball or basketball teams or considering modeling. I hated it. As I've gotten older i endeavoured to put myself in situations where i’m not the lanky girl or the amazonian woman. Even then people comment ‘gosh you're a tall lass’ or ‘are you really 5ft 10?’ Sadly being with guys shorter than myself is on the list of things that attracts unwanted attention for me.

Some might say ‘well you're not getting married’ or ‘people aren’t going to see you’, ‘we’re all the same height laying down’, but its still there in my head, i’ve tried to get over it (yes i’ve met guys shorter than me) but the mental energy required to get my mind right saps the energy required to make it all sexy. Thats not fair on anyone. I do think shorter guys get unnecessary agg on here.

This. Perfect demonstration of how things work both ways.

Even I went through a phase of only wanting women taller than me. Exactly because all my life I had slurs and piss taking and at best comments like "aren't you short" (as if it was a big revelation - ooh ta hadn't realised. Was wondering why I couldn't reach the porn mags on the top shelf).

But then I realised that I was culprit of the same thing that was influencing my preference.

Now I've been with all sorts - short, tall, really tall, fat, thin, chunky, boney. And I find them all beautiful in their own way. The sexiness lies in the voice, sometimes in the eyes or the smile or even the way they talk or their sexual mind.

I've come to love (or cum to love?) all forms of women."

Congratulations and kudos to you for being able to turn the situation round to a positive and get over the slurs and comments.

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Story of my life lol a lot of women will not even chat any further once I say I'm 5"7 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5' 7" and a beard here, definitely not on the hot list

Everyone wants 6' plus and no face hair.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"5' 7" and a beard here, definitely not on the hot list

Everyone wants 6' plus and no face hair."

That’s silly tbh.. I think a lot of women just put it up to as a preference for no particular reason and if they met a guy whatever height it’s certainly not the biggest priority.. being tall is no big deal

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"That’s silly tbh.. I think a lot of women just put it up to as a preference for no particular reason and if they met a guy whatever height it’s certainly not the biggest priority.. being tall is no big deal "

Says someone that knows nothing about the subject, from either the male or female perspective.

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts


"I've only been with one guy who was shorter than me (I'm only 5'2" )when I had heels on and honestly it felt really weird bending down slightly to kiss him his profile had stretched the truth a bit.That made me realise that yes height does matter but as long as they are taller than me when I wear heels I'm happy . "

once had a girlfriend who was 6ft plus easy and she had no problems being with me, later i had a shorter gf, 4ft 11, making an 8/9inch taller and i had to bend a little to hold hands as if she was a child.... it felt weird.. then i realized i needed to get over myself! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really not bothered about a guys height as most are taller than me (mrs)..5ft 2..

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