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By *hewy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

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So I have been on here for a few years now, had the chance to meet a lovely lovely lady who no longer chooses this lifestyle as she met someone.

After approaching people on here, I’m curious for opinions, am I your type? Or would you avoid me, and why… I’m just curious and won’t be offended by any comments made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, I wouldn't even look at your profile as you don't have a profile pic.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Honestly, I wouldn't even look at your profile as you don't have a profile pic. "

Same. Also lack of public pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey buddy

I'm sure you'll want to hear from the ladies on their opinions, but generally you seem like a nice chap, however you only have one pic - so it's hard to gauge what you are like from that one pic. Suggest adding more , also try and stay active in forums - gives another dimension to how folks perceive you, which you can't get from your profile.

Hope that helps

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"Honestly, I wouldn't even look at your profile as you don't have a profile pic. "

Yep. No profile/public pics is pretty much a no.

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By *hewy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Reading


"Honestly, I wouldn't even look at your profile as you don't have a profile pic. "

Damn, thought I sorted that. How about now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rewrite your profile too. From the wording I’m guessing it was when you first joined.

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By *hewy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Hey buddy

I'm sure you'll want to hear from the ladies on their opinions, but generally you seem like a nice chap, however you only have one pic - so it's hard to gauge what you are like from that one pic. Suggest adding more , also try and stay active in forums - gives another dimension to how folks perceive you, which you can't get from your profile.

Hope that helps "

Gotcha, yeah the forums seem good to try and get to know people… I’ll try and stay active more, thanks for the advise!

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Re write your profile…add some more pics but no cock shots op

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By *hewy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Reading


"I would rewrite your profile too. From the wording I’m guessing it was when you first joined. "

It was indeed, I’m going to spend time doing that later today. Thanks for the input

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would avoid you because you say you have a high sex drive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to answer to that not knowing a person...

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By *hewy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Reading


"I would avoid you because you say you have a high sex drive. "

Fair comment, thank you!

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By *hewy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Reading


"Hard to answer to that not knowing a person..."

That’s also a fair comment, thank you, this is more over first impressions though, obviously you can only get to know someone once you’ve read the profile etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would avoid you because you say you have a high sex drive.

Fair comment, thank you!"

You look like a nice bloke though.

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield


"Honestly, I wouldn't even look at your profile as you don't have a profile pic. "

Wonderful response saying it like it is

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield


"Hard to answer to that not knowing a person..."

Wonderful response saying it like it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. Hop on.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

For me not enough detail in your profile and very generic

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By *hewy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Reading


"I would avoid you because you say you have a high sex drive.

Fair comment, thank you!

You look like a nice bloke though. "

Lol, thank you!

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Not enough pictures and maybe add more to your profile

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By *hewy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Reading


"Not enough pictures and maybe add more to your profile "

Thanks, I don’t really like pictures of myself tbh that’s why there aren’t many on there.

I’ll try and add more to my profile though thank you

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Avoid pics don’t do you justice do agree with others re write your profile soz

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Re write your profile and get yourself down to a club or social, something to give you verifications.

I know it's difficult at present but soon things will open up again.

In normal times, a single guy or couple, been on over a year, no meets or verifications, we stay clear.

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By *hewy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Reading


"Avoid pics don’t do you justice do agree with others re write your profile soz "

Don’t be sorry, appreciate the feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, now we're talking. I quite like your profile - it's brief, but friendly and you come across as a nice chap. There's an autocorrect error in the 2nd paragraph (half instead of have). Pop a few more pics up and get rid of the one from 2016 as it's too old to be relevant.

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By *hewy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Ok, now we're talking. I quite like your profile - it's brief, but friendly and you come across as a nice chap. There's an autocorrect error in the 2nd paragraph (half instead of have). Pop a few more pics up and get rid of the one from 2016 as it's too old to be relevant. "

Thank you, I’ll get rid of the old one and add more over time… don’t have any that I would put on here at the moment.

I appreciate the feedback though, the auto correction has been taken care of as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like you've received good advice.

Only other thing I can suggest is look for town / city socials to get your veri's updated

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

You probably need a few more (genuine) verifications. My advice would be to get yourself to a few clubs and meet people. It would show you're willing to put some effort into your swinging and it will provide you with some publishable verifications.

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By *wingamajigsCouple
over a year ago

Folkestone

Your 2016 picture is better, less....rough and ready for us?

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By *hewy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Reading


"Your 2016 picture is better, less....rough and ready for us?"

Thanks for the feedback, might remove it though as I don’t look like that now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey buddy

I'm sure you'll want to hear from the ladies on their opinions, but generally you seem like a nice chap, however you only have one pic - so it's hard to gauge what you are like from that one pic. Suggest adding more , also try and stay active in forums - gives another dimension to how folks perceive you, which you can't get from your profile.

Hope that helps "

never understood the stay active in the forums to inprove your chance's outlook ? the forums proberly account for less than 1% of fab of which most on the forums dont meet ? and having been on the site since the first week it opened on this account or my singles account ive never met a guy via the forums...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have been on here for a few years now, had the chance to meet a lovely lovely lady who no longer chooses this lifestyle as she met someone.

After approaching people on here, I’m curious for opinions, am I your type? Or would you avoid me, and why… I’m just curious and won’t be offended by any comments made."

your problem is plain and simple your a guy and there are zillions of you thats your biggest downfall ... apart from that then its your profile or lack of it when a guy messages me i look at the profile before opening the message .. no profile then i delete the message keep on then i block ... guys need to lay there cards on the table too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re profile looks good to me, probably should ask for professional advice on mine ??. I’ve got no verification as I’m overseas currently but I’m looking to go to clubs also if I get the chance. Keep chipping mate

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I would say.... Loose the sunglasses, Don’t hide behind them ( unless you are actually blind and in that case, I’ve made myself out to be a complete wombat!)

For me, I like to see a glint in the eye. Mirror to the soul ‘n’ all that ??

Also, I would put recent pictures up of yourself, not ones from year's ago. A cheeky bottom photo might be nice!

Could always put one of you up dressed in latex, that might work!….. just kidding! Ok going slightly off course now.

You have a lovely face and a nice smile, be patient and I'm sure a girlie will be along soon.

CC X

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By *hewy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Reading


"I would say.... Loose the sunglasses, Don’t hide behind them ( unless you are actually blind and in that case, I’ve made myself out to be a complete wombat!)

For me, I like to see a glint in the eye. Mirror to the soul ‘n’ all that ??

Also, I would put recent pictures up of yourself, not ones from year's ago. A cheeky bottom photo might be nice!

Could always put one of you up dressed in latex, that might work!….. just kidding! Ok going slightly off course now.

You have a lovely face and a nice smile, be patient and I'm sure a girlie will be along soon.

CC X"

Well not sure about the bottom pic…. Mines a bit too heavy so I’ll leave that for now! I’ll get a non sunglasses photo uploaded shortly though, hopefully I can find some pics that I think will be ok… like I said previous I’m not a fan of myself in terms of looks so not really confident with photos!

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By *hewy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Reading


"Yeah. Hop on. "

Lol, just tell me when! ??

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