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"We have been noticing recently the number of messages from guys who have the crappest profiles. Often they simply have a single short sentence along the lines of "fancy a shag" One simply had "will fill in later"!! Invariably they have no photos. Not even a poor quality cock photo. Are they seriously expecting to get some action on fab? I say this because many, many others make a significant effort to prepare something which will help them stand out from the crowd." And yet despite the effort the number of replies someone who makes the effort receives is a percent of those he sends. Why would a man make a huge effort at a profile when he gets no response anyway? | |||
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"We have been noticing recently the number of messages from guys who have the crappest profiles. Often they simply have a single short sentence along the lines of "fancy a shag" One simply had "will fill in later"!! Invariably they have no photos. Not even a poor quality cock photo. Are they seriously expecting to get some action on fab? I say this because many, many others make a significant effort to prepare something which will help them stand out from the crowd. And yet despite the effort the number of replies someone who makes the effort receives is a percent of those he sends. Why would a man make a huge effort at a profile when he gets no response anyway?" Take your logic one step further & you need to ask "why bother at all". For sure competition is fierce but I suspect that a minimalist approach with the profile reduces the chances of obtaining a meet to virtually zero. | |||
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"We have been noticing recently the number of messages from guys who have the crappest profiles. Often they simply have a single short sentence along the lines of "fancy a shag" One simply had "will fill in later"!! Invariably they have no photos. Not even a poor quality cock photo. Are they seriously expecting to get some action on fab? I say this because many, many others make a significant effort to prepare something which will help them stand out from the crowd. And yet despite the effort the number of replies someone who makes the effort receives is a percent of those he sends. Why would a man make a huge effort at a profile when he gets no response anyway? Take your logic one step further & you need to ask "why bother at all". For sure competition is fierce but I suspect that a minimalist approach with the profile reduces the chances of obtaining a meet to virtually zero. " I personally prefer a friendly, open profile stating what I like. But I can imagine the frustration of some men who get no responses at all, despite what they put on profile as they don't fit a particular mould | |||
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"ive got a crap profile, with fill in later, im a typical man, have got pic in private gallery, i get as much fun as i want,i get plenty of response just dont need to broadcat it action speak loader than words" oh ffs if I lowered myself to those standards I could have ten meets a night | |||
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"dont do to many meets just do parties and clubs,got enoth freinds on here any1 can wright bull shit on there profile," If it works for you.... | |||
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"We have been noticing recently the number of messages from guys who have the crappest profiles. Often they simply have a single short sentence along the lines of "fancy a shag" One simply had "will fill in later"!! Invariably they have no photos. Not even a poor quality cock photo. Are they seriously expecting to get some action on fab? I say this because many, many others make a significant effort to prepare something which will help them stand out from the crowd. And yet despite the effort the number of replies someone who makes the effort receives is a percent of those he sends. Why would a man make a huge effort at a profile when he gets no response anyway? Take your logic one step further & you need to ask "why bother at all". For sure competition is fierce but I suspect that a minimalist approach with the profile reduces the chances of obtaining a meet to virtually zero. " Yep. Then they wonder why and post on here whining about getting no replies and no meets. | |||
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"We have been noticing recently the number of messages from guys who have the crappest profiles. Often they simply have a single short sentence along the lines of "fancy a shag" One simply had "will fill in later"!! Invariably they have no photos. Not even a poor quality cock photo. Are they seriously expecting to get some action on fab? I say this because many, many others make a significant effort to prepare something which will help them stand out from the crowd. And yet despite the effort the number of replies someone who makes the effort receives is a percent of those he sends. Why would a man make a huge effort at a profile when he gets no response anyway?" But you must see that if he has a good profile he may get 20% response but if he has a crappy profile then ZERO% ... I guess they'll just learn from experience or get disappointed and leave. Is there tips on here for writing a profile ... if not it may be a good idea. | |||
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"Sorry but profiles with one liners 'will fill in later', no verification/pics & been on longer than 6 months I just block!! "you only got 4 lines | |||
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"Sorry but profiles with one liners 'will fill in later', no verification/pics & been on longer than 6 months I just block!! you only got 4 lines"I don't feel the need to have a 'flowery' blah blah blah profile… I just say what I'm looking for/not looking for… simples! Lol   | |||
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"We have been noticing recently the number of messages from guys who have the crappest profiles. Often they simply have a single short sentence along the lines of "fancy a shag" One simply had "will fill in later"!! Invariably they have no photos. Not even a poor quality cock photo. Are they seriously expecting to get some action on fab? I say this because many, many others make a significant effort to prepare something which will help them stand out from the crowd. And yet despite the effort the number of replies someone who makes the effort receives is a percent of those he sends. Why would a man make a huge effort at a profile when he gets no response anyway?" Feel like this myself think I'll just stop messaging because it feels like a total waste of time!  | |||
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"We have been noticing recently the number of messages from guys who have the crappest profiles. Often they simply have a single short sentence along the lines of "fancy a shag" One simply had "will fill in later"!! Invariably they have no photos. Not even a poor quality cock photo. Are they seriously expecting to get some action on fab? I say this because many, many others make a significant effort to prepare something which will help them stand out from the crowd." just leave them to it, after all its gotta be a little easier when people who are unsuitable make it so obvious thats the case to you | |||
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 im just a gobby git in my profile and i dont give a toss what people think of it really  | |||
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"We have been noticing recently the number of messages from guys who have the crappest profiles. Often they simply have a single short sentence along the lines of "fancy a shag" One simply had "will fill in later"!! Invariably they have no photos. Not even a poor quality cock photo. Are they seriously expecting to get some action on fab? I say this because many, many others make a significant effort to prepare something which will help them stand out from the crowd. And yet despite the effort the number of replies someone who makes the effort receives is a percent of those he sends. Why would a man make a huge effort at a profile when he gets no response anyway? Take your logic one step further & you need to ask "why bother at all". For sure competition is fierce but I suspect that a minimalist approach with the profile reduces the chances of obtaining a meet to virtually zero. I personally prefer a friendly, open profile stating what I like. But I can imagine the frustration of some men who get no responses at all, despite what they put on profile as they don't fit a particular mould" srelythe point is to make your profile fit a 'particular mould' if you cant be arsed to do that then why bother | |||
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"Sorry but profiles with one liners 'will fill in later', no verification/pics & been on longer than 6 months I just block!! you only got 4 lines"yes but she is a lady,ladies on here are not desperate,guys think oh i need a fuck soi,ll join a swingers site and think they can just order a fuck,its not a catalogue,its not easy,women have a much wider choice than guys | |||
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" And yet despite the effort the number of replies someone who makes the effort receives is a percent of those he sends. Why would a man make a huge effort at a profile when he gets no response anyway?" Lowering your standards to those of others just because you dont get a reply is a little stupid - Make the effort because it shows who you are - It sells you. If these guys with crappy profiles are the ones getting all the meets then maybe you have a small point but if you dont advertise properly how is anyone going to know if what your selling is worth buying There will be profiles with nothing but a picture and one line that give some people all they need to know and the guy will get lucky from that. I would suggest that most people make their decision to meet based on physical attraction but a decently written profile could be the deal maker....I you cant appeal to everyone so I dont try - my profile is me and when I message someone I like the look of and they reply in the positive it has done its job - messaging someone and getting no reply just means they are not into me -that isnt because of my profile im just not their type | |||
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"ive got a crap profile, with fill in later, im a typical man, have got pic in private gallery, i get as much fun as i want,i get plenty of response just dont need to broadcat it action speak loader than words oh ffs if I lowered myself to those standards I could have ten meets a night" I could do that too and get quick shag after quick shag. . . But I do t want to do that - I look for quality meets that last and are repeated. Why settle for scrag end every night when you can have fillet once or twice a week. I get enjoyment out of sex, yes, but also out of pleasing others, making them enjoy themselves while with me. . Personal choice, but I think I'll stick with it thanks! | |||
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"ill be having a go at mine soon. didnt sign up with much intention but still here so may aswell "Compared to some of the one liners we have seen yours is already a work of genius
Seriously though we written & re-drafted ours many times over the years. Its still far from perfect & we will likely do it again. | |||
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"Surely profiles described by the OP are here for one or both of 2 reasons... - perve cams in chat (new profiles possibly due to having been previously banned), or - to perve pics Though there is the 3rd option.. To try and chat, get a meet sorted then delete profile and create another new one "The point we were making at the start of this topic was they were writing to us looking for a meet. We have no problem if they are on for a perv or for cams but they are wasting their time if they hope to get a meet. | |||
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"I don't think this is restricted to guys. I have seen countless shitty profiles from couples and women as well. Things like "just joined, will update later" as they joined a year ago! So it's not exclusive to guys. I am hoping this is not the umpteenth dig at single men cos its getting old." You are absolutely right however it is a bit of a numbers game. The number of single guys looking for some action is vast. If as a single guy you are hoping to differentiate yourself from the pack then it pays to spend a little more time on your profile. Couples or single females on the other hand apparently need to make very little effort. Its unfair but thats simply the way it is. | |||
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"We have been noticing recently the number of messages from guys who have the crappest profiles. Often they simply have a single short sentence along the lines of "fancy a shag" One simply had "will fill in later"!! Invariably they have no photos. Not even a poor quality cock photo. Are they seriously expecting to get some action on fab? I say this because many, many others make a significant effort to prepare something which will help them stand out from the crowd." yep you guys are right you look on a number of guys files all they have is fill out later or even nothing then they put on there headlines why cant i get a meet or i give up then look you on pics and all you see is cock pics  | |||
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"I prefer to chat to people in the chat rooms and from forums I tend not to pay too much attention to the profiles "  | |||
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"different strokes different folks , if its working for them cool , cant please everyone all of the time . i prefer folk to read my profile and maybe read between the lines a bit , if they get and have a good profile themselves hen its a better start me thinks . i used to get annoyed with it being honest ...the will fill in later , no pics no effort but getting somewhere which was puzzling . however in the end why bother stressing about it ? their profile their life . " great file babes | |||
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"Some of them with 0 pics and a shitty one liner still somehow get meets. Fuck knows how." I truly find that hard to believe. I can guarantee they don't get one with us. | |||
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"Sometime guys find it pointless to make an effort on their profile when they know it actually doesn't really matter what they write on it. This situation of guys getting no replies and girls receiving too many messages reminds me of recruitment agencies, where the girl is the recruiter and the guy is the job seeker (else seeker in this case!); the guy has only one shot to impress the girl by sending his CV (the message) "I think the point seems to be that it does actually matter. Admittedly a good profile does not guarantee success but a virtaully non existent profile virtually guarantees failure. | |||
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