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By *assagetherightplaces OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

Just wondering... if you was offered a free genuine full body massage, with agreement to be videoed, for sole use/ edited for for fab uploads only.....

would you be expecting it to be pure social/friend/massage

Or would you be expecting more ??

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I would be expecting it to be exactly what had been agreed. If a conversation in which our boundaries had been discussed hadn't taken place neither would the massage. It's all academic anyway because I would never, ever agree to be filmed by someone else

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By *assagetherightplaces OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford


"I would be expecting it to be exactly what had been agreed. If a conversation in which our boundaries had been discussed hadn't taken place neither would the massage. It's all academic anyway because I would never, ever agree to be filmed by someone else"
some seem to think even when a discussion is made, that it will change 30 mins before arriving

i think the video is a personal choice anyone would have (dont mean face been videoed btw)

its good to see other peoples views.

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By *assagetherightplaces OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

anyone elses opinion on this?

i do offer messages genuinely to those local, that dont ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"anyone elses opinion on this?

i do offer messages genuinely to those local, that dont ask "

I'm currently studying massage and other holistic therapies. If you also offer massage as a paid service too, you need to tread carefully. If you are a member of the ICHM or similar, what you are offering is likely to be in breach of their code of ethics as you are publicly offering it.

Personally, I wouldn't video any client whether it's a paid or unpaid treatment.

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By *assagetherightplaces OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford


"anyone elses opinion on this?

i do offer messages genuinely to those local, that dont ask

I'm currently studying massage and other holistic therapies. If you also offer massage as a paid service too, you need to tread carefully. If you are a member of the ICHM or similar, what you are offering is likely to be in breach of their code of ethics as you are publicly offering it.

Personally, I wouldn't video any client whether it's a paid or unpaid treatment. "

appreciate your opinion. as i said for use on here/personal not to be used any where else. with permission from them using their device, its a general massage offered free.

im also a qualified massage therapist specialising in different therapies, i certainly wouldnt be asking regular clients if they would be videoed, hence asking a different world on here as its different from the norm, plus from here they wouldnt become “clients” when offering a 1 off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cool. Just keep both worlds separate. Good luck OP

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

It'd be a no from me.

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By *assagetherightplaces OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford


"Cool. Just keep both worlds separate. Good luck OP"
oh defo

im just wondered what people thought for a free 1 on here. always good to know how the other world like things.

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By *assagetherightplaces OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford


"It'd be a no from me. "
i totally understand that from you as i know your not keen on them as it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering... if you was offered a free genuine full body massage, with agreement to be videoed, for sole use/ edited for for fab uploads only.....

would you be expecting it to be pure social/friend/massage

Or would you be expecting more ??"

As a qualified massage and holistic therapist myself I personally think this is crossing a line. I think it is very unprofessional, and it seeks to sully a discipline I personally have worked very hard to learn and practice.

I echo the comments around professional organisations too, guidelines and regulations are there for a reason.

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By *assagetherightplaces OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford


"Just wondering... if you was offered a free genuine full body massage, with agreement to be videoed, for sole use/ edited for for fab uploads only.....

would you be expecting it to be pure social/friend/massage

Or would you be expecting more ??

As a qualified massage and holistic therapist myself I personally think this is crossing a line. I think it is very unprofessional, and it seeks to sully a discipline I personally have worked very hard to learn and practice.

I echo the comments around professional organisations too, guidelines and regulations are there for a reason. "

i think this has been mis-understood.

i certainly would not offer this in my daily massages to clients.

Im asking peoples opinions in the world of fab, to see if they would want to be videoed having a massage for the use they could upload onto fab.

photos with permission are alot different to an actual video

also on their opinions on what they expect.

in no way shape or form would i be asking regular clients this question.

Again this in on the world of fab/different scene.

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