FabSwingers.com forum: Why is fisting so taboo

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are a fisting loving cpl we both give and receive and love the stretched out open feeling ass and pussy but find when talking to others about it they start to whisper, it's almost like dam no one can find out we enjoy something.

Has fisting always been looked apon like this as so taboo

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Blackpool, Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

I wouldn't have said it's taboo as such, but then maybe that's because I'm also into the bdsm/fetish scene so have more exposure to more 'extreme' things. I'd say it's a niche, and not everyone's thing but wouldn't go as far as taboo. Its something I'dd like to do more of, but haven't met many women who wanted to. Those I have done it with though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its their loss,though i find theres more than enough folk out there wanting to experiment with us fistee's.

Happy gaping.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

It’s taboo enough for photos and videos of it not being allowed on here btw

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By *r Tall and DarkMan
over a year ago

hull

Everyone is each to their own just because someone likes a certain things doesn’t mean it’s necessarily wrong it’s just what that person or person’s are into and shouldn’t be judged for it, it’s a sex site for Christ sake their are many aspects to sex. So if you guys enjoy fisting go out and do it be yourselves. Happy fisting

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By *erkshire8299Man
over a year ago

slough

It is a bit like anal....many folks are just not into it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if it was called something other than fisting, would it still be as taboo? Maybe we need to rename it, something more genteel. Suggestions on a postcard…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think just the word fisting puts people off

It suggests a slightly violent act when in reality it's a very intense erotic act

I personally love fisting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s taboo enough for photos and videos of it not being allowed on here btw "

I have a fisting photo on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love fisting pictures and videos

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By *omerset-cplCouple
over a year ago

bristol

We love fisting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's amazing to receive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love fisting giving and receiving its such an intense experience great fun though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something i would love to try but, would need to be with someone I trust. Can anyone advise me on how fisting should be done! Any advise would be great.

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By *xciter7169Man
over a year ago

The Midlands

First time i came across fisting was on the South bank show with Melvyn Bragg,an artist had photographed someone being fisted,i never thought you could be stretched that much till then,this was pre tinternet days

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By *alentedfMan
over a year ago

Near Newbury

I have big manly hands and gave had the pleasure of stretching and using them many time with willing female friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told that the Yanks call holding two drinks , on in each hand , is called double fisting

Just some interesting triva

Although I can't verify if that's accurate lol

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By *urnhambiguyMan
over a year ago

Swindon

I've been lucky enough to fist 2 girls, both mums in their 30s and I loved it. I was surprised how easy it was being gentle with a bit of lube

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By *TastePurpleWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I think the name makes it sound a lot more extreme and violent than it really can be. Some people love rough punchfucking but I find a lot of people just like the gentle stretch and it can be quite intimate feeling someone's pulse and their cavity stretched around your hand/vice versa.

I'm a big fan of fisting and stretching play in general. Love people with nice relaxed open holes 3 So satisfying taking a big dildo or someone's whole hand. Good for the Gander and the Goose!

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By *TastePurpleWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I really want to find an attractive Bi couple who are both into fisting and stretching 3

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By *on CheeMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I agree with above ...I think it's sounds worse than it is people just think of porn where it's rough.....

It can be intimate and passionate

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By *oee25Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Never been fisted myself, only a finger but I’ve loved fisting others in the past. Such a sexy thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also don't like the word fisting.. it isn't for everyone, but I think it's something that if done right is amazing.

My hubby wanted to try it on me and I was happy to try too.

I definitely think it's only to be done with someone you trust (at first anyway)

I have gone from liking it but it feeling abit overwhelming and having it to be extremely gentle to slowly over time absolutely loving it. Over maybe a year, we have got to the point of it being loved and I want more and more. To the point of really pushing my boundaries and I can also say to any women out there that if used with a wand on your clit at the same time, the orgasm will be like nothing you've experienced before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When an ex wanted it she used to say to me in a sexy voice "I want you to punch my cunt in" it was all very sensual though, just our sense of humour to make light of the whole "fisting" name.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

It is taboo because it is an unnatural sex act, or at least not commonly practiced. A bit like watersports.

Especially when associated with the gay community it adds to it's mystique.

When hetro couples are just as much into it as gay couples probably.

It amazes me you can see a vet up a cow at tea time on national TV but the goverment were considering banning it on the interweb porn sites in the UK.

If consenting adults want to do or watch it it should be OK.

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral

Fish stew

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"I wonder if it was called something other than fisting, would it still be as taboo? Maybe we need to rename it, something more genteel. Suggestions on a postcard…"

Knuckling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alternative name suggestion:

"The hand of God"

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By *TastePurpleWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I like "advanced fingering"

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By *hrobinsonMan
over a year ago

Bridgnorth

"I like "advanced fingering""

Fingering Plus

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By *edonisticHandfulWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield

I've been into fisting for about 20 years.

The name is awful, but the experience is still incredible. I agree it needs a new name but no idea what.

I suspect there's also a lot of shame attached because of the assumption that if you are into fisting you must be really loose if you can take that.

4 kids later and I can still squat and sneeze, it's actually been good training and the muscle control is probably improved because of it.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Fisting is something I have recently done and enjoyed.x

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

"I've been into fisting for about 20 years.

The name is awful, but the experience is still incredible. I agree it needs a new name but no idea what.

I suspect there's also a lot of shame attached because of the assumption that if you are into fisting you must be really loose if you can take that.

4 kids later and I can still squat and sneeze, it's actually been good training and the muscle control is probably improved because of it.

The Squat and Sneeze, is that a weight-lifting thing?

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mittening

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Ha ha!

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By *ellysexy123Woman
over a year ago

Fantasyland

The site wouldn’t let me upload fisting pics ….said they were too rude

But l do think it is who is moderating uploads that day as it let me upload four fingers deep another time

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By *ellysexy123Woman
over a year ago

Fantasyland

I find it highly erotic to fist another woman

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By *edsguyMan
over a year ago

south of Bedford

I've fisted ladies but I'd love to be on the receiving end and try it

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By *edonisticHandfulWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield

The Squat and Sneeze, is that a weight-lifting thing?

;-)"

It's a 4 babies later and is often impossible without accidents thing. Maybe it should be a weight lifting thing?

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By *edonisticHandfulWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield

"I find it highly erotic to fist another woman"

Women do fist differently. I don't know how but they do. It is more erotic somehow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to experience this especially giving

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By *TastePurpleWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"I find it highly erotic to fist another woman"

Same!

Shame they're so averse to fisting and kink pics here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have said it's taboo at all.

Maybe I'm just a bit too dirty.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why it is taboo. Consenting adults and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one fisting pic the other was too rude apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember fucking an older slut when I was 19.. she was 40’s and fat and I fucked her in the arse as I had my fist inside her and I could feel my own cock rubbing against my hand through the walls of her sopping cunt

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Weve tried once or twice but didnt getbit quite right. Lots and lots of lube and would love to try again at some point its down to technique i think lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder if it was called something other than fisting, would it still be as taboo? Maybe we need to rename it, something more genteel. Suggestions on a postcard…"

"A full strength clenched hand pandering"?

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By *ellysexy123Woman
over a year ago

Fantasyland

"I remember fucking an older slut when I was 19.. she was 40’s and fat and I fucked her in the arse as I had my fist inside her and I could feel my own cock rubbing against my hand through the walls of her sopping cunt "

Can’t imagine you’ll have many meets with such derogatory comments….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love fisting. Never felt so much cum.

Advantage of having smaller hands lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who said romance is dead?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cool story then you woke up and had your corn flakes

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

The name makes it sound quite violent!

I've tried it with a trusted man but we can't quite get there we'll keep trying though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with most - the name makes is sound alot worse than it can be. I know some women like a good "punching" fisting , but when I've done it , it tends to be nice and gentle play and basically an extension to fingering

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

I have very big hands but a lot of patience, love to stretch the lady, plenty of lube and plenty of time and of course both parties have to be in the right mood and be fully relaxed

One of the most erotic acts out there but shied away from because so many guys pile in too fast and without prior preparation and care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder if it was called something other than fisting, would it still be as taboo? Maybe we need to rename it, something more genteel. Suggestions on a postcard…

Knuckling

Hand play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hand diving

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Can’t imagine you’ll have many meets with such derogatory comments…."

I was just thinking the same thing.

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By *odkaboy2Man
over a year ago

bristol

Maybe people aren’t as open minded as they think. For me as long as something is legal and all parties are consenting then there is no need to “whisper”. It’s either your thing or not and as it is clearly yours (amazing pics by the way) then don’t feel in any way what you’re doing is taboo. I have given a fist on request and taken a decent sized strap-on and enjoyed both - so no taboo here

Enjoy yourselves

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By *rian4uMan
over a year ago

London

"Maybe people aren’t as open minded as they think. For me as long as something is legal and all parties are consenting then there is no need to “whisper”. It’s either your thing or not and as it is clearly yours (amazing pics by the way) then don’t feel in any way what you’re doing is taboo. I have given a fist on request and taken a decent sized strap-on and enjoyed both - so no taboo here

Enjoy yourselves "

Why does it have to be legal? If two consenting rational adults want to do it then why not?

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By *TastePurpleWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Enjoy yourselves

Why does it have to be legal? If two consenting rational adults want to do it then why not? "

Well it depends really. Some things are rightly illegal like schbestiality.

Some things like BDSM are technically illegal (you cannot consent to assault e.g. being spanked in the UK) but rarely enforced. Thank god!

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

Agree with the others who think that the name isn't the nicest lol but is it really still "taboo"

We've never quite managed it tbh,

never quite got past the knuckle's, but it's fun trying though

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By *heonixRaven 777Woman
over a year ago

Guildford

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By *heonixRaven 777Woman
over a year ago

Guildford

I don't perceive it as a taboo act, neither do I think it should be. I feel it is no different to anal sex, you either enjoy it or you don't. And I feel it shares many of the misconceptions that anal sex does.

It is something that I particularly enjoy receiving and giving to those who are consenting to the pleasure and delights of fisting. It can be the most sensual of experiences or something much more visceral depending on what the person is wanting.

I don't see it as niche or more of an bdsm activity, just one that is not perhaps discussed often.

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By *otPrinceHarryMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

It may also tie in with the UK's hopelessly ambiguous "extreme" pornography laws.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s taboo enough for photos and videos of it not being allowed on here btw "

Well I didn't know that

Blimey

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By *D_GinaTV/TS
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Wife loves being fisted and having her pussy stretched.

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By *hunkyKitKatSalesmanMan
over a year ago

Melksham

I love fisting a lady and, as I have reasonably smallish hands, after a bit of warming up, gentle stretching and lube I can usually manage to slide in nicely.

However, it’s been quite hard for me to meet someone on here that enjoys it too

I’ve yet to have it reciprocated on me though but something I’d be willing to try with the right partner(s)

As a side question do you use gloves or go ‘naked’?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy it but Sir has big hands which is both a blessing and a curse

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock

"It’s taboo enough for photos and videos of it not being allowed on here btw "

But bizarrely, its one of the "Interests" you can add to your profile...

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"I've been into fisting for about 20 years.

The name is awful, but the experience is still incredible. I agree it needs a new name but no idea what.

Hand-me-up or simply a hand up

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By *ethilfunMan
over a year ago

methil

Latest photos rejected... using a rubber fist..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps if you called it boxing the pics may go through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something I love . Usually need some lube and to go very slowly at first . But the stretching feeling is amazing , that perfect balance between pain and pleasure !

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I'm here

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"I wonder if it was called something other than fisting, would it still be as taboo? Maybe we need to rename it, something more genteel. Suggestions on a postcard…"

I was thinking the same as, for some, it might suggest aggression. 'Jazz hands' is taken

but I'm sure the government would pay some useless agency a couple of million, to come up with 'happy hands' or worse.

A good handyman is worth his weight in gold?

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

"It’s taboo enough for photos and videos of it not being allowed on here btw

But bizarrely, its one of the "Interests" you can add to your profile..."
dumbest thing ever. Watersports also listed as an interest but can't show pics of that either apparently. If it can't be shown then it shouldn't be an "interest"

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By *TastePurpleWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Annoying because they're two of my favourite kinks :P

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

When did it become a taboo?

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"It’s taboo enough for photos and videos of it not being allowed on here btw

But bizarrely, its one of the "Interests" you can add to your profile...dumbest thing ever. Watersports also listed as an interest but can't show pics of that either apparently. If it can't be shown then it shouldn't be an "interest""

Although "squirting" is ok though lol

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By *ainsb1Man
over a year ago

North Lincs/S.Yorks

The only problem with it, is that anal fisting can in a few cases lead to a form of incontinence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love fisting a willing partner

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By *xciter7169Man
over a year ago

The Midlands

"I wonder if it was called something other than fisting, would it still be as taboo? Maybe we need to rename it, something more genteel. Suggestions on a postcard…

Knuckling

Hand play"
Puppet hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder if it was called something other than fisting, would it still be as taboo? Maybe we need to rename it, something more genteel. Suggestions on a postcard…

Knuckling

Hand playPuppet hands"

Punching Judy

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By *ingle w3t femaleWoman
over a year ago

yorkshire

Mine got removed

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By *ingle w3t femaleWoman
over a year ago

yorkshire

I love fisting a woman.. we tend to be more gentle ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the feel of my hand (my hands are not big) inside a lady and the feel as I pulse my fingers.

Never tried any other way but there is always a first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have one fisting pic the other was too rude apparently "

I'm pretty sure the moderating team on this site is made up entirely of Catholic nuns they reject so much!!

Fisting is the perfect example, how can you have a category for it under interests but seldom allow a photo of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are a fisting loving cpl we both give and receive and love the stretched out open feeling ass and pussy but find when talking to others about it they start to whisper, it's almost like dam no one can find out we enjoy something.

Has fisting always been looked apon like this as so taboo

Taboos are to be broken

I've had the pleasure of giving vaginally and enjoy it immensely. A sign a good evening g is being had by all. Would love to come and visit and be inducted I to more

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

Its disgusting. just our opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found fisting, when done right, can give intense orgasms to females

I also find that if i have my fist going in her pussy sideways as opposed to long ways, eg from her clit to her ass, it goes in easier

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Beautiful. Is that you Shakespeare?

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By *TastePurpleWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Its disgusting. just our opinion

Thanks, nobody asked... Nice of you to kinkshame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its disgusting. just our opinion

Thanks, nobody asked... Nice of you to kinkshame

Yeah I'm with Purple, let's not shame what others are into.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beautiful. Is that you Shakespeare? "
she was an ugly squirt whore who liked it rough. I gave her what she wanted and deserved

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By *AURA6969TV/TS
over a year ago

RUGBY

I don't think it's taboo just not everyone's choice certainly not mine personally as I am still an anal virgin.

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By *AURA6969TV/TS
over a year ago

RUGBY

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By *oldenbrownMan
over a year ago

Sussex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *im himCouple (MM)
over a year ago

bedworth

We would love to find a female that is into fisting . Two versatile guys here in the midlands

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I saw a fisting video on here and to my surprise it really turned me on making me want to try it. The video got removed but I will always remember it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it’s particularly…. Pleasurable … just saying … I don’t get it

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I watch fisting porn. I don’t like the rough stuff, but seeing a man with a large hand being able to eventually lose it up to his wrist is a huge turn in for me.

I’ve never done it to another woman, but I’d love to.

I’ve had partners try to do it to me, but I don’t get as much pleasure receiving as I do watching.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

At a stretch...I'd say difficult child birth, haemorrhoids and other damage downstairs might put some off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ducking. It's the way you make your hand....

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

I didn’t realise it was 'taboo'!

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By *lderyetbolderMan
over a year ago

Braintree

Don’t like it but if you do it’s ok have fun

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By *ethilfunMan
over a year ago

methil

Managed to get a pic and video on.. admin must be lenient in the early hours

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By *ora 123Man
over a year ago

Basildon

I have tried it but can’t take a full fist past the knuckles. Maybe one day. I love it.

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By *urlycatMan
over a year ago

Southampton

All I know is that I love to fist..Its extremely sensual and erotic and intense.

More please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have very experienced little hands and love to slowly open up a willing hole ... genuine guys message me

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Is it?

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By *.Jayne66Woman
over a year ago

Neverland

I'm in the same position! Would love to try but not found anyone to trust.. Love being tided up too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love fisting a willing lady. Have had the pleasure numerous times. Trust is important and if the safe word is used that is pre agreed then thats that.

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By *om and LisaCouple
over a year ago

gateshead

"I have one fisting pic the other was too rude apparently

I'm pretty sure the moderating team on this site is made up entirely of Catholic nuns they reject so much!!

Fisting is the perfect example, how can you have a category for it under interests but seldom allow a photo of it

Well, very recently fisting and other images were banned (if made in the UK).

Under ammendments made in 2014 to the the Communications Act 2003 pornography which depects the following (and was created in the UK) was made illegal for publication online, bringing online laws in line with those for pornography sold in sex shops/dvds.

Caning

Aggressive whipping

Penetration by any object "associated with vio1ence"

Physical or verbal abuse (regardless of if consensual)

Urolagnia (known as "water sports")

Role-playing as non-adults

Physical restraint

Humiliation

Female ejaculation

St***ulation

Facesitting

Fisting

These changes were mostly overturned in 2019, but the very recent shift is obviously concerning for anyone involved in running a site which could fall under the banner of 'pornography' - which this site very likely would.

There's a dividing line between seeing and doing.

There's that often borne idea of "what goes on in the privacy of someone's bedroom, behind closed doors".

It's acceptable to meet someone looking to do certain things and even to talk about them.

But under pornography/extreme pornography laws, it's often a step too far to publish images of the same.

I can see why the site would err on the side of caution and stop the uploading of certain images.

It's easier to not have them on the site than to try to remove them if they are banned again.

On a different note raised in this thread:

Extreme pornography laws are there to "protect society, particularly children".

And they cover images which are "Grossly offensive, disgusting or otherwise of an obscene character"

It's interesting isn't it.

I'm a big fan of all sorts of porn, I love a good fisting flick.

But if someone finds (what is very clearly) extreme content objectionable, is vocalising their disgust 'kink shaming'?

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"I like "advanced fingering""

Love this!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Wow did not know love worshipping a woman's body and part of that is big toys and fisting.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"I have one fisting pic the other was too rude apparently

I'm pretty sure the moderating team on this site is made up entirely of Catholic nuns they reject so much!!

Fisting is the perfect example, how can you have a category for it under interests but seldom allow a photo of it

Well, very recently fisting and other images were banned (if made in the UK).

Caning

Aggressive whipping

Penetration by any object "associated with vio1ence"

Physical or verbal abuse (regardless of if consensual)

Urolagnia (known as "water sports")

Role-playing as non-adults

Physical restraint

Humiliation

Female ejaculation

St***ulation

Facesitting

Fisting

There's a dividing line between seeing and doing.

There's that often borne idea of "what goes on in the privacy of someone's bedroom, behind closed doors".

It's acceptable to meet someone looking to do certain things and even to talk about them.

But under pornography/extreme pornography laws, it's often a step too far to publish images of the same.

I can see why the site would err on the side of caution and stop the uploading of certain images.

It's easier to not have them on the site than to try to remove them if they are banned again.

On a different note raised in this thread:

Extreme pornography laws are there to "protect society, particularly children".

And they cover images which are "Grossly offensive, disgusting or otherwise of an obscene character"

It's interesting isn't it.

I'm a big fan of all sorts of porn, I love a good fisting flick.

But if someone finds (what is very clearly) extreme content objectionable, is vocalising their disgust 'kink shaming'?

Sounds like a great night out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having recently been on the receiving end. I love it! It’s great fun and extremely intimate

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"I like "advanced fingering"

Love this!

I have a stiifycate in this!

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By *atexbisexTV/TS
over a year ago

Central London

"It’s taboo enough for photos and videos of it not being allowed on here btw "

And that's a great shame

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By *elilah999Woman
over a year ago

Malton

"It’s taboo enough for photos and videos of it not being allowed on here btw "

Really. Why do you think that is?. Iove it by the way. Only the one hole though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has fisting always been looked apon like this as so taboo

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By *key1980Man
over a year ago

Okehampton

I live doing it!!!

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By *om and LisaCouple
over a year ago

gateshead

"It’s taboo enough for photos and videos of it not being allowed on here btw

Really. Why do you think that is?. Iove it by the way. Only the one hole though

Have a look at my reply a few posts back.

Covers the recent banning of such imagery and subsequent review.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s far too underrated and needs to be spoken about when doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its all good fun between consenting adults..Enjoy folks.

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By *.Jayne66Woman
over a year ago

Neverland

message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s taboo enough for photos and videos of it not being allowed on here btw

I have a fisting photo on my profile

Simply wonderful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really want to find an attractive Bi couple who are both into fisting and stretching 3 "

Just wow on so many levels…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw a fisting video on here and to my surprise it really turned me on making me want to try it. The video got removed but I will always remember it."

You can share directly I have many self fisting shots, just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The site wouldn’t let me upload fisting pics ….said they were too rude

But l do think it is who is moderating uploads that day as it let me upload four fingers deep another time"

Share them directly between those that want to see such joyous acts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't have said it's taboo at all.

Maybe I'm just a bit too dirty.lol"

Im the same.... is it taboo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't have said it's taboo at all.

Maybe I'm just a bit too dirty.lol

Im the same.... is it taboo

Not for those that understand the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously you're still 19 in your head, after writing that hahaha

What are you like lovey!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to know the rules around: cock in arse and fist in fanny, when it comes to approval of pictures!

Cos I can't fathom why one is ok and the other isn't....

Appreciated if you know....

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By *inky_katrinaTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Most definitely on the bucket list to receive xxx

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By *atassiaTV/TS
over a year ago

Rochdale

It's got to be

Puppeting

Love it both ways and practice at the Gatehouse club in Farnworth near Bolton when I'm hostess . Volunteers always appreciated

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

OP, maybe some people are a bit too uptight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in the same position! Would love to try but not found anyone to trust.. Love being tided up too xx

Same here. I'd love to try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder if it was called something other than fisting, would it still be as taboo? Maybe we need to rename it, something more genteel. Suggestions on a postcard…"

I’ve heard it referred to as “honey-pot-holing” much nicer. It has happened spontaneously with 2 or 3,women I have been with and enjoyed by all of us. I’m not sure I was aware it even had a name. I certainly wouldn’t use a term such as fisting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in the same position! Would love to try but not found anyone to trust.. Love being tided up too xx

Same here. I'd love to try it "

You are wonderful x

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Sounds rough and painful

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

You have a way with words…

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think the 'Fisting' entry in the list of interests should be split into giving, receiving and both.

All I can picture is two people turning up with lube, boxing gloves and getting warmed up for the run up and just staring at each other before having to toss a coin...

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

Wife has been asking me to try receiving and giving still thinking about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s something I’d like to try. Giving that is, but it’s finding someone who would either want to try it, or already does it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to be worn like a glove puppet. Yet to try anal fisting but not sure I'm brave enough even though I love anal. Maybe one day!

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By *izequeenCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy fisting not interested in receiving anal fisting but I have given a few xx

I have never thought of it being a taboo or kinky just something that is very enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really? I didn't realise that....quite surprised given the other stuff that's okay for pics.

I'm not remotely into it but as with most things will just scroll on by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the feeling of fisting a woman, that really snug warm wet fit. It really is so hot. Well until I lost my favourite watch that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The journey can be as enjoyable as the destination. No rush, enjoy and progress will be made I promise

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

I think it's because most girls are not wide enough for it and to me it's kinda extreme I struggle getting e fingers in there let alone a whole goddamn fist

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

ex wife used to enjoy a good fisting, especialy if she had a few drinks, and would ask for fisticuffs, am surprised people consider it taboo as its on the interest list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually love being fisted

Never fisted anybody else but the feeling of a full fist sliding in

Oufttt hard just thinking about it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's no taboo and it's enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the size of the lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s taboo enough for photos and videos of it not being allowed on here btw

I have a fisting photo on my profile

Had a look, can't see any, but great photos.

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By *p4itfilthMan
over a year ago

Leeds

To achieve the stretch. I think its about being relaxed, lubed and wanting to do it. Patience is key if you want to achieve it.

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By *678Man
over a year ago

Surrey

Always made me think of Rod Hull and Emu..

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By *jsantagCouple
over a year ago

Hfd/Shrop/Worc area

"It’s taboo enough for photos and videos of it not being allowed on here btw

I have a fisting photo on my profile

Had a look, can't see any, but great photos.

We do on our profile. And S gets such an intense orgasm with full fisting whilst her clit is licked. So so hot!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s taboo enough for photos and videos of it not being allowed on here btw

I have a fisting photo on my profile

Had a look, can't see any, but great photos.

We do on our profile. And S gets such an intense orgasm with full fisting whilst her clit is licked. So so hot!!!

Every time we try and post one it either gets rejected, or a mod approves it and then later another takes it down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s taboo enough for photos and videos of it not being allowed on here btw

I have a fisting photo on my profile

Had a look, can't see any, but great photos.

We do on our profile. And S gets such an intense orgasm with full fisting whilst her clit is licked. So so hot!!!

Every time we try and post one it either gets rejected, or a mod approves it and then later another takes it down

Amen

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By *p4itfilthMan
over a year ago

Leeds

This is a joke!! This is the safe space for it! We want fisting photos! Theres a few on here. But didn't know it was against the law!! Crazy

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

Must be painful i guess?

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By *jsantagCouple
over a year ago

Hfd/Shrop/Worc area

"Must be painful i guess?"

Not if done with plenty of lube, being relaxed and slowly slowly approach. Forget those videos of ‘straight in and up to the elbow’!!

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

"Must be painful i guess?

Not if done with plenty of lube, being relaxed and slowly slowly approach. Forget those videos of ‘straight in and up to the elbow’!!

"
thank you

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By *aptainhornpipeMan
over a year ago

manchester

I think there may well be some negative connotations associated with fisting.

The suggestion being that if your vagina is large enough to take a whole fist then you must in some way be slack. A lot of people consider this a negative thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think there may well be some negative connotations associated with fisting.

The suggestion being that if your vagina is large enough to take a whole fist then you must in some way be slack. A lot of people consider this a negative thing. "

Also shows a distinct lack of understanding of female physiology

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

One of my favourite things

I have a video up. Shhhh!

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By *egvisir71Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"One of my favourite things

I have a video up. Shhhh! "

(Whispering) Love the vid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never done it, it's on my list of things I really want to try but I have to find somone I trust first

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I'm wincing.

In that thread the other day, you ladies said you like guys with big hands !

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"One of my favourite things

I have a video up. Shhhh! "

Ooh yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is fisting taboo

Because woman are humans not puppet gloves

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