FabSwingers.com forum: cuckold couples do you look for a ''bull'' or just a 3rd guy who gets it

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

cuckold couples do you look for a ''bull'' or just a 3rd guy who gets it

so the question is aimed at cuckold couples so what and whom do you look for as in the 3 person / extra people..

so to answer our end we tend not to look for bulls as its a headache in its self with the zillion wannabe ...

we found looking for assertive people who dont use the terms bull or sexual dom or any labels much better as these people tend to really fit and grow into the part much better...

well thats our view ..so cuckold couples whats yours what do you tend to go for ...

please dont sidetrack the question or hijack as per normal all you have to do is start your own threads

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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Although I think the wish is always to find the right bull, the reality is a long way off. There are too many that think they fit the bill because they’ve seen some cuckold porn.

A good extra guy is always a good start and hopefully it can build from there.

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

Some1 who is confident and experienced in cuckold not just sleeping with a wife .also a guy that can take the lead sometimes put cuck in his place

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By *hoenix CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northallerton

For our dynamic we look for a guy who is prepared to do ask we ask. We understand that sometimes things don't quite go as planned but generally we find that a laid back guy who is very respectful fits us well. We have other preferences too but respect and none pushy are key for us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

see i say by not looking for a bull we tend to find guys who are bull but dont use the bull tag as they get fed up with the amount of wannabes ....

most real bulls on fab and other sites dont shout ''im a bull'' they tend to talk and find out what we are looking for ..the correct way

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

just a nice 3rd person

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

As a bull , I tend to cater for the cuck couples needs after a conversation with them

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By *irty Fun GuyMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

To be honest we look for both a bull or just an extra cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are not cuckold as everything that we do is agreed beforehand.

That said, the Wife loves an extra cock and I love seeing her get one!

Not looking for a Bull - just one regular and preferably local guy who gets it and wants something more than just a one off shag.

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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

My Wife likes to see different faces so we aren’t bothered about a bull . We enjoy other lads company in general and wife likes to dress up for them , can be anyone really .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the wife of a cuckold couple we tend to steer clear of anyone labeling themselves as a bull as they make far too many assumptions. The ones that we have spoken to tend to think their role is to dominate me and humiliate hubby but that really isn't how we do things. I prefer to meet one guy regularly who just gets it. It's important that he's comfortable communicating with us both.

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By *dventureSeeker23Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"As the wife of a cuckold couple we tend to steer clear of anyone labeling themselves as a bull as they make far too many assumptions. The ones that we have spoken to tend to think their role is to dominate me and humiliate hubby but that really isn't how we do things. I prefer to meet one guy regularly who just gets it. It's important that he's comfortable communicating with us both. "

Thats they way it shoudl but sadly some get confused.

I think commumication is key couples and singles should be clear before it starts

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Porn happens to be the worst place to learn. Couples have different lifestyle choices and cuckold scenarios often differ. I've been in situations where the male half stays clothed and likes to direct rather than other situations where they like to be humiliated to varying degrees

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By *icence_2_Thrill_006.9Man
over a year ago

sex bi the sea

I’ve been lucky and have had some wonderful encounters with couples after Cuck play

I always endeavour to do what they have planned and being a go with the flow person Certainly helps when playing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

this very much this....we are all different so one bull dont fit all this is where most so called bull come unstuck with there porn way of seeing things ...

also the amount of bulls on here that have veris yet have met every one bar a cuckold couple its laughtable...

and when they think the cuck is the least imporortant person massive no no ..

hence i dont look for a bull who feels the need to shout ''bull'' or has bull built in his user name theyare mostly just hot air

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are going to try this out, as well as cuckquean, not as a full time thing, more as an occassional added extra to our own sub domme switch dynamic, so when talking about it we don't want a bull, because all to often they feel they run the show when nothing is further from the truth, we do, the sub domme dynamic is between myself and Athena only, so we just want a regular person who is comfortable playing with couples who will understand that they are essentially a prop for our play.

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By *ymo80Man
over a year ago

grimsby

If any couples are looking for an extra respectful guy for any scenario let me know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are not cuckold as everything that we do is agreed beforehand.

That said, the Wife loves an extra cock and I love seeing her get one!

Not looking for a Bull - just one regular and preferably local guy who gets it and wants something more than just a one off shag."

This is me perfectly, wouldnt call myself a bull because it depends on the couple but that said, communication is key, sometimes we meet and sometimes we all don't click.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We don't even use the "bull" word!We look for well-hung guys with enough empathy to gain some understanding of our dynamic.It takes time and patience but it can be well worth the effort.

Mike

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

I've read through the thread before asking this so please forgive me, in short could someone explain the difference between a bull and a third person, is it simply the role they play or attributes? Just ignore me if I'm being thick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been the bull for a couple its all about what dynamics the couple want and what they are into/looking for . Once that is established it goes from there and everyones clear what needs to take place . Some guys think being a bull just means ploughing the wife hard and being aggressive but theres so much more to it . If you get it right it can be so erotic for all involved .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My experience of being invited into a Ménage à trois is that labels don’t matter in the slightest.

If the house of three communicates effectively then the relationship develops to ensure that all derive pleasure from it. I really don’t care for labels the terms Cuck or Cuckqueen or Bull me shudder the latter being totally inappropriate!

Good pleasurable fun is the objective, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, many men send us messages saying that they are bulls, and yet they do not even have cuckolding in their interests, obviously they don't have experience and they are totally oblivious to this. They add the word bull to their message, so they can fit into a profile. Even many who do have it in their interests, and others who seem to be interested in everything that can be selected. And in most cases, it seems that they have rather seen a lot of "mainstream" porn about cuckolding. Finding the right one is quite difficult. Finding a good lover is easy, another very different thing is that that person has the intention of corresponding in this type of scenario, and not having the cuck the further the better, as if he didn't exist.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"My Wife likes to see different faces so we aren’t bothered about a bull . We enjoy other lads company in general and wife likes to dress up for them , can be anyone really . "

I’m heading over to Flockton, love her in her short skirt flashing her knickers

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Great topic and I’m watching with interest to see the varying views of different people. This is something I’m interested in and have some experience, but wouldn’t say I’m an experienced bull In fact I don’t even like the term bull, I want to make the couple happy with what I do for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can only become a bull as the relationship grows between the three people. You can't jump straight in as a bull it has too many details to be a starter project lol

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Just a guy that understands the dynamic.

Can't be doing with all the so called "bulls" as 99% are full of it.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"Just a guy that understands the dynamic.

Can't be doing with all the so called "bulls" as 99% are full of it."
That's how I approach couples, I never assume anything or call myself a bull, I introduce myself and tell them about my experience and see if we are well suited and want to get to know each other better and take it from there.

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By *eedAbuse4HubbyCouple
over a year ago

North West

I look for a side piece, then slowly bring him round to the idea… seems to work out a lot better than looking for a bull….

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

We both know our places in our relationship and both enjoy the parts we inhabit.

He loves being my cuck and I love being his keyholder.

He enjoys watching and assisting and I love the extra cock and fun I get with good looking, sexy WE guys.

It works for us, but we do not really look for a bull , more an open minded hung guy who we can get to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good communication from the outset is vital. As far as I’m concerned as the 3rd person / Bull I am being invited into their world not the other way around so need to respect and appreciate what they’re after.

Always happy to adapt and build a good rapport. Makes for a better situation all round.

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