FabSwingers.com forum: Discussing swinging with partner

By *johno28 OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

So me and my fiancée have been together since school, we have a great sex life but I’ve been on this site a while now which she knows nothing about at all. Last week whilst driving we got talking about her best friend that had a threesome with her partner and another girl several years ago and I was asking what they got up to how far did it go etc. To which she didn’t know all the exact details. So we started talking about swinging and she said how she didn’t feel it was right they did that.

And I just came out and said if we where both up for it then I would be totally open to the idea of swinging. She was taken a back and shocked to be fair and said so you want to cheat on me? I said no, we would be together and enjoy it together and that’s all’s that would matter. Then she said I wouldn’t be interested in another girl and I said we could go to a club or another couple so she says so you would want to watch another guy shag her (the truthful answer is yes I would love to watch her get fucked and fuck her with another guy) but I said as long as we where both having fun And enjoying it I think we would be happy. She says she believes it would ruin relationships and started telling me about the Netflix show sex life which this happened in. And saying she believes that swingers are weird (sorry guys). But the last we spoke about it just before we got out the car was when she said I’ve had 2 kids anyway no one would like here body, maybe before we had the kids and started laughing.

Should I continue to preheat the idea or would it be best to leave it alone?

If yes what do you think the next steps I take?

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