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By *rect4u OP   Man
over a year ago

Macclesfield

Can anyone please explain how for some couples, it is perfectly acceptable to be the most intimate that you can be between two human being, with the penis of a strange man thrusting up into the vagina of a married woman, yet it is too intimate for them for the strange man to kiss the married woman?

James xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been in one of situations. I could heat her pussy, fuck her, she sucked my cock but he said dont kiss her

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By *imnher17Couple
over a year ago

Mirfield

Boundaries - thems the rules. Don't have to like them, but you have to play by them.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"Can anyone please explain how for some couples, it is perfectly acceptable to be the most intimate that you can be between two human being, with the penis of a strange man thrusting up into the vagina of a married woman, yet it is too intimate for them for the strange man to kiss the married woman?

James xx "

We agree wit the above post from a couple.

They are the rules.

People make rules because they want them, not because they want them questioned. If there is not a match, then don't meet.

Take you OP. Do we take it that you choose not to suck cock??

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By *dventureSeeker23Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Can anyone please explain how for some couples, it is perfectly acceptable to be the most intimate that you can be between two human being, with the penis of a strange man thrusting up into the vagina of a married woman, yet it is too intimate for them for the strange man to kiss the married woman?

James xx "

Just rules of couples if you want play by the rules

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By *havennaturistsCouple
over a year ago

Banff

It's where animal and human behaviour differs. You may well have seen animals copulating, but did you ever see them kiss?

In our experience a deep french kiss generally means that person is also willing to have sex with you too. It's lovely when there's no rush.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some couples want to reserve an aspect of intimacy for only them. I’ve seen profiles here say ‘anal with partner only’ for example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own, we all have our boundaries. Personally, we are fine with kissing it's hard to connect with someone without that.

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By *rect4u OP   Man
over a year ago

Macclesfield

Please understand, I wasn't complaining, nearly asking the question to see the response.

And I have always played by whatever rules the couple wish. They are in charge and it is about their pleasure xx

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By *rect4u OP   Man
over a year ago

Macclesfield


"Each to their own, we all have our boundaries. Personally, we are fine with kissing it's hard to connect with someone without that."

And with a beautiful mouth like yours, it would be very difficult not to want to kiss you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone please explain how for some couples, it is perfectly acceptable to be the most intimate that you can be between two human being, with the penis of a strange man thrusting up into the vagina of a married woman, yet it is too intimate for them for the strange man to kiss the married woman?

James xx "

Sex and intimacy are not the same...one does not require the other. People's views on sex, kissing and intimacy are also highly personal.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Because they, as a couple, have decided that kissing is something they want to keep for themselves maybe? It is their choice. If you don't accept their rules/boundaries then don't meet them OP.

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By *heekyDannyMan
over a year ago

North West

Simple boundaries my friend.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

A lot of people don't find penetrative sex more intimate than kissing. The two are different things and people have different opinions about doing them. I have known women who are just not into kissing at all.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"Can anyone please explain how for some couples, it is perfectly acceptable to be the most intimate that you can be between two human being, with the penis of a strange man thrusting up into the vagina of a married woman, yet it is too intimate for them for the strange man to kiss the married woman?

James xx

Sex and intimacy are not the same...one does not require the other. People's views on sex, kissing and intimacy are also highly personal."

Totally agree with this. For many kissing is far more intimate as it is more about emotions than just a physical act.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Some people find kissing more intimate. Some couples feel less secure if they kiss others.

Personally sex without kissing is a deal breaker for me. But people have the right to their boundaries.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Can anyone please explain how for some couples, it is perfectly acceptable to be the most intimate that you can be between two human being, with the penis of a strange man thrusting up into the vagina of a married woman, yet it is too intimate for them for the strange man to kiss the married woman?

James xx "

There is no need for anyone to explain. It's a choice. We all have them and it's up to others to respect, not question, them.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Can anyone please explain how for some couples, it is perfectly acceptable to be the most intimate that you can be between two human being, with the penis of a strange man thrusting up into the vagina of a married woman, yet it is too intimate for them for the strange man to kiss the married woman?

James xx "

Also holding handing and cuddling are deemed intimate by many. A Wife may happily suck you off, but not feel comfortable cuddling you for 10 minutes.

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By *orkswatcherMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Been there, no kissing on the lips but could kiss everywhere and was melting while kissing her neck.

Couldn't work it out why not the lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do kiss, but I do find that more intimate than actual having sex xx

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"Can anyone please explain how for some couples, it is perfectly acceptable to be the most intimate that you can be between two human being, with the penis of a strange man thrusting up into the vagina of a married woman, yet it is too intimate for them for the strange man to kiss the married woman?

James xx

Also holding handing and cuddling are deemed intimate by many. A Wife may happily suck you off, but not feel comfortable cuddling you for 10 minutes. "

Yep, I don't cuddle!

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Would not be interested in anyone not wanting to kiss

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Why would you have to explain ?? which means sort of justify any given rules you may or may not have ?? you either except or you don't ?? if you don't like the rules don't agree to play by them and move on ?? personal choice in the end and just because one person allows one thing way to many assume everyone on here will ?? assumption is killing this site ..rant over xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Can anyone please explain how for some couples, it is perfectly acceptable to be the most intimate that you can be between two human being, with the penis of a strange man thrusting up into the vagina of a married woman, yet it is too intimate for them for the strange man to kiss the married woman?

James xx "

What about if the couple think differently to you and to them the most intimate thing two people can do is kiss?

I'm not saying that's the case for us I'm not about to explain our reasons to anybody. However we've been on fab long enough to know that people who don't kiss are considered odd by the majority of a group of people who claim to be open minded.

:shrugs:

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Although I have to say this thread is showing a change in attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone likes to kiss. Personally, it feels kind of gross to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been there, no kissing on the lips but could kiss everywhere and was melting while kissing her neck.

Couldn't work it out why not the lips"

Because she didn't want to! No mystery here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering we're here to engage in a number of socially inappropriate activities with others, I'm always amazed how many people don't understand variety and preference. I might now want to do the same thing as someone else, but I doubt I'd be shocked by them wanting to. Life would be boring if we all wanted the same thing

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

Kissing way more intimate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just accept it as part of the rules or preferences they have - and it certainly doesn’t stop the fun

Much better that than if they allowed you to kiss but that was all !!

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