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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wished I lived closer you sound a lovely couple x

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Bugger.

Too far away and he has a beard lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile"

The reading saga ....

Hence why mines full-on with the filters!

Good luck folks x

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham

Just up the road but my search only centres on Portsmouth. I'll be changing that now x

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By *drian HardthrobMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"I wished I lived closer you sound a lovely couple x"

I don't think you read their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one ever reads the profile. Lolol.

I think people are at the stage now where they want to be acknowledged so profile bios be damned, they’ll message regardless.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

It won’t let single men message you so how can they contact you

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"It won’t let single men message you so how can they contact you "

You have to be bi to message them

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By *assConductorMan
over a year ago

the wild

You only meet as a couple but only have 2 public pics, neither of which contain the man.

The bi- men that read your profile then look at your public pics may be turned away by that.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I wished I lived closer you sound a lovely couple x"

Oh the irony

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

I think alot of the comments there proves the op's point very well. Most men don't read profiles

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By *hadow KingsCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Birmingham

Really silly question I know but why are we expected to read profiles lol

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"I think alot of the comments there proves the op's point very well. Most men don't read profiles "

It's actually hilarious

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Really silly question I know but why are we expected to read profiles lol "

Haha I don't think anyone here expects people to read their profiles. I Just don't wanna chat to the ones who can't be arsed to

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I think alot of the comments there proves the op's point very well. Most men don't read profiles

It's actually hilarious "

And I dare say none of them have twigged yet

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Let's face it no body reads the profile they can't be bothered to much like hard work and it's getting beyond the joke on here for meets for everyone mrs m

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I work on the theory that if they can't be bothered to read my profile then I can't be bothered to reply to their messages or to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh shoot that was supposed to be a laughing face followed by:

Filp flops (especially if worn out of context)

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile"

Sorry to hear the bad run of luck you’ve had. I had a look at your profile and can’t see why people wouldn’t read it. It’s not ridiculously long but gives plenty of details on what your after. If you don’t mind me asking but what’s the block list number at now? Instashag made laugh lol. Wish you both the best and happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It won’t let single men message you so how can they contact you "

um think you might be doing something wrong, we have single men unblocked, have for ages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I work on the theory that if they can't be bothered to read my profile then I can't be bothered to reply to their messages or to meet them. "

we will take that from now, maybe weve been to kind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You only meet as a couple but only have 2 public pics, neither of which contain the man.

The bi- men that read your profile then look at your public pics may be turned away by that."

yes thank you for pointing that out, hadnt realised that, we have m in private but will do some for public, good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You only meet as a couple but only have 2 public pics, neither of which contain the man.

The bi- men that read your profile then look at your public pics may be turned away by that.

yes thank you for pointing that out, hadnt realised that, we have m in private but will do some for public, good point"

im in ireland so there is no point in me replying but best of luck anyway

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria


"I wished I lived closer you sound a lovely couple x

Oh the irony "

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

You're to far away to pop up in my feeds or searches, but I'd def travel up to Winchester for a bi 3sum with an exquisitely hot couple like you XX

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile"

try a different approach, why not search for people who meet what you are looking for.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile"

Bit harsh not every single dose but if they did women would have nothing else to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read profiles then when I message, I mention something they have said in it to show it’s not a cut and pasted message.

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By *ark_KnightsMan
over a year ago

london

Fair point but on profile subject when mine is read it bores the women and when mines not read my message bored them !!!!

So I win

Or is it I lost

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton


"It won’t let single men message you so how can they contact you

um think you might be doing something wrong, we have single men unblocked, have for ages "

My mistake it says your not looking for single men that’s why I never messaged sorry again my mistake

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile"

If you have a certain type of man you’re looking for, wouldn’t it be more productive to seek out that man yourself instead of moaning that people who message you aren’t what you’re looking for?

Not really sure I understand the purpose of this post….

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile

If you have a certain type of man you’re looking for, wouldn’t it be more productive to seek out that man yourself instead of moaning that people who message you aren’t what you’re looking for?

Not really sure I understand the purpose of this post…. "

we do that aswell, but no harm in putting a meet today up is there???

not sure i see the point of your post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had more success just posting a status for a meet, than using meet today. I think only a small section of Fab use that feature.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile

If you have a certain type of man you’re looking for, wouldn’t it be more productive to seek out that man yourself instead of moaning that people who message you aren’t what you’re looking for?

Not really sure I understand the purpose of this post….

we do that aswell, but no harm in putting a meet today up is there???

not sure i see the point of your post!"

I was just saying that if you’re looking for a meet with a certain criteria attached to that then maybe it’s best to seek out those you’re looking for instead of waiting for your inbox to be flooded with those who cannot read a profile and are out of your preferences. There’s a plethora of choices I’m sure within your preferences for you to seek out instead of waiting for people to come to you is the point I was trying to make…

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Why is this post directed at single men?

Your profile specifically states that if you want single men you will actively find them, so I'm confused as to the title of this thread

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"Why is this post directed at single men?"

Because it's ALWAYS the single men at fault!!!

[insert tongue in cheek emoji here]

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile

If you have a certain type of man you’re looking for, wouldn’t it be more productive to seek out that man yourself instead of moaning that people who message you aren’t what you’re looking for?

Not really sure I understand the purpose of this post….

we do that aswell, but no harm in putting a meet today up is there???

not sure i see the point of your post!

I was just saying that if you’re looking for a meet with a certain criteria attached to that then maybe it’s best to seek out those you’re looking for instead of waiting for your inbox to be flooded with those who cannot read a profile and are out of your preferences. There’s a plethora of choices I’m sure within your preferences for you to seek out instead of waiting for people to come to you is the point I was trying to make… "

yes and we replied to that didnt we???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why is this post directed at single men?

Your profile specifically states that if you want single men you will actively find them, so I'm confused as to the title of this thread"

yes and we do look for them, but also sometimes put up a meet today asking for men, is that so hard to understand, and yes in our experiance we have been let down more by single men than other people, we can only go by what we know

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile

If you have a certain type of man you’re looking for, wouldn’t it be more productive to seek out that man yourself instead of moaning that people who message you aren’t what you’re looking for?

Not really sure I understand the purpose of this post….

we do that aswell, but no harm in putting a meet today up is there???

not sure i see the point of your post!

I was just saying that if you’re looking for a meet with a certain criteria attached to that then maybe it’s best to seek out those you’re looking for instead of waiting for your inbox to be flooded with those who cannot read a profile and are out of your preferences. There’s a plethora of choices I’m sure within your preferences for you to seek out instead of waiting for people to come to you is the point I was trying to make… yes and we replied to that didnt we???"

Apologies if that came across as arsey but my view was that the initial post came across as just wanting to moan. I was just simply providing a solution to your problem that’s all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile"

It is always the same here! Generally loads of married men just wanting a quick discreet shag without caring who they shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile

If you have a certain type of man you’re looking for, wouldn’t it be more productive to seek out that man yourself instead of moaning that people who message you aren’t what you’re looking for?

Not really sure I understand the purpose of this post….

we do that aswell, but no harm in putting a meet today up is there???

not sure i see the point of your post!

I was just saying that if you’re looking for a meet with a certain criteria attached to that then maybe it’s best to seek out those you’re looking for instead of waiting for your inbox to be flooded with those who cannot read a profile and are out of your preferences. There’s a plethora of choices I’m sure within your preferences for you to seek out instead of waiting for people to come to you is the point I was trying to make… yes and we replied to that didnt we???

Apologies if that came across as arsey but my view was that the initial post came across as just wanting to moan. I was just simply providing a solution to your problem that’s all. "

There is no solution to the problem, all couples are experiencing it, including us!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

To be fair to single Men, yes most Men don't read profiles but also most Couples don't read profiles either.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London


"To be fair to single Men, yes most Men don't read profiles but also most Couples don't read profiles either."

I’m glad someone said this because I didn’t want have to be the one that did!

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile

If you have a certain type of man you’re looking for, wouldn’t it be more productive to seek out that man yourself instead of moaning that people who message you aren’t what you’re looking for?

Not really sure I understand the purpose of this post….

we do that aswell, but no harm in putting a meet today up is there???

not sure i see the point of your post!

I was just saying that if you’re looking for a meet with a certain criteria attached to that then maybe it’s best to seek out those you’re looking for instead of waiting for your inbox to be flooded with those who cannot read a profile and are out of your preferences. There’s a plethora of choices I’m sure within your preferences for you to seek out instead of waiting for people to come to you is the point I was trying to make… yes and we replied to that didnt we???

Apologies if that came across as arsey but my view was that the initial post came across as just wanting to moan. I was just simply providing a solution to your problem that’s all.

There is no solution to the problem, all couples are experiencing it, including us! "

Yes, there is. If you don’t want attention from those you’re not looking for, block single men from messaging you and seek out those profiles that match your preferences. I’ve seen plenty couples take this approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to love a single guy bashing thread,not like we get many of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused.

Are you complaining about men complaining or complaining that when you post a meet the wrong people message?

Your post looks like two posts merged together with a middle bit missing.

Ultimately, men only get meets if they are what others are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is this post directed at single men?

Because it's ALWAYS the single men at fault!!!

[insert tongue in cheek emoji here]

Gbat "

Yes and even in the outside world Mother's, Grandmother's, Great Grandmother's were saying it for decades!

We just can't help it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got to love a single guy bashing thread,not like we get many of them "

You don't strike me as a guy who needs his nappy changing!

Bet you can take a lot of humiliation!

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester


"Let's face it no body reads the profile they can't be bothered to much like hard work and it's getting beyond the joke on here for meets for everyone mrs m "

If I like the look of someone, I definitely read the profile! Usually, I only like someone BECAUSE of what’s written in the profile! Photos can rarely be trusted and don’t capture who someone is. A profile can effectively convey personality and intellect, i.e. the most important traits, for me.

If reading a few paragraphs is hard work for some, I find that an excellent way of knowing such people are not right for me to meet.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London


"I'm confused.

Are you complaining about men complaining or complaining that when you post a meet the wrong people message?

Your post looks like two posts merged together with a middle bit missing.

Ultimately, men only get meets if they are what others are looking for."

I think the OP was doing exactly that, complaining about men who complain they don’t get meets yet believe it’s not worth their time seeking out the men THEY prefer and would instead come to the forums to moan instead. That was the vibe I got anyway…

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Why is this post directed at single men?

Your profile specifically states that if you want single men you will actively find them, so I'm confused as to the title of this thread

yes and we do look for them, but also sometimes put up a meet today asking for men, is that so hard to understand, and yes in our experiance we have been let down more by single men than other people, we can only go by what we know"

In which case, you've already contradicted yourself, haven't you? Your profile tells single men not to message you, as you'll find them if you want them - which means that even if I were interested I wouldn't message you - but you're now complaining that people who do message you haven't read your profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm confused.

Are you complaining about men complaining or complaining that when you post a meet the wrong people message?

Your post looks like two posts merged together with a middle bit missing.

Ultimately, men only get meets if they are what others are looking for.

I think the OP was doing exactly that, complaining about men who complain they don’t get meets yet believe it’s not worth their time seeking out the men THEY prefer and would instead come to the forums to moan instead. That was the vibe I got anyway… "

Woooahhh slow down!

The OP does search too. They even typed that, but you've missed it.

It's a really common mistake that people don't read - the couple in question are only looking for Bi GUYS, so they can only express that sexuality and sex at this particular time.

If we make folk aware more about the importance of reading and not wasting either parties' wasting their time....wouldn't that be a good thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, I'm out of your age range or I would very interested!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is this post directed at single men?

Your profile specifically states that if you want single men you will actively find them, so I'm confused as to the title of this thread

yes and we do look for them, but also sometimes put up a meet today asking for men, is that so hard to understand, and yes in our experiance we have been let down more by single men than other people, we can only go by what we know

In which case, you've already contradicted yourself, haven't you? Your profile tells single men not to message you, as you'll find them if you want them - which means that even if I were interested I wouldn't message you - but you're now complaining that people who do message you haven't read your profile!"

Can I say you've misread their profile.....

They don't want STRAIGHT single men. Message if you are Bi ..... ooofff

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

Seriously who looks at the meet today you are either to late or do not get a response. Waste of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously who looks at the meet today you are either to late or do not get a response. Waste of time "

Oh it's dead popular - pick of the bunch and all that! So for the person looking it's definitely lucrative

Especially if you are female!

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Seriously who looks at the meet today you are either to late or do not get a response. Waste of time

Oh it's dead popular - pick of the bunch and all that! So for the person looking it's definitely lucrative

Especially if you are female! "

Brb, just looking at the meets section. Maybe someone's offering free food

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By *agpipeblow2Man
over a year ago

Greenock, Karlsruhe


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile"

Doesn’t it work both ways?

Maybe you’re not what they’re looking for....

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London


"I'm confused.

Are you complaining about men complaining or complaining that when you post a meet the wrong people message?

Your post looks like two posts merged together with a middle bit missing.

Ultimately, men only get meets if they are what others are looking for.

I think the OP was doing exactly that, complaining about men who complain they don’t get meets yet believe it’s not worth their time seeking out the men THEY prefer and would instead come to the forums to moan instead. That was the vibe I got anyway…

Woooahhh slow down!

The OP does search too. They even typed that, but you've missed it.

It's a really common mistake that people don't read - the couple in question are only looking for Bi GUYS, so they can only express that sexuality and sex at this particular time.

If we make folk aware more about the importance of reading and not wasting either parties' wasting their time....wouldn't that be a good thing!"

Well, if they are searching for BI MEN themselves (which I saw was said btw), what was the point of coming to the forums to moan about those who landed in their inbox that don’t meet their preferences? That’s the question on my lips

9 times out of 10, these guys who message without reading profiles probably don’t even come into the forums…

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Omg a thousand times this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm confused.

Are you complaining about men complaining or complaining that when you post a meet the wrong people message?

Your post looks like two posts merged together with a middle bit missing.

Ultimately, men only get meets if they are what others are looking for.

I think the OP was doing exactly that, complaining about men who complain they don’t get meets yet believe it’s not worth their time seeking out the men THEY prefer and would instead come to the forums to moan instead. That was the vibe I got anyway…

Woooahhh slow down!

The OP does search too. They even typed that, but you've missed it.

It's a really common mistake that people don't read - the couple in question are only looking for Bi GUYS, so they can only express that sexuality and sex at this particular time.

If we make folk aware more about the importance of reading and not wasting either parties' wasting their time....wouldn't that be a good thing!

Well, if they are searching for BI MEN themselves (which I saw was said btw), what was the point of coming to the forums to moan about those who landed in their inbox that don’t meet their preferences? That’s the question on my lips

9 times out of 10, these guys who message without reading profiles probably don’t even come into the forums… "

Well what about the PEOPLE who do frequent on here and read the posts (we never know who's watching/reading) and they might be the ones who skip reading the profiles. Wouldn't it be a good idea for ALL concerned, that they're aware what 'cheeses' some of us off - and if they can, think twice before messaging!

Why would anyone writing or receiving want their time wasted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously who looks at the meet today you are either to late or do not get a response. Waste of time

Oh it's dead popular - pick of the bunch and all that! So for the person looking it's definitely lucrative

Especially if you are female!

Brb, just looking at the meets section. Maybe someone's offering free food "

You may scoff!

But I have seen tea and cake meets - how far are you willing to travel for it

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Oh shoot that was supposed to be a laughing face followed by:

Filp flops (especially if worn out of context)"

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London


"I'm confused.

Are you complaining about men complaining or complaining that when you post a meet the wrong people message?

Your post looks like two posts merged together with a middle bit missing.

Ultimately, men only get meets if they are what others are looking for.

I think the OP was doing exactly that, complaining about men who complain they don’t get meets yet believe it’s not worth their time seeking out the men THEY prefer and would instead come to the forums to moan instead. That was the vibe I got anyway…

Woooahhh slow down!

The OP does search too. They even typed that, but you've missed it.

It's a really common mistake that people don't read - the couple in question are only looking for Bi GUYS, so they can only express that sexuality and sex at this particular time.

If we make folk aware more about the importance of reading and not wasting either parties' wasting their time....wouldn't that be a good thing!

Well, if they are searching for BI MEN themselves (which I saw was said btw), what was the point of coming to the forums to moan about those who landed in their inbox that don’t meet their preferences? That’s the question on my lips

9 times out of 10, these guys who message without reading profiles probably don’t even come into the forums…

Well what about the PEOPLE who do frequent on here and read the posts (we never know who's watching/reading) and they might be the ones who skip reading the profiles. Wouldn't it be a good idea for ALL concerned, that they're aware what 'cheeses' some of us off - and if they can, think twice before messaging!

Why would anyone writing or receiving want their time wasted!"

All of the points you’ve made are valid and I’m not disputing in any way, shape or form. I wouldn’t want my time wasted therefore I wouldn’t go out of my way to waste anybody else’. It’s just tiresome seeing threads of this nature regurgitated over and over again. Of course I’m sure that doesn’t pale in comparison to frustration of those who receive messages from people who cannot or do not read a profile before hitting the send button.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"I think alot of the comments there proves the op's point very well. Most men don't read profiles "

Neither do women or couples from my experience!! Fucks me off threads like this digging guys out all the time when not reading profiles is certainly not the sole prevalence of men. If you dislike men so much just go! Apparently we are the vast majority on here !!??

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile

If you have a certain type of man you’re looking for, wouldn’t it be more productive to seek out that man yourself instead of moaning that people who message you aren’t what you’re looking for?

Not really sure I understand the purpose of this post….

we do that aswell, but no harm in putting a meet today up is there???

not sure i see the point of your post!

I was just saying that if you’re looking for a meet with a certain criteria attached to that then maybe it’s best to seek out those you’re looking for instead of waiting for your inbox to be flooded with those who cannot read a profile and are out of your preferences. There’s a plethora of choices I’m sure within your preferences for you to seek out instead of waiting for people to come to you is the point I was trying to make… "

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

I couldnt give a toss about the straight solo guys who message me clearly without reading mine. I mostly just delete. I do find it frustrating when single straight guys message saying they love your profile and your just their type. Considering the first line of my profile says not looking for straight guys, it just shows that they havnt read it but just like your pics, or they chose to ignore most of what I say I want here thinking it dosnt apply to them.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

I have decided to read the forums.

Messaging people is a total waste of time now.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I think alot of the comments there proves the op's point very well. Most men don't read profiles

Neither do women or couples from my experience!! Fucks me off threads like this digging guys out all the time when not reading profiles is certainly not the sole prevalence of men. If you dislike men so much just go! Apparently we are the vast majority on here !!??"

Erm who said i dont like men? Whats wrong with wanting a guy to read my profile, see what it says about me. Not just message off the back of a few pics. Yes men get a hard time here and there are plenty of threads where i have said a much and pissed off alot of women. Im not " anti man" at all. I just prefer a man who wants to meet me and not just my tits. If he hasnt got the 90sec to read my profile, shows he going by pics and looks only. Also by reading it, it saves replying to a shit load of messages telling them they not what im looking for.

I do think you will find most threads moaning about men are started by men.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I have decided to read the forums.

Messaging people is a total waste of time now."

Not a waste of time at all. Also if you did stop. then what would everyone moan about then

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile

Doesn’t it work both ways?

Maybe you’re not what they’re looking for...."

So why would a guy message them if they not what he is looking for?

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"I couldnt give a toss about the straight solo guys who message me clearly without reading mine. I mostly just delete. I do find it frustrating when single straight guys message saying they love your profile and your just their type. Considering the first line of my profile says not looking for straight guys, it just shows that they havnt read it but just like your pics, or they chose to ignore most of what I say I want here thinking it dosnt apply to them."

I can understand that this is frustrating and irritating but I can assure you shit approached by single women are just as prevalent. The number of downright lazy messages I get beggars belief! Hey ! How’s U! Nice cock! Etc etc . Its as if because there are so many guys to women on here they think they don’t have to bother writing more than 2 words.

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By *hadow KingsCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I couldnt give a toss about the straight solo guys who message me clearly without reading mine. I mostly just delete. I do find it frustrating when single straight guys message saying they love your profile and your just their type. Considering the first line of my profile says not looking for straight guys, it just shows that they havnt read it but just like your pics, or they chose to ignore most of what I say I want here thinking it dosnt apply to them.

I can understand that this is frustrating and irritating but I can assure you shit approached by single women are just as prevalent. The number of downright lazy messages I get beggars belief! Hey ! How’s U! Nice cock! Etc etc . Its as if because there are so many guys to women on here they think they don’t have to bother writing more than 2 words. "

Exactly

Alot of the guys on here simp to women soo much and put women on a pedestal.

Everyone should be treated with respect and should be treated the same. But the way some women treat men on here is disgusting and you won't blame them, coz they've been worshiped by guys on here so much that they think all guys will worship them

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile

Doesn’t it work both ways?

Maybe you’re not what they’re looking for....

So why would a guy message them if they not what he is looking for? "

On a completely separate note, after reading your profile I'm smiling at all the fab straight guys kicking themselves that they are missing out on a chance of meeting you. If ever there was a reason for them to be honest about their liking of cock here it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure, single men don’t read bios but couples are just as bad - believe me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We edited our profile and put what we’re looking for right at the top. There’s no excuse not to read the first couple of lines on a profile. Has it helped? Absolutely not

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

I always read the profiles and verifications, if we are not suited then no point messaging, has to be some form of compatibility and who wants to waste there time, love a bi mmf or even just generally nice people who know how to have fun.

I understand its very frustrationg for ladies and couples having to trawl through 100s of messages and repeat offenders just saying hi, wana fck now, even us single guys get that. Mainly from straight giys, clubs for me sems to be the best way as an intro at leastx

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Sure, single men don’t read bios but couples are just as bad - believe me! "

Women aren’t perfect either!

I think they’re just a vast amount of flaky people here of all genders and the genuine ones take some effort to find and get to know, but honestly I’ve no complaints , if you are prepared to do the work , ask the right questions it works really well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t get why profiles aren’t read….how can anyone be in such a rush to send a message that they can’t take the time to read it?

I asked for a review of my old profile a few weeks back and it was generally ‘too long, didn’t read it all’. . So in general, if you’re not too busy to be here, you’re not too busy to take 30secs on a profile, surely?

I’ve never sent a message to anyone without having read their profile first unless it was about a specific topic, such as something we’d exchanged in the forums and therefore didn’t a wider context.

This isn’t a virtue signalling exercise, just an expression of confusion.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile"

Should this thread not be titled "To all the single bi men...." ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always assume that if someone puts up a Meet Today request they'll fuck anyone who offers.

If looking for something specific I go looking for myself so I can find what I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always assume that if someone puts up a Meet Today request they'll fuck anyone who offers.

If looking for something specific I go looking for myself so I can find what I want. "

Bless ya!

It's like saying those in the clubs fuck all who are there lol

...and believe it or not, you can actually search at the same time as having a meet advertisment on...

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

I’m too beardy

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By *arlly83Couple
over a year ago

wilmslow

Me and the Mrs are venturing into her doing solo meets and coming home cum filled so I can finish off

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Me and the Mrs are venturing into her doing solo meets and coming home cum filled so I can finish off "

I'm sure you will have plenty of offers, but do let the OP know how you get on won't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile"

I can see why you have blocked single

Guys in that case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am never ceased to be amazed by the ingenuity that some people go to to perpetuate the continued vilification of single men “sigh”

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Makes me laugh all these women pontificating about guys not reading profiles as if it’s solely an issue of the male gender. The lazy self entitling shit I’ve had from women and couples over the 10 years I’ve been on here not to mention the fantasists only on here to fill the time between Phil and Holly and Loose women. There are idiots of all genders on here stop labelling guys with it all please

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile"

I’m fully shaven but I’m not bi

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"I wished I lived closer you sound a lovely couple x

Oh the irony "

If I had a pound for everytime.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I wished I lived closer you sound a lovely couple x

Oh the irony

If I had a pound for everytime. "

This time next year, you'll be a millionaire!

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Maybe this says more about the OP couple than it does single men ..

What perhaps are you doing wrong ..

Plus I don’t believe the myth that it’s hard for guys to get meets..

I’ve never found it hard atall..

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

To all of those complaining about single men not reading profiles.

Perhaps make sure your profile is up to date, as posting a meet whilst your profile says you aren't meeting shows a lack of effort and means no one messaging you could ever meet what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single men...???

Come off it, single men don't use this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single men...???

Come off it, single men don't use this site. "

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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago

London Crofton Pk areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

O.p

Most posters on here have not read your profile before chat.

As your not looking for single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on here a year totally genuine single man

Probably not tried made effort etc on my profile being lazy

But believe me , there is genuine single, honest, high sex adventurous men here

Just text and ask as you wish

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

Maybe guys rather posting a meet up which isn't benefiting your requirements for the said meet , Then maybe you should look for meets that have been posted when you have free time in your dairies and try it that way you might find someone you are looking for .. just a thought.

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile"

Well your profile says no single guys. That discounts 99% of fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile

Well your profile says no single guys. That discounts 99% of fab."

Another who didn't read our profile properly then,it actually says ,no single straight men. Big difference

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I'm not into searching for meets but I wouldn't message you OP based on your profile if I was

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile

Well your profile says no single guys. That discounts 99% of fab.

Another who didn't read our profile properly then,it actually says ,no single straight men. Big difference"

Unless you just changed it, I'm sure your description said straight. Must be me, skimming as usual.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Your profile is too long and complicated. No guy in their right mind, having read it all, would expect to meet your exacting requirements. Consequently you have self selected those who don't read. You are not alone though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not into searching for meets but I wouldn't message you OP based on your profile if I was"

And that shows you read our profile,as we are not a match,shame everyone can't do the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile is too long and complicated. No guy in their right mind, having read it all, would expect to meet your exacting requirements. Consequently you have self selected those who don't read. You are not alone though. "

Unfortunately it has to be that way to hopefully out those that we aren't interested in,just a shame most don't take the time to read it

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By *exymansexyMan
over a year ago

Warfield


"I think alot of the comments there proves the op's point very well. Most men don't read profiles "

Most women do not read profiles, send messages to men or even reply when they recieve a message from a man.

Most women just complain and block peoople from what I can see.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile

Well your profile says no single guys. That discounts 99% of fab.

Another who didn't read our profile properly then,it actually says ,no single straight men. Big difference"

You might find single guys are reading your profile better than yourself.

In the looking for section, it says 'Not looking for single guys'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's 8 weeks old this thread btw...

So a lot change their settings in that time....

Just saying

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile"

I have a suggestion for you..it may save you some time / frustration

Adjust your message filters then search for those you seek..often said effort in reward out.

Or continue as before and hope those who don't read will change..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who come on here moaning about not being able to get a meet.

we have for about the 10th time put a meet up in meet today, and not one person who has messaged us meets what we are looking for, read the profile"

Has blocked all males, lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's 8 weeks old this thread btw...

So a lot change their settings in that time....

Just saying"

People don't read the OP or profiles.

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I just look at the pics l, Where's wally never did me wrong

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