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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is the general opinion with the ladies on here? Do they prefer men to be sub or Dom?

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

I think you will find most and it’s only my feeling, most prefer dominant men, not Dominants tho as too many are fakes/ wannabes who generally don’t understand the dynamics

But I could be wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you will find most and it’s only my feeling, most prefer dominant men, not Dominants tho as too many are fakes/ wannabes who generally don’t understand the dynamics

But I could be wrong lol"

Your not wrong to many men have no idea,that it's more psychological than physical.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Nothing worse than having to tell a self proclaimed Dom what to do

Oh the irony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a sub so I look for a male dom my preference but know so amazing male subs

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I think you will find most and it’s only my feeling, most prefer dominant men, not Dominants tho as too many are fakes/ wannabes who generally don’t understand the dynamics

But I could be wrong lol"

How are you defining the differences between dominant men and Dominant men?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would always have considered myself a Dom but recently I have experimented with being sub and I have to say it appeals! I guess I would have to be considered a switch now.

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish


"I think you will find most and it’s only my feeling, most prefer dominant men, not Dominants tho as too many are fakes/ wannabes who generally don’t understand the dynamics

But I could be wrong lol

How are you defining the differences between dominant men and Dominant men? "

Now I knew I’d get asked this…. Should have made myself clearer

A dominant man, a mans man type, the type who grabs you passionately, throws you on the bed, carries you across the threshold, a man that rips your clothes off and takes what is his. A classic “man”

Rather than a male Dominant who is into D/s kink/ bdsm

We find many more vanilla say things like “oh no! I’m not into whips and chains” and things like that but would happily meet the guy above…

I hope that makes sense!

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By *r99mr99Man
over a year ago

Ealing

I'm very much interested in exploring my sub side

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I think you will find most and it’s only my feeling, most prefer dominant men, not Dominants tho as too many are fakes/ wannabes who generally don’t understand the dynamics

But I could be wrong lol

How are you defining the differences between dominant men and Dominant men?

Now I knew I’d get asked this…. Should have made myself clearer

A dominant man, a mans man type, the type who grabs you passionately, throws you on the bed, carries you across the threshold, a man that rips your clothes off and takes what is his. A classic “man”

Rather than a male Dominant who is into D/s kink/ bdsm

We find many more vanilla say things like “oh no! I’m not into whips and chains” and things like that but would happily meet the guy above…

I hope that makes sense! "

And many men of the first type who try to pretend to be the second type

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Personally I'm really not into submissive men, but equally I give wannabe Doms a wide berth

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Personally, I would expect that the majority are not particularly concerned with the Sub/Dom dynamic, and in fact prefer parity and variety.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dom or sub ??? what about everything else inbetween ... nothing worse than when people try to cram everything in pigeon holes ... nothing in life is ever black and white

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"I think you will find most and it’s only my feeling, most prefer dominant men, not Dominants tho as too many are fakes/ wannabes who generally don’t understand the dynamics

But I could be wrong lol

How are you defining the differences between dominant men and Dominant men?

Now I knew I’d get asked this…. Should have made myself clearer

A dominant man, a mans man type, the type who grabs you passionately, throws you on the bed, carries you across the threshold, a man that rips your clothes off and takes what is his. A classic “man”

Rather than a male Dominant who is into D/s kink/ bdsm

We find many more vanilla say things like “oh no! I’m not into whips and chains” and things like that but would happily meet the guy above…

I hope that makes sense! "

** ooft when did 'alpha male' become 'a dominant man'

Labels meh.

I prefer to just ask if they are in to kink

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I don't want either.

I have no interest in the sub/dom dynamic. Sex for me is about having fun.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I don't want either.

I have no interest in the sub/dom dynamic. Sex for me is about having fun."

I don't want your "mans man" either... certainly not in a casual sex scenario.

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe


"What is the general opinion with the ladies on here? Do they prefer men to be sub or Dom?"

DOME

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither is preferable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preference for lady is sub but she can and will switch for the right person

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