FabSwingers.com forum: whinge

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

now i have a little whinge, and its that you do your best to be polite and do a good message then you dont get a reply, a "no thanks" will do. sometimes i wonder why i bother, i have a couple of good friends on here and they reply, but women as a whole must just block delete messages!!!!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

That's just the way it is in the main. Don't let it get you down or you will end up meeting no one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's just the way it is in the main. Don't let it get you down or you will end up meeting no one..."

totally agree with you

just keep at it

you have to remember that every woman on here gets a ton of messages a day

make yours stand out and make it personal but never rude

by the way no point in messaging me as im not having fun with anyone at present

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By *helmercpleCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I do understand where your coming from but this is how it is from our point of view. We used to reply a polite "no thanks" to guys we weren't interested in, but that never seemed to satisfy them. We kept getting replies like "oh come on I bet I can change your mind" or "go on give us a try you don't know what your missing" then the messages would get more offensive. So we just decided to delete any messages we are not interested in. I feel sorry for you genuine guys but the high level of utter twunts on this site spoilt it for us and I suppose in a way for you as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do understand where your coming from but this is how it is from our point of view. We used to reply a polite "no thanks" to guys we weren't interested in, but that never seemed to satisfy them. We kept getting replies like "oh come on I bet I can change your mind" or "go on give us a try you don't know what your missing" then the messages would get more offensive. So we just decided to delete any messages we are not interested in. I feel sorry for you genuine guys but the high level of utter twunts on this site spoilt it for us and I suppose in a way for you as well. "
i know how it is from a womans point of view, my wife has single profile on here, and the amount of blunt ,to the point messages she gets are phenomenal. but sometimes it can be soul destroying and you wonder why. but on the whole it must be me being too nice,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes us people aren't for everyone.

yes we may like sex, yes we may like to chat and yes we may like to talk smutty.

but that doesn't mean i will meet anyone and everyone.

we all have preferences after all i have vanilla syrup in my coffee but I'm guessing you don't

see preferences in the real world too

relax and have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a read here

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/119547

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree... I used to reply to all the guys i wasn't interested in and would say no thanks or not interested, and its like they are either blind or they try and change your mind (cause they like a challenge). So now I just ignore their message or block them. Although I do still reply some and say not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"now i have a little whinge, and its that you do your best to be polite and do a good message then you dont get a reply, a "no thanks" will do. sometimes i wonder why i bother, i have a couple of good friends on here and they reply, but women as a whole must just block delete messages!!!!

i used to have "a little whinge" but i take the tablets regularly now

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I do reply mostly to messages..my real bug is when they send me cock pics or and awful cock avatar ..I just think you didnt read my profile I cant be bothered..so OK im guilty sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do reply mostly to messages..my real bug is when they send me cock pics or and awful cock avatar ..I just think you didnt read my profile I cant be bothered..so OK im guilty sometimes.

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After chatting with a few couples I've met about pretty much the same thing I think you've got to look at it from there perspective.

Although i might send out 4-5 emails a day (sometimes less) the person Im sending it to probably gets 20-30 messages per day maybe more (saw one profile which said 45 messages in 5 mins for example!). I' think it's unrealistic and unfair to expect a reply especially as the "quality" of the messages seems to vary so much. Also if you spent your time replying to all of them then how much fun does the site become for the couple or person, being an admin assistant on Fabs is kinda missing the point lol.

Also I saw on this thread saying that I'd they do reply they then get the "let me try and convince you" reply which is then even more work for them.

My view is I get a reply which says no then thanks very much however if I don't I don't see it as rude just one of the "facts" of the site.

Ian

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