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By *ouple_Spondon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Spondon

A simple query really. What is it you enjoy about other men?

Personally i am not at all attracted to men yet love pleasuring his cock and receiving anal. I wonder if other bi men are drawn by attraction. If not, what does draw you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

masculinity

that is as much of a turn on for me in a man as femininity is in a woman

now see, i can be attracted to men, but ain't none going near my bum (well, very few, put it that way)

see, we are all different

no set 'bi' formula

thankfully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

simple, Cocks!!! love 'em, but never once looked at a guy and felt attracted, or had the inclination to put mine inside his bottom! lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Could you be signing up for the mingers list, where any cock/body item holder will do, as overall looks don't matter?

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By *ouple_Spondon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Spondon

After thinking about it i wanted to add more to the original post.

Personally i'm not interested in a guy; i'm not attracted to them and would never consider kissing one. Yet i would welcomely allow him to cum over me anywhere he pleases.

It is pure carnal lust i think. No kissing but i'd gladly suck on a cock until completion or bend over and let him shag me roughly.

It is strange how the passion can come into force.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After thinking about it i wanted to add more to the original post.

Personally i'm not interested in a guy; i'm not attracted to them and would never consider kissing one. Yet i would welcomely allow him to cum over me anywhere he pleases.

It is pure carnal lust i think. No kissing but i'd gladly suck on a cock until completion or bend over and let him shag me roughly.

It is strange how the passion can come into force."

Now see again I am the opposite, because, for me, the passion comes thru the kissing and the 'warm up'

Without the body contact, I find the whole thing a little boring.

Being kissed is a big part of me being turned on, so no kisses and it's not likely that my cock will get hard, at least not straight away.

Without being kissed, I could suck a guy off but without the kisses he is likely to get a far more apathetic blowjob than he would with kisses.

It is all a perception of intimacy.

I don't find kissing intimate, whereas I find the thought of another mans cock up my arse as exceptionally intimate hence why it would only ever happen with a regular meet or friend.

You view intimacy the other way, the cock up the arse is carnal and the kissing is intimate.

As I said in my initial response, there are no hard and fast rules.

You just have to go with what you're comfy with and find people who are interested in similar things and ways of being left satisfied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you be signing up for the mingers list, where any cock/body item holder will do, as overall looks don't matter?"

Fair point! But I only play with guys that we both meet and my wife has high standards!

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By *amBiUKMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I'm bi but don't fancy guys it's just a sex thing I'm attracted to girls but love cock x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to spend ages wondering about this because I love sucking cock, especially during an mmf threesome. However, despite loving kissing women I have never wanted to kiss a man. I just don't find men attractive in the same way.

I've given up worrying that I'm a hypocrite - I enjoy what I enjoy.

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By *odjamMan
over a year ago

woodford

I love sucking and wanking cock and love kissing a man and being in front of a naked man with a hard cock is the turn on. I am not turned on by clothed men funny that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to spend ages wondering about this because I love sucking cock, especially during an mmf threesome. However, despite loving kissing women I have never wanted to kiss a man. I just don't find men attractive in the same way.

I've given up worrying that I'm a hypocrite - I enjoy what I enjoy."

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By *eet_the_spartanMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I used to spend ages wondering about this because I love sucking cock, especially during an mmf threesome. However, despite loving kissing women I have never wanted to kiss a man. I just don't find men attractive in the same way.

I've given up worrying that I'm a hypocrite - I enjoy what I enjoy.

"

Ditto to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just mutual pleasure - everyone enjoying themselves is what turns me on and society saying wrongs or rights isn't a reason to classify it any differently than usual sex... if you see what I mean lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A simple query really. What is it you enjoy about other men?

Personally i am not at all attracted to men yet love pleasuring his cock and receiving anal. I wonder if other bi men are drawn by attraction. If not, what does draw you?"

I'm not attracted to men, (although I did fancy Green Gartside in 1987), but I just enjoy giving another man oral pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fancy guys just the same as I fancy women. Not everyone of either sex does it for me.

I love taking anal from guys but they have to really do it for me to make me want to give. Theres only been a couple of guys I've done that with. As a previous poster put, I love the intimacy of a guy close behind me pulling me close and pushing into me. It's probably the same for women I suspect.

Body contact and kissing are important to me, particularly when in guy mode. This is why I don't see straight men as Jodie. Because they don't want to know they're fucking a guy they're not willing to touch me anywhere but the top of my head and my arse cheeks!

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By *ryanythingonce2Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Me I Love bi fun cock sucking arse f@&king but I really could never see myself been in a relationship with another guy as I just don't find them attractive but on other had did have a relationship with a pre op ts guess we all are diffrent that's what makes us human mmf still my fav kind of meet mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After thinking about it i wanted to add more to the original post.

Personally i'm not interested in a guy; i'm not attracted to them and would never consider kissing one. Yet i would welcomely allow him to cum over me anywhere he pleases.

It is pure carnal lust i think. No kissing but i'd gladly suck on a cock until completion or bend over and let him shag me roughly.

It is strange how the passion can come into force."

I'm the same as you. I don't fancy men, I can recognise when a man is good looking but it doesn't translate into me being attracted by them in the way I fancy women. However when I get my hands on a cock I love to wank and suck it till it shoots. That's why I love mmf fun. Cock and pussy is my favourite. By the way I'm in caterham, not far from you. WOuld you like a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love a good hard cock especially a heavy cummer. I like to kiss , never thought I would but it's just part of it for me. I don't fancy men but recognise handsome guys. But when in the mood the thought of a nice hard cock does it for me. A bi 3sum is the best of both worlds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can all read im openly Bisexual and i like nice people no matter which sex they are; but the whole issue of becoming attached with another bi man borders on becoming Gay lovers; which there is a differnce bewtween both because whilst i have a Gay friends; they totally do not like sex with women - were as sadly us genuine Bisexual men are just ppain bloody greedy and love pussy just as much lol ....

Dont shoot the messenger lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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