FabSwingers.com forum: How often do couples think about swinging?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How often do couples actually spend thinking and chatting about swinging?

I'm intrigued from a single persons perspective as I could imagine myself being horny all the bloody time and banging on about it every waking minute of the day, to any female swinging partner I had!

How do you guys ration your time spent Browing Fabs and discussing it? Or maybe you don't, and are on here 24/7?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were always looking because it takes so long to sort a meet out that suits how we play.

Saying that we like to meet about every 6 weeks if suitable meet found.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We hardly discuss it. We talk about forum threads and discuss any messages we get though.

Trust me, the novelty wears off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We hardly discuss it. We talk about forum threads and discuss any messages we get though.

Trust me, the novelty wears off

Good comment x

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By *JcouplemidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Peak District

Now that we can actually go out and play again we talk about it a lot. We have a lot of time to make up for

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We hardly discuss it. We talk about forum threads and discuss any messages we get though.

Trust me, the novelty wears off

Good comment x

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By *he Knight is YoungMan
over a year ago

22 Acacia Ave, Preston-for now

Me and my ex partner used to spend some time in the evening after work sorting and speaking to friends about what we might be doing at the weekend but not every night.

We used to swing as a release from the doldrums of work,eat,sleep,repeat.

I've mostly took over the role of what the guys used to do when they came to our place as with being a single pringle now but mostly messaging on here than organising.

I suppose I do think about swingers a bit much but it's a lifestyle to some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

before covid we were meeting 2 or 3 times aweek mainly because over the years we got to know quiet a few so guess we talk about sex often and swinging a little too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Albert Pierrepoint thought about it all day every day

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"We hardly discuss it. We talk about forum threads and discuss any messages we get though.

Trust me, the novelty wears off

This.

You talk about it a lot more when you first start swinging, but it becomes a normal part of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We hardly discuss it. We talk about forum threads and discuss any messages we get though.

Trust me, the novelty wears off

This.

You talk about it a lot more when you first start swinging, but it becomes a normal part of life. "

? really ? been doing this 28 years still fresh as a daisy to us so openly chat about it whenever nothing stale here

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"We hardly discuss it. We talk about forum threads and discuss any messages we get though.

Trust me, the novelty wears off

This.

You talk about it a lot more when you first start swinging, but it becomes a normal part of life.

? really ? been doing this 28 years still fresh as a daisy to us so openly chat about it whenever nothing stale here

Who said anything about it being stale?

Swinging is simply a part of our sex life, not something we feel the need to discuss all the time... I find it a little odd that adults who have been swinging for many years, would view it as something that is so exciting they feel the need to talk about it all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

guess you did not read what i wrote i said we talk about sex often and swinging alittle ??? hahahahahaha

but each to there own i guess

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"guess you did not read what i wrote i said we talk about sex often and swinging alittle ??? hahahahahaha

but each to there own i guess "

I did read it.

Your post suggested not taking about it, meant our swinging/sex life was stale...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"guess you did not read what i wrote i said we talk about sex often and swinging alittle ??? hahahahahaha

but each to there own i guess "

and to add yes it is still exciting that we talk about it i think there would be something wrong with a couple that didnt if it no longer exciting then why do it ? thats my take anyway ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no i said nothing stale here ie us

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"guess you did not read what i wrote i said we talk about sex often and swinging alittle ??? hahahahahaha

but each to there own i guess

and to add yes it is still exciting that we talk about it i think there would be something wrong with a couple that didnt if it no longer exciting then why do it ? thats my take anyway ....

It's enjoyable rather than exiting. The same for the numerous other interests we have.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Exciting not exiting...

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