FabSwingers.com forum: FABor DRAB

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ok so been on here on and off for about 2 years . In that time had my fair share of time wasters , social media lovers and fantasists ! the new trend excuse is " obviously not meeting due to covid " but when you look at their profile they have no intention of meeting as its a break away from F book !! .

some of my experiences on FAB

" Hi yes we are interested , how about the weekend " " yes ok heres a full message about me etc etc " " ok thats great you look nice and someone we can gel with " ........pause...... then they disapear !!!

Im only on here to chat !! ok thats cool have you heard of F BOOK ???

not meeting anyone ...why are you on here ??

My requirements are as follows my donts..... ( 35 donts dislikes ) 2 likes ... slags men off

this is a common one ... " missus says can you send as many cock and body photos ? " ... single sad gay man wants photos to wank off over !!

so you getting the picture ? FAB or DRAB ? for me im deleting profile as its got worse with the dreamers , fantasists , chat merchants , time wasters etc etc .. im sure there are some genuine people on here but they are few !!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why shouldn't people be here because they are saying they aren't meeting??

There could be numerous reasons as to why (not just covid releated) that they aren't....

People use this site how they see fit and shouldn't be judged for it.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

The site is fab for us but unlike the messages we often get ..."we are all here for the same reason "...funnily enough not everybody is and thats ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nobody says we HAVE to meet anyone while being on here,we will meet someone again when we feel we want to meet and until then we will chat and see if there is some kind of link to warrant a meet

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

People can use Fab however they like, within the site rules. We aren’t obliged to meet just because we joined.

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By *straightguys4uMan
over a year ago

bromley

"ok so been on here on and off for about 2 years . In that time had my fair share of time wasters , social media lovers and fantasists ! the new trend excuse is " obviously not meeting due to covid " but when you look at their profile they have no intention of meeting as its a break away from F book !! .

some of my experiences on FAB

Im only on here to chat !! ok thats cool have you heard of F BOOK ???

not meeting anyone ...why are you on here ??

My requirements are as follows my donts..... ( 35 donts dislikes ) 2 likes ... slags men off

this is a common one ... " missus says can you send as many cock and body photos ? " ... single sad gay man wants photos to wank off over !!

Above is the best post of the year !

My favourite chuckle is:

"single lady (slim and 18) - looking for bi men. -..... WHY Bi ?

Me: here's my number, hide yours and call me to leave any kind of message on my answerphone.

Fake:

a) Would rather keep chat on here.

b) She's in the bath etc etc

C) She's at work and will do it later

etc etc etc.

This site needs a name and shame list, many of these fakes are probably not even 18+

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Well, it has been quite an indifferent past 18 months. So maybe not judge everyone yet.

Take the site as it is and try to have fun with it, it's incredibly difficult for guys on here so don't get hung up by it and don't look at this site as the only way to meet people. Admitted, its been very tough during the pandemic for all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye OP

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We all go through periods of not meeting.

We do actively meet but we are struggling with meets. Yes some people only want to chat and thats OK

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I meet but not instantly and only with people who I feel a connection with so i

want to chat to them for a while so we don't waste our time meeting if it's notffff going to go anywhere.

I appreciate that is not what everyone wants to do on this site and I respect that as I expect to be respected for what I want in return.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

As long as people are upfront and honest, I don't see a problem.

I'd only meet socially at min, I make that clear in my profile, so if people actually read it, they'd see.

If a profile doesn't suit you, just move on to the next op.

Everyone can use fab in the way that suits them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So true !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not your place to tell people how to use the site! FYI I’m not currently meeting.

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

some of my experiences on FAB

Im only on here to chat !! ok thats cool have you heard of F BOOK ???

not meeting anyone ...why are you on here ??

My requirements are as follows my donts..... ( 35 donts dislikes ) 2 likes ... slags men off

this is a common one ... " missus says can you send as many cock and body photos ? " ... single sad gay man wants photos to wank off over !!

Above is the best post of the year !

My favourite chuckle is:

"single lady (slim and 18) - looking for bi men. -..... WHY Bi ?

Me: here's my number, hide yours and call me to leave any kind of message on my answerphone.

Fake:

a) Would rather keep chat on here.

b) She's in the bath etc etc

C) She's at work and will do it later

etc etc etc.

This site needs a name and shame list, many of these fakes are probably not even 18+

Very true I have seen kids by the shop on fab looking at the pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some of my experiences on FAB

Im only on here to chat !! ok thats cool have you heard of F BOOK ???

not meeting anyone ...why are you on here ??

My requirements are as follows my donts..... ( 35 donts dislikes ) 2 likes ... slags men off

this is a common one ... " missus says can you send as many cock and body photos ? " ... single sad gay man wants photos to wank off over !!

Above is the best post of the year !

My favourite chuckle is:

"single lady (slim and 18) - looking for bi men. -..... WHY Bi ?

Me: here's my number, hide yours and call me to leave any kind of message on my answerphone.

Fake:

a) Would rather keep chat on here.

b) She's in the bath etc etc

C) She's at work and will do it later

etc etc etc.

This site needs a name and shame list, many of these fakes are probably not even 18+

Why should a) on your list be a fake. I always keep to chatting on Fab before sharing other numbers until I like their personality and feel we could be a good match. It may not be how you are but you seem to feel that if a woman is on Fab and doesn’t want an instant meet then they are fake.

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

some of my experiences on FAB

Im only on here to chat !! ok thats cool have you heard of F BOOK ???

not meeting anyone ...why are you on here ??

My requirements are as follows my donts..... ( 35 donts dislikes ) 2 likes ... slags men off

this is a common one ... " missus says can you send as many cock and body photos ? " ... single sad gay man wants photos to wank off over !!

Above is the best post of the year !

My favourite chuckle is:

"single lady (slim and 18) - looking for bi men. -..... WHY Bi ?

Me: here's my number, hide yours and call me to leave any kind of message on my answerphone.

Fake:

a) Would rather keep chat on here.

b) She's in the bath etc etc

C) She's at work and will do it later

etc etc etc.

This site needs a name and shame list, many of these fakes are probably not even 18+

Some guys do not understand or even know about the chase.

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By *ornynorfolkguyMan
over a year ago

North Norfolk

Why go to the trouble of writing all that if you’re going to leave anyway. Looks like you’re after some sympathy or something?

Anyhoo OP don’t let the door hit you on the way out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my wants are simple but im picky but thats a good thing we've been on fab since the begining and its alway provided the tools to find fun i dont want other to change i want peopleto be themselves so its a much easier filter for those you dont want to meet ... 99% of the time we get the meets we are looking for those we are not looking for and the abusive rude and pushy are blocked ..

there are plenty of guys on here that have figured out how to use fab the right way with out all the lies and bullshite so as for what we want well we have no problem finding and because we block often (at least 3 or 4 profiles aday) we dont get many problems as they have been removed so no moaning from us as we get to playy very often (not during covid or lockdowns) tankfully due to the guys who really do know how to use the site...

moaning is not attractive so moaning about not getting meets is a turnoff much better to put that negative energy into doing something posative

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