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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys, my first post finally. How can I get more replies from women. What’s the secret code?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zxzzxxz12

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Zxzzxxz12"

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By *ockgit64Man
over a year ago

Poulton le Fylde, Lancs.

Up, Up, Down, Down, Left, Right, Left, Right, B, A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stand by the window, hold your hand in the air with one hand and hold your ear with the other. Should do the trick

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Stand by the window, hold your hand in the air with one hand and hold your ear with the other. Should do the trick "

You forgot to mention it should be your left hand in the air. If he does it the other way, he’d just look stupid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stand by the window, hold your hand in the air with one hand and hold your ear with the other. Should do the trick

You forgot to mention it should be your left hand in the air. If he does it the other way, he’d just look stupid "

Yes, I forgot that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Welcome to the forum

There's no secret. Just make sure you match what the people you're messaging are looking for and he patient

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stand by the window, hold your hand in the air with one hand and hold your ear with the other. Should do the trick

You forgot to mention it should be your left hand in the air. If he does it the other way, he’d just look stupid

Yes, I forgot that!"

That only works in northern hemisphere, it's right hand in southern parts of the world.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Maybe try praying

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

no there's not and welcome to the forum.

Don't think with your dick and a no reply isn't rude .

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

Don't listen to them, they're all taking the mick because you're new. The only way to get noticed is to let the fabswingers satellite know you're available. It goes overhead at around 11pm every other night so you need to stand outside your front door as it's going overhead, wave at it whilst shouting "I'm available". Trust me, you'll be inundated with meet requests within days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Up, Up, Down, Down, Left, Right, Left, Right, B, A

"
was that sonic?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

There's no code op, but I'd say your profile could do with some work, to stand out from the rest.

Sell yourself, what can you offer a meet?

Maybe some more pics too

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People taking the mick is funny and borderline racist but let it pass

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks

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By *acksLamentMan
over a year ago

Wales


"Up, Up, Down, Down, Left, Right, Left, Right, B, A

was that sonic? "

It was the universal Nintendo NES cheat code, missed out pressing start at the end of it though!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'd suggest deleting any sent mail, it'll take away the temptation to keep checking to see if your message has been read, it certainly won't help get replies tho.

You gotta remember a few things that a lot of people don't even consider. You could in theory send the same message to the same person. One day you'll get a response and if you'd sent it on a different day you wouldn't. Mood right there and then can play a huge role in how the message is received or perceived and that's something you can't control.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd suggest deleting any sent mail, it'll take away the temptation to keep checking to see if your message has been read, it certainly won't help get replies tho.

You gotta remember a few things that a lot of people don't even consider. You could in theory send the same message to the same person. One day you'll get a response and if you'd sent it on a different day you wouldn't. Mood right there and then can play a huge role in how the message is received or perceived and that's something you can't control."

Thanks

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By *onticusMan
over a year ago

Greater London

It’s just a literal bloodbath! Tons of fake profiles, lots of “ street pro’s “, and you’re in the most fetishised group! Try to attend some club parties, make yourself seen, don’t relay on one source of fishing and perhaps no tracksuit…

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

There's no magic formula, you just have to be what the other persons looking for and catch their eye at the right time over the other thousands of guys trying to catch their attention at the right time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear a Kappa tracksuit always works.

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth


"People taking the mick is funny and borderline racist but let it pass"

After reading your comment I went back through and read every post. There are posts taking the mick, mine included, but I see absolutely nothing being racist. Would you like to explain which comments you think are racist and why?

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Welcome to the forum

You do know that it’s an escape room type challenge you need to crack the code. One letter per room, and there is quite a few rooms. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People taking the mick is funny and borderline racist but let it pass

After reading your comment I went back through and read every post. There are posts taking the mick, mine included, but I see absolutely nothing being racist. Would you like to explain which comments you think are racist and why?"

Agreed! I didn't see anything racist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see anything racist here, just lighthearted replies.

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade


"People taking the mick is funny and borderline racist but let it pass"

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"People taking the mick is funny and borderline racist but let it pass"

Sorry you feel that people’s replies are this.

Sent my reply before I scrolled down. No racism at all. Everyone would get the same reply.

But you have only been on the site a short while. What are you expectations? I found it very different to my initial thoughts. For most it’s not an instant hook up site, I had quicker meet ups through dating apps. I find it to be a place you can experience an alternative lifestyle. Or at least talk about it. For me on the forums. Give it time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 inches

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"People taking the mick is funny and borderline racist but let it pass

After reading your comment I went back through and read every post. There are posts taking the mick, mine included, but I see absolutely nothing being racist. Would you like to explain which comments you think are racist and why?"

I was unsure if the borderline racist comment was a pisstake in itself. I thought it must have been, but then I thought "oh god, I'm back here again questioning if I'm a racist coz I can't recognise racism or borderline racism"

Then I remembered. It doesn't matter if something is or isn't racist, if someone perceives it as such, then now it is, even when it wasn't.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

As others have said, there's no magic formula.

What helps in all cases is...

A well written profile, stating what you are looking for and what you can offer, with a good selection of photos.

Only message those who might be interested and send a personalised message that shows you've read their profile.

Be patient, you've only been here 6 weeks and are on the young side for Fab.

Join in the forums and try a club.

Good luck OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys, my first post finally. How can I get more replies from women. What’s the secret code?"

Mate if there is a secret code I'd love to know it I've appealed to vanity, been nice, been dirty, tried jokes and replying to there status among other approaches and nothing lol. I know it's based on preference and women get hundreds of messages and yours could be lost among them or that's what I tell myself. Don't loose hope

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