FabSwingers.com forum: Turn off’s?

By *3xDE OP Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

Soo we talk about the things we like and that turn us on.

But what is it that turns you off?

For me hygiene is paramount! So if you approach me looking homeless and scruffy I won’t give you the time of day and not forgetting rude, egotistical personalities. Just be yourself and be honest.

What about all of you?

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By *dventureSeeker23Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Soo we talk about the things we like and that turn us on.

But what is it that turns you off?

For me hygiene is paramount! So if you approach me looking homeless and scruffy I won’t give you the time of day and not forgetting rude, egotistical personalities. Just be yourself and be honest.

What about all of you?

For me is hygiene and rudeness (can take many forms)

if people commuicate things would be different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soo we talk about the things we like and that turn us on.

But what is it that turns you off?

For me hygiene is paramount! So if you approach me looking homeless and scruffy I won’t give you the time of day and not forgetting rude, egotistical personalities. Just be yourself and be honest.

What about all of you?

It's quite scary that on a sex site that people have to highlight hygiene

For me it's one of the major daily things in life

Keeping yourself clean, smelling nice and looking reasonably respectful should be a given

The fact people turn up dirty to a sex meet is incredible

And when I say dressed respectfully I don't mean a suit, shirt and tie

Even a clean pair of jeans and a t-shirt....as that's probably what I would wear to any meet

Although the grey joggers do seem to be a hit with quite a few people

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Long beards! Stubble is fine, though.

Visibly older than profile states, looking nothing like their pics.

D*unk/on drugs or showing erratic behaviour.

Poor hygiene- particularly strong cigarette smell radiating from the whole body.

In a club- staring intensely and/or following me wherever I go, not taking my lack of interest as a clue.

Waving dick in front of me in a "look what I have to offer" kind of way- I have seen plenty of dicks, as a naturist and as a swinger. You want to impress me- talk to me as a person, not sexual object.

If I'm in a club with a male partner- talking to him but not me. I am my own person, go to clubs for my own enjoyment not because my partner made me come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hygiene is number one

beards is number one lol

one ive notice lately far too much aftershave ?? why very off putting

i guess if we all sit down a think about things our list off turn offs would be as big as our turn ons

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By *3xDE OP Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

one ive notice lately far too much aftershave ?? why very off putting

i guess if we all sit down a think about things our list off turn offs would be as big as our turn ons"

I’d not have even thought of that, but yeah their can always be a limit too that “lucky spray”

And yeah no doubt we could come up with a good list if we put our minds to it!

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over a year ago

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Flip flops

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By *3xDE OP Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

"Flip flops"

Grubby shoes in general

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flip flops

Grubby shoes in general

I go with the dirty shoe thing as well, looks nasty

Claire

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"Flip flops

Grubby shoes in general

I go with the dirty shoe thing as well, looks nasty

Claire "

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Soo we talk about the things we like and that turn us on.

But what is it that turns you off?

For me hygiene is paramount! So if you approach me looking homeless and scruffy I won’t give you the time of day and not forgetting rude, egotistical personalities. Just be yourself and be honest.

What about all of you?

May sound odd - but what turns me off is guys I’m chatting to or due to meet talking about sex a lot. I just find it really immature. I love HAVING sex - I rarely feel the need to talk about it! X

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

When the nail polish has worn off and there's just bits left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit tattoos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely bad hygiene and yes, I have met with someone on here who didn't know that being fresh was good. Needless to say they didn't get what they wanted.

Dirty clothes and shoes unless I know they're meeting me from being at work.

Being downright rude and foul mouthed.

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By *usciouslips201Couple
over a year ago

North Wales

Dirty fingernails and food stuck between teeth

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

On a female, I don’t like fake tits. Those breast implants that look like 2 footballs on your chest just put me right off. It means a lot of porn isn’t for me too.

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Gymfit bodies. Sorry but we are not up to standard lol

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

"Soo we talk about the things we like and that turn us on.

But what is it that turns you off?

For me hygiene is paramount! So if you approach me looking homeless and scruffy I won’t give you the time of day and not forgetting rude, egotistical personalities. Just be yourself and be honest.

What about all of you?

May sound odd - but what turns me off is guys I’m chatting to or due to meet talking about sex a lot. I just find it really immature. I love HAVING sex - I rarely feel the need to talk about it! X"

Don’t forget married men lol

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Soo we talk about the things we like and that turn us on.

But what is it that turns you off?

For me hygiene is paramount! So if you approach me looking homeless and scruffy I won’t give you the time of day and not forgetting rude, egotistical personalities. Just be yourself and be honest.

What about all of you?

May sound odd - but what turns me off is guys I’m chatting to or due to meet talking about sex a lot. I just find it really immature. I love HAVING sex - I rarely feel the need to talk about it! X

Don’t forget married men lol"

I never mentioned married men. Rarely meet them as they’re rarely available when I am. I also prefer to meet guys who are happy to be seen in public with me - so that rules out most married men.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Soo we talk about the things we like and that turn us on.

But what is it that turns you off?

For me hygiene is paramount! So if you approach me looking homeless and scruffy I won’t give you the time of day and not forgetting rude, egotistical personalities. Just be yourself and be honest.

What about all of you?

May sound odd - but what turns me off is guys I’m chatting to or due to meet talking about sex a lot. I just find it really immature. I love HAVING sex - I rarely feel the need to talk about it! X"

I'd second this. I'm happy to discuss experiences face to face (important to know we're both looking for similar things), but I find messaging about sex really tedious.

When messaging I'm interested in the person, in the endless variety of personality, not in the basic mechanics of penis into vagina.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember one guy i met from fab we had chatted for awhile and our conversations were certainly a turn on, then we met, I choose quite a upmarket pub and when I arrived he was there in fecking wellies, a wax jacket that needed a good clean, I was speechless, that lasted five mins, I turned around and left.. I mean who does that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soo we talk about the things we like and that turn us on.

But what is it that turns you off?

For me hygiene is paramount! So if you approach me looking homeless and scruffy I won’t give you the time of day and not forgetting rude, egotistical personalities. Just be yourself and be honest.

What about all of you?

May sound odd - but what turns me off is guys I’m chatting to or due to meet talking about sex a lot. I just find it really immature. I love HAVING sex - I rarely feel the need to talk about it! X"

Totally agree...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me dirty fingernails, untidy houses and text speak- not for me

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Prior to a meet then text speech, limited communication and generally messaging that’s hard work…

At a meet, poor hygiene, rude attitude, being obviously very high or d*unk…

During sex, not listening to feedback (once had a woman who insisted that she could give me an incredible hand job and didn’t listen when I told her it was verging on painful!)

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

"Soo we talk about the things we like and that turn us on.

But what is it that turns you off?

For me hygiene is paramount! So if you approach me looking homeless and scruffy I won’t give you the time of day and not forgetting rude, egotistical personalities. Just be yourself and be honest.

What about all of you?

May sound odd - but what turns me off is guys I’m chatting to or due to meet talking about sex a lot. I just find it really immature. I love HAVING sex - I rarely feel the need to talk about it! X

Don’t forget married men lol

I never mentioned married men. Rarely meet them as they’re rarely available when I am. I also prefer to meet guys who are happy to be seen in public with me - so that rules out most married men. "

It was light hearted banter as you gave me grief on my post about married me

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Soo we talk about the things we like and that turn us on.

But what is it that turns you off?

For me hygiene is paramount! So if you approach me looking homeless and scruffy I won’t give you the time of day and not forgetting rude, egotistical personalities. Just be yourself and be honest.

What about all of you?

May sound odd - but what turns me off is guys I’m chatting to or due to meet talking about sex a lot. I just find it really immature. I love HAVING sex - I rarely feel the need to talk about it! X

Don’t forget married men lol

I never mentioned married men. Rarely meet them as they’re rarely available when I am. I also prefer to meet guys who are happy to be seen in public with me - so that rules out most married men.

It was light hearted banter as you gave me grief on my post about married me

I’m not renowned for ‘giving people grief’ - I assume that as adults we all make our own personal choices.

I confess that I’ll only meet a married man if the pros outweigh the cons - ie he’s pretty damned hot!

To some that makes me immoral. In my opinion im responsible for my own morality/moral compass - not someone else’s.

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By *olly_AmberTV/TS
over a year ago

Live Sussex, Work London

Hygiene as everyone has said

Jogging trousers / bottoms guys make an effort you expect me to

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

"Soo we talk about the things we like and that turn us on.

But what is it that turns you off?

For me hygiene is paramount! So if you approach me looking homeless and scruffy I won’t give you the time of day and not forgetting rude, egotistical personalities. Just be yourself and be honest.

What about all of you?

May sound odd - but what turns me off is guys I’m chatting to or due to meet talking about sex a lot. I just find it really immature. I love HAVING sex - I rarely feel the need to talk about it! X

Don’t forget married men lol

I never mentioned married men. Rarely meet them as they’re rarely available when I am. I also prefer to meet guys who are happy to be seen in public with me - so that rules out most married men.

It was light hearted banter as you gave me grief on my post about married me

I’m not renowned for ‘giving people grief’ - I assume that as adults we all make our own personal choices.

I confess that I’ll only meet a married man if the pros outweigh the cons - ie he’s pretty damned hot!

To some that makes me immoral. In my opinion im responsible for my own morality/moral compass - not someone else’s.

So that rules me out then

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By *loriaJTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

Men who keep their socks on when naked - and misplaced apostrophes!

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

"Soo we talk about the things we like and that turn us on.

But what is it that turns you off?

For me hygiene is paramount! So if you approach me looking homeless and scruffy I won’t give you the time of day and not forgetting rude, egotistical personalities. Just be yourself and be honest.

What about all of you?

Bad manners, personal hygiene, arrogance, BS, smoking, large tattoos.

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By *olly_AmberTV/TS
over a year ago

Live Sussex, Work London

"Men who keep their socks on when naked - and misplaced apostrophes!"

Yes!

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Top knots and flip flops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Hygiene (obviously)

2. Profiles with an inordinate list of do/donts, likes/dislikes etc etc

3. Profile pictures with cum covered faces or bottles inserted where they weren’t intended to be inserted.

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By *olly_AmberTV/TS
over a year ago

Live Sussex, Work London

But I like cum on my face I think it looks cute!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But I like cum on my face I think it looks cute!"

Your body your choice hun but not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soo we talk about the things we like and that turn us on.

But what is it that turns you off?

For me hygiene is paramount! So if you approach me looking homeless and scruffy I won’t give you the time of day and not forgetting rude, egotistical personalities. Just be yourself and be honest.

What about all of you?

It's quite scary that on a sex site that people have to highlight hygiene

For me it's one of the major daily things in life

Keeping yourself clean, smelling nice and looking reasonably respectful should be a given

The fact people turn up dirty to a sex meet is incredible

And when I say dressed respectfully I don't mean a suit, shirt and tie

Even a clean pair of jeans and a t-shirt....as that's probably what I would wear to any meet

Although the grey joggers do seem to be a hit with quite a few people

grey joggers haha !

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

People who think they’re special.

Nobody's special. We're all equally crummy.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

On here 55 cock pics and nothing else,or a profile pic of a woman when it's a single man profile.

Constant whingy status updates about how crap fab is or that nobody meets them.or ones asking for bjs /balls emptying all the time.

Calling me babes /hun

Assuming I'm free to meet after 1 message.

Getting stroppy if you don't reply quick enough

Lying in any way, hate that here and in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here 55 cock pics and nothing else,or a profile pic of a woman when it's a single man profile.

Constant whingy status updates about how crap fab is or that nobody meets them.or ones asking for bjs /balls emptying all the time.

Calling me babes /hun

Assuming I'm free to meet after 1 message.

Getting stroppy if you don't reply quick enough

Lying in any way, hate that here and in real life.

So single men should not post pictures of them with a woman on their profile?

What next couples profile pictures of them in a 3sum scenario?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"On here 55 cock pics and nothing else,or a profile pic of a woman when it's a single man profile.

Constant whingy status updates about how crap fab is or that nobody meets them.or ones asking for bjs /balls emptying all the time.

Calling me babes /hun

Assuming I'm free to meet after 1 message.

Getting stroppy if you don't reply quick enough

Lying in any way, hate that here and in real life.

So single men should not post pictures of them with a woman on their profile?

What next couples profile pictures of them in a 3sum scenario?

They shouldn't have a woman as their profile pic in my opinion no, they're not one

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"On here 55 cock pics and nothing else,or a profile pic of a woman when it's a single man profile.

Constant whingy status updates about how crap fab is or that nobody meets them.or ones asking for bjs /balls emptying all the time.

Calling me babes /hun

Assuming I'm free to meet after 1 message.

Getting stroppy if you don't reply quick enough

Lying in any way, hate that here and in real life.

So single men should not post pictures of them with a woman on their profile?

What next couples profile pictures of them in a 3sum scenario?

They shouldn't have a woman as their profile pic in my opinion no, they're not one "

If you look at what I wrote, it's a pic of a woman I'm saying

There's loads where men have profile pics of just a woman and their bits

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Aggression & limited interest in me and my needs.

Changing meet agreements last minute - eg, meeting for a relaxed time but turning up with 10-15 minutes only to spare.

Men in clothes that fitted 10+ years ago - I must seem shallow

Cluelessness sexually and unguidable

Showing cock pics repeatedly, when asking to see other types

Phone reliance during a meet

Men who just lie back and expect me to do all the work :o

Obviously hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here 55 cock pics and nothing else,or a profile pic of a woman when it's a single man profile.

Constant whingy status updates about how crap fab is or that nobody meets them.or ones asking for bjs /balls emptying all the time.

Calling me babes /hun

Assuming I'm free to meet after 1 message.

Getting stroppy if you don't reply quick enough

Lying in any way, hate that here and in real life.

So single men should not post pictures of them with a woman on their profile?

What next couples profile pictures of them in a 3sum scenario?

They shouldn't have a woman as their profile pic in my opinion no, they're not one

If you look at what I wrote, it's a pic of a woman I'm saying

There's loads where men have profile pics of just a woman and their bits "

Oh ok my mistake accept my apology

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"On here 55 cock pics and nothing else,or a profile pic of a woman when it's a single man profile.

Constant whingy status updates about how crap fab is or that nobody meets them.or ones asking for bjs /balls emptying all the time.

Calling me babes /hun

Assuming I'm free to meet after 1 message.

Getting stroppy if you don't reply quick enough

Lying in any way, hate that here and in real life.

So single men should not post pictures of them with a woman on their profile?

What next couples profile pictures of them in a 3sum scenario?

They shouldn't have a woman as their profile pic in my opinion no, they're not one

If you look at what I wrote, it's a pic of a woman I'm saying

There's loads where men have profile pics of just a woman and their bits

Oh ok my mistake accept my apology "

No worries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live by the advice that someone gave me years ago, "don't tell someone you drive a Bentley,just offer than a lift home", i.e don't brag.

Even if I did have a Bentley (which I don't!), you might be talking to someone who has a Rolls Royce.

Also BO!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Shit tattoos"

Yes! Bad tattoos seem to equal bad sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married men playing away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in a judgemental way, but piercings turn me off. I think it's got to do with my needlephobia. I am ok with ear piercings though. But anywhere else puts me off for some reason.

And of course, narcissm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad teeth and arrogance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hygiene and bad breath and also women in flat shoes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hygiene and bad breath and also women in flat shoes. "

That counts me out then because I can't walk in heels

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Hygiene and bad breath and also women in flat shoes.

That counts me out then because I can't walk in heels"

Me too!! Fibro is a bitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hygiene and bad breath and also women in flat shoes.

That counts me out then because I can't walk in heels

Me too!! Fibro is a bitch."

I hear ya. Mine's ME.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hygiene, BO and bad breath are just nasty.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

"Hygiene and bad breath and also women in flat shoes. "

I'm out, too. Can't walk in them (problem with my hips and still recovering from broken knee). Unless just lying in bed wearing high heels is ok

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By *ekkatransTV/TS
over a year ago

Scarborough

"Soo we talk about the things we like and that turn us on.

But what is it that turns you off?

For me hygiene is paramount! So if you approach me looking homeless and scruffy I won’t give you the time of day and not forgetting rude, egotistical personalities. Just be yourself and be honest.

What about all of you?

Men with hair everywhere eeek, oh and if they have a hairy bsck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

profiles demanding something in return for a meet, To me its natural to take something but hate to be told, its like paying for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad teeth and tons of thick make up are turn offs for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles asking for substances to be brought….. instant block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a weird one but open toed heels turn me off massively.

People thinking that are worth more than what they actually are, some people won't give you the time of day because they think they are more superior than you fuck off we all piss and shit like you're no better than anyone else haha

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