FabSwingers.com forum: Is it just me?

By *olin Lingus OP Man
over a year ago

west mids

Don't get me wrong as I don't intend to come across as an arse...far from it as I am about as laid back as you can get apart from being unconscious

But why is it so hard to get any conversation from any females or couples on here, let alone genuine meets for a social or more.

I'm not single, don't claim to be and always upfront with my situation.

If I see a profile that states no married/taken I leave well enough alone as per their wishes

I'm here as my partner had a stroke a few years ago now and since then she has lost all sexual interest.

I tend not to bore anyone with the reason why I'm here nor make excuses, as I'm sure most have their own reasons and I never judge others.

Yes I get the irony of the above as I am being a bit judgey

I'm always respectful despite what we're here for and always wish all the best if I'm not for them when they reply.

I genuinely get that women get bombarded and in no doubt the crap they get when they don't reply or heaven forbid reject someone.

Not all us fellas are like that