FabSwingers.com forum: Sex on a first date

By *95888 OP Man
over a year ago

carlisle

Who’s had sex on a first date? And how long did the relationship last?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and 10 years

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes. Tomorrow we have our 6th anniversary.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Yes - and bearing in mind the nature of the site - I’m guessing the proportion will be quite high?

When I was young the general rule among lads was that if a girl slept with you on a first date she was a slag - and therefore not worthy of a relationship.

I’m hoping modern young men aren’t such pricks!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes and we've been together 40 years

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By *topthepressMan
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

Yea we did and we are still together 17 years

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yes - and bearing in mind the nature of the site - I’m guessing the proportion will be quite high?

When I was young the general rule among lads was that if a girl slept with you on a first date she was a slag - and therefore not worthy of a relationship.

I’m hoping modern young men aren’t such pricks! "

I fear that they are.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

Yes and together 22 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, 3 years and counting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We did and still going after 14 years.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Yes - and bearing in mind the nature of the site - I’m guessing the proportion will be quite high?

When I was young the general rule among lads was that if a girl slept with you on a first date she was a slag - and therefore not worthy of a relationship.

I’m hoping modern young men aren’t such pricks!

I fear that they are. "

Really? I hoped they’d progressed a little?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes - and bearing in mind the nature of the site - I’m guessing the proportion will be quite high?

When I was young the general rule among lads was that if a girl slept with you on a first date she was a slag - and therefore not worthy of a relationship.

I’m hoping modern young men aren’t such pricks! "

Think bad attitudes towards women are generally dying out along with many other deeply conservative ideas amongst younger people.

Based on the wide variety of people we've met anyway!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yes - and bearing in mind the nature of the site - I’m guessing the proportion will be quite high?

When I was young the general rule among lads was that if a girl slept with you on a first date she was a slag - and therefore not worthy of a relationship.

I’m hoping modern young men aren’t such pricks!

I fear that they are.

Really? I hoped they’d progressed a little?

I can't speak with any real authority but from what our daughter says young men are just as territorial about women as they ever were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep..

3 years

10 years

2 years

6 years

Pulling in a nightclub then keeping them for awhile after is my superpower!

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

douglas

I'd never turn sex down on a first date, but it would never turn into a relationship, it would just be sex for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to find my Mr Right first to even contemplate sex on first date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps I'm in the minority... I've never been on a first date where I've not had sex...

I don't think that's such a bad thing? It's the modern age, phones exist, we talk to people loads and get to know people more often than not prior to going on a first date?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done in the past

But if I was actively dating with the view to potentially have a relationship, I wouldn't now

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

No we didn’t. Both wanted to, very heavy petting but held off until our 2nd date! It did feel more special when we did - we had fancied each other for years, so it was never going to be a one night thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we did and we are 8 years partners

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By * VaWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

When you say "date" are we talking: the first time you meet someone in general, or a planned encounter; ie dinner or drinks or whatnot where sex was not the specified outcome?

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By *arte_Blanche_NECouple
over a year ago

Northern

"Who’s had sex on a first date? And how long did the relationship last?"

Yes and 20 years, still in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not, we had a social, as I personally believe outside of clubs we all should, then we decided a play meet was what we both wanted and glorious it was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it lasted eight years then yes lasting 19 years until last week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and the relationship lasted about 10 minutes lol

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Yep, 26 years then went tits up…

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes, many times. Various, from a few weeks to several years

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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams

Yes 6yrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes and 10 years"

Lol snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had not once but the last relationship was going 3 years

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By *rNaughtyMrsNaughtierCouple
over a year ago

NorthEast

No but I sucked his cock and swallowed his cum!

21yrs and we are still going strong.. x

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Coming up for 19 years together, first date I found I ached to suck on him, by 5am I think we had done half the Kama sutra together xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who’s had sex on a first date? And how long did the relationship last?"

Yes me... so far 24 years later

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Me and the relationship lasted about 10 minutes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did with all my boyfriends and my husband. Still married xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. 7 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and 5 years later still going

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Numerous! If it clicks, it clicks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd never turn sex down on a first date, but it would never turn into a relationship, it would just be sex for me. "

Interested to know why that would be. Is it because you just don’t want a relationship or would you deem a woman who sleeps with you on the first date not worthy of being in a relationship with?

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

2nd date for us but only because neither of us had anywhere private to go at the end of the first.

And to be fair the 2nd date was 11 hours later and was just me travelling 20 miles her town to be dragged straight up to the bedroom for a 9 hour none stop session (oh to be that young again).

25 years later..still together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep and I married her in march lol

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By *eachrunner1Man
over a year ago

Farnham

Back in the 90's when I was a young man I am struggling to remember the dates that didn't end in sex.

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Yes. 8 years

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Nope. However, we used to have sec regularly before we told anyone we were an item. We had both been hurt in our previous relationships so it was easier to have a secret for a few months

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

*sex

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Most online dates end in sex ..

Few end in a relationship..

I’m probably from a different era ..

In the 80’s girls that easily put out weren’t keepers ..

Bloody stupid when you look back now..

you end up marrying the stuck up boring ones with little sexual interest .. so you grow apart ..

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Yes and been together for 23 years but now gone of sex not sure why

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

"Nope. However, we used to have sec regularly before we told anyone we were an item. We had both been hurt in our previous relationships so it was easier to have a secret for a few months

And I bet was more exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t remember ever going on a date and not having sex. I don’t date any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep..

3 years

10 years

2 years

6 years

Pulling in a nightclub then keeping them for awhile after is my superpower!

If a guy said that it would be so creepy

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, never have x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and a few years

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

To the ones who have never not had sex on a first date (assuming they are not pay fucks anyway):

Never mind, there's always a first time for everything!

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By *3xDECouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Yes, ten years later still going strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep and 6 years.

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By *95888 OP Man
over a year ago

carlisle

So I did have a date tonight, no sex unfortunately.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We both have numerous times before we met each other. Together we had sex 1st night that was 10 yrs ago next week

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge (West-Mids)

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge (West-Mids)

Technically we did but we had been friends for a year first... been together 19 years

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

3 years and sexually explicit.

3 days sexually explosive

8 months sexually hot

2 years sexually fulfilling

Theirs more but this should do for now

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

Yes with ex wife, lasted 21 years and the sex was to bloody good not to marry her.

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By *tickyPollCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

Oral sex does that count 28 years later x

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

On quite a few dates some were for a nsa arrangement which worked perfectly for us a couple lasted a few months, one about 3 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, some lasted a few days some longer

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Who’s had sex on a first date? And how long did the relationship last?"

Yes, seven years

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yes, still going 5 years and 9 months on.

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By *enfold75Man
over a year ago

hemel hempstead

Yes in the carpark at Windsor Castle.

The relationship lasted 18 month.

She told me that she never sleeps with anyone on a first date.

I later found out she lied and slept with most on her first date

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yes and i blocked him as soon as i got home. Yes it was that good.

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

"Yes and 10 years"

I can certainly see why

who could possibly exist such a gorgeous lady I have to keep going back for more and more

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

"Yes. Tomorrow we have our 6th anniversary. "

Happy anniversary beautiful

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

"Yes - and bearing in mind the nature of the site - I’m guessing the proportion will be quite high?

When I was young the general rule among lads was that if a girl slept with you on a first date she was a slag - and therefore not worthy of a relationship.

I’m hoping modern young men aren’t such pricks! "

I so remember you who could possibly forget the most gorgeous sexy woman on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong this

If you both like sex and are attracted to each other just do it!!

Don't make it into a bigger thing

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

"Yes, still going 5 years and 9 months on. "

Well that's exactly 69 months I got a feeling 69 was you special sexy folks main position the whole time

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By *inyppMan
over a year ago

watertown

Does it count if my only one of us did lol?? I took my then girlfriend on our first date and when it ended she asked me to drop her at her ex boyfriends apartment - and to come back and pick her up the next day. I of course obeyed - and we repeated that many times our first year dating. We are married now 30 years and could not be happier !!

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

"We both have numerous times before we met each other. Together we had sex 1st night that was 10 yrs ago next week"

Happy happy anniversary

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

"Yes, ten years later still going strong

That must be because you exsteamly folks both give each other a very very very strong sex drive

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

"Can’t remember ever going on a date and not having sex. I don’t date any more

I got a feeling you still have sex every chance you get from you knowing how very sexually gratifying you are to anybody & everybody that's lucky enough to be your liver

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

"Can’t remember ever going on a date and not having sex. I don’t date any more

I got a feeling you still have sex every chance you get from you knowing how very sexually gratifying you are to anybody & everybody that's lucky enough to be your LOVER

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

"Who’s had sex on a first date? And how long did the relationship last?"

Secrets are not always a bad thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have sex on a first date, try before you buy. Avoids disappointment further down line I found from experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always have sex on a first date, try before you buy. Avoids disappointment further down line I found from experience. "

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