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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looking through a couples photos I noticed some were taken inside a church, including one of the woman giving the man oral sex. Personally I find this very disrespectful, I'm not particularly religious but I think some people need to know where to draw the line.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

For some its the ultimate taboo!

If you're not religious, why would it matter? Priests have oral sex in churches all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt members here really represent the Christian community

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Didn't realise I had to be religious for it to effect me, would they do it in a mosque? Doubt it

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Didn't realise I had to be religious for it to effect me, would they do it in a mosque? Doubt it "

You never know! It's unlikely though as mosques usually have people in, whereas a lot of churches are left open and unattended.

It's entirely up to you whether you find it offensive, but others won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not religious so it's fair game as far as I'm concerned...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fair game? People go to churches for spiritual guidance and to be close to their god. I guess some people have different morals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair game? People go to churches for spiritual guidance and to be close to their god. I guess some people have different morals"

Morality is subjective though and the line drawn by one person will differ from that of someone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Clearly

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Are we sure it was a church? Maybe a museum

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Fair game? People go to churches for spiritual guidance and to be close to their god. I guess some people have different morals

Morality is subjective though and the line drawn by one person will differ from that of someone else."

This. I am an atheist, and believe that the Christian church (as an institution) has done a lot to be ashamed about. I wouldn't ever shag or do other stuff in a church as I don't want to get caught by the little old dear doing the flowers, not because I think they deserve any respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she was just worshipping the guys dick!

Each to their own i say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Little old dear doing the flowers?'

...resists a comment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you dont have to be religious to show a bit of respect

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"you dont have to be religious to show a bit of respect"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"you dont have to be religious to show a bit of respect"

Indeed!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I think it shows no respect at all....and no, I am not religious, it just doesn't sit right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didn't realise I had to be religious for it to effect me, would they do it in a mosque? Doubt it "

As only men are admitted into a mosque....... well, that's a whole different 'diversion' for this thread, innit...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Didn't realise I had to be religious for it to effect me, would they do it in a mosque? Doubt it

As only men are admitted into a mosque....... well, that's a whole different 'diversion' for this thread, innit...

Women are allowed in mosques. They worship in seperate areas but thats the only difference.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Maybe she was just worshipping the guys dick!

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By *exki11enWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"you dont have to be religious to show a bit of respect"

Threads like this just show you who to avoid. People who have no regard for anything but what they want to do, regardless of who else it affects.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking through a couples photos I noticed some were taken inside a church, including one of the woman giving the man oral sex. Personally I find this very disrespectful, I'm not particularly religious but I think some people need to know where to draw the line."

Get a grip ffs. If something like this effected your delicate self enough to post this then you need to be taking a closer look at yourself. Disrespectful you say. Yet its ok for you to be disrespectful towards said couple on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My delicate self? Oh you really don't quite understand do you dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't go to church or anything but still have respect for all it offers. Some people rely on spiritual guidance to get them through some very tough times. Sex anywhere religous is a no no in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit I would not have sex in consecrated ground and certainly not casual sex it would seem so unrespectful to God and I may not go to church but I hope I am a christian albeit a sex swinging one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For some its the ultimate taboo!

If you're not religious, why would it matter? Priests have oral sex in churches all the time."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, its not ok to suck a guy off in church, but its ok to kiss a bishops ring in church??

Sheesh, i wish they would make their minds up!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Is it wrong to have sex in church ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely part of the thought process before you have sex outside your home is how much offence you would cause if you were caught?

Even if you personally have no moral or spiritual attachment to a building, you have to respect others beliefs.

I am an atheist, but out of respect for people I would not do something that would be deemed incredibly offensive in their important place. Church, mosque or temple.

Just because it may not offend you, does not mean you have carte Blanche to rub it in the faces of other people by deliberately doing something that will upset them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Agree wholeheartedly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didn't realise I had to be religious for it to effect me, would they do it in a mosque? Doubt it

As only men are admitted into a mosque....... well, that's a whole different 'diversion' for this thread, innit...

Women are allowed in mosques. They worship in seperate areas but thats the only difference."

Yes, they are allowed into the building but not into the Holy parts as Mosques are more of a community centre than just a church/prayer room. The part that would equate to a church is strictly off-limits to women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didn't realise I had to be religious for it to effect me, would they do it in a mosque? Doubt it "

im sure people who do it in a church would also do it in a mosque if they was as easy to get into

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, hopefully there was some water left in the font for the gal to rinse her mouth out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely part of the thought process before you have sex outside your home is how much offence you would cause if you were caught?

Even if you personally have no moral or spiritual attachment to a building, you have to respect others beliefs.

I am an atheist, but out of respect for people I would not do something that would be deemed incredibly offensive in their important place. Church, mosque or temple.

Just because it may not offend you, does not mean you have carte Blanche to rub it in the faces of other people by deliberately doing something that will upset them."

shagging in a public place my seem offensive and upset people who happen to walk by and see you yet you have dogging as a interest

whats thew difference between fucking in someones local woods where they regular walk their dog and fucking in a church, both will offend someone so why dont you feel it right to offend religious people but everyone else dont matter

and before anyone says it yes i know the woods is outside and a church is a building i ment on a morral level whats the difference

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton

Why can't you have sex in a church - or a mosque- or a synogogue etc? I can't remember reading in the Bible that it's forbidden and that's packed full of do's and don'ts, particularly the Old Testament. We were all made to have sex after all, so it needn't be disrespectful.

I woudn't actually do it mind, but I don't think you'd be showered with brimstone and fire if you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely part of the thought process before you have sex outside your home is how much offence you would cause if you were caught?

Even if you personally have no moral or spiritual attachment to a building, you have to respect others beliefs.

I am an atheist, but out of respect for people I would not do something that would be deemed incredibly offensive in their important place. Church, mosque or temple.

Just because it may not offend you, does not mean you have carte Blanche to rub it in the faces of other people by deliberately doing something that will upset them.

shagging in a public place my seem offensive and upset people who happen to walk by and see you yet you have dogging as a interest

and before anyone says it yes i know the woods is outside and a church is a building i ment on a morral level whats the difference "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seriously you're asking what's the difference? Because places of religion to some people are their safe haven, why should that be desecrated? If you had house party at home would you let people fuck in your children's bedroom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seriously you're asking what's the difference? Because places of religion to some people are their safe haven, why should that be desecrated? If you had house party at home would you let people fuck in your children's bedroom? "

Lol, i think there is a WORLD of difference between a church and my kids bedroom!! For one thing, there ain't no priest allowed in their room!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'm not religious but I do respect other people's beliefs , morals and values.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No he said he wouldnt do it as he wouldnt want to offend someone, yet shagging in public will offend people if they walk by and see you

i was just wondering why he felt it was ok to offend job bloggs public by shagging where they could see you but not a religious person

of course i recognise the difference in the places i have alreay said that im just curious how people decide who they are willing to risk offending ands who they dont want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didn't realise I had to be religious for it to effect me, would they do it in a mosque? Doubt it

As only men are admitted into a mosque....... well, that's a whole different 'diversion' for this thread, innit...

Women are allowed in mosques. They worship in seperate areas but thats the only difference.

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not for everything it isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why can't you have sex in a church - or a mosque- or a synogogue etc? I can't remember reading in the Bible that it's forbidden and that's packed full of do's and don'ts, particularly the Old Testament. We were all made to have sex after all, so it needn't be disrespectful.

I woudn't actually do it mind, but I don't think you'd be showered with brimstone and fire if you do.

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while having sex with a husband or wife may not be deemed a sin i think i am pretty sure most reglions would take a dim view of swinging even the ones that allow more than one wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering most churches are built on or near sites dedicated to pagan celtic, roman or anglo saxon deities, a fair few associated with sex and fertility...

Couples wanting children used to have sex and spend the night within the giant at Cerne Abbas in order to improve their fertility and their chances... there shouldn't be anything wrong with having inoffensive (or should I say undetected) sex on hallowed ground.

Wolf

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive had sex in a church in cambridge and when we where kids(16+) we where always shagging in the grave yard.

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By *arwensReturnCouple
over a year ago

darwen

ok so i must say i agree that i feel it is inapproriate to have your dick sucked in church and take a pic again i am not overally religious but i feel its just something you dont do HOWEVER, i also feel it is wrong to start a forum post about a certain persons pictures as i knew who you were talking about the minute i read this and i believe fab is a big believer in not pin pointing people out and i feel this has. Ok we dont agree but can you not rant it out with your hubbi or wife get over it and move on instead of telling everyone else and if the couple saw this i feel they would be a little upset they were being talked about.

It is up to them what they do and choose to do and being in the positions we are all in who are we to be spectical really there lives not ours.......no offence ment just saying

Charlie xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres many things that happen in church that are disrespectfull to the church but it goes on. As a god botherer of some 20 years i have seen many sacraligious events take place in church. I have looked into and studied a range of religions,trying to find something to replace the christianty i was brought up with, all are a nonsence. With sience so close to prooving the beginings of the universe religion,all of them , has surley no grounds or proof to continue on.

The church is coming apart and now with the exceptance of gay marrages is makign itself look stupid,,,,Leviticus 18:22 'Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman; that is detestable. so how does one consumate a male/male marrage?. I may be wrong but without consumating the marrage does it not make it nul and void. So isnt the church messing itself up by allowing same sex marrages and excepting gay priests.

The bible, what ever name you give it can be interprited in many ways no passage or verse have ever read says dont have sex in a church.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair game? People go to churches for spiritual guidance and to be close to their god. "

I thought God is supposed to be omnipresent. Church or no church, every time you have a wank he's right there!

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

This is really disturbing. I am not particularly religious but I do people in respecting other people's religions an sensitivities. That is assign f enlightenment and civilisation in our times. No, having sex in a church is not cool! As much as some people here rationalize it, it's not cool. Why, oh why, does one have to do that? It's not necessary.

The fact that you are free to do whatever you like, as per our human right, does not mean you have to do it at the expense of another person or group's right to the same basic rights you are entitled to.

This is like racially abusing someone and then saying you didn't mean it like that even if you said. As far as I am concerned, the basic sign of civilization and enlightenment is being open minded enough to respect other people's preferences and religions. Religion is not perfect but it's here to stay and you don't have to be religious but please show some respect!!

My two pence on the subject.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well given half the chance we would love to do some pics in a church - as a previous poster said they were often built on pagan sites , and it's the whole thing about it being wrong that makes it so right !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

imagine if that cock had the word 'putin' on it and it was in russia.

spetsnaz units would have crashed through every pane of glass and helicopters would have circled ready to fire!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Religion is not perfect but it's here to stay and you don't have to be religious but please show some respect!!"

Why?

They dont show me and my views respect when they knock on my door trying to push their views down my throat on my own door stop and make me get to the point i have to shut the door in their faces because a polite "sorry but i have no interest in religion" isnt good enough for them to just go away and they feel the need to try and engage me in religious chat anyway

where their respect towards my beliefs there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"shagging in a public place my seem offensive and upset people who happen to walk by and see you yet you have dogging as a interest

and before anyone says it yes i know the woods is outside and a church is a building i ment on a morral level whats the difference "

Read my post again, at no point do I say its worse because its a church. I said its a matter of offending people and whether you think its worth the risk. That can be in a church, in the woods, in an alley.

As someone else pointed out in another post, it would not be right to let people fuck in a childs bedroom. Using the argument that its just a room, why not? Simply because the fun you may get is not worth the upset / offence it may cause.

As for fucking in the woods, its the difference between fucking IN the woods and fucking on the path through the woods.

I love sex, its great. I don't love it to the point that I lose all respect for other peoples personal space and levels of supposed decency.

At the end of the day, everyone sets their own moral code, irrespective of laws. Its up to you as a person to decide whether other people having different morals is justification enough for you to force yours upon them.

Two wrongs don't make a right. The church putting leaflets through your door does not give you the right to make them clean up your cum shots.

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By *33dfulthingsMan
over a year ago

london

"I'm not religious so it's fair game as far as I'm concerned..."

Mmm interesting point. What church do you go to and when can I meet you there

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Considering most churches are built on or near sites dedicated to pagan celtic, roman or anglo saxon deities, a fair few associated with sex and fertility...

Wolf

The amusing thing about the Cerne Abbas giant is that it was carved by 14th century monks at the nearby Cerne Abbas monastery. It's not pagan at all! I wonder what those monks were hinting at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok so i must say i agree that i feel it is inapproriate to have your dick sucked in church and take a pic again i am not overally religious but i feel its just something you dont do HOWEVER, i also feel it is wrong to start a forum post about a certain persons pictures as i knew who you were talking about the minute i read this and i believe fab is a big believer in not pin pointing people out and i feel this has. Ok we dont agree but can you not rant it out with your hubbi or wife get over it and move on instead of telling everyone else and if the couple saw this i feel they would be a little upset they were being talked about.

It is up to them what they do and choose to do and being in the positions we are all in who are we to be spectical really there lives not ours.......no offence ment just saying

Charlie xxx"

I have no idea whose profile this is and even if I did I think the OP is justified in starting the thread. If people want to display images that may offend others that's their perrogative. The OP has not given any indication as far as I can see to reveal their identity. Not sure why you think this thread is a problem. I find it a bit annoying when people post suggesting what you have. At least this subject has generated some interest and is a bit different to the "why don't people meet me" or "rate my profile" threads.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

" Religion is not perfect but it's here to stay and you don't have to be religious but please show some respect!!

Why?

where their respect towards my beliefs there

So your reaction to that is go have sex in their place of worship. That's a bit extreme in context, don't you think?

As a previous poster has put on here, because they shove letters in your letter box does not make it okay for them to clean up people's cumshots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my sort of thing but it isnt any more disrespectful than goin shaggin in a park or woods at night where families have been enjoying a day out and picnic just hours before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dunno why some people have had a pop at the op here

its gonna boil down to personal choice i suppose. you either respect a place enough to not do it or you dont respect it enough and do it

im not religious but i respect a place of worship like the church enough to not use it like the back alley of some club lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read somewhere some years ago that a vicer let a porn film be made in his charch because they paid for the roof to be fixed and for the day to day running

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it was their wedding night and couldn't afford a honeymoon....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess they are not for you then? each to his own every couple that has sex or flashes etc. in a public place is at risk of offending someone.

Church, changing room, pub or club, back row of the cinema, car.... makes no difference if someone sees, and doesn't like it it's offensive, if on the other hand someone sees and enjoys it it's erotic...

Not actually had sex inside a church, but have in the entrance porch when younger (as did most of the other young couples in the village).

Each of us draws our own line, and others choose if they want to associate at that level or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am an atheist, i think that all religion has a lot to answer for, its the single most cause of war, hatred and discontent going. Yet i fully respect peoples views on it, their beliefs and faith, so would never disrespect their faith by behaving in a disrespectful way in a church,mosque or synagogue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but it would creep me out having sex there ... and if you think there's a after life and ghosts .... no telling who's looking on .. and the coffin thing sex on top inside not my thing .. oooo i am not into all that stuff ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Religion is not perfect but it's here to stay and you don't have to be religious but please show some respect!!

Why?

where their respect towards my beliefs there

So your reaction to that is go have sex in their place of worship. That's a bit extreme in context, don't you think?

As a previous poster has put on here, because they shove letters in your letter box does not make it okay for them to clean up people's cumshots. "

Nope, not in any of my posts have i said i think its ok to fuck in a church

All i have said is why should i show them respect when they dont show it me

I personally wouldnt shag in a church but thats not a respect towards religion thing thats because i respect people in general and wouldnt shag anywhere where a innocent onlooker may see me

As i have said in previous posts i dont understand why people feel you have to respect peoples religion when it comes to sex but feel its ok to shag in public places where innocent walkers by could see you so showing no respect to the fact they may be offended by seeing people have sex at all

respect towards where you have sex should cover everyone if you have it surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say that there's a huge proportion of people who were brought up within specific religions who find it highly erotic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd say that there's a huge proportion of people who were brought up within specific religions who find it highly erotic. "

Brought up to find it highly erotic?

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By *obinhood-maidmarionCouple
over a year ago

Benidorm

"dunno why some people have had a pop at the op here

its gonna boil down to personal choice i suppose. you either respect a place enough to not do it or you dont respect it enough and do it

im not religious but i respect a place of worship like the church enough to not use it like the back alley of some club lol "

its not so much as "a pop" at the op for thier views, but the fact that when anyone has a differing view to them they seem to be annoyed with them and try and re inforce thier views to somehow make them more worthy.

For what its worth Shagging or sexual acts in a church is no different to doing it in a woods, car park, pub toilet or indeed anywhere else in public. Just because a church has "religious" connections the people who would possibly catch you at it would be no more disgruntled than a graveyard or picnic area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol, i think there is a WORLD of difference between a church and my kids bedroom!! For one thing, there ain't no priest allowed in their room!"

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By *uggers nemesisCouple
over a year ago

london

you dont have to be religous for it to affect you,but why does it affect you? the church is about the most corrupt business there is within capitilism,why would someone having sex in a church be beyond acceptable,surely the killing of millions in the name of a god is far more unacceptable than someone getting a blowjob,especially in a place rampant with paedophillia and allsorts of perverts dressed in the cloth

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Maybe everyone should go through Fab, starting forum topics pointing out anything in any image that they deem to be personally offensive.

There are an awful lot of points to draw the line, but I suspect that the majority of them vary with each individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Considering most churches are built on or near sites dedicated to pagan celtic, roman or anglo saxon deities, a fair few associated with sex and fertility...

Wolf

this! I'm a pagan so sex is ritual and a lot of our worship takes place in woodland areas etc... A church is just a building. Spiritual guidance comes from the person. You can't offend a building... Would only be disrespectful if there were other people in there IMO.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

" Religion is not perfect but it's here to stay and you don't have to be religious but please show some respect!!

Why?

where their respect towards my beliefs there

So your reaction to that is go have sex in their place of worship. That's a bit extreme in context, don't you think?

As a previous poster has put on here, because they shove letters in your letter box does not make it okay for them to clean up people's cumshots.

Nope, not in any of my posts have i said i think its ok to fuck in a church

All i have said is why should i show them respect when they dont show it me

I personally wouldnt shag in a church but thats not a respect towards religion thing thats because i respect people in general and wouldnt shag anywhere where a innocent onlooker may see me

respect towards where you have sex should cover everyone if you have it surely?"

No, you didn't directly say its OK to fuck in a church but that is what this debate is about and that is what you are supporting.

Comparing having sex in church to another public place is not directly comparable. An alleyway or a forest is not directly comparable to church as it is not generally seen as holy places by people. But I do agree that having sex in places that people and kids walk (eg. A walkway) is inappropriate. But I highly doubt people go into forests to have sex just so they can offend others. In most cases, they tend to favour secluded spots where they can't be seen.

And to answer your last question, I agree wholeheartedly! That's been my point all along. What do you think I have been talking about?People should have respect for others within the context of their human right to have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Considering most churches are built on or near sites dedicated to pagan celtic, roman or anglo saxon deities, a fair few associated with sex and fertility...

Wolf

Sx"

If you're not offending people then you're not offending religion as it's only a construct of fuzzy ideas to understand a supernatural problem

Hercules and Cerunnos to the rescue

Wolf

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over a year ago

Having sex in a church is really no different to dogging in a car, wood, park, etc. If you get caught in one of these places, it's likely going to upset someone. Just as some people go to a church to feel thoughtful and safe, just as many take a walk in the woods to clear their heads and feel at one with nature. Both spaces are 'sacred' to people, if that's how you want to see it.

It's interesting that some posters here view a church as much worse just because 'faith' is involved. Why does religious belief get to be put on a pedestal? Especially by atheists, it just seems a bit daft.

You say 'Oh, have some respect!' yet I don't see anyone making threads about how disrespectful dogging is to families, dog walkers and the nature loving community.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as the religious lessons ended yet !!!!!

Reading back its quiet clear there are apposing views on the morals of having a shag in church and we have to respect those views in same way that other place might offend to

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over a year ago

"Yeh totally disrespectful and sexual deviance at its best. So would it be ok to do it in a children's play park or nursery when empty. Imbeciles !!!!! Have some fcuking respect for others morals and beliefs "

I have actually done it in play park but I was barely more than a kid myself.

My point is, okay taking pictures will probably offend some who look, but if no one is there to see it, no one can be offended. Morals and belief are subjective. I'm offended by your foul language where others might not be. Also preaching about sexual deviance on a swinging website?!

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over a year ago

"Considering most churches are built on or near sites dedicated to pagan celtic, roman or anglo saxon deities, a fair few associated with sex and fertility...

Wolf

If you're not offending people then you're not offending religion as it's only a construct of fuzzy ideas to understand a supernatural problem

Hercules and Cerunnos to the rescue

Wolf

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By *heCrowAndButterflyCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"So, its not ok to suck a guy off in church, but its ok to kiss a bishops ring in church??

Sheesh, i wish they would make their minds up!

you know its the ring on the Bishops Finger and not his other ring dont you? :P

on a more serious note, am not religious in anyway myself but dont think i would find it a comfortable experience doing it in any place of worship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What complete and utter crap !

Others morals and beliefs would be offended by what we all do on here !

And the offensive tone and language plus the accusation that we are imbeciles ?

Mmmm respect is earned not just given !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ocht wheeshed lol. :p

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

clearly whomever posted this deleted it..

strong feelings about a subject are no excuse to use that sort of language..

total loss of credibility and dilutes ones position..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time was, near enough every place of worship had a resident prostitute.

Those were simpler, daily mail, moral outrage free times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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