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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What are your instant turn offs in fab profile?

What sort if subjects would make you not even bother reading a message?

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By *rue_ColoursCouple
over a year ago

Measham

Messages like, "What u up2?"

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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If a guy has in his profile that he loves giving oral then I know to avoid as we aren't compatible

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Oh and if someone asks what I'm in to? then I tend to finish up the conversation as I don't think anyone has a specific tick list to answer that question do they?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Messages like, "What u up2?""

Makes sense as there's clearly no effort made

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh and if someone asks what I'm in to? then I tend to finish up the conversation as I don't think anyone has a specific tick list to answer that question do they?"

Yeah I understand that. Its too open ended a question which makes it hard to answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys who say they are amazing at oral , all guys think this ! Ive only met one who is and I married him !! That wasnt the only reason !

Guys that say they are heavy cummers.

Guys that ask "do you squirt "on a first message .

And more of the same .

I could go on all day !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gloryhole user/ owner

Sleaze/ kink/ anon such as hoods/ darkrooms

Verifications also could be a breaker depending who they been with and what is written

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Too many things to mention but if there are multiple pictures on a single man's profile which show more of s woman's body than his it immediately puts me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the list is too long to type out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guys who say they are amazing at oral , all guys think this ! Ive only met one who is and I married him !! That wasnt the only reason !

Guys that say they are heavy cummers.

Guys that ask "do you squirt "on a first message .

And more of the same .

I could go on all day !! "

Haha that all makes sense. I like to thing I'm fairly good at oral but I guess it depends if people were being honest with me . And stuff like that does seem odd, i reckon single women get the brunt of the weird messages on here

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Profiles that are about 15 pages long, and looks like filling out a form for a job vacancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Copy and paste messages and people who put up statuses saying "out of messages, kik me)

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Copy and paste messages and people who put up statuses saying "out of messages, kik me) "

This and many more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles that are literally just a Kik/SC address or just have “X”… yeah very helpful on how to approach, thanks

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By *illyyrosexWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"no blacks no asians whites only not racist just not our thing"

it's one thing to have preferences in what you're attracted, it's another thing to be putting stuff like "whites only, not racist honest!!!" on your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""no blacks no asians whites only not racist just not our thing"

it's one thing to have preferences in what you're attracted, it's another thing to be putting stuff like "whites only, not racist honest!!!" on your profile"

Its definitely an odd one

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By *inkyeroticaCouple
over a year ago

Ampthill


"Guys that ask "do you squirt "on a first message."

It would take one hell of an opening message to make that happen, and from the majority of messages we’ve received from single guys, impossible! Mind you, our profile states more than once that we are not looking for single guys, so if they can’t read then a talent for writing is probably too much to hope for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rudeness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you up too messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One liner messages asking free now? Wot u up 2?….. expecting an instant answer…… and dicks who think they have the right to everything….. then there’s the pics of a str*ngled dick bulging in all directions xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married. All dick pics. Generic " looking for fun" profile.

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By *heekyflickWoman
over a year ago

LINCOLN

The privacy and Sydney university blurbs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The privacy and Sydney university blurbs..."

Haha I find these hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The privacy and Sydney university blurbs..."

Oh yeah especially if only thing on the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negativities

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

For me asking for 'pic Fabs' is an instant turn off

If your hot the pic/profile with speak for itself

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london

Dick as the profile pic..

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By *heekyflickWoman
over a year ago

LINCOLN


"The privacy and Sydney university blurbs...

Oh yeah especially if only thing on the profile "

So many think it's enough to make them stand out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The privacy and Sydney university blurbs..."

This! I tend to give those a wide berth.

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


""no blacks no asians whites only not racist just not our thing"

it's one thing to have preferences in what you're attracted, it's another thing to be putting stuff like "whites only, not racist honest!!!" on your profile"

Yasssss. This so much lol. Like it’s so gauche. Just say what race/ethnicity you’re into.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bullshit ...

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

Wants using and abusing, rough sex. That's me out, couldn't do it.

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Theres a few forbus.

- Poor 1 liner message in txt spk

- Addressing Bunny only

- Assuming they're doing us a favour meeting us

- Crass username

- So need to upload my balls type status

We'll not go on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The privacy and Sydney university blurbs...

Oh yeah especially if only thing on the profile

So many think it's enough to make them stand out lol"

Exactly along with their 30 cock pics from same angle lol

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By *heekyflickWoman
over a year ago

LINCOLN

I also dislike the chat that says such a chilled out person yet the status is a complete rant

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By *heekyflickWoman
over a year ago

LINCOLN


"The privacy and Sydney university blurbs...

Oh yeah especially if only thing on the profile

So many think it's enough to make them stand out lol

Exactly along with their 30 cock pics from same angle lol"

I Dislike cock n fanny shots on a message but when the profile pics show its taken on the loo etc

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

nuneaton

Our favorite is when we get asked if we’re in a certain location or saying you close by do you want to meet as we must appear near by , we’re not looking for single guys but seeing as we’re in Cornwall or within 5 miles we will make an exception

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, also statuses of those who beg for membership codes

And silhouettes with no pics, not photo verified, but have three or 4 verifications from ‘meets’

And those who just say ‘ask’… you’re just baiting for messages to feel popular

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester


""no blacks no asians whites only not racist just not our thing"

it's one thing to have preferences in what you're attracted, it's another thing to be putting stuff like "whites only, not racist honest!!!" on your profile"

I (male) don't mind this on a profile. At least it saves us time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any message that starts with "wanna f*ck?" or any that attach a succession of dick pic's. Both types are instantly deleted.

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Messages like, wat u up 2, meet now I'm the best oral giver ever.

Stuff like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad grammar and photos of guys keeping their socks on!

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By *odieCI5Man
over a year ago

Solihull

Smoking a joint, just makes me think, ooooo I bet her net curtains are filthy ha ha

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By *ouisebottomTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Instant turn off for me is when they say thry are in to safe sex only but then all of their pictures are of them having sex with no condom on with different women. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Instant turn off for me is when they say thry are in to safe sex only but then all of their pictures are of them having sex with no condom on with different women. X"

Can't lie this one made me laugh

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By *randmrsbigcCouple
over a year ago

North east


"Bad grammar and photos of guys keeping their socks on!"

Or dirty background as in ashtrays, dirty pots, and laundry scattered about. It's not hard to tidy up before getting your cock/vagina out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When their growler looks like a hedgehog that's been run over by a tram.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The copy paste about being "publicly traded". Proves they have no clue and will believe just about anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poorly painted skirting boards, 1970s carpets, MFI furniture sofas bought in the DFS sale, avocado bathroom suites with pine bath panels and horrendous teeth.

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By *ulkuriMan
over a year ago

London

Bad grammar, long list of "don't even message me if xxxxxxx", the "no/only black/white" and then the height requirement thing.

So basically negative lists and racism

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

So it looks like this thread has turned in to slagging single men (again ) so, in the interest of parity here are a few that put me off.

Single women/couples - I don't want to see spunk dribbling out your fanny. Or arse. Or your face covered in it.

Couples - Don't just show pics of the female, other couples need to see the body type the man has. The important job so can't show him excuse is bullshit. I'd hope his employer doesn't know what he looks like naked and you can blur/ pixelate any tattoos.

Females in general - Don't just have close-up tit and arse shots up. I know it's probably because you think you're fat but let me be the judge of that. I may like your proportions.

I'll stop now.

Frank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bad grammar, long list of "don't even message me if xxxxxxx", the "no/only black/white" and then the height requirement thing.

So basically negative lists and racism "

Just as an aside it’s incorrect grammar?

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By *odgerNbadgerCouple
over a year ago

Chepstow

"Can i fuk ur mrs"

Saying "I won't tell if you dont lol" when we say we only play as a couple

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By *ulkuriMan
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Instant turn off for me is when they say thry are in to safe sex only but then all of their pictures are of them having sex with no condom on with different women. X

Can't lie this one made me laugh "

Here safe sex means we haven't exchanged phone numbers

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By *ulkuriMan
over a year ago

London


"Bad grammar, long list of "don't even message me if xxxxxxx", the "no/only black/white" and then the height requirement thing.

So basically negative lists and racism

Just as an aside it’s incorrect grammar?"

Oh, I don't need to worry about that, as I'm one walking "instant turn off"

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

420 friendly is always an instant turn off. As is men in a couple allowed to play solo - so you're a single guy then?

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By *ouisebottomTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Instant turn off for me is when they say thry are in to safe sex only but then all of their pictures are of them having sex with no condom on with different women. X

Can't lie this one made me laugh

Here safe sex means we haven't exchanged phone numbers"

Haha or if you use your heels with the dildo on

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Bad grammar and photos of guys keeping their socks on!

Or dirty background as in ashtrays, dirty pots, and laundry scattered about. It's not hard to tidy up before getting your cock/vagina out. "

Oh yeah and this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't realise we could be pedantic about spelling and grammar. Your instead of you're makes me squirm. In a really bad way.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Bad grammar shortened words…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A massive first message telling me what he thinks he is going to try to do to me.. Turns my stomach... Especially when they haven't even said hello, have clearly not read my profile nor shown me anything close to a face picture... Deleted unread... Seriously if I read it I'd puke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who has 4 20 friendly on their profile is an instant no for me

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

In addition to the turn-offs already mentioned, I would like to add when people seem desperate by posting daily updates about their availability. Puts me off.

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

420 friendly isn’t going to impress us.

Rubbish messages which show they’ve not even glanced at our profile.

Photos taken in rooms that are filthy.

Single man profiles showing photos of them with numerous women especially when they’re bareback shots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In addition to the turn-offs already mentioned, I would like to add when people seem desperate by posting daily updates about their availability. Puts me off. "

Posting phone numbers or even kik and snapchat, publicly too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In addition to the turn-offs already mentioned, I would like to add when people seem desperate by posting daily updates about their availability. Puts me off. "

Quite agree but would say I am available for weddings funerals and the odd bar mitzvah!

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham

420 friendly I didn't know what it was until I googled it.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Brown stockings, flipflops, mini-mouse eyebrows, cakey-makeup, superiority, tic-tockers.. and others.

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By *weetncurvyWoman
over a year ago

Perth


"Anyone who has 4 20 friendly on their profile is an instant no for me "

This for me too. Also meet posts in local updates looking for "anything anywhere" actually make me feel rather nauseous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"apply within"...eh no.

420 friendly...still no.

48 dick pics... 48 too many..no.

VWE or Heavy Cummer....if that's all you have to offer....no again.

Makes us feel we are very fussy , but too many people think this is instashag!

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Looking for bbw

Looking for sugar babies or milfs

And then all the usual stuff already mentioned

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By *un4all1977Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Copy and paste messages and people who put up statuses saying "out of messages, kik me) "

How the hell can you be out of messages of fab.....?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Looking for a mature woman (when they are the same age as you!) - does this mean they are still rather immature at that age?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys saying they are looking for someone because they are bored

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

People that say they want to get to know you in the conversation but make no effort to chat and don't ask any questions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men in ladies underwear.

Men with 20 almost identical dick pics, I’d prefer no pic than that.

People who have the “Sydney University” disclaimer in their profile. (Hate to break it to you, that disclaimer ain’t worth shit)

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

420 friendly is a block.

"Professional couple" is really starting to grate. Who gives a shit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Odd socks.

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By *exy Ruby 100 300Couple
over a year ago

unknown

Men wearing ladies knickers instant turn off Ruby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People asking for photos despite the fact we have several displayed, when they have none on their profile.

Or if a face pic is important to you say so in your profile not after 45 minutes of chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh one more from me, Facebook/Twitter/Insta/OF accounts! What’s the point in posting them? (The social media stuff) Yeah let’s tell all your mates who you’re fucking three nights a week, eh?

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By *orty-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Leyland

Dick pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lie, another one. “Will add/fill in later”…

ITS BEEN THREE YEARS, SHARON! Haha

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By *KentMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

Pictures either taken in untidy rooms, or pictures taken in the toilets’

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Newton Stewart


"The privacy and Sydney university blurbs...

Oh yeah especially if only thing on the profile

So many think it's enough to make them stand out lol

Exactly along with their 30 cock pics from same angle lol"

Definitely, how are you supposed to gauge what someone looks like, his personality, dress, sense of humour and so on from nothing but numerous dick pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Odd socks."

I was d*unk give me a break

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Action shots on a single guys profile (I always wonder if they have permission to use the pics)

Anything dr*g related

All cock shots and nothing else...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The privacy and Sydney university blurbs...

Oh yeah especially if only thing on the profile

So many think it's enough to make them stand out lol

Exactly along with their 30 cock pics from same angle lol

Definitely, how are you supposed to gauge what someone looks like, his personality, dress, sense of humour and so on from nothing but numerous dick pics."

Maybe their personality is just that, a dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Action shots on a single guys profile (I always wonder if they have permission to use the pics)

Anything dr*g related

All cock shots and nothing else..."

Would you question an action shot on a single woman's profile? Men do seem to have a lot of assumptions made about them on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *angerous liasonsMan
over a year ago

Outer Space

1. Racism

2. Arrogance

3. Profile like a job description (very sexy!)

4. ‘No dicks picks please’ when profile is wall to wall boobs and fannies

Basically I like kind people

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By *ekkatransTV/TS
over a year ago

Scarborough

Messages that say are you free now, as if I’m gonna jump into bed starlight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it looks like this thread has turned in to slagging single men (again ) so, in the interest of parity here are a few that put me off.

Single women/couples - I don't want to see spunk dribbling out your fanny. Or arse. Or your face covered in it.

Couples - Don't just show pics of the female, other couples need to see the body type the man has. The important job so can't show him excuse is bullshit. I'd hope his employer doesn't know what he looks like naked and you can blur/ pixelate any tattoos.

Females in general - Don't just have close-up tit and arse shots up. I know it's probably because you think you're fat but let me be the judge of that. I may like your proportions.

I'll stop now.

Frank "

Well said frank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock and action shot pics! Judt no, no no nonono! Ok so you have a twinkie...good for you. And yes, you've had sex....well done!!

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

How’s you?

Babe

What you been up2

Morning

Evening

Treating M like a free sex worker.

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

Those looking for 8’’+. I mean how loose must they be, mine would be rattling round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for a unicorn to join us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How's you?

What you into?

I want be balls deep in your ass...

Calling my pussy a cunt...

Yeah I m not tall but we re all the same laid down...

He can watch...

Read my veris...

My off putting list is endless to be honest

Wow a lot puts me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isn’t enough room on this page for the things that put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many of what people have said above.

I really hate it when a guy says he’ll make a woman squirt, if she’s never experienced it. You just know he has one move, and if it doesn’t work on you he’ll get pissed off and blame you.

Men who claim they’re really skilled and experienced, usually means if you ask them to do X instead of Y, you’ll be told that it worked on all their other partners and again, they’ll get huffy.

Photos where you see mostly a woman + their cock are a huge turn off. I’m not interested in women, why would I want to see a woman? I want to see what the man looks like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those looking for 8’’+. I mean how loose must they be, mine would be rattling round "
Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Self entitledness, anything rude or biggotted, bitchyneas, nothing but close up pics of genitals, sissy guys or Dom girls, no willingness to play bare, people wanting role play. Xx

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford


"Those looking for 8’’+. I mean how loose must they be, mine would be rattling round Lol"

Hope that a laugh at my comment not my closer to average manhood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant messages after the first saying your fake cause you won't meet at the drop of a single "meet tonight - fuck you hard" message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of No's

Graphic pics of sexual activities

Dirty backgrounds in pics

Off course no description in profiles

Not photoverified at least.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Agree with most of what people have already said although (as we have one) no problem with a fairly long profile (guess there is long and looooooong).

To add to the list:

1. Single female profiles that turn out to be couples profiles as she doesn’t actually meet without the other half (so have a couple profile).

2. Verification summary but no veris displayed so you can actually read them (strikes us as suspicious).

3. Year old(er) profiles with “fill in later”

4. And to repeat a biggie that others have said above - all photos are close ups! We do want to see the whole of you not just your genitals!

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

A gaping arshole

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Copy and paste repetitive messages and a instant cock pic

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Facial hair.

One line messages.

When you post in a forum guys that feel the need to message you rather than posting on the forum.

Guys who say they are straight but their verifications are all from guys.

Rudeness

Couples but only the guy wants to meet

I could go on all day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Capital letters..

NO NEED TO SHOUT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

When you post in a forum guys that feel the need to message you rather than posting on the forum.

L"

Oh I hate this one!! I wish fab would remove it as an option.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Action shots on a single guys profile (I always wonder if they have permission to use the pics)

Anything dr*g related

All cock shots and nothing else...

Would you question an action shot on a single woman's profile? Men do seem to have a lot of assumptions made about them on here"

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The utterly inpenetrable "war and peace" single female profiles containing 24 paragraphs of vein popping demands, dislikes and entitled arrogance followed by "now that's out of the way I am a really nice, chilled out girl honestly"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The utterly inpenetrable "war and peace" single female profiles containing 24 paragraphs of vein popping demands, dislikes and entitled arrogance followed by "now that's out of the way I am a really nice, chilled out girl honestly" "

Hahaha, brilliant !

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By *MCMan
over a year ago

London/EA

Incapable to hold conversation

People who think because you’re a single male they can try get you to jump through hoops.. bore off.

Double standards

Dirty backgrounds in pictures - okay it’s not OF but come on..

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By *erandHerManCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

For me (the male here) I find the biggest turn off has got to be SC filters. We send face pictures then BOOM you receive one back with dog or cat ears on or bloody sparkles on their face. Really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A gaping arshole"

Far too many on here, not a pretty sight lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rudeness and bad language. Yuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The term BBC, or BWC, I don’t care what colour you are

Degrading comments like slut or whore

Pictures of arseholes

Being offered money

Men with status’s saying ‘I’m horny, who wants to suck my cock’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delusional divas

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By *exy wife and her CuckCouple
over a year ago

Angus

"Im a repeater" = If you did a good enough job the first time I wouldn't need a repeat performance!

Heavy cummer = makes no difference, you'll be wearing a condom anyway.

We do have plenty more we could post...

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By *vriderMan
over a year ago

Chester

You guys are getting messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

usernames spelt wrongly, ie fiesty such and such.......discrete somebody or other

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By *ad Bod AdonisMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Long ranty profiles listing all the things they're not looking for and don't want in a message.

Not forgetting poorly worded or spelled comments about wanting a man who can string a sentence together. Oh,the irony.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lot of bitter sounding people on here to be fair lol

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Light switches

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

We are with you on this one, particularly the socks!

G&A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who clearly dont read the profile which shows a lack of detail. If you cant do the basics why would we even entertain you ?

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