FabSwingers.com forum: Body count

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does someone's body count really matter to you ? As I've came across guys who says it does amd some says it doesn't so please give your opinions on why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes no difference to me really, although I do prefer experienced xx

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By *elpful and caringMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

I prefer experience and the more experienced someone is they tend to know what they really like and really don’t like.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Makes no difference to me, but I get so much abuse for 24 verifications when I say no to someone lol. (They aren’t even all sex!) haha. So some people

Must be very offended by it lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this was going to be about the band with Ice T

Body count doesn’t matter to me as long as I am not made to feel like a number on the way to reach a target. (Yes this actually happened)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Makes no difference to me really, although I do prefer experienced xx"

I feel the same, I find some guys call women with high body counts whores well I find guys with low body counts not experienced enough as im sorry women do talk and if you are shit in bed we will tell our mates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes no difference to me what so ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter, especially on here as people are at differing stages of experimentation.

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

We don't care about each other's count. Although we have had a conversation about whether Mr has slept with more men than Mrs

But other than that, we prefer others to have had some reasonable experience, as otherwise it's back to that very disappointing dull sex feeling. But then experience doesn't always equate to skill either

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Makes no difference to me, but I get so much abuse for 24 verifications when I say no to someone lol. (They aren’t even all sex!) haha. So some people

Must be very offended by it lol x"

Wow, why men feel the need ro abuse us when we turn them down oh sorry I mean boys men domt abuse women lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I thought this was going to be about the band with Ice T

Body count doesn’t matter to me as long as I am not made to feel like a number on the way to reach a target. (Yes this actually happened)"

Oh wow sorry to hear that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We don't care about each other's count. Although we have had a conversation about whether Mr has slept with more men than Mrs

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omg I love that wish I was a fly on the wall for that convo, note to self next bf needs too be bi lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines nice and high now and if anything I prefer my partners the same but it's hardly a deal-breaker.

What about you OP? Xx

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

Some people get obsessed with being the best that their partner has ever had and get intimidated by people with high ‘body counts’. It makes no difference to me. I’m not trying to compete with everyone else, just provide the most enjoyable experience that I can.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mines nice and high now and if anything I prefer my partners the same but it's hardly a deal-breaker.

What about you OP? Xx"

Well as an ex working girl mime is very high so I have 3 lots of my personal life nunber, my working number and my total number lol but I rather someone with a high body count

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some people get obsessed with being the best that their partner has ever had and get intimidated by people with high ‘body counts’. It makes no difference to me. I’m not trying to compete with everyone else, just provide the most enjoyable experience that I can."

Aslong as you both enjoying youself, but I do like a man with a high body cpunt and it does give you a confidence boost when you get told I give then the best head they ever had lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mines nice and high now and if anything I prefer my partners the same but it's hardly a deal-breaker.

What about you OP? Xx

Well as an ex working girl mime is very high so I have 3 lots of my personal life nunber, my working number and my total number lol but I rather someone with a high body count"

Cool, can you message me please OP? Xx

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I thought this was going to be about the band with Ice T

Body count doesn’t matter to me as long as I am not made to feel like a number on the way to reach a target. (Yes this actually happened)"

Now you tell me

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

Aslong as you both enjoying youself, but I do like a man with a high body cpunt and it does give you a confidence boost when you get told I give then the best head they ever had lol "

Lol, yes, this is true. I have been told that by a woman with a high body count and was grinning like a Cheshire Cat for the rest of the week

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I thought it was perhaps about a serial killer on day release

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People have sex with whoever they want to and it's not my business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just means more experienced

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mines nice and high now and if anything I prefer my partners the same but it's hardly a deal-breaker.

What about you OP? Xx

Well as an ex working girl mime is very high so I have 3 lots of my personal life nunber, my working number and my total number lol but I rather someone with a high body count

Cool, can you message me please OP? Xx"

Of course hun x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I thought it was perhaps about a serial killer on day release

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just means more experienced

Excellent lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought this was going to be about the band with Ice T

Body count doesn’t matter to me as long as I am not made to feel like a number on the way to reach a target. (Yes this actually happened)

Now you tell me

I could make an exception just for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't matter, especially on here as people are at differing stages of experimentation.

Perfect response x

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Does someone's body count really matter to you ? As I've came across guys who says it does amd some says it doesn't so please give your opinions on why "
it does not matter to me. I have something possibly up coming and the other guy is very inexperienced and my regular go to is the opposite and has had lots of women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just another thing for people to be judged against and ridiculed. It's really sad for it to even matter when meeting someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone with a low body count, awful phase, how or why does that equate to no or little experience?

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I don't even know what my "Body Count" is.

That doesn't mean it exorbitantly high, just spread over a number of years with a healthy dose of one night stands and some opportunistic dogging experiences.

You could also add a good handful of cam experiences into the mix too!

I simply don't know how many people I've had sexual contact with!!!

Gbat

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"Well as an ex working girl mime is very high ......"

That's interesting! Are you comfortable saying more about this? Why did you stop?

I hope you don't mind me asking.

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would we all consider as high? Just interested where I fall in the spectrum.

My friend used to be a rather famous media type. Not a superstar but regionally famous. He's well over 500. I'd consider that to be on the extreme end right?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"As someone with a low body count, awful phase, how or why does that equate to no or little experience?

If you’ve only driven 1 car your entire life, we know you can drive, but we don’t know how well you could drive a different car, or a van, or dare I say in fear of offending some of the women on here, a double wide HGV.

Learning what someone likes sexually is a skill. And I’d argue a guy that’s had good sex with many woman is better at it then someone that’s only had a few

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"What would we all consider as high? Just interested where I fall in the spectrum.

My friend used to be a rather famous media type. Not a superstar but regionally famous. He's well over 500. I'd consider that to be on the extreme end right?"

500 is definitely high. I think if your a moderately attractive guy that’s got some confidence and tried to bed a lot of women 100-200 by the time your 30 isn’t that high. It’s not even 1 a month

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By *aughty2yorksCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Doesn’t make too much of a difference to us, though we do prefer people with experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines somewhere in the Region of 50+ And i don’t think thats many but have had lots of romantic encounters where other people have not liked that at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While like guys with experience and sexual confidence, for me it's more about the encounter itself than a body count.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Makes no difference to me, but I get so much abuse for 24 verifications when I say no to someone lol. (They aren’t even all sex!) haha. So some people

Must be very offended by it lol x

Wow, why men feel the need ro abuse us when we turn them down oh sorry I mean boys men domt abuse women lol "

Haha exactly..

And fab veries doesn’t = body count, for me it’s not relevant I’ve met men who have slept with loads but were rubbish and some with lower numbers who were great.

Not a deciding factor for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've spoken to some other women on here well into four figures and plenty well into three figures. I guess it depends how long you've been swinging, your interests, and how slutty your youth was. But for experienced swingers that have meets fairly regularly and the occasional club/group/party/gangbang activity then the numbers soon really rack up. 20-50 per year wouldn't be unreasonable for some members on here. Multiple that by a few years...

And greedy girls might be seeing three figures per year.

It is what it is, if you're happy it's noone else's place to judge. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Experience is about the variety of what you've done, not how many times you've done the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As someone with a low body count, awful phase, how or why does that equate to no or little experience?

Learning what someone likes sexually is a skill. And I’d argue a guy that’s had good sex with many woman is better at it then someone that’s only had a few

As long as it's never just been Wednesday night five minutes missionary couldn't I be just as experienced with one women over many years compared to 50 one nighters say?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"As someone with a low body count, awful phase, how or why does that equate to no or little experience?

Learning what someone likes sexually is a skill. And I’d argue a guy that’s had good sex with many woman is better at it then someone that’s only had a few

As long as it's never just been Wednesday night five minutes missionary couldn't I be just as experienced with one women over many years compared to 50 one nighters say?"

You’d be very experienced with that 1 woman

But you’ve only had to find out what a new partner likes once.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

High 'body counts' put us off. Less is more for us.

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

"Does someone's body count really matter to you ? As I've came across guys who says it does amd some says it doesn't so please give your opinions on why "

A large body count in a mass free 4 all suck & fuck fest is the only body count that matters to me

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

"I've spoken to some other women on here well into four figures and plenty well into three figures. I guess it depends how long you've been swinging, your interests, and how slutty your youth was. But for experienced swingers that have meets fairly regularly and the occasional club/group/party/gangbang activity then the numbers soon really rack up. 20-50 per year wouldn't be unreasonable for some members on here. Multiple that by a few years...

And greedy girls might be seeing three figures per year.

It is what it is, if you're happy it's noone else's place to judge. Xx"

I'm wondering if she's a greedy girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does someone's body count really matter to you ? As I've came across guys who says it does amd some says it doesn't so please give your opinions on why "

Not massively, although I prefer a woman with experience who knows what she enjoys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As someone with a low body count, awful phase, how or why does that equate to no or little experience?

Learning what someone likes sexually is a skill. And I’d argue a guy that’s had good sex with many woman is better at it then someone that’s only had a few

As long as it's never just been Wednesday night five minutes missionary couldn't I be just as experienced with one women over many years compared to 50 one nighters say?

You’d be very experienced with that 1 woman

But you’ve only had to find out what a new partner likes once."

But unless she tells you, how do you know what your new partner likes? You try different things with her, I'd say, which isn't difficult to work out without the need to sleep with hundreds of women, apart from specialised bedroom activities like S and M, wouldn't you say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And greedy girls might be seeing three figures per year.

It is what it is, if you're happy it's noone else's place to judge. Xx

I'm wondering if she's a greedy girl"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo 4 figures for me

95 percent male

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