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"So, my hubby loves me going off and having sex with other guys then coming home and telling him about it. I am not sure if I like this, it's hard to explain, I love the sex but hate the feeling that it's morally wrong. any advice?" If hubby is encouraging you, it’s not morally wrong. | |||
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"So, my hubby loves me going off and having sex with other guys then coming home and telling him about it. I am not sure if I like this, it's hard to explain, I love the sex but hate the feeling that it's morally wrong. any advice?" So I would question why you think it is morally wrong. I assume sex whilst hubby is present is fine in your eyes. So you could use logic to challenge your assumption. If you were having sex and hubby was in the room would that be OK? If he left the room for a drink or to use the toilet, would you need to stop or would that be OK? If that is OK, then what if he decided to take some fresh air for a few minutes outside? You can see where I am going, at what point do you draw the line, were in your head his lack of physical presence moves it from being morally OK to morally not OK. Bunny went out on Saturday on her own, had a fab time and then came back. I knew where she was going and found out who with afterwards. We have agreed do's and don'ts and she kept to those. So if you have similar boundaries and hubby is OK then the only morality is something arbitrary in your own mind. However, if that can't be resolved in your own mind then you should not do anything that makes you feel bad. | |||
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"So, my hubby loves me going off and having sex with other guys then coming home and telling him about it. I am not sure if I like this, it's hard to explain, I love the sex but hate the feeling that it's morally wrong. any advice?" Why is it morally wrong if everyone is consenting and enjoying? Unconventional to the “norm” maybe but not morally wrong Don’t worry about the labels, if you and your husband are happy and not hurting others then enjoy all you like | |||
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"But you have dos and don’t but didn’t say wether you allow your wife to fuck other men " That's because our do's and don'ts will not apply to their circumstances. Just because we find it acceptable it does not mean that they should have the exact same view. We all have our lines, my point was to try and help her use salami slicing approach to question why her line is where it is, or whether she can move that line in her own mind. | |||
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"So, my hubby loves me going off and having sex with other guys then coming home and telling him about it. I am not sure if I like this, it's hard to explain, I love the sex but hate the feeling that it's morally wrong. any advice?" When we first started meeting there would be things I would enjoy in the moment and then feel guilty about later. Accepting you can enjoy experiences and sensations that others may find questionable is part of the journey. The main thing is you both agree what is acceptable between you, safe in the knowledge that you are doing this together, no one else opinions or values matter. Working out that together doesn’t have to mean physically together in every circumstance is also a bit of a personal journey. Finding ways to connect you both, like being in the same room, watching on video, sending messages etc...all things you can try. Ultimately you’ll find something that you like or you won’t and you’ll move onto something else, just have fun exploring!! Tabitha x | |||
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"So, my hubby loves me going off and having sex with other guys then coming home and telling him about it. I am not sure if I like this, it's hard to explain, I love the sex but hate the feeling that it's morally wrong. any advice? When we first started meeting there would be things I would enjoy in the moment and then feel guilty about later. Accepting you can enjoy experiences and sensations that others may find questionable is part of the journey. The main thing is you both agree what is acceptable between you, safe in the knowledge that you are doing this together, no one else opinions or values matter. Working out that together doesn’t have to mean physically together in every circumstance is also a bit of a personal journey. Finding ways to connect you both, like being in the same room, watching on video, sending messages etc...all things you can try. Ultimately you’ll find something that you like or you won’t and you’ll move onto something else, just have fun exploring!! Tabitha x" Well said. | |||
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"So, my hubby loves me going off and having sex with other guys then coming home and telling him about it. I am not sure if I like this, it's hard to explain, I love the sex but hate the feeling that it's morally wrong. any advice?" Lee would like me to do this. But don’t do anything ur not comfortable with. | |||
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"I would say if you're not sure if you like it, don't do it. Don't compromise yourself to keep someone else happy" Absolutely 100% | |||
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"So, my hubby loves me going off and having sex with other guys then coming home and telling him about it. I am not sure if I like this, it's hard to explain, I love the sex but hate the feeling that it's morally wrong. any advice?" ive been playing this way for many many years and i would not do it if it was not 100% right for me or him or us you have to feel 100% or things may start to crumble down the line .. stop doing it until youve both have had a good talk and if then you still feel the same then stop its not for you | |||
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"Hotwifing is a thing. I'm one. It's not morally wrong if all parties are consenting, nobody is getting hurt. So whose morals are wrong? The other people that judge that have nothing to do with it? I have my fun and my husband has his wish list filmed or pictures taken and then I come home and have amazing, incredibly hot reclaiming sex. No morals hurt in the process of this " And I think your should keep doing it again and again xxxx | |||
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"Hotwifing is a thing. I'm one. It's not morally wrong if all parties are consenting, nobody is getting hurt. So whose morals are wrong? The other people that judge that have nothing to do with it? I have my fun and my husband has his wish list filmed or pictures taken and then I come home and have amazing, incredibly hot reclaiming sex. No morals hurt in the process of this And I think your should keep doing it again and again xxxx" Thanks, I shall continue as long as both husband and I want to | |||
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"Morals are an essentially an artificial imposition, often designed to make us feel guilty about doing things we enjoy because they don’t fit religious teachings about ownership and agency over our own bodies and the pleasures they can give us. Not accepting conventional morality frees us from these historic influences. If you both enjoy what you are doing, keep doing it. If you don’t, then stop." Very astute words | |||
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"I often meet guys on my own as hubby loves hearing what I’ve been upto and I get to enjoyed lots of varied sex " Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this subject I live in Hope with my wife I so want to be her sissy husband to her and her lovers one day my dream may come true | |||
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"I am currently in that situation where the lady of the cpl now meets me alone. I often arrange surprises for her by having one or two of my fab friends join in too. They both love it & so do I! " Meet confirmed for tomorrow after work in MK. First meet in few weeks so it's going to be frantic. She will be prepping today by shaving pussy. Going to look hot looking down & watching my bare cock open her up! | |||
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"Must be hard being separated?" It was at first but we spoke a lot and then enjoyed a lot of cam fun was even better when we saw eachother again | |||
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"So, my hubby loves me going off and having sex with other guys then coming home and telling him about it. I am not sure if I like this, it's hard to explain, I love the sex but hate the feeling that it's morally wrong. any advice? So I would question why you think it is morally wrong. I assume sex whilst hubby is present is fine in your eyes. So you could use logic to challenge your assumption. If you were having sex and hubby was in the room would that be OK? If he left the room for a drink or to use the toilet, would you need to stop or would that be OK? If that is OK, then what if he decided to take some fresh air for a few minutes outside? You can see where I am going, at what point do you draw the line, were in your head his lack of physical presence moves it from being morally OK to morally not OK. Bunny went out on Saturday on her own, had a fab time and then came back. I knew where she was going and found out who with afterwards. We have agreed do's and don'ts and she kept to those. So if you have similar boundaries and hubby is OK then the only morality is something arbitrary in your own mind. However, if that can't be resolved in your own mind then you should not do anything that makes you feel bad. " As well put a case as could be presented.. It’s all about what you both want, for me (Him) I enjoy my wife having such freedom to do as she pleases and have sex whether I’m present or not. However we still have rules in place and that’s where trust is paramount. If he wants it then trust he likes and if you like it then no foul. If you’re not happy then he must respect that also | |||
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"So, my hubby loves me going off and having sex with other guys then coming home and telling him about it. I am not sure if I like this, it's hard to explain, I love the sex but hate the feeling that it's morally wrong. any advice?" If its moral guidance you're after you're in the wrong place | |||
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"I’m meeting a Hot Wife on her own tomorrow. Hubby will get videos and photos sent to him at work " done this well horny | |||
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