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How much does verifiable matter to you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi people. I'm wondering how much verification matters to you all. I've been on the brink of a few meets where people (understandably)have decided decided call it off as I'm not verified. However with that happening it's harder to get verified in the first place, especially after a few people ghosting on meets too. So, how much does verification matter to you all. Thanks

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Sometimes it's irrelevant. They can still be fake or let you down.

I would always offer to social first, that way it's only an hour or 2 out of someone's day and you can prove your intentions!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes it's irrelevant. They can still be fake or let you down.

I would always offer to social first, that way it's only an hour or 2 out of someone's day and you can prove your intentions!"

Thankyou for the reply. I think that's probably the best way to do it. While i have you do you mind giving any tips for my general profile? Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other option is to go on the cam rooms and that way people know you are real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow your profile is well written.

For me, more pictures would add something extra x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow your profile is well written.

For me, more pictures would add something extra x"

Thankyou. What sort of pictures would you recommend?

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We'd say it pretty essential.

You will still get fakes that verified but sticking to verified meets will still lower the chances greatly of someone being fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow your profile is well written.

For me, more pictures would add something extra x

Thankyou. What sort of pictures would you recommend? "

Like dressed pics or naked torso.

It's entirely up to you - only what you're comfortable with.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Some think it's important some of us don't. We trust our instincts enough not to worry if someone hasn't any verifications.

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Add a little bit more to your interests of there are anymore ...In your profile you state that you like going down maybe add 'oral' to the list as well

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Add a little bit more to your interests of there are anymore ...In your profile you state that you like going down maybe add 'oral' to the list as well "
If *** not of.

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

I think that first, meeting in person verification is very important to a lot of people on here. After that, not so much.

For me, my message filters exclude non-verifed people (although "photo verified only" is difficult to get around). And I know that we all start out unverified, so it can be a challenge. But I have much more confidence in making a potential arrangement with someone who has the green tick on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Add a little bit more to your interests of there are anymore ...In your profile you state that you like going down maybe add 'oral' to the list as well If *** not of."

Thankyou very much, I'll definitely do that now

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By *urvy ClarissaWoman
over a year ago

wigan

Your profile is great. As someone already said, maybe add a few more photos and arrange a social. I’m sure you’ll find someone suited. Good luck! Xx

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I think his wife just verified him

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Verifications can be of help but they are not of massive importance to us. We all started with none once and we prefer to take people as we find them.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Verifications are helpful - we’d be far more likely to message someone with verifications than without, as they are more likely to be genuine. But you can sometimes get a sense of that same genuineness through the way a profile is written anyway. Those ones we would take a chance on. As someone did with us, when we were unverified.

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By *heekyflickWoman
over a year ago

LINCOLN

Just went to look but profile hidden

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By *rGenuineMan
over a year ago

Purley

Hugely, far too many fake profile or pic collectors here so always good to know they are real. Plus gives you an insight as to what a meet could entail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photo verified is good.

Cam or meet verifications can be faked.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

For a private meet we would not meet a single Guy without meet Verifications, having no profile photo does not help in our opinion

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By *inkyeroticaCouple
over a year ago

Ampthill

For us, it depends on a number of things to be honest. But at the very least we expect photo verified as a minimum.

If it’s a new profile we’d be more understanding. We all started unverified and we appreciate that. We have other things to help with the decision process. For example, a phone call between the ladies is useful. We only meet couples or ladies.

Verifications are good, but can be faked so not the only tool in the box.

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

What would help is if you didn't have your profile hidden

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