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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all

Just wondering what couples are looking for when checking single guys profile. What’s hot what’s not

Asking because I find nearly impossible to meet up with a couple (on here).

Hope to gain some clarity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures of you having unprotected sex yet you state 'safe sex' as an interest is immediately off putting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pictures of you having unprotected sex yet you state 'safe sex' as an interest is immediately off putting "

Noted lol

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Pictures of you having unprotected sex yet you state 'safe sex' as an interest is immediately off putting "

We would add, having photos with a Woman and we wouldn't know if she's given consent for the pics to be used. Some guys profiles show more of a Lady than of him.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside


"Pictures of you having unprotected sex yet you state 'safe sex' as an interest is immediately off putting "

Agree

Would run a mile from guys showing unprotected sex.

Unless that's what you are looking for.

Why not go to some clubs or social meets, loads in NW.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep doing your thing OP cause no matter what, someone will have an issue. You'll be too tall, too stacked, too many tatts, too good looking blah blah.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd suggest making it a bit clearer in yr profile what kind of couples you want to meet and what role you'd be playing. (Assuming yr looking to be just an extra part in the bedroom rather than date either / both of them )

Also, many couples will want to invite someone into their lives they feel safe and comfortable with, especially those who aren't gang banging thru fab.. so you need to show that side too.

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Just keep doing your thing OP cause no matter what, someone will have an issue. You'll be too tall, too stacked, too many tatts, too good looking blah blah..... "

Lol ... absolutely this in spades ...

Even making comments in the forum get some folk jumping in getting all high and mighty.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP, you only have one sentance on your profile...

How on earth does anyone know if you're the sort of person they might be interested in?

People want to know about you, what you're looking for and what you can offer.

There's no magic solution, as those looking to meet guys, will have individual criteria.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We'd say start off by putting a bit more effort into your profile as at the moment it's the same as the majority of single guys on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, you only have one sentance on your profile...

How on earth does anyone know if you're the sort of person they might be interested in?

People want to know about you, what you're looking for and what you can offer.

There's no magic solution, as those looking to meet guys, will have individual criteria. "

Very much this.

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Just keep doing your thing OP cause no matter what, someone will have an issue. You'll be too tall, too stacked, too many tatts, too good looking blah blah..... "
But he asked?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for your helpful advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just keep doing your thing OP cause no matter what, someone will have an issue. You'll be too tall, too stacked, too many tatts, too good looking blah blah..... But he asked? "

I know that and that was my advice to him in response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get your arse to a club. You'll be popular

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By *ollyRodgersCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Pictures look good have you taken the above advise?

Maybe say a bit more about yourself, and your interests.

Check out local clubs.

Ps never start a convo with “i want to bang your wife” or send dick pics.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get your arse to a club. You'll be popular "

You think? Planning to visit a club on Saturday so hopefully you’re right and I’ll be in heaven

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *oliday slutCouple
over a year ago

tenerife


"Hey all

Just wondering what couples are looking for when checking single guys profile. What’s hot what’s not

Asking because I find nearly impossible to meet up with a couple (on here).having bi or bi curious on your profile or hidden verifications from men or being a smoker

Hope to gain some clarity "

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By *oliday slutCouple
over a year ago

tenerife


"Hey all

Just wondering what couples are looking for when checking single guys profile. What’s hot what’s not

Asking because I find nearly impossible to meet up with a couple (on here).having bi or bi curious on your profile or hidden verifications from men or being a smoker

Hope to gain some clarity "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just keep doing your thing OP cause no matter what, someone will have an issue. You'll be too tall, too stacked, too many tatts, too good looking blah blah..... "

this is possibly the best advice you'll get on here. many will just bullshit and play games with you.

they will always have an reason just to be a cunt

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

You look like you'd make a great Bull for a cuckold scenario.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You look like you'd make a great Bull for a cuckold scenario."

I’m down with that scenario

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

For us it’s a lot about whether they understand the dynamic and what we get from it. Far too many men assume it’s about me needing someone else to satisfy me and that’s why they are there. Also those who just see it as a way to getting me on my own. We want someone who genuinely enjoys playing with a couple.

Kx

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

If you have over 9 inches, You'll have nothing to worry about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For us it’s a lot about whether they understand the dynamic and what we get from it. Far too many men assume it’s about me needing someone else to satisfy me and that’s why they are there. Also those who just see it as a way to getting me on my own. We want someone who genuinely enjoys playing with a couple.

Kx"

Yes I get that. For me it’s all about pleasing the female in a 3some. I get turned on more by pleasing, learning her body and pushing the buttons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pictures of you having unprotected sex yet you state 'safe sex' as an interest is immediately off putting "

I find this type of assumption to be flawed. Personally; the ONLY partners I have used cameras with are trusted longer-term partners. I don't use cameras on casual meets and as such any pics will be without condoms. The assumption any of my pics are from casual meets is - to use the above vernacular - immediately off-putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get your arse to a club. You'll be popular

You think? Planning to visit a club on Saturday so hopefully you’re right and I’ll be in heaven "

If I'm right, you owe me something

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get your arse to a club. You'll be popular

You think? Planning to visit a club on Saturday so hopefully you’re right and I’ll be in heaven

If I'm right, you owe me something "

Send me a message and let’s sort it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get your arse to a club. You'll be popular

You think? Planning to visit a club on Saturday so hopefully you’re right and I’ll be in heaven

If I'm right, you owe me something

Send me a message and let’s sort it "

Wait till you've got over your wobbly legs on Sunday - then message our lad

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