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What’s the best way to get a couple to meet you??

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no

Okay last question (hopefully) how do you successfully arrange a meet with a couple (MF) like how do some of you single guys and gals do it?? All opinions and criticism is welcomed because honestly I just want to know if there is a knack to it

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"Okay last question (hopefully) how do you successfully arrange a meet with a couple (MF) like how do some of you single guys and gals do it?? All opinions and criticism is welcomed because honestly I just want to know if there is a knack to it"

It's very easy....you just have to be what they are looking for, when they are looking for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay last question (hopefully) how do you successfully arrange a meet with a couple (MF) like how do some of you single guys and gals do it?? All opinions and criticism is welcomed because honestly I just want to know if there is a knack to it"

Would like to know if there is a way to fallow

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Okay last question (hopefully) how do you successfully arrange a meet with a couple (MF) like how do some of you single guys and gals do it?? All opinions and criticism is welcomed because honestly I just want to know if there is a knack to it

It's very easy....you just have to be what they are looking for, when they are looking for it."

I understand that, but what if you are what they are into?? Where do I go from there

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

I'm not sure there is a knack as such, no perfect bait or anything. I think it's the same as if you're looking for a single person, they will either like what you have to offer or not. It's happened twice to me without even making the first move apart from some non suggestive messaging, I imagine as a female looking to meet a couple it would be fairly easy because it is said all the time on here how difficult it is to find a "Unicorn" I think the term is meaning single female who plays with couples. Patience, good profile photos and write up and hope for the best. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was chatting with couple on here and asked what they were into sexually met up in a pub for a social we all got on well and went back to there house for an afternoon of sex it was great and will become a regular thing

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley


"Okay last question (hopefully) how do you successfully arrange a meet with a couple (MF) like how do some of you single guys and gals do it?? All opinions and criticism is welcomed because honestly I just want to know if there is a knack to it"

Say hello and not be a twat seems to work for me... not being a twat is hard work though

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By *heHungStudentMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Yeah no real knack tbh just a case of finding a couple you click with and can flirt/talk with and go from there

Your best best is a mix could be to visit a club and meet some people there and go from there

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Okay last question (hopefully) how do you successfully arrange a meet with a couple (MF) like how do some of you single guys and gals do it?? All opinions and criticism is welcomed because honestly I just want to know if there is a knack to it

It's very easy....you just have to be what they are looking for, when they are looking for it.

I understand that, but what if you are what they are into?? Where do I go from there "

Message them, prepare for it to be difficult because both need to feel the same way about you and you need to like both of them.

Have a chat, arrange to meet socially or in a club, whatever you'd do when first meeting anyone.

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"I'm not sure there is a knack as such, no perfect bait or anything. I think it's the same as if you're looking for a single person, they will either like what you have to offer or not. It's happened twice to me without even making the first move apart from some non suggestive messaging, I imagine as a female looking to meet a couple it would be fairly easy because it is said all the time on here how difficult it is to find a "Unicorn" I think the term is meaning single female who plays with couples. Patience, good profile photos and write up and hope for the best. Good luck."

A lot of couples claim that they are looking for unicorns but it seems not enough because when I have messaged couples before I either get rejected which is cool, or I get the cold shoulder, or the best one I message them (couples) back and forth say like I’ve been talking to them (couples) for a month then they bail on me I don’t know if that makes any sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For meeting couples, address messages to both parties, just talking to the male, or female can be a deal breaker, "hi, how are you both?" might be boring, but its showing you acknowledge both ppl in the relationship.

Seems to work for me at least..... and dont be pushy. Lol

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Yeah no real knack tbh just a case of finding a couple you click with and can flirt/talk with and go from there

Your best best is a mix could be to visit a club and meet some people there and go from there"

The clubs thing that’s what I’m trying to do but at the moment most clubs have shut down or are closed for life, and it’s very hard for me to go to clubs and stuff because I can’t drive a car and I hate taking the train anywhere. And the last club I went to only one person was actually interested in me which actually gives me no self confidence

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes


"I'm not sure there is a knack as such, no perfect bait or anything. I think it's the same as if you're looking for a single person, they will either like what you have to offer or not. It's happened twice to me without even making the first move apart from some non suggestive messaging, I imagine as a female looking to meet a couple it would be fairly easy because it is said all the time on here how difficult it is to find a "Unicorn" I think the term is meaning single female who plays with couples. Patience, good profile photos and write up and hope for the best. Good luck.

A lot of couples claim that they are looking for unicorns but it seems not enough because when I have messaged couples before I either get rejected which is cool, or I get the cold shoulder, or the best one I message them (couples) back and forth say like I’ve been talking to them (couples) for a month then they bail on me I don’t know if that makes any sense "

Don't try to make any sense of how people are on here, before I chatted and met the last couples on here there was months of behaviour that was hard to understand, I'm of the thought that if you are doing all the work then they are not that interested, there has to be a balance of messages and questions to show real interest and I never suggest a meet first no matter how much I would like one because then it means they really do want to meet you without much persueding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having your profile hidden isn’t a good start , display verifications , have a decent amount in your bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Just waits around for good advice while enjoying some tea*

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire


"Having your profile hidden isn’t a good start , display verifications , have a decent amount in your bio "

Exactly!

We were wondering how far away you are - only to find you've hidden your profile!

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"*Just waits around for good advice while enjoying some tea* "

Honestly so far the advice has been sound

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Having your profile hidden isn’t a good start , display verifications , have a decent amount in your bio

Exactly!

We were wondering how far away you are - only to find you've hidden your profile!"

I’m based in Taunton

And honestly I will be honest I’m not actually using this account anymore I’m more using it for the forums,.......

BUT i do have account that I’m using to try and meet people just at the moment I want to make the best profile and have the best pictures BUT I realise my face can’t be in the pictures because I have and “ugly” face..... I think that’s why I’m going wrong

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By *ervousnewCouple
over a year ago

leicester

Well you can start by not hiding your profile from couples

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over a year ago

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes


"Having your profile hidden isn’t a good start , display verifications , have a decent amount in your bio

Exactly!

We were wondering how far away you are - only to find you've hidden your profile!

I’m based in Taunton

And honestly I will be honest I’m not actually using this account anymore I’m more using it for the forums,.......

BUT i do have account that I’m using to try and meet people just at the moment I want to make the best profile and have the best pictures BUT I realise my face can’t be in the pictures because I have and “ugly” face..... I think that’s why I’m going wrong "

Genuine people will not see you as in your words "ugly" that will not be the reason you are not getting any interest, if you have all the other ingredients someone is looking for then your looks will be less important if you are indeed not as you say good looking. Jesus if you saw my face you would wonder how I got meets with couples, it's a bit deeper than that when you make a connection.

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Having your profile hidden isn’t a good start , display verifications , have a decent amount in your bio

Exactly!

We were wondering how far away you are - only to find you've hidden your profile!

I’m based in Taunton

And honestly I will be honest I’m not actually using this account anymore I’m more using it for the forums,.......

BUT i do have account that I’m using to try and meet people just at the moment I want to make the best profile and have the best pictures BUT I realise my face can’t be in the pictures because I have and “ugly” face..... I think that’s why I’m going wrong

Genuine people will not see you as in your words "ugly" that will not be the reason you are not getting any interest, if you have all the other ingredients someone is looking for then your looks will be less important if you are indeed not as you say good looking. Jesus if you saw my face you would wonder how I got meets with couples, it's a bit deeper than that when you make a connection."

Thank you, and I understand that looks are not everything but I have messaged (in the past) 5 or 6 couples on this website and we end up talking for ages adding each other on Skype then boom not interested in me anymore or they set up a meet and then either cancel last minute or don’t say anything at all, I’m going to be honest with you all I have tried most of what you lot have said to me address them both take things slow but I still feel like I’m being taken for a mug. And when people do see my face after adding me as a friend (even though on my profile it says don’t add me as a friend till we have met) they run a mile honestly I haven’t given up hope but I am making a fresh start and a clean slate because I feel like I gave up to quickly

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