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By *win Peaks OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

As we have a young family we can't play at a drop of a hat. We go to Chams on average once a month and would like to arrange a private meet every so often too. If we had no restrictions we would play every weekend. Given the same premis, how often would you play?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I would love to get a shag every day if possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot more often than the "once in a blue moon" which seems to be the norm at the mo

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

At least once a day...

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London

everyday if i could

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By *win Peaks OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

Two single ladies and complaining of not getting enough! I didn't think that was possible on here. lol

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

Would say every weekend but even before we had a family we never played that often! So, a couple of times a month maybe? Not too often or I think it looses some of the appeal that makes it special in the first place.. X

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

I would also have to say once a day...but in same situation with young kids...they do go to their dad;s 3 out of 4 weekends but like this weekend for example sod's law I am sick as a dog so no fun...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice a week if i could, but we only meet up every 2 weeks through family commitments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would certainly like to play every weekend and a couple of times in the week if time would allow me to, and dare I say opportunity.

Not sure about J

S xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least once a day... "

same here...just a shame I have to work to pay the bills!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of times a week if possible.

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By *win Peaks OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

I thought once possibly twice a week given the chance. Surely if you played everyday wouldn't it lose it's sparkle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have been meeting once a week, i would like to meet twice a week.

if i was more organised, and could get enough men for threesome or more.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Once a week cause im a lazy fuck

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"At least once a day... "

It's not true that it will heal over if you have a day off you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haven't played for around 18 months. We've been to a few parties but only socialised.

It's the longest we've gone since we started 5 yrs ago.

Once a month or 6 weeks, would be good for us

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I use to try and get the perfect week and on e had 7 meets in 3 days cos I was going away but these days I've slowed down

It's been nearly a week since my last shag

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Two single ladies and complaining of not getting enough! I didn't think that was possible on here. lol"

May I remind you that we get the wuss outs and the time wasters and the all talks and the don't know how to tell you I'm only here for the chat...

So even when we have got time to meet it doesn't always happen.

Factor in personal circumstances and work and travel and the ones we just don't fancy...

The grass isn't always greener.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for us playing with other people once a month is just right for us xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two single ladies and complaining of not getting enough! I didn't think that was possible on here. lol

May I remind you that we get the wuss outs and the time wasters and the all talks and the don't know how to tell you I'm only here for the chat...

So even when we have got time to meet it doesn't always happen.

Factor in personal circumstances and work and travel and the ones we just don't fancy...

The grass isn't always greener. "

God I hate wuss outs, good wordage as well

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I don't wuss out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't wuss out "

Makes two of us, it's tres inconsiderate

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London


"I use to try and get the perfect week and on e had 7 meets in 3 days cos I was going away but these days I've slowed down"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daily.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I use to try and get the perfect week and on e had 7 meets in 3 days cos I was going away but these days I've slowed down

"

What???

I once even text a guy as I was fucking someone else to say I would be found his in half an hour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't wuss out

Makes two of us, it's tres inconsiderate"

So arrange that social with me

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Two single ladies and complaining of not getting enough! I didn't think that was possible on here. lol"

Unfortunately not all of us get 1 squillion messages a day and have to beat off the single men with sticks.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

once a week would be great for me

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Two single ladies and complaining of not getting enough! I didn't think that was possible on here. lol

Unfortunately not all of us get 1 squillion messages a day and have to beat off the single men with sticks."

Ironic isn't it, two women who would meet so much more and we don't get the interest!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Two single ladies and complaining of not getting enough! I didn't think that was possible on here. lol

Unfortunately not all of us get 1 squillion messages a day and have to beat off the single men with sticks.

Ironic isn't it, two women who would meet so much more and we don't get the interest! "

Indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use to try and get the perfect week and on e had 7 meets in 3 days cos I was going away but these days I've slowed down

It's been nearly a week since my last shag "

'kin 'ell Evie, bet you've got a sore fanny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two single ladies and complaining of not getting enough! I didn't think that was possible on here. lol

Unfortunately not all of us get 1 squillion messages a day and have to beat off the single men with sticks."

Really? why are they all messaging me? im constantly having to beat off single men

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By *win Peaks OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire


"Two single ladies and complaining of not getting enough! I didn't think that was possible on here. lol

Unfortunately not all of us get 1 squillion messages a day and have to beat off the single men with sticks.

Ironic isn't it, two women who would meet so much more and we don't get the interest! "

I think you probably will now that you've the lads that you're not getting enough attention.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I use to try and get the perfect week and on e had 7 meets in 3 days cos I was going away but these days I've slowed down

It's been nearly a week since my last shag

'kin 'ell Evie, bet you've got a sore fanny "

Lol yes that's why I keep asking people to kiss it better but they get carried away

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London


"I use to try and get the perfect week and on e had 7 meets in 3 days cos I was going away but these days I've slowed down

What???

I once even text a guy as I was fucking someone else to say I would be found his in half an hour "

lol and how did the guy you was fucking take this??

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I use to try and get the perfect week and on e had 7 meets in 3 days cos I was going away but these days I've slowed down

What???

I once even text a guy as I was fucking someone else to say I would be found his in half an hour

lol and how did the guy you was fucking take this?? "

He found it quite horny......

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London


"I use to try and get the perfect week and on e had 7 meets in 3 days cos I was going away but these days I've slowed down

What???

I once even text a guy as I was fucking someone else to say I would be found his in half an hour

lol and how did the guy you was fucking take this??

He found it quite horny......"

wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a month is quite enough for me.

However, the last time I had any fun was Mar 12!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

At the risk of sounding frigid Im happy enough meeting about once a month.

Any more than once a fortnight and Id have to lie down in a dark room with a cold towel on my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since I've been on here, (four and a half months) I've averaged 3 meets a week.

But I'd not had any sex for six years previously, and only averaged once or twice a year for ten years previous to that, so I've a lot of catching up to do!

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

I could say but if I tell you I'd have to shag you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least once a day...

same here...just a shame I have to work to pay the bills!! x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About twice a year - any more and it becomes repetitive, matter of fact and boring.

Mrs Red and I already have a brilliant sex life so anything over and above that is a bonus.

When playing becomes a must, that's when we will give it up altogether.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get the chance I'm away working all week and I have my kid from Friday night to Sunday

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By *orkscrew CurlsWoman
over a year ago

Loughborough Leics

Given a free reign with suitable guys most days I would. Simply doesn't happen tho

It doesn't get boring if you have enough variety of people, places, techniques and talents!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Given a free reign with suitable guys most days I would. Simply doesn't happen tho

It doesn't get boring if you have enough variety of people, places, techniques and talents! "

And decorating equipment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single mother here. Lack of childcare. Would love to play once a week. Ends up being once a month....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything less than once a week becomes unbearable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of times a week, more in the school holidays

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Unfortunately not all of us get 1 squillion messages a day and have to beat off the single men with sticks.

Really? why are they all messaging me? im constantly having to beat off single men "

Perhaps Wyrd and I should display as much chest as you

(it works for me, shame you're so far away)

(Hey, Wyrdwoman, fancy a trip down south? I'll drive )

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex

Id love to play twice a week, but like other ladies say, work and timewasters do not help. Having a live in partner makes it all the more difficult too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A meet a couple of times a month would be ideal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a month would be ideal. Keep it special and not 'over do it'.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Unfortunately not all of us get 1 squillion messages a day and have to beat off the single men with sticks.

Really? why are they all messaging me? im constantly having to beat off single men

Perhaps Wyrd and I should display as much chest as you

(it works for me, shame you're so far away)

(Hey, Wyrdwoman, fancy a trip down south? I'll drive )"

Sounds good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately not all of us get 1 squillion messages a day and have to beat off the single men with sticks.

Really? why are they all messaging me? im constantly having to beat off single men

Perhaps Wyrd and I should display as much chest as you

(it works for me, shame you're so far away)

(Hey, Wyrdwoman, fancy a trip down south? I'll drive )

Sounds good. "

Ill leave the front door open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once a month would be ideal. Keep it special and not 'over do it'. "

I guess the difference between couples and singles like myself is that this is all the sex I get, hence wanting it more often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once a month would be ideal. Keep it special and not 'over do it'.

I guess the difference between couples and singles like myself is that this is all the sex I get, hence wanting it more often. "

If we were single, we would definitely want it more often xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once a month would be ideal. Keep it special and not 'over do it'.

I guess the difference between couples and singles like myself is that this is all the sex I get, hence wanting it more often. "

I couldn't agree more.

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By *orkscrew CurlsWoman
over a year ago

Loughborough Leics


"Given a free reign with suitable guys most days I would. Simply doesn't happen tho

It doesn't get boring if you have enough variety of people, places, techniques and talents!

And decorating equipment! "

Actually did get lots of offers for help when I was decorating...but family helped...

When the car broke however - damn that mechanic was a hottie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once a month would be ideal. Keep it special and not 'over do it'.

I guess the difference between couples and singles like myself is that this is all the sex I get, hence wanting it more often.

If we were single, we would definitely want it more often xxx"

I should hope so sex 12 times a year does not a happy bunny make lol

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London


"Once a month would be ideal. Keep it special and not 'over do it'.

I guess the difference between couples and singles like myself is that this is all the sex I get, hence wanting it more often. "

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton

Not very often is the reality. I'm married so my circumstances as a single on here are different to many I imagine. I've got to really be in the mood to play with someone from here - sometimes 2 or 3 a week - sometimes none for months on end - depends!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought once possibly twice a week given the chance. Surely if you played everyday wouldn't it lose it's sparkle?"

Not at all...variety is the spice of life after all! And as has already been said, because I am genuinely single so this pretty much is my sex life. I do have a few regular playmates I meet fairly often but I also enjoy one off's for the extra excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daily please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two single ladies and complaining of not getting enough! I didn't think that was possible on here. lol

Unfortunately not all of us get 1 squillion messages a day and have to beat off the single men with sticks.

Ironic isn't it, two women who would meet so much more and we don't get the interest! "

make that three!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"At least once a day... "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be happy wih 3 times a week, which is probably where I'm at most weeks. I'm no good at work if I'm tired so one meet mid week is enough for me and as much as I can get at the weekend lol!

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By *umpsMan
over a year ago

city

i have to say that once a week is ok for me and im happy with that. if someone wants to meet me twice in the week, thats ok too though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once a month would be ideal. Keep it special and not 'over do it'.

I guess the difference between couples and singles like myself is that this is all the sex I get, hence wanting it more often. "

I'd want my fb as often as possible. Anyone else.... Not that bothered really....

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I would like three times a week I love sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to play every day if I could rather than when Saturn aligns with Mars lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

difficult one, i would love sex every day, i dont think id want to meet people off here every day tho, but im also not after a relationship, so hard tol say

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

My kids are only away once a month so only get to play then and with college voluntary work and other commitments its extreemly hard to arrange a daytime or evening meet.

If all of that lack of free time was gone I would happily play every weekend and maybe once or twice a week x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we fuck each other everyday,everyday mmmm love it.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet at my home and I can only afford hotel rooms occasionally. If I did meet at home it would be a lot more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play with each other nearly every day of the week, sometimes twice a day!! We meet to play with others about once a month and that's plenty for us!! As meeting others is an extension of our all ready great sex life, we wouldn't want to meet weekly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we have a young family we can't play at a drop of a hat. We go to Chams on average once a month and would like to arrange a private meet every so often too. If we had no restrictions we would play every weekend. Given the same premis, how often would you play?"

Couple of times a day for us

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we had stages were for example at Libs Friday 24th August and then the Sun, we also went last night...

We haven't managed a private meet in ages due to our holiday and work commitments.

Nothing really set for us, if we fancy a night at Libs we go.

We are only free certain week nights and some weekends rather do vanilla stuff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say ages re the private meet but it was 1st August, so not that bad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i have a wank a day so if the honey pot was there i would not wank well maybe

yea im a wanker heheheheheh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jeez, a hell of a lot more, I'm getting cobwebs hehe, a regular would be good as old friends have moved tut

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"As we have a young family we can't play at a drop of a hat. We go to Chams on average once a month and would like to arrange a private meet every so often too. If we had no restrictions we would play every weekend. Given the same premis, how often would you play?"

No more than three or four times a day

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By *eet_the_spartanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

My ideal would be once a week with other people and once a day with my girlfriend.

She's off to France for 9 months soon though so that's out of the window

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