FabSwingers.com forum: real names

By *hynotts OP Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

how meeny use there real names on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me sorry, although all my Fab friends do know my real name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me cos I would get confuddled otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to until I picked up a stalker and had to get the police involved. Now I use a name that a regular female friend of mine calls me. I do use my real name in private messages though.

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By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente

no never lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never!!!!!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Not me sorry, although all my Fab friends do know my real name

Same here. Although most still call me jez when we meet and I answer to that as much as my real name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not by username. But I do use my real name at socials. Even though people still tend to call me jiggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, otherwise I'm wondering who there talking too :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me, although I've gone by 'Fia' for years now and friends all over call me that.

I actually get quite annoyed when people introduce me as my real name. I like Fia, she has been a great inspiration to me

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By *hynotts OP Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

there a guy local to us and he has an idea its us so when a Verification has our real name on we carnt use it maybe a play name would work but we have to remember to use it aswell

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

yes, my real name is diamond smiles

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

We do. Nick and Dave

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

We do. Nick and Dave

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I do use my real name once I have been chatting to someone, but if they were ever to use it in chat, I would be annoyed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told never use your real name

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

"I was told never use your real name"

Nick and Dave in Northamptonshire, doesnt really narrow it down much.

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By *hynotts OP Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

"I was told never use your real name"
yep think we will have to start going down that road

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By *hyguy 43Man
over a year ago

Swansea

I do because i got nothing to hide xxx

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By *vana sukalotWoman
over a year ago

In a land of make believe (Derby)

I don't, unless I've been messaging for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My real name is Julie

Not bothered if people know it..

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Can't be doing with nicknames once the meet and greet phase of "getting to know you" is over...

I hark back to amateur radio & CB days when conversations at rallies, and get-togethers went along the lines of "Hello-Golf-Whisky-Tango-3-Zero, how are you? Have you heard about Echo-Juliet-Mike-Hotel-9-5? Seems he's shacked up with some Cee-Bee'er that goes by the "handle" of "Pansy Pots" or something..." - NO! NOT going back to that sort of speak. We have real names for a reason!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I do because i got nothing to hide xxx"

I've nothing to hide either, It's just my name is spelt a little unusual, so would stand out a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer my real name to my Sunday name, but as long as not miscalled who gives a hoot

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Nope. Have had problems in the past with people hunting us down on Facebook and stalking, fishing for personal details and trying to add our friends so it's a massive no-no from us (Even though privacy settings on social network sites are a lot more advanced than they were).

We're used to eachother's alter-egos enough to not fuck up on meets, so we'll stick to those.

- VincentandAmy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me cos I would get confuddled otherwise

Does this mean your parents actually wrote "Moodycow" on your birth certificate? That's a bit harsh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I answer to owt me

Wolf

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I'm called Colin but don't tell anyone

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

Real names here too tho when we're out everyone calls me bunky lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first name is so unusual that a quick google of the name plus my hometown would identify me.

If I had a 'normal' name I'd use it.

My 'regular' guys know my real name, I disclose as soon as I know I can trust someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My real name is Derek. I think Scarlet suits me better.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"My real name is Derek. I think Scarlet suits me better.

Hmmm maybe. Derek is quite mysterious

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Yea I use my real name in PM's but never ever give out surname too.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

When I meet I tell them my name, but if anyone puts it in a veri I won't post it. I would also be annoyed with anyone who used it on the forums - tempting, devil or TD are my preferred moniker on here!

Not quite sure why I'm do cautious, just a general internet paranoia!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me!!...i've got nothing to hide..unless the cold war is still going lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some know my real name others not

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By *acciWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Jacci is my real name,well the short version of it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do use my real name, its just its my middle name thats all. I have used a different name in past for things, but just gets to confusing lol

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

"My real name is Derek. I think Scarlet suits me better.

Hmmm maybe. Derek is quite mysterious "

Derek and Colin, such a lovely couple.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Me cos I would get confuddled otherwise

me to lol

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By *azzasheeneMan
over a year ago

kent

I'm so secretive i haven't even told myself my real name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My real name is Fucknuts McGinty and I don't care who knows it

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

No real names.. Cinn is fine or Chilli.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends know my real name, and I answer to "Pearl" even at social events nowadays!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

" if anyone puts it in a veri I won't post it. I would also be annoyed with anyone who used it on the forums"

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By *ild Bill Thickcock.Man
over a year ago

Wet Beaver Creek

Of course it's my real name, an' the Missus is called Zipperty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use my real initial.

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex

I use my initial and tell ppl my name upon meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My real name is Fucknuts McGinty and I don't care who knows it

There was 4 boys at my primary school called that. And one girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never used our real names, we live in a tiny village in the middle of nowhere.. not many people from our part on here, and if there is, they'd know us immediately.. we're a young family, and don't want to be defending our lifestyle if people found out. Had a few embarassing moments at meets when I've called J by his real name, and had to come clean.. oopsie! Nx

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Good question. Why using your real name. Here???? Fab is not issuing passport after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"how many use there real names on fab

We do! that way there's no slip ups

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My real names evahard so I never use that lol.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I dont and keep it as _ruit. I prefer it. I do tell some people my real name but keep it to _ruit when oyt andcat ckybs especially

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only people who know our real names are our friends on here

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By *arwensReturnCouple
over a year ago

darwen

"I do because i got nothing to hide xxx"

I am on this level we use are real names cause again we have nothing to hide xx

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We use our real names when meeting and in private emails.

Wouldn't use them or want others to in chatrooms or forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use my real name, it's quite a common name, but I wouldn't give out my surname.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do

Dr Spock and Captain Kirk

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By *lderguy4funMan
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

i use my real name trev or trevor but think my profile name suits me best lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We use our real names when meeting and in private emails.

Wouldn't use them or want others to in chatrooms or forums."

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use our real names once we are sure we are happy to meet someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

does it matter?

you'll find out at the right time and what would you do if he told you in bed his name was Homer!

stop laughing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's in a name ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use my real name however I Dont tell people my surname

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We use our real names once we are sure we are happy to meet someone. "

Same here. Got quite miffed with a guy we had been meeting regular though, and had been to, and stopped over at our home several times over a year+ to then find out he was using an alternative name. Didn't sit well with us and we haven't swung with him since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do :wave:

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton

I use my fab name with people until I get to know that they're not nutters then I reveal my real name.

A x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only once I've got to know someone, can't be too careful on here, lot of nutters !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we certainly don't and would never think of letting anyone know this darkest of secrets!!

Christian & Jane x.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I tell my meets the name I go by in the real world, but most still call me Caz (which is actually my real name, shortened)...getting more used to hearing it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me cos I would get confuddled otherwise

Does this mean your parents actually wrote "Moodycow" on your birth certificate? That's a bit harsh..."

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We don't - but ours are obviously not real names, so we don't get confused

My name is common, so I don't mind giving it out that much. His name is not at all common, so it would make us much easier to identify

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tarquin Phillips limbin wingbin phtang phtang ole biscuit barrell was just too long to fit - sadly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do, GandL is Greig and Lesley.. not sure why people have 25 names lol

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

Not us

because it's our choice not to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did when i first joined as i was abit naive to the risks but because i have an uncommon name and dont know many people with my name around my area i thought it was best to change it

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