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Is it odd to be asked to pay for a 1-1 meet?

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By *ig Black Mamba OP   Man
over a year ago

Edgware

Hey all,

I was asked by a woman to pay to meet her in advance of our meeting her otherwise she wouldn’t meet. I didn’t go ahead with meeting her.

It is normal that you have to pay cash in order to meet someone for a 1-1 meet?

Any advice appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report them and block them.

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

I’ve had a few like that which I just ignore now

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Report and block.

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a woman text me a shopping list when I arrived in the town to meet her

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

It's not normal on here as this isn't an escort agency.

Report anyone asking for money.

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By *ig Black Mamba OP   Man
over a year ago

Edgware

Thank you

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By *ig Black Mamba OP   Man
over a year ago

Edgware


"It's not normal on here as this isn't an escort agency.

Report anyone asking for money."

Thank you I thought it felt fishy. She claimed everyone pays for meets

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By *ittyndCouple
over a year ago

Oldham/Birmingham

I’ve been approached by guys to take money to meet! I just block them!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It's not normal on here as this isn't an escort agency.

Report anyone asking for money.

Thank you I thought it felt fishy. She claimed everyone pays for meets "

Absolutely not

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By *ig Black Mamba OP   Man
over a year ago

Edgware


"I’ve been approached by guys to take money to meet! I just block them! "

Thank you. I’m new to all this so wasn’t sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big red flag

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"She" is either an escort who may or may not turn up or a man collecting money as a con trick scam with no intention of fulfilling "her" part of the bargain. So report them asap. No excuses. There are plenty of sites for prostitutes to advertise on without messing with Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block. Report.

Sounds like an escort. Not a Ford escort.

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By *ig Black Mamba OP   Man
over a year ago

Edgware


""She" is either an escort who may or may not turn up or a man collecting money as a con trick scam with no intention of fulfilling "her" part of the bargain. So report them asap. No excuses. There are plenty of sites for prostitutes to advertise on without messing with Fab. "

Yes I felt it was a scam but just wanted to be sure as I haven’t done any 1-1 meets yet through Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not normal on here as this isn't an escort agency.

Report anyone asking for money.

Thank you I thought it felt fishy. She claimed everyone pays for meets

Absolutely not "

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By *hloe12Woman
over a year ago

york

Ive been offered money liads of time to meet all ignored. But some guys on here would be better off going on a well nown site . For sex when they cime out with comments like want a shage and iam in your area of half a day and my balls are full

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon


""She" is either an escort who may or may not turn up or a man collecting money as a con trick scam with no intention of fulfilling "her" part of the bargain. So report them asap. No excuses. There are plenty of sites for prostitutes to advertise on without messing with Fab.

Yes I felt it was a scam but just wanted to be sure as I haven’t done any 1-1 meets yet through Fab"

Absolutely not normal

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By *egvisir71Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"I had a woman text me a shopping list when I arrived in the town to meet her "

Was it for some food fun etc or her weekly shop and if so, did you get it her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all,

I was asked by a woman to pay to meet her in advance of our meeting her otherwise she wouldn’t meet. I didn’t go ahead with meeting her.

It is normal that you have to pay cash in order to meet someone for a 1-1 meet?

Any advice appreciated. "

Also have been asked for Google Play/Steam/Xbox vouchers inadvance as "need it to distract kids while we meet".

Even if it wasn't a scam the whole kid in the house is so iky I stop contact

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Hey all,

I was asked by a woman to pay to meet her in advance of our meeting her otherwise she wouldn’t meet. I didn’t go ahead with meeting her.

It is normal that you have to pay cash in order to meet someone for a 1-1 meet?

Any advice appreciated. "

Navigate the site and read the FAQ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's normal if she is a pros or an escort .

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"It is normal that you have to pay cash in order to meet someone for a 1-1 meet? "

Completely normal! (if they are a sex worker).

You knew it wasn't right, that's why you started a post about it!!!

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report and block OP. It is against the site's rules, so if someone is asking for money, report them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alarm bells

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Hey all,

I was asked by a woman to pay to meet her in advance of our meeting her otherwise she wouldn’t meet. I didn’t go ahead with meeting her.

It is normal that you have to pay cash in order to meet someone for a 1-1 meet?

Any advice appreciated. "

It is against site rules, please report

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