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What is it about threesomes

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By *icentious OP   Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

That couples covet?

We never go looking for them, yet it often they happen.

So, why a threesome?

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Good question.

As corny as it sounds for us it is involving someone else in what we have.

We find a threesome more intimate than other forms of swinging and we have found over time that we have been enjoying sharing that intimacy more.

We would like to experience something more now. Perhaps someone that would like to share more than a one time thing.

Also when everyone is relaxed and some trust has been established it adds another input into what you all experience which is fun too.

We have been very lucky in clubs and other social situations but its mostly been an 'in the moment' thing.

We have found that here, online it seems much more difficult for people to seperate the couples that have no hidden agendas or to many rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for me I'd like to be involved in the intimacy of two bodies exploring mine.

It's also a fantasy of mine that I've never had the pleasure and never have the pleasure of lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had various threesoms and have enjoyed all of them

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

We have only had mfm threesome, would love to have a mff threesome to see how that compares.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

I have done a mmf which was great me and my mate fucking his misses she loved it being the centre of attention I would love a ffm where they could focus on me an then each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a 2 year relationship with a married couple, they came round to mine maybe every other Friday for some of the most sexually memorable moments in my life. The more we met the more we experimented, it just got more erotic and filthier. But it also developed in other areas like hubby would drop her off and pick her up the next day. We talked about weekends away for all 3 and even joining them for a few days when they were in Spain. It didn’t get to that but would have if continued. I miss those days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That couples covet?

We never go looking for them, yet it often they happen.

So, why a threesome?"

If you're going to involve others in your sex life a 3 is probably the most physically together and intimate way to do that. You are literally sharing someone else together and you can all stay connected...if you're not feeling your partner cum, you can be feeling your partner make the other person cum...its very hot!!!

A 4 has the potential to be slightly more disconnected, you can all be playing but less directly with your partner. And a lot of people seem to like just swapping in pairs, so that physical separation increases. The more people you add it becomes more about seeing your partner's pleasure than feeling and sharing it more directly. 3 just also seems to be a more natural play number easier to all stay involved. IMHO!

Tabitha x

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By *jkuk72Man
over a year ago

London & Herts


"That couples covet?

We never go looking for them, yet it often they happen.

So, why a threesome?

If you're going to involve others in your sex life a 3 is probably the most physically together and intimate way to do that. You are literally sharing someone else together and you can all stay connected...if you're not feeling your partner cum, you can be feeling your partner make the other person cum...its very hot!!!

A 4 has the potential to be slightly more disconnected, you can all be playing but less directly with your partner. And a lot of people seem to like just swapping in pairs, so that physical separation increases. The more people you add it becomes more about seeing your partner's pleasure than feeling and sharing it more directly. 3 just also seems to be a more natural play number easier to all stay involved. IMHO!

Tabitha x"

Fully agree. I have only ever had MFM threesomes and it's lovely seeing the lady enjoying the attention of two men at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first time I experienced MMF it was the feeling of 2 pairs of hands on me that blew me away.

With MFF it's the wonderful experience of being taken doggy style while kissing and fondling a women. Heaven

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By *heekyflickWoman
over a year ago

LINCOLN

I adore both ways, as the single one I love the feeling of helping couples achieve a fantasy in a safe and loving way...it helps if you can be friends as well as lovers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't go looking for three somes but when they happen they are usually lots of fun aswell foursomes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried a FFM, didn't like it as much as I wanted too.

Maybe it's more guys I need

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge

I met a lovely couple quite some time back that summed it up for me. They said (like above), four way play has four very different variables.

However, the couple playing with a single guy meant the lady was happy with the attention, the hubby was happy with the outcome and the single was blessed to be invited.

Food for thought as they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why but mmf's were always an exciting fantasy for my first wife and I, almost from the start of our relationship, and eventually we did indulge, and had one regular guy and a few one-offs.

That stuck with me, so I'm in a regular mmf with a couple I met on here three years ago, but also looking for a bit of variety.

For me it's been a combination of seeing women fulfilling their potential of having more sex than one man can offer, whilst being bi means there is amazing three-way sex as well. Truly win-win.

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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

Mines a ffm best experiences I have ever had

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

Firstly they are easier to set up. There’s only one couple to please, it’s almost still a 1-1 relationship - as long as the female is happy then it’s pretty much going to happen. With two couples there have to be no less than 8 ticked attraction boxes - each person has to like two others.

Secondly, with four in a bed pretty much you either pair off or someone can get left out. There’s only so much space around a human body. Not saying it’s every time but it can happen. So sure, you may be pairing with someone from the other couple - but it’s still a pair.

This changes if you know the couple really well. And also we have more options being both bi.

A 3 or a 5 works well.

All just an opinion. Don’t shoot.

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