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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm new to this site. I have sent polite and respectful messages to around 30 local woman so far saying that I am looking for a friend with benefits. Half of them have been read and deleted by the woman in question and the other half are still unread after a full 2 weeks. It indicates to me that single men don't have much luck on here or the woman are simply overrun with messages and don't have time to respond. Either way I find it very disappointing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes when I first joined I was getting over 300 messages. You need to stand out from the rest when you are messaging. I used to try and reply to them all but it was hopeless .. just make your profile stand out and put up some new pics and just make sure your messages are fun and interesting x

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

I can understand that it’s disappointing for you, but you’re definitely not alone! I’m sure you’ve seen the numerous forum posts on this, having said that I can imagine that doesn’t help the frustration. From what you’ve said, you’re looking for someone local, and someone open to fwb! That’s quite specific and may also reduce your responses, the ladies you message may not want fwb, or to meet someone close by for example! We have a low level of expectation from fab, so anything above that is a bonus! Happy fabbing, Miss Pc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you have been verified. Some men have been on here more than a year without any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm new to this site. I have sent polite and respectful messages to around 30 local woman so far saying that I am looking for a friend with benefits. Half of them have been read and deleted by the woman in question and the other half are still unread after a full 2 weeks. It indicates to me that single men don't have much luck on here or the woman are simply overrun with messages and don't have time to respond. Either way I find it very disappointing. "
Can't argue with anything you have said mate.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Single men out number the women by a crazy amount and your surprised your average message from an average guy didn’t generate extraordinary results?

I’m shocked

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By *inkyeroticaCouple
over a year ago

Ampthill

If half your messages are being read, as a single guy your doing well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same for all of us.

There's no magic figure or formula to get a response I'm afraid, though from the number of threads that get started on the subject you'd be forgiven for thinking that it's like a level to be completed in an arcade game or something.

When you message someone, they will look at your profile.

If they like what they find, they will read your message.

If they're still interested you may get a reply back.

Just like in the real world

Someone is either going to fancy you or they won't. It's that simple.

Or did you think this was 'dial-a-shag'

Perhaps think of the women on fab as people rather than free escorts and you might enjoy your time here better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey Sitheniceguy, you are only a youngster - you wait until you get as old, ugly, ignored and cantankerous as me and then you can complain

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 05/08/21 17:18:33]"

You may have deleted that but I seen it

He is right though, if Mrs doesn't like the look of someone they won't get a reply. The reason for this is 'why not?' 'Give me a chance' 'your loss' and the hundreds of others.

Tbf there are exceptions but there's just not enough time in the day to deal with men who think in certain ways.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Same for all of us.

There's no magic figure or formula to get a response I'm afraid, though from the number of threads that get started on the subject you'd be forgiven for thinking that it's like a level to be completed in an arcade game or something.

When you message someone, they will look at your profile.

If they like what they find, they will read your message.

If they're still interested you may get a reply back.

Just like in the real world

Someone is either going to fancy you or they won't. It's that simple.

Or did you think this was 'dial-a-shag'

Perhaps think of the women on fab as people rather than free escorts and you might enjoy your time here better"

A clever reply written with the intent of impressing the ladies with your feminine understanding by a guy who's main objective on here is to get a shag just like all of us ultimately.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Same for all of us.

There's no magic figure or formula to get a response I'm afraid, though from the number of threads that get started on the subject you'd be forgiven for thinking that it's like a level to be completed in an arcade game or something.

When you message someone, they will look at your profile.

If they like what they find, they will read your message.

If they're still interested you may get a reply back.

Just like in the real world

Someone is either going to fancy you or they won't. It's that simple.

Or did you think this was 'dial-a-shag'

Perhaps think of the women on fab as people rather than free escorts and you might enjoy your time here better

A clever reply written with the intent of impressing the ladies with your feminine understanding by a guy who's main objective on here is to get a shag just like all of us ultimately. "

No wonder you don’t get replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm new to this site. I have sent polite and respectful messages to around 30 local woman so far saying that I am looking for a friend with benefits. Half of them have been read and deleted by the woman in question and the other half are still unread after a full 2 weeks. It indicates to me that single men don't have much luck on here or the woman are simply overrun with messages and don't have time to respond. Either way I find it very disappointing. "

It’s a very male trait to look at results and blame others. Perhaps you need to be a little more scientific...

half are being read, perhaps you have enough in your message preview to be winning, that’s a pretty good result.

So... when opened, or when your profile is being looked at, you’re failing. Perhaps revisit what you’re typing and what person you a representing on your profile.

For me... the profile is a little soulless, it lacks humour, engagement and the face pics are a bit off putting in terms of expressions.

Whilst I’m completely aware tgirls aren’t your bag... I offer the above as a possible female perspective, what I would say though... half are being read, then they are put off... it’s something to do with not generating enough interest from viewers. If you’re not getting them look at your profile despite opening your message... then it’s the content you’ve typed.

Good luck x

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Let's blame the women that you contact, after all, they are just here to drop their knickers for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A clever reply written with the intent of impressing the ladies with your feminine understanding by a guy who's main objective on here is to get a shag just like all of us ultimately. "

What’s your issue with him? You’ve posted on a forum, he’s actually given you some decent advice. Now most reading that will view you as a bit of an entitled man/angry prick. Nvm

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By *exypetWoman
over a year ago

Stockport


"Same for all of us.

There's no magic figure or formula to get a response I'm afraid, though from the number of threads that get started on the subject you'd be forgiven for thinking that it's like a level to be completed in an arcade game or something.

When you message someone, they will look at your profile.

If they like what they find, they will read your message.

If they're still interested you may get a reply back.

Just like in the real world

Someone is either going to fancy you or they won't. It's that simple.

Or did you think this was 'dial-a-shag'

Perhaps think of the women on fab as people rather than free escorts and you might enjoy your time here better

A clever reply written with the intent of impressing the ladies with your feminine understanding by a guy who's main objective on here is to get a shag just like all of us ultimately. "

I really don’t think this is a ‘clever reply’. It’s a reply written by someone that understands how the site works. If your post was for the intention of finding out why you’re struggling to get attention, it’s best to listen to the people with experience.

If the reason you’re here is to ‘get a shag’ maybe that’s the issue. This is a swinging site. If you’re giving off vibes that you want to find a free sex worker, you’re not likely to attract anyone. If you just want a shag, I’d maybe look to pick someone up in a bar on a Saturday night or go pay for it!

I totally appreciate how frustrating it must be as a single guy, but your profile and attitude is hardly putting you at the top of the pile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm new to this site. I have sent polite and respectful messages to around 30 local woman so far saying that I am looking for a friend with benefits. Half of them have been read and deleted by the woman in question and the other half are still unread after a full 2 weeks. It indicates to me that single men don't have much luck on here or the woman are simply overrun with messages and don't have time to respond. Either way I find it very disappointing. "

Don't take this as personal OP, but if your PMs read anything like several of the forum threads you've started, I can see why they'd be staying away in droves. They had a vaguely creepy vibe about them (always asking a very direct sexual question about a particular practice and appearing to welcome only replies from women). They came over frankly a bit like a bloke looking for some wank fodder interaction.

I'm sure you didn't intend that, but just calling yourself a nice guy doesn't cut it if you're asking crass questions.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Hi op

Most of us will look at a profile before replying

You don't give much away as to what you offer and why someone should choose you.

The not accommodating may also go against you and like someone else said, there may be women that are not looking for fwb too.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a sea of men vrs a pool of women there are always going to be guys who wont make it for no other reason than just % and numbers

and might be just me but guys saying they are nice guys is off putting as the only person that will know if your nice is the person meeting you.

guys and women and couples are responsable for themselve others do not ruin it for them you can only ruin it for yourself.

most the guys i know who do well on here have got thenselves know via clubs and social but its not a sprint its a lifestyle so no rush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Empathy helps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're just messaging Women and not couples. Then I'd suggest messaging couples if you want to really boost your numbers.

Saying that it does take a bit of bottle to turn up. To some strangers house and f*** his wife/ girlfriend with him or in front of him.

Also a few years ago when I was single I did fab as a single man and it can be a bit of a barren landscape. I did loads better on free to use dating apps than Fab n most women on them are just looking for a bit of fun. Or to have a bit of fun while they looking out for the one.Just like myself when I used them , I actually found my current girlfriend who I swing with now .On Badoo or baboo whatever you call it.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP, I haven't read all the other replies but have looked at your profile.

You have only been here 6 weeks and had a meet 3 weeks ago, according to your verification.

So, I am a bit confused... it's rare for any single guy to get a meet that quickly, yet you're already complaining...

I think that you need to change your expectations of Fab. Getting a meet isn't easy for most, finding a fwb even less so.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria


"OP, I haven't read all the other replies but have looked at your profile.

You have only been here 6 weeks and had a meet 3 weeks ago, according to your verification.

So, I am a bit confused... it's rare for any single guy to get a meet that quickly, yet you're already complaining...

I think that you need to change your expectations of Fab. Getting a meet isn't easy for most, finding a fwb even less so."

Indeed.

I was on here for over years before I managed to meet anyone. I'll admit it was a bit disheartening, but that's just the way things are here. As single men, we are plankton - krill at best... it's nobody's fault, so you just either have to accept it or go elsewhere.

I get that wanting to find blame in others might be cathartic, but it helps nobody. And besides, a meet after just three weeks... seems to me that you're doing okay and don't have much to complain about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lots of interesting and often contradictory responses on here. Two that I find very interesting are that maybe the woman on here, or specifically the single woman, don't want an FWB relationship which would suggest that they might be looking to fuck the whole site. Also I find the comments about my profile name hilarious. Maybe I should change it to Si the sex addict or Si the serial shagger instead? I think I'm just going to stick with various regular dating sites from now on, where although most of the woman claim to be looking for relationships, many are not.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Fab is a marathon not a sprint. Perseverance over a couple of years pays off. Btw OP this is not a dating site !!

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Gosh never seen someone so defensive when asking it seemed for advice. By the way yes some women aren't looking for FWB but doesnt automatically mean they 'Shag the whole site'. If you do stick around maybe chat to people. Read the forums and get an understanding the variety of people who are on this swinging site. I've met some great people over the years. It takes effort and patience to truly get the benefit of being on this site

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton


"OP, I haven't read all the other replies but have looked at your profile.

You have only been here 6 weeks and had a meet 3 weeks ago, according to your verification.

So, I am a bit confused... it's rare for any single guy to get a meet that quickly, yet you're already complaining...

I think that you need to change your expectations of Fab. Getting a meet isn't easy for most, finding a fwb even less so."

I agree not had a meet but not even a message more than a few hours chat would love to chat not bothered about meets just to be acknowledge will be ok

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By *randMrsNorthernCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

It’s a sausage fest on here so you’re in competition with an overwhelming majority of men. Women have the pick on here and have every right to ignore or delete messages. Their inboxes I imagine get hounded.

Just join a dating app, get to a club or stick with it and quit complaining. These topics are all too common on here. What do you expect?

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single men out number the women by a crazy amount and your surprised your average message from an average guy didn’t generate extraordinary results?

I’m shocked "

What's a non-average guy on here and what do they look like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh bless you....not knee-deep in clunge, as you thought you would be? or expected (self-entitled to)?!

Never mind, OP....obviously a lot of us ladies haven't got the memo that we just simply MUST drop our knickers for every guy that mails us!

I apologise unreservedly for myself and all the ladies on the site, that we could possibly have the cheek to think we have a choice who mounts us up and rides us into battle whenever they feel the need!

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Imagine having to put in the work and try to build up a relationship !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fab Swingers rarely delivers for the single guy. FACT. Regular dating sites are far easier to find sex. That's why I'm OUT.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Fab Swingers rarely delivers for the single guy. FACT. Regular dating sites are far easier to find sex. That's why I'm OUT. "

This isn’t a sex site btw. Good luck with your dating sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The op isn't saying it's a dating site, he's just wanting to talk, like the rest of us ....

Boy, empathy is short on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab Swingers rarely delivers for the single guy. FACT. Regular dating sites are far easier to find sex. That's why I'm OUT. "

Best of luck Si....

Wish you well

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Love it when people feel the need to tell everyone they are leaving & why it is everyone else's fault.

Good luck OP.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Are you expecting your FWB to accommodate ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey Sitheniceguy, you are only a youngster - you wait until you get as old, ugly, ignored and cantankerous as me and then you can complain "

Haha

I'll sit next to you

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts


"Fab Swingers rarely delivers for the single guy. FACT. Regular dating sites are far easier to find sex. That's why I'm OUT. "

Bon voyage x

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"The op isn't saying it's a dating site, he's just wanting to talk, like the rest of us ....

Boy, empathy is short on here!"

No he’s wanting sex and upset he isn’t getting any

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Roman wasn’t build in a day… take patience and time… getting that first verification took me years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love it when people feel the need to tell everyone they are leaving & why it is everyone else's fault.

Good luck OP. "

Think it's frustration...

...and I was looking at it as a cry for help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The op isn't saying it's a dating site, he's just wanting to talk, like the rest of us ....

Boy, empathy is short on here!

No he’s wanting sex and upset he isn’t getting any"

Yeah I want sex too...

But I'm sure he knows he has to chat first....

Or am I missing something?

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood


"Fab Swingers rarely delivers for the single guy. FACT. Regular dating sites are far easier to find sex. That's why I'm OUT. "

Bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab Swingers rarely delivers for the single guy. FACT. Regular dating sites are far easier to find sex. That's why I'm OUT. "

Thanks for letting us know op and here’s wishing you the very best of luck.

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If half your messages are being read, as a single guy your doing well!"

He is, my percentage is a lot lower!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“I’ve never met a wiseman, if so it’s a woman! - Kurt Cobain“

OP your a new profile so your expectations are obviously high, which to be honest is completely understandable. You probably had this picture in your mind that women will be throwing themselves at you, as everyone on here just wants to fuck n suck.

But dial down the thoughts from your second brain for a moment, because that will only happen for a very few lucky desirable guys.

So it will take some effort, but you have to be yourself as others will see straight through it.

Women are human beings too, they have their own thoughts, experiences, there isn’t some trick. Your either a fit for someone or your not.

Make it clear on your profile why someone would want to know more about you.

But honestly you sound a little entitled & now showing your true colours mate, your clearly impatient & lack empathy, you throw your toys out the pram if things don’t go your way. Opposite of nice guy, dominating if anything & not the kinky type.

Sorry if that’s harsh but, post like this annoy me.

I’ve had a family loss this week, so im raw!! Don’t go public if you can’t handle the feedback. People are being honest with you.

It’s up to you to take it onboard or not.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Fab Swingers rarely delivers for the single guy. FACT. Regular dating sites are far easier to find sex. That's why I'm OUT. "

Are you using all of your six weeks experience to come up with that FACT ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab Swingers rarely delivers for the single guy. FACT. Regular dating sites are far easier to find sex. That's why I'm OUT.

Are you using all of your six weeks experience to come up with that FACT ?"

How about six years?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is a massive difference between cpls and singles experience on here .....

It's the same at clubs too....

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Like someone said farther up first thing a lot of women do is look at a profile before they even open a message if the profile doesn't appeal they won't answer. It is that simple and then it depends on message content as well a message that doesn't appeal won't get an answer either.

You are on here a very short time already have a veri so you aren't doing that bad plenty of men are on a hell of a lot longer with no veris.

Also the some of your replies which Honestly come across as quite snidey and demeaning towards others will not go in your favour with people who use the forum's as you come across as someone who could quite easily end up being the same in a pm of someone replies to you and things don't go your way. I may be completely wrong but that's the way I see you coming across and while yes it could be frustration on your part has caused you to answer the way you have it's a red flag to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab Swingers rarely delivers for the single guy. FACT. Regular dating sites are far easier to find sex. That's why I'm OUT. "

I’m sure you’ll be missed, off you fuck then x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab Swingers rarely delivers for the single guy. FACT. Regular dating sites are far easier to find sex. That's why I'm OUT.

I’m sure you’ll be missed, off you fuck then x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab Swingers rarely delivers for the single guy. FACT. Regular dating sites are far easier to find sex. That's why I'm OUT.

I’m sure you’ll be missed, off you fuck then x"

Brilliant

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By *leasureman123Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Fab Swingers rarely delivers for the single guy. FACT. Regular dating sites are far easier to find sex. That's why I'm OUT. "

Fab delivers if your more than just a nice guy and put others before yourself!

People on here have hit the nail on the head saying your profile isnt great, little info and the pics are not going to turn many women on unfortunatley.

Sorry to be blunt but most women on here will have the choice of trimmer guys with bigger cocks and also who are more accepted as attractive younger guys contacting them, FACT!

Just being honest with you. sorry fella but your below average on here and thats the problem really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab Swingers rarely delivers for the single guy. FACT. Regular dating sites are far easier to find sex. That's why I'm OUT. "

Ermmmm thought you where going? I’m OUT usually is followed by your profile vanishing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"specifically the single woman, don't want an FWB relationship which would suggest that they might be looking to fuck the whole site. "

Well obviously they don't want to fuck the whole site if you're moaning about not getting an easy shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hoping I've talked him into staying.

I'm a soft cunt today. I'll be a hard faced bitch next week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have sent countless messages over the years that I’ve been on this site and my experience is identical to the OP. I accept that I don’t have the list of attributes most ladies are looking for and unread and deleted messages I have come to accept as normal.

I can absolutely confirm that attending clubs and meeting for real has always been more productive. I have even met ladies who initially deleted my messages and realise meeting me for real is a whole different ball game. I still send messages but I am totally expecting fee if any replies.

Get out and visit clubs. None of us can tell by profile and messaging alone if a connection could be made. It’s worked for me and many like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single men out number the women by a crazy amount and your surprised your average message from an average guy didn’t generate extraordinary results?

I’m shocked

What's a non-average guy on here and what do they look like?"

Not shimmering Adonises like him I assume

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same for all of us.

There's no magic figure or formula to get a response I'm afraid, though from the number of threads that get started on the subject you'd be forgiven for thinking that it's like a level to be completed in an arcade game or something.

When you message someone, they will look at your profile.

If they like what they find, they will read your message.

If they're still interested you may get a reply back.

Just like in the real world

Someone is either going to fancy you or they won't. It's that simple.

Or did you think this was 'dial-a-shag'

Perhaps think of the women on fab as people rather than free escorts and you might enjoy your time here better

A clever reply written with the intent of impressing the ladies with your feminine understanding by a guy who's main objective on here is to get a shag just like all of us ultimately. "

Stay Si,

Get to the clubs, nobody will remember you off here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe just stop trying to chase/impress women.......just go with the flow. It should be a 50/50 scenario. By sending loads of messages you're just setting yourself up for disappointment. By jumping through hoops you've ended up here......which you don't need!

Stay or go, it's upto you. Good luck anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Si

You are just a one in ten ( thousand)

A number on a list

Even though You do exist

Nobody Knows you

Even though you’re always there

A statistic, a reminder

Of a fab world that doesn't care.................

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By *oro11Man
over a year ago

Salisbury


"If half your messages are being read, as a single guy your doing well!"

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow! Judging by some of your replies on this thread OP, it's no wonder your messages aren't getting answered. As said above

This isn't Instashag

Most women look at a profile before readying a message then delete unread if not interested.

Your attitude on the forum will have been picked up on.

We have preferences too (shock horror!) We aren't just going to drop our knickers for anyone that expects it no matter how "nice" they are.

Happy Fabbing

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Hi Si Nice Guy,

I've had a quick look at your profile. I think that might be where you're going wrong.

Your expectations seem unrealistic too.

I think you'd be better off going to the pub where people can see the real you and make an informed choice face to face.

Best of luck though.

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're just messaging Women and not couples. Then I'd suggest messaging couples if you want to really boost your numbers.

Saying that it does take a bit of bottle to turn up. To some strangers house and f*** his wife/ girlfriend with him or in front of him.

Also a few years ago when I was single I did fab as a single man and it can be a bit of a barren landscape. I did loads better on free to use dating apps than Fab n most women on them are just looking for a bit of fun. Or to have a bit of fun while they looking out for the one.Just like myself when I used them , I actually found my current girlfriend who I swing with now .On Badoo or baboo whatever you call it.

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By *arty84Man
over a year ago

Orpington


"OP, I haven't read all the other replies but have looked at your profile.

You have only been here 6 weeks and had a meet 3 weeks ago, according to your verification.

So, I am a bit confused... it's rare for any single guy to get a meet that quickly, yet you're already complaining...

I think that you need to change your expectations of Fab. Getting a meet isn't easy for most, finding a fwb even less so."

^This^

A tonne of single guys, have spent months on here and not gotten a meet, let alone getting verified. If anything try mixing things up, edit the profile, try a different opening message, or even frequent the forums more.

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By *arty84Man
over a year ago

Orpington


"Si

You are just a one in ten ( thousand)

A number on a list

Even though You do exist

Nobody Knows you

Even though you’re always there

A statistic, a reminder

Of a fab world that doesn't care.................

"

Harsh but noice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab Swingers rarely delivers for the single guy. FACT. Regular dating sites are far easier to find sex. That's why I'm OUT. "

Still ere tho eh? I think Fab works exactly how it should for most... Maybe you thought it was a fuckfest of sex addicted people fucking everyone that offered, not a site for people who only fuck people they want to... That is not often the case I'm afraid, hence your disappointment

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"I'm new to this site. I have sent polite and respectful messages to around 30 local woman so far saying that I am looking for a friend with benefits. Half of them have been read and deleted by the woman in question and the other half are still unread after a full 2 weeks. It indicates to me that single men don't have much luck on here or the woman are simply overrun with messages and don't have time to respond. Either way I find it very disappointing. "

I’ve only ever met single men on here so I don’t think it’s as bad as many make it out to be. Everyone I’ve ever met has always done perfectly well on here; no expectations, put in a bit of effort and always met with relative ease.

I’d delete a message like that, maybe they don’t want a FWB? Doesn’t mean they aren’t into single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tend to get much attention on my profile but I think it is more to do with me not messaging a lot of people. I always wondered if there was something up with my profile but more to do with me not meeting requirements (Age) and my lack of messaging others I think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These woe is me posts are getting a bit last year........or am I being obtuse?

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I think too many single guys join expectating to get quick and easy hook ups. We don't think fab quite works like that. It's very different to the likes of Tinder.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I think too many single guys join expectating to get quick and easy hook ups. We don't think fab quite works like that. It's very different to the likes of Tinder."

Any single guys joining Tinder expecting quick and easy hook-ups are going to be wildly disappointed as well. Hah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow! Judging by some of your replies on this thread OP, it's no wonder your messages aren't getting answered. As said above

This isn't Instashag

Most women look at a profile before readying a message then delete unread if not interested.

Your attitude on the forum will have been picked up on.

We have preferences too (shock horror!) We aren't just going to drop our knickers for anyone that expects it no matter how "nice" they are.

Happy Fabbing "

Would that be Instashag .com or .co.uk? I can;t find it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Once my site supporter period is up I'm definitely looking for my fuck fun on the regular dating sites. In my experience woman that aren't swingers are easier as they aren't spoilt for choice. Although saying that I have encountered a couple of swinging woman on dating sites. Probably there so they can get their fun without being bombarded by all the hopeful males that spend years on here and get nowhere judging by some of the responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do they call them dating sites, that's misleading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do they call them dating sites, that's misleading "

I think a fair few blokes mislead to get laid on them too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Once my site supporter period is up I'm definitely looking for my fuck fun on the regular dating sites. In my experience woman that aren't swingers are easier as they aren't spoilt for choice. Although saying that I have encountered a couple of swinging woman on dating sites. Probably there so they can get their fun without being bombarded by all the hopeful males that spend years on here and get nowhere judging by some of the responses. "

I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I'm new to this site. I have sent polite and respectful messages to around 30 local woman so far saying that I am looking for a friend with benefits. Half of them have been read and deleted by the woman in question and the other half are still unread after a full 2 weeks. It indicates to me that single men don't have much luck on here or the woman are simply overrun with messages and don't have time to respond. Either way I find it very disappointing. "

It’s a rookie mistake, no wait most men do it, but you did not mention that you read their profiles.

Could have saved a lot of heartache for you

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Once my site supporter period is up I'm definitely looking for my fuck fun on the regular dating sites. In my experience woman that aren't swingers are easier as they aren't spoilt for choice. Although saying that I have encountered a couple of swinging woman on dating sites. Probably there so they can get their fun without being bombarded by all the hopeful males that spend years on here and get nowhere judging by some of the responses.

I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites. "

Ahhhh, makes sense now

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By *abble-onMan
over a year ago

Minehead


"[Removed by poster at 05/08/21 17:18:33]

You may have deleted that but I seen it

He is right though, if Mrs doesn't like the look of someone they won't get a reply. The reason for this is 'why not?' 'Give me a chance' 'your loss' and the hundreds of others.

Tbf there are exceptions but there's just not enough time in the day to deal with men who think in certain ways."

Off topic, but shorter, your tattoos look amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once my site supporter period is up I'm definitely looking for my fuck fun on the regular dating sites. In my experience woman that aren't swingers are easier as they aren't spoilt for choice. Although saying that I have encountered a couple of swinging woman on dating sites. Probably there so they can get their fun without being bombarded by all the hopeful males that spend years on here and get nowhere judging by some of the responses.

I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites. "

Well aren't you a nasty piece of work Don't let the door hit you on the way out!

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By *abble-onMan
over a year ago

Minehead


"Once my site supporter period is up I'm definitely looking for my fuck fun on the regular dating sites. In my experience woman that aren't swingers are easier as they aren't spoilt for choice. Although saying that I have encountered a couple of swinging woman on dating sites. Probably there so they can get their fun without being bombarded by all the hopeful males that spend years on here and get nowhere judging by some of the responses.

I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites. "

The last part of your comment is entirely unnecessary isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone had been paying attention to the "content" and tone of the OP's forum posts in the lounge, none of this would surprise.

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By *edonisticHandfulWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield


"

I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites. "

And yet it would appear they still aren't meeting you.

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By *abble-onMan
over a year ago

Minehead


"

I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites.

And yet it would appear they still aren't meeting you. "

This tickled me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites.

And yet it would appear they still aren't meeting you. "

Of course not. They are ultra picky. Something many couldn't afford to do in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once my site supporter period is up I'm definitely looking for my fuck fun on the regular dating sites. In my experience woman that aren't swingers are easier as they aren't spoilt for choice. Although saying that I have encountered a couple of swinging woman on dating sites. Probably there so they can get their fun without being bombarded by all the hopeful males that spend years on here and get nowhere judging by some of the responses.

I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites. "

You keep digging now Si, for entertainment value ....

As a bigger girl, I'm still appreciated in the real world!

It's just those guys bore the shit outta me

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By *edonisticHandfulWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield


"

I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites.

And yet it would appear they still aren't meeting you.

Of course not. They are ultra picky. Something many couldn't afford to do in the real world. "

The irony.

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By *abble-onMan
over a year ago

Minehead


"

I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites.

And yet it would appear they still aren't meeting you.

Of course not. They are ultra picky. Something many couldn't afford to do in the real world. "

As your filter has clearly gone missing, I feel I can relax mine a tad. What makes you such a catch that women should be flocking to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites.

And yet it would appear they still aren't meeting you.

Of course not. They are ultra picky. Something many couldn't afford to do in the real world. "

Si, I haven't addressed you directly but I will now.

You made forum posts that were basically just "hey sexy ladies, what do you think of this or that kind of sexual practice?" Calling at least one a "survey" (like the world needs more surveys).

No effort I could detect to engage with other people's forum posts. No evidence of any interest in anything that didn't directly involve women's sexy bits.

Now far be it from me to try and give guidance, I am no teacher, but one of the very few things I am authorative on, having pulled more than one "out of my league" woman in my life, is that if you can't at a bare minimum interest and amuse them, you ain't getting no pussy. Does this even need saying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites.

And yet it would appear they still aren't meeting you.

Of course not. They are ultra picky. Something many couldn't afford to do in the real world.

As your filter has clearly gone missing, I feel I can relax mine a tad. What makes you such a catch that women should be flocking to you?"

Clearly he thinks he's god's gift.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are neither sex nor fetish dispensers. Ignorance is no excuse, they've been telling us long enough

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Of course not. They are ultra picky. Something many couldn't afford to do in the real world.

The irony. "

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By *abble-onMan
over a year ago

Minehead


"

I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites.

And yet it would appear they still aren't meeting you.

Of course not. They are ultra picky. Something many couldn't afford to do in the real world.

As your filter has clearly gone missing, I feel I can relax mine a tad. What makes you such a catch that women should be flocking to you?

Clearly he thinks he's god's gift. "

Ahh I see, clearly I must have missed something on his profile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sure I have come across this dude on the "nice guys" videos on youtube!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice is only one letter away from being an anagram of incel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of interesting and often contradictory responses on here. Two that I find very interesting are that maybe the woman on here, or specifically the single woman, don't want an FWB relationship which would suggest that they might be looking to fuck the whole site. Also I find the comments about my profile name hilarious. Maybe I should change it to Si the sex addict or Si the serial shagger instead? I think I'm just going to stick with various regular dating sites from now on, where although most of the woman claim to be looking for relationships, many are not."

Can not be si the serial shagger if you are getting none

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By *abble-onMan
over a year ago

Minehead


"Nice is only one letter away from being an anagram of incel. "

I was just admiring your artwork and couldn't help but notice the powerpuff girl on your arm haha. Brilliant

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By *abble-onMan
over a year ago

Minehead


"Nice is only one letter away from being an anagram of incel.

I was just admiring your artwork and couldn't help but notice the powerpuff girl on your arm haha. Brilliant "

Entirely off topic of course haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice is only one letter away from being an anagram of incel.

I was just admiring your artwork and couldn't help but notice the powerpuff girl on your arm haha. Brilliant "

You talkin to me? What you on about?

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By *ucelleCouple
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

I always try to reply. But at my age and a couple don’t get too many lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of interesting and often contradictory responses on here. Two that I find very interesting are that maybe the woman on here, or specifically the single woman, don't want an FWB relationship which would suggest that they might be looking to fuck the whole site. Also I find the comments about my profile name hilarious. Maybe I should change it to Si the sex addict or Si the serial shagger instead? I think I'm just going to stick with various regular dating sites from now on, where although most of the woman claim to be looking for relationships, many are not."

Si the sausage stroker?

Or you could turn bi and double your chances ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice is only one letter away from being an anagram of incel.

I was just admiring your artwork and couldn't help but notice the powerpuff girl on your arm haha. Brilliant

Entirely off topic of course haha"

I will assume that was aimed at me lol... I have all three on there and thank you

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By *inxybWoman
over a year ago

Durham


"

I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites.

And yet it would appear they still aren't meeting you.

Of course not. They are ultra picky. Something many couldn't afford to do in the real world. "

How offensive are you? Certainly nothing nice coming across at all.

I’d just like to add that after reviewing your profile, I would never choose you in the ‘real world’ and certainly not on fab!

Good luck with your insta-shag mission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will assume that was aimed at me lol... I have all three on there and thank you "

Makes sense. Thought I was putting signals out I knew nothing about, from the context

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites.

And yet it would appear they still aren't meeting you.

Of course not. They are ultra picky. Something many couldn't afford to do in the real world.

As your filter has clearly gone missing, I feel I can relax mine a tad. What makes you such a catch that women should be flocking to you?

Clearly he thinks he's god's gift. "

His username alone is a red flag so massive that the Spanish could have flown it in battle at Trafalgar.

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By *abble-onMan
over a year ago

Minehead


"Nice is only one letter away from being an anagram of incel.

I was just admiring your artwork and couldn't help but notice the powerpuff girl on your arm haha. Brilliant

Entirely off topic of course haha

I will assume that was aimed at me lol... I have all three on there and thank you "

Apologies, it was haha. Obviously sausage fingers here hit the wrong link. My bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice is only one letter away from being an anagram of incel.

I was just admiring your artwork and couldn't help but notice the powerpuff girl on your arm haha. Brilliant

Entirely off topic of course haha

I will assume that was aimed at me lol... I have all three on there and thank you

Apologies, it was haha. Obviously sausage fingers here hit the wrong link. My bad."

Sausage fingers you say?!?!

So sorry, just a little over excitable today and you have a love little bum

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By *abble-onMan
over a year ago

Minehead


"Nice is only one letter away from being an anagram of incel.

I was just admiring your artwork and couldn't help but notice the powerpuff girl on your arm haha. Brilliant

Entirely off topic of course haha

I will assume that was aimed at me lol... I have all three on there and thank you

Apologies, it was haha. Obviously sausage fingers here hit the wrong link. My bad.

Sausage fingers you say?!?!

So sorry, just a little over excitable today and you have a love little bum "

I feel we should take this to a private chat or someone might get jealous haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always try to reply. But at my age and a couple don’t get too many lol "

Fucking hell ive gone blind!!!!!!

Well tit blind after looking at your amazing pictures.

In honor is si the nice guy I’m changing my name to Tony tit blind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice is only one letter away from being an anagram of incel.

I was just admiring your artwork and couldn't help but notice the powerpuff girl on your arm haha. Brilliant

Entirely off topic of course haha

I will assume that was aimed at me lol... I have all three on there and thank you

Apologies, it was haha. Obviously sausage fingers here hit the wrong link. My bad.

Sausage fingers you say?!?!

So sorry, just a little over excitable today and you have a love little bum

I feel we should take this to a private chat or someone might get jealous haha"

Lol yeah, what with blokes not getting meets n stuff

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By *abble-onMan
over a year ago

Minehead


"Nice is only one letter away from being an anagram of incel.

I was just admiring your artwork and couldn't help but notice the powerpuff girl on your arm haha. Brilliant

Entirely off topic of course haha

I will assume that was aimed at me lol... I have all three on there and thank you

Apologies, it was haha. Obviously sausage fingers here hit the wrong link. My bad.

Sausage fingers you say?!?!

So sorry, just a little over excitable today and you have a love little bum

I feel we should take this to a private chat or someone might get jealous haha

Lol yeah, what with blokes not getting meets n stuff

"

Bloody picky women having a "type", who do they think they are...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, I thought this thread would be dead & buried.

Si, I think you have a typo on your profile.

Isn’t it BiTCHester where you live.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Oh dear oh dear

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By *abble-onMan
over a year ago

Minehead

He's gone strangely quiet now. Hmmm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He's gone strangely quiet now. Hmmm..."

I'm gonna be honest. I'm not a fan of pile-ons, mass dismissal of what's still another human being.

But I stand by what I said. He was just shitposting meaningless "naughty" threads fishing for wank fodder. Even if there were some polite answers, they weren't deserved or earnt.

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By *eviant100Man
over a year ago

Uk

I hate seeing these posts, yes it’s incredibly hard for single guys to have luck and appreciate the hard luck when we want to potentially meet but It does happen, plenty of single male profiles are verified but in my experience of talking and meeting, couples and females get so many messages they simply can’t reply to all

We’ve all had non responses to profiles we like but that’s life

Get back on the horse and try again with someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bring the good vibes back we don't need all this drama!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bring the good vibes back we don't need all this drama! "

Good vibes...

I'm grateful that not all single guys are 'nice'. Yay!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same for all of us.

There's no magic figure or formula to get a response I'm afraid, though from the number of threads that get started on the subject you'd be forgiven for thinking that it's like a level to be completed in an arcade game or something.

When you message someone, they will look at your profile.

If they like what they find, they will read your message.

If they're still interested you may get a reply back.

Just like in the real world

Someone is either going to fancy you or they won't. It's that simple.

Or did you think this was 'dial-a-shag'

Perhaps think of the women on fab as people rather than free escorts and you might enjoy your time here better

A clever reply written with the intent of impressing the ladies with your feminine understanding by a guy who's main objective on here is to get a shag just like all of us ultimately.

I really don’t think this is a ‘clever reply’. It’s a reply written by someone that understands how the site works. If your post was for the intention of finding out why you’re struggling to get attention, it’s best to listen to the people with experience.

If the reason you’re here is to ‘get a shag’ maybe that’s the issue. This is a swinging site. If you’re giving off vibes that you want to find a free sex worker, you’re not likely to attract anyone. If you just want a shag, I’d maybe look to pick someone up in a bar on a Saturday night or go pay for it!

I totally appreciate how frustrating it must be as a single guy, but your profile and attitude is hardly putting you at the top of the pile! "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once my site supporter period is up I'm definitely looking for my fuck fun on the regular dating sites. In my experience woman that aren't swingers are easier as they aren't spoilt for choice. Although saying that I have encountered a couple of swinging woman on dating sites. Probably there so they can get their fun without being bombarded by all the hopeful males that spend years on here and get nowhere judging by some of the responses.

I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites. "

Well op, you wonder why you don't get a reply. With this attitude, there is no wonder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well after reading most of this thread, it is obvious that you do not have a clue what a swinger/being a swinger is.

To start with, it is very much social. You just have added bonuses.

If you feel this site does not work for you, then leave.

Personally, I don't think you will be missed because of your attitude.

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Casting a wide net doesn’t mean it will work. Have you ever tried to engage in conversation with someone… not mention anything sexually and maybe trying to see if there is a connection there ???

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales


"Oh bless you....not knee-deep in clunge, as you thought you would be? or expected (self-entitled to)?!

Never mind, OP....obviously a lot of us ladies haven't got the memo that we just simply MUST drop our knickers for every guy that mails us!

I apologise unreservedly for myself and all the ladies on the site, that we could possibly have the cheek to think we have a choice who mounts us up and rides us into battle whenever they feel the need! "

I’d like to commend you on the use of the word clunge…. So very rarely used in such a good context

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a recreational sex site. Get a grip Simon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Casting a wide net doesn’t mean it will work. Have you ever tried to engage in conversation with someone… not mention anything sexually and maybe trying to see if there is a connection there ??? "

He spoke to me and was very well behaved....

Promise!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"It’s a recreational sex site. Get a grip Simon!"

It’s a swingers site, and not just about hookups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm new to this site. I have sent polite and respectful messages to around 30 local woman so far saying that I am looking for a friend with benefits. Half of them have been read and deleted by the woman in question and the other half are still unread after a full 2 weeks. It indicates to me that single men don't have much luck on here or the woman are simply overrun with messages and don't have time to respond. Either way I find it very disappointing. "

Either you’re doing something wrong or all 30 of the women you messaged are. Chances are it’s not the women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites.

And yet it would appear they still aren't meeting you.

Of course not. They are ultra picky. Something many couldn't afford to do in the real world.

As your filter has clearly gone missing, I feel I can relax mine a tad. What makes you such a catch that women should be flocking to you?

Clearly he thinks he's god's gift.

His username alone is a red flag so massive that the Spanish could have flown it in battle at Trafalgar. "

Sorry to be a history bore but Trafaglar was the french hun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites.

And yet it would appear they still aren't meeting you.

Of course not. They are ultra picky. Something many couldn't afford to do in the real world.

As your filter has clearly gone missing, I feel I can relax mine a tad. What makes you such a catch that women should be flocking to you?

Clearly he thinks he's god's gift.

His username alone is a red flag so massive that the Spanish could have flown it in battle at Trafalgar.

Sorry to be a history bore but Trafaglar was the french hun x "

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

The verdict is now really in. Si I’m not really a nice guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The verdict is now really in. Si I’m not really a nice guy"

Agreed what this entire thread shows is an entitled man who can’t handle rejection. There’s very little to get excited about over the profile but to be honest this and any of his other forum posts paint him as utterly grim x

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites.

And yet it would appear they still aren't meeting you.

Of course not. They are ultra picky. Something many couldn't afford to do in the real world.

As your filter has clearly gone missing, I feel I can relax mine a tad. What makes you such a catch that women should be flocking to you?

Clearly he thinks he's god's gift.

His username alone is a red flag so massive that the Spanish could have flown it in battle at Trafalgar.

Sorry to be a history bore but Trafaglar was the french hun x

"

Don't be sorry for being a history bore; be sorry for being *wrong*. The Spanish were there too. I was specifically thinking of the 32ft x 47ft naval ensign that was taken from the 74-gun Spanish warship San Ildefonso when she was captured by HMS Defence at the Battle of Trafalgar in 1805. Seriously, Google it. The flag survives – it's in the National Maritime Museum.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites.

And yet it would appear they still aren't meeting you.

Of course not. They are ultra picky. Something many couldn't afford to do in the real world.

As your filter has clearly gone missing, I feel I can relax mine a tad. What makes you such a catch that women should be flocking to you?

Clearly he thinks he's god's gift.

His username alone is a red flag so massive that the Spanish could have flown it in battle at Trafalgar.

Sorry to be a history bore but Trafaglar was the french hun x

Don't be sorry for being a history bore; be sorry for being *wrong*. The Spanish were there too. I was specifically thinking of the 32ft x 47ft naval ensign that was taken from the 74-gun Spanish warship San Ildefonso when she was captured by HMS Defence at the Battle of Trafalgar in 1805. Seriously, Google it. The flag survives – it's in the National Maritime Museum. "

Correction: The flag is in the National Museum of the Royal Navy in Portsmouth. It's just so massive that it was last displayed in the National Maritime Museum, for one day in 2005.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Correction: The flag is in the National Museum of the Royal Navy in Portsmouth. It's just so massive that it was last displayed in the National Maritime Museum, for one day in 2005.

"

Oh that’s a fab bit of knowledge, just looked it up... love the painting of it hung in st Paul’s for Nelsons funeral... Agreed, it’s fkn huge! I still say Mr Grumpys red flag is bigger though!

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By *evil in the DomMan
over a year ago

London

Problem is... Most men on here have never stepped foot in a swinging club and it shows. Fab isn't a fuck site site - that's an element for sure and many use it that way but it's about communities, kinks and at the heart of it ya know... Swinging.its changed over the years for sure but its not designed for single guys to get instant fucks with singles girls... There are other sites for that.

A friend of mine literally has over 1000 messages a day; nice at first ya think... Not at all - overwhelming and time consuming. I'd hate to be in her shoes and let's be honest; the majority of these low effort, faceless profiles are time wasters anyway... So why would you reply to them all.

Most genuine women /couples will find you if they want to... And if they don't reply then take that as polite no and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can understand that it’s disappointing for you, but you’re definitely not alone! I’m sure you’ve seen the numerous forum posts on this, having said that I can imagine that doesn’t help the frustration. From what you’ve said, you’re looking for someone local, and someone open to fwb! That’s quite specific and may also reduce your responses, the ladies you message may not want fwb, or to meet someone close by for example! We have a low level of expectation from fab, so anything above that is a bonus! Happy fabbing, Miss Pc "

This lady speaks sense and makes good points OP

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Problem is... Most men on here have never stepped foot in a swinging club and it shows. Fab isn't a fuck site site - that's an element for sure and many use it that way but it's about communities, kinks and at the heart of it ya know... Swinging.its changed over the years for sure but its not designed for single guys to get instant fucks with singles girls... There are other sites for that.

A friend of mine literally has over 1000 messages a day; nice at first ya think... Not at all - overwhelming and time consuming. I'd hate to be in her shoes and let's be honest; the majority of these low effort, faceless profiles are time wasters anyway... So why would you reply to them all.

Most genuine women /couples will find you if they want to... And if they don't reply then take that as polite no and move on. "

What are these sites designed for single guys to get fucks with single women? Asking for a friend.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


""I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites.

And yet it would appear they still aren't meeting you.

Of course not. They are ultra picky. Something many couldn't afford to do in the real world.

As your filter has clearly gone missing, I feel I can relax mine a tad. What makes you such a catch that women should be flocking to you?

Clearly he thinks he's god's gift.

His username alone is a red flag so massive that the Spanish could have flown it in battle at Trafalgar.

Sorry to be a history bore but Trafaglar was the french hun x

Don't be sorry for being a history bore; be sorry for being *wrong*. The Spanish were there too. I was specifically thinking of the 32ft x 47ft naval ensign that was taken from the 74-gun Spanish warship San Ildefonso when she was captured by HMS Defence at the Battle of Trafalgar in 1805. Seriously, Google it. The flag survives – it's in the National Maritime Museum. "

Correction: The flag is in the National Museum of the Royal Navy in Portsmouth. It's just so massive that it was last displayed in the National Maritime Museum, for one day in 2005.

Oh that’s a fab bit of knowledge, just looked it up... love the painting of it hung in st Paul’s for Nelsons funeral... Agreed, it’s fkn huge! I still say Mr Grumpys red flag is bigger though! "

Well, of the 15 Spanish ships that fought alongside the French at Trafalgar, the 74-gun San Ildefonso would have been one of the smallest. The biggest ship in the battle – and the most heavily armed in the world during the Age of Sail – was the 136-gun Nuestra Señora de la Santísima Trinidad. She would presumably have had an even larger red flag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh this is still going strong....

Waves to Si

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites.

And yet it would appear they still aren't meeting you.

Of course not. They are ultra picky. Something many couldn't afford to do in the real world.

As your filter has clearly gone missing, I feel I can relax mine a tad. What makes you such a catch that women should be flocking to you?

Clearly he thinks he's god's gift.

His username alone is a red flag so massive that the Spanish could have flown it in battle at Trafalgar.

Sorry to be a history bore but Trafaglar was the french hun x

Don't be sorry for being a history bore; be sorry for being *wrong*. The Spanish were there too. I was specifically thinking of the 32ft x 47ft naval ensign that was taken from the 74-gun Spanish warship San Ildefonso when she was captured by HMS Defence at the Battle of Trafalgar in 1805. Seriously, Google it. The flag survives – it's in the National Maritime Museum. "

Correction: The flag is in the National Museum of the Royal Navy in Portsmouth. It's just so massive that it was last displayed in the National Maritime Museum, for one day in 2005.

Oh that’s a fab bit of knowledge, just looked it up... love the painting of it hung in st Paul’s for Nelsons funeral... Agreed, it’s fkn huge! I still say Mr Grumpys red flag is bigger though!

Well, of the 15 Spanish ships that fought alongside the French at Trafalgar, the 74-gun San Ildefonso would have been one of the smallest. The biggest ship in the battle – and the most heavily armed in the world during the Age of Sail – was the 136-gun Nuestra Señora de la Santísima Trinidad. She would presumably have had an even larger red flag! "

Who cares about the size of their flags they lost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh this is still going strong....

Waves to Si "

You might encourage him... make sure you arrange a meet if he messages you, we don’t want escalation x

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


""I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites.

And yet it would appear they still aren't meeting you.

Of course not. They are ultra picky. Something many couldn't afford to do in the real world.

As your filter has clearly gone missing, I feel I can relax mine a tad. What makes you such a catch that women should be flocking to you?

Clearly he thinks he's god's gift.

His username alone is a red flag so massive that the Spanish could have flown it in battle at Trafalgar.

Sorry to be a history bore but Trafaglar was the french hun x

Don't be sorry for being a history bore; be sorry for being *wrong*. The Spanish were there too. I was specifically thinking of the 32ft x 47ft naval ensign that was taken from the 74-gun Spanish warship San Ildefonso when she was captured by HMS Defence at the Battle of Trafalgar in 1805. Seriously, Google it. The flag survives – it's in the National Maritime Museum. "

Correction: The flag is in the National Museum of the Royal Navy in Portsmouth. It's just so massive that it was last displayed in the National Maritime Museum, for one day in 2005.

Oh that’s a fab bit of knowledge, just looked it up... love the painting of it hung in st Paul’s for Nelsons funeral... Agreed, it’s fkn huge! I still say Mr Grumpys red flag is bigger though!

Well, of the 15 Spanish ships that fought alongside the French at Trafalgar, the 74-gun San Ildefonso would have been one of the smallest. The biggest ship in the battle – and the most heavily armed in the world during the Age of Sail – was the 136-gun Nuestra Señora de la Santísima Trinidad. She would presumably have had an even larger red flag!

Who cares about the size of their flags they lost "

Well, if you know anything at all about the Battle of Trafalgar (which was way more interesting than entitled men whining on the internet), you'll understand that the size of these ships, including their flags, very much worked against them.

Quite a lot like the OP in this thread, in fact.

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By *KentMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Well, I’m disappointment that I wasn’t with this thread from the beginning!

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Well, I’m disappointment that I wasn’t with this thread from the beginning! "

Late to the party lol

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By *KentMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Well, I’m disappointment that I wasn’t with this thread from the beginning!

Late to the party lol"

Always the way! What a rollercoaster though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once my site supporter period is up I'm definitely looking for my fuck fun on the regular dating sites. In my experience woman that aren't swingers are easier as they aren't spoilt for choice. Although saying that I have encountered a couple of swinging woman on dating sites. Probably there so they can get their fun without being bombarded by all the hopeful males that spend years on here and get nowhere judging by some of the responses.

I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites.

The last part of your comment is entirely unnecessary isn't it?"

Isn't it just!

OP every reply reveals a little bit more about your true personality and nature and quite frankly its doesn't make for nice reading.

KJ

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Op you have been here before you know the score. I seem to remember similar flounces as well.

Whilst Tinder is good for procuring a quick shag I prefer this place because when you suggest going to a swinging club they don’t run a mile.

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral

Surely the OP is just a troll...in more ways than one

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

Poor choice of name! If you're not happy, why don't you just leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely the OP is just a troll...in more ways than one"

That’s a bit harsh on trolls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites.

And yet it would appear they still aren't meeting you.

Of course not. They are ultra picky. Something many couldn't afford to do in the real world. "

FAB natural selection works perfectly again.

Posts like this, profiles like yours and the vitriolic sense of entitlement are what's hindering a lot of decent guys on here. Positive, fun loving people read your output and their impression of guys goes down another %. In a couple of minutes there'll be another post asking for the magic message formula to get meets, or moaning about how hard it is to get meets, so the cycle continues.

OP, you're clearly not a swinger, and not looking to meet people. You want a facilitated wank, and there are far better places for you to achieve that.

Good luck elsewhere, no need to wait for your pass to expire.

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral


"Surely the OP is just a troll...in more ways than one

That’s a bit harsh on trolls "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh this is still going strong....

Waves to Si

You might encourage him... make sure you arrange a meet if he messages you, we don’t want escalation x"

I've messaged him dear.....

Don't think I need to encourage him. He knows when to shut up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh this is still going strong....

Waves to Si

You might encourage him... make sure you arrange a meet if he messages you, we don’t want escalation x

I've messaged him dear.....

Don't think I need to encourage him. He knows when to shut up!"

But he’s such a fkn catch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh this is still going strong....

Waves to Si

You might encourage him... make sure you arrange a meet if he messages you, we don’t want escalation x

I've messaged him dear.....

Don't think I need to encourage him. He knows when to shut up!

But he’s such a fkn catch? "

This hard face bitch took pity. What can I say, I stand alone!

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Oh this is still going strong....

Waves to Si

You might encourage him... make sure you arrange a meet if he messages you, we don’t want escalation x

I've messaged him dear.....

Don't think I need to encourage him. He knows when to shut up!

But he’s such a fkn catch?

This hard face bitch took pity. What can I say, I stand alone!

"

Get a room!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have a limp dick but cum way too quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a recreational sex site. Get a grip Simon!

It’s a swingers site, and not just about hookups."

Please explain the difference?

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Just copy, paste and resend every week until you get a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just copy, paste and resend every week until you get a reply."
sounds a little part timer ish to me. Daily at least ...?

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Once my site supporter period is up I'm definitely looking for my fuck fun on the regular dating sites. In my experience woman that aren't swingers are easier as they aren't spoilt for choice. Although saying that I have encountered a couple of swinging woman on dating sites. Probably there so they can get their fun without being bombarded by all the hopeful males that spend years on here and get nowhere judging by some of the responses.

I should add that because swinging woman are spoilt for choice by the sheer number of men vying for their attention, they also tend, naturally I suppose, to be ultra picky. I also have a theory that the reason there are a high percentage of BBWs on swinging sites is because they have a far better chance of getting laid on them than out in the real world or on dating sites. "

Wow... Just wow... Projecting much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh this is still going strong....

Waves to Si

You might encourage him... make sure you arrange a meet if he messages you, we don’t want escalation x

I've messaged him dear.....

Don't think I need to encourage him. He knows when to shut up!

But he’s such a fkn catch?

This hard face bitch took pity. What can I say, I stand alone!

Get a room! "

Ooo a padded room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh this is still going strong....

Waves to Si

You might encourage him... make sure you arrange a meet if he messages you, we don’t want escalation x

I've messaged him dear.....

Don't think I need to encourage him. He knows when to shut up!

But he’s such a fkn catch?

This hard face bitch took pity. What can I say, I stand alone!

Get a room!

Ooo a padded room "

I have restraints... bring your strapon and we can take shifts on him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Problem is... Most men on here have never stepped foot in a swinging club and it shows. Fab isn't a fuck site site - that's an element for sure and many use it that way but it's about communities, kinks and at the heart of it ya know... Swinging.its changed over the years for sure but its not designed for single guys to get instant fucks with singles girls... There are other sites for that.

A friend of mine literally has over 1000 messages a day; nice at first ya think... Not at all - overwhelming and time consuming. I'd hate to be in her shoes and let's be honest; the majority of these low effort, faceless profiles are time wasters anyway... So why would you reply to them all.

Most genuine women /couples will find you if they want to... And if they don't reply then take that as polite no and move on. "

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over a year ago

If I'm not physically attracted to someone or their message and/or profile isn't for me I don't respond.

Any woman looking at my profile would see that for a woman I'm very unpopular but if I reply to all those who have ignored my preferences, or who aren't for me ( which is a lot of who message) I would spend all my time doing that. I would rather use the forums and chat to those I intend to meet, or who are my friends.

Just accept it or find another site.

These posts are really grating on me now.

I'm not a robot I'm a human and I can't be sending messagea just to say no all the time.

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over a year ago


"If I'm not physically attracted to someone or their message and/or profile isn't for me I don't respond.

Any woman looking at my profile would see that for a woman I'm very unpopular but if I reply to all those who have ignored my preferences, or who aren't for me ( which is a lot of who message) I would spend all my time doing that. I would rather use the forums and chat to those I intend to meet, or who are my friends.

Just accept it or find another site.

These posts are really grating on me now.

I'm not a robot I'm a human and I can't be sending messagea just to say no all the time."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How the hell do women receive 2000 messages everyday?

My photos really need improving!

And a personality and face transplant probably wouldn't go amiss!

I'm terrible st replying and I have no boobs, and a long bio so I probably put most off.

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