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By *rivervader OP   Man
over a year ago

bolton

When u have been chatting for ages and pics have been seen when it gets to meeting they suddenly stop txting?

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Could be that they changed their mind and decided they didn’t want to meet, or they enjoyed the attention of messages but had no intention of ever meeting, or they were a man pretending to be a woman messaging you for the kicks, or a million other reasons why people choose to do what they do.

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By *acial giverMan
over a year ago

hull

Most prob a cock teaser. Happens too many times

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The short answer is they don't want to meet

It's not fair if they've given the impression that they will meet you but if you were just chatting in general then there's no harm done

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley


"When u have been chatting for ages and pics have been seen when it gets to meeting they suddenly stop txting?"

Set a time limit for yourself you can waste a lot of time.

2 weeks is my limit if no meet after that it ain't going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most prob a cock teaser. Happens too many times"

Mmm wonder why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weve found alot of women on here dont actually meet, weve had it a few times, all keen loads of chat, exchange numbers etc, then when it comes to meet, radio silence, not all are like this, but weve had believe it or not more women do it than any other group, it hapens, nothing you can do, just part of fab, thats why we dont rely on fab for meets

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"When u have been chatting for ages and pics have been seen when it gets to meeting they suddenly stop txting?

Set a time limit for yourself you can waste a lot of time.

2 weeks is my limit if no meet after that it ain't going to happen."

Pretty much the same here.

I tend to steer the conversation away from direct sex talk too - so anyone looking for cheap thrills won’t get it from me. So far it’s worked - since restrictions lifted I’ve met 3 lovely guys. One I’ve seen again twice and the other two I’ll see again when diaries align - which is exactly what I’m looking for.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"When u have been chatting for ages and pics have been seen when it gets to meeting they suddenly stop txting?"

Love Island is probably on, or their are just bored of the conversation and have realized it's not going anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually someone else pal .. someone will always be kicking you’re heels lol ...

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By *arte_Blanche_NECouple
over a year ago

Northern


"When u have been chatting for ages and pics have been seen when it gets to meeting they suddenly stop txting?

Set a time limit for yourself you can waste a lot of time.

2 weeks is my limit if no meet after that it ain't going to happen."

We’ve only just met a couple we’ve been chatting with for 2 year lol people have commitments and other meets planned, obviously there’s been the pandemic to consider and distance. Would definitely say 2 weeks is a bit hasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When u have been chatting for ages and pics have been seen when it gets to meeting they suddenly stop txting?"

Probably catching their breath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men do it a lot too ..it's not just women xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When u have been chatting for ages and pics have been seen when it gets to meeting they suddenly stop txting?

Set a time limit for yourself you can waste a lot of time.

2 weeks is my limit if no meet after that it ain't going to happen.

We’ve only just met a couple we’ve been chatting with for 2 year lol people have commitments and other meets planned, obviously there’s been the pandemic to consider and distance. Would definitely say 2 weeks is a bit hasty "

I was chatting to my FWB for a year before we met up. He's awesome!

More recently I've been chatting to 2 guys, and due to their own faults, I've stopped. Because one was just being crude and rude even though at first he acted the perfect gent, I was getting giddy when we were texting. The other was way too full on with the compliments and his desire to all but fuckin marry me. Again, a turn off. I guess there's some kinda line somewhere that my subconscious just won't cross...

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

Mine just deactivated their profile

We had chatted daily for weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very plausible reason might be they were bored with the conversation.

Some of you guys are just not as exciting or stimulating as you believe

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

You answer could be like most men are most likely chatting with more than one person a female could be as well so it's what's grabbed their attention just be grateful that you've had the opportunity to chat with someone regardless as people are able to just communicate without any further it's still chemistry.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Because they have found some one more interesting

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Because they are bored

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By *rivervader OP   Man
over a year ago

bolton

Didn’t think I was that boring

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice


"Didn’t think I was that boring"
it’s the luck of the draw op pick your self up dust your self down and keep trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're planning on meeting and they stop talking, then cold feet I imagine. I guess there are too many who are all talk and just fancy the online part. But people are just dicks and find someone new and more exciting.

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By *rivervader OP   Man
over a year ago

bolton


"If you're planning on meeting and they stop talking, then cold feet I imagine. I guess there are too many who are all talk and just fancy the online part. But people are just dicks and find someone new and more exciting. "

Well just read ur profile a very interesting read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's often just another bloke

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

This is why I won't do new chats at present because right now I'm not doing new meets and I tell people this from the start when they message quite a few ask to just chat anyhow but few actually mean that and you always get the so when are we going to meet message and when you point out that you said it at the start they get stroppy.

I also when I am meeting new people prefer to chat for a while and get to know someone and so far that has worked out well and I've never been ghosted etc .

I have however stopped chatting with people though when they get pushy or crude in messages or are constantly blowing smoke up my ass by complimenting me all the time and acting like I'm the best thing ever. I'm not I'm just an average 48 year old who has more wobbly bits than I would like to have and old enough to know when someone isn't being genuine .

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester

Bored, sex chat creeps in , maybe something was said we're not comfortable with, someone else took our attention...anything...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get bored normally but it's usually before a guy mentions meeting

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Because they are actually dudes sitting in their mom's basement wanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A very plausible reason might be they were bored with the conversation.

Some of you guys are just not as exciting or stimulating as you believe"

Exactly. I've found some conversations on here to be hard work.

Most amusing when people who state on their profile that they don't want single word messages, themselves are only able to communicate with one or two words at a time.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"This is why I won't do new chats at present because right now I'm not doing new meets and I tell people this from the start when they message quite a few ask to just chat anyhow but few actually mean that and you always get the so when are we going to meet message and when you point out that you said it at the start they get stroppy.

I also when I am meeting new people prefer to chat for a while and get to know someone and so far that has worked out well and I've never been ghosted etc .

I have however stopped chatting with people though when they get pushy or crude in messages or are constantly blowing smoke up my ass by complimenting me all the time and acting like I'm the best thing ever. I'm not I'm just an average 48 year old who has more wobbly bits than I would like to have and old enough to know when someone isn't being genuine ."

Yes, pretty much the same experience here.

My profile makes it pretty clear I'm not looking for anything just now, of course a lot of men don't bother to read it before messaging & then try to get me to chat/meet anyway

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By *r ExperimentMan
over a year ago

Northeast


"A very plausible reason might be they were bored with the conversation.

Some of you guys are just not as exciting or stimulating as you believe"

Be that as it may if that is the case then shame on them, because they could atleast have the spine to say "look this is not going anywhere I've lost interest etc" at least give some form of closure, the ones that are chatting and then just stop or block there nothing but cowards.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Most women never stop chatting!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"When u have been chatting for ages and pics have been seen when it gets to meeting they suddenly stop txting?"

From my experience, women chat none stop for the entire time that they are awake... they might just be talking to someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are all talk about meeting and when you put it to them, they make up an excuse not to meet

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"When u have been chatting for ages and pics have been seen when it gets to meeting they suddenly stop txting?

Set a time limit for yourself you can waste a lot of time.

2 weeks is my limit if no meet after that it ain't going to happen."

I agree with this idea of time limit. 2 weeks is bit short (perhaps 3/4 weeks). But need some sort of progress (perhaps chat on phone/text on phone) within a time limit. It would be the same with a vanilla dating site...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A very plausible reason might be they were bored with the conversation.

Some of you guys are just not as exciting or stimulating as you believe

Be that as it may if that is the case then shame on them, because they could atleast have the spine to say "look this is not going anywhere I've lost interest etc" at least give some form of closure, the ones that are chatting and then just stop or block there nothing but cowards."

We get enough abuse saying no, straight off the bat... Already been called cock teases further up the thread. I don't blame any women that feel, explaining themselves to anyone on here is not something they want to partake in tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree …..conversations that are too full on leave nothing to the imagination and in a way it’s like you’ve already met! I like to get to know a guy mentally

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire


"When u have been chatting for ages and pics have been seen when it gets to meeting they suddenly stop txting?

Set a time limit for yourself you can waste a lot of time.

2 weeks is my limit if no meet after that it ain't going to happen.

We’ve only just met a couple we’ve been chatting with for 2 year lol people have commitments and other meets planned, obviously there’s been the pandemic to consider and distance. Would definitely say 2 weeks is a bit hasty "

Yes quite agree

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"A very plausible reason might be they were bored with the conversation.

Some of you guys are just not as exciting or stimulating as you believe

Be that as it may if that is the case then shame on them, because they could atleast have the spine to say "look this is not going anywhere I've lost interest etc" at least give some form of closure, the ones that are chatting and then just stop or block there nothing but cowards."

Closure? Oh dear - we’ve gone all American!

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