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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do young guys get un-noticed or disreggarded more or less straight away? I'm finding it extremely hard for people to take me seriously!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How young are we talking?

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

My lower age limit is 25 because I teach yo to about 23 or so and it would feel extremely strange to have a meet with someo ne from the same age group. Anyway, experience counts for a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its around 30 wouldn't really go any lower. I think most guys an girls over 40 can quite easily have kids in there twenties ,an that makes you view younger people through a parents eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me its around 30 wouldn't really go any lower. I think most guys an girls over 40 can quite easily have kids in there twenties ,an that makes you view younger people through a parents eyes."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do young guys get un-noticed or disreggarded more or less straight away? I'm finding it extremely hard for people to take me seriously! "

I think because a lot act young.

Men in their 20's often don't have the life experience that I appreciate. No depth, or gravitas. Many insist on communicating in textspeak. And younger guys can also be very hormone-driven, focused on what they want and many have an air of entitlement, just because they are young and fit.

I'll consider a man in his 20's if he impresses me, but few do.

I realise there are lots of generalisations above but you asked a general question about why young guys don't appeal, so generalisations are necessary to answer.

In short, I don't disregard a man based on his age. It comes down to the quality of his profile and message(s).

Your profile would make me dismiss you, not your age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone does. Honestly though my let down numbers are bigger for younger lads than older guys.

I like young guys. Youngest was 18 and we had lots of fun. But I have to be careful at that

Age as my son is a little older and don't want to meet a friend of his.

Cali

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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham


"Why do young guys get un-noticed or disreggarded more or less straight away? I'm finding it extremely hard for people to take me seriously! "
think back to june you did not go un-noticed we was stoping at vaxhall carvan park in out caravan

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do young guys get un-noticed or disreggarded more or less straight away? I'm finding it extremely hard for people to take me seriously! think back to june you did not go un-noticed we was stoping at vaxhall carvan park in out caravan "

Even if you saw me - your profile just this second wouldn't let me send a message because I'm outside your age range. I understand young guys become let downs but I noticed no one seems to give me the time of day for that reason x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Young men are great for parties but due to their lack of conversation I prefer not to meet them one on one. Also I get a bit downcast when they look at me with disappointment because they assume all 45 year olds look like Julia Roberts. One or two shags later and they run out the house like rabbits.

At a party, gangbang or club they are much more fun as both they and me can move on if we do not click.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do young guys get un-noticed or disreggarded more or less straight away? I'm finding it extremely hard for people to take me seriously! "

I have a son who is older than you so for me your age group would feel soooooo wrong!

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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham


"Why do young guys get un-noticed or disreggarded more or less straight away? I'm finding it extremely hard for people to take me seriously! think back to june you did not go un-noticed we was stoping at vaxhall carvan park in out caravan

Even if you saw me - your profile just this second wouldn't let me send a message because I'm outside your age range. I understand young guys become let downs but I noticed no one seems to give me the time of day for that reason x"

at that time filter was not on profile was not a meet for sex just asked if you wanted a drink in town just being the friendly cpl we are but you did not get back to us

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By *rryTMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I always get told I look younger than I am, don't know if this helps or hinders meets??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer younger guys myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Near to me there Zero swingers clubs or parties being held honestly I'm a young business man worked hard and feel I can hold a pretty good level of conversation. But all I'm asking Is I'd like people just to relax a little on the young ones lol! Yeah there are those time wasters but there are a few good people left haha x and anyone want to come say hi.... Lol feel free still haven't actually physically met someone for sex yet off here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be blunt reading your profile it is your attitude not your age that is the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Much prefer younger guys myself"

yey maybe i'm in luck then

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I've just read your profile. It's very good in comparison xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just read your profile. It's very good in comparison xx "

was that referring to me? If so I am a bit confused as to what you mean x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Near to me there Zero swingers clubs or parties being held honestly I'm a young business man worked hard and feel I can hold a pretty good level of conversation. But all I'm asking Is I'd like people just to relax a little on the young ones lol! Yeah there are those time wasters but there are a few good people left haha x and anyone want to come say hi.... Lol feel free still haven't actually physically met someone for sex yet off here x"

Like I said earlier, and others have also said, your profile would put me off, not your age.

Deciding your age is the problem is convenient for you, probably, because then you can blame everyone else. The truth is that there's a lot you could do to be more appealing, but you are choosing not to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be blunt reading your profile it is your attitude not your age that is the problem."

My attitude? Im interested now? What kind of attitude does my profile throw off then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see anything particularly wrong with his profile (apart from the spelling mistakes) compared to some I've seen on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be blunt reading your profile it is your attitude not your age that is the problem.

My attitude? Im interested now? What kind of attitude does my profile throw off then? "

Arrogance and entitlement for starters. It's all about you. Then there's the talk of filming will certainly put some people off. You want to be a sub and a bull smacks of covering all bases and making yourself more exciting. 9 1/2 cock smacks of bullshit.

Then there's much discussed singleman/can't accommodate issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it not better than the majority of single blokes profiles in that it's longer than 2 lines or the classic 'I'll fill this in later'. Fuck me people do like moaning about nothing on here don't they!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be blunt reading your profile it is your attitude not your age that is the problem.

My attitude? Im interested now? What kind of attitude does my profile throw off then?

Arrogance and entitlement for starters. It's all about you. Then there's the talk of filming will certainly put some people off. You want to be a sub and a bull smacks of covering all bases and making yourself more exciting. 9 1/2 cock smacks of bullshit.

Then there's much discussed singleman/can't accommodate issue.

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Anyone who disagrees with him is rude, apparently. Another toys out of the pram type. So not impressive.

To each his own. It's not me struggling to get meets.

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