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"I personally message. I rarely wink. I find that probably 90% of my messages go unread anyway haha. " You aren’t alone there, we probably send more than we receive lol | |||
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"I prefer to receive a message to a wink as well. However because majority just get deleted or stay unread a wink is a quick and easy way to see if someone is interested. If I get one back I then message. If not I don’t tend to bother as I assume not interested. Works for me. Everyone has their own preferences though " You’re right, each to their own. | |||
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"I would wink if I didn't perfectly match a profile requirement and if I get a wink back I would follow up with a message, it's like getting permission if you are unsure." Fair play, makes sense. Out of interest do you ever get any responses back from this though? | |||
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"It’s very rare for me to look at winks unless it’s part of a forum game, I prefer the personal touch of a message but has to be a refreshing message." Messages always answered and I don’t always ignore winks… depends on the sender x | |||
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"So we aren’t averse to the occasional wink but have people just gave up on messaging now? Messages are without a doubt a preference for us as an intro and will always get our attention and I’m pretty confident most would prefer this. Am I wrong? Mr " For me their filters are set so I can't send a message it's the only way I can show my appreciation for the glimps ino their sex life | |||
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"I would wink if I didn't perfectly match a profile requirement and if I get a wink back I would follow up with a message, it's like getting permission if you are unsure. Fair play, makes sense. Out of interest do you ever get any responses back from this though?" | |||
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"I would wink if I didn't perfectly match a profile requirement and if I get a wink back I would follow up with a message, it's like getting permission if you are unsure. Fair play, makes sense. Out of interest do you ever get any responses back from this though?" I don't & don't really expect to my one & only goal is to try to be flattering or complimentary in any way a can | |||
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"I would wink if I didn't perfectly match a profile requirement and if I get a wink back I would follow up with a message, it's like getting permission if you are unsure. Fair play, makes sense. Out of interest do you ever get any responses back from this though?" I don't & don't really expect to my one & only goal is to try to be flattering or complimentary in any way a can As well as not be a time waster | |||
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"We agree, winking feels a little lazy to us, we don't respond to them anymore. When we winked back 99% of the time that's the end of any interaction, so it looks like the other profile wants us to do the leg work and ultimately makes us think their either not that interested, talkative or just lazy. Or maybe over thought the whole thing " yeah we think the same sometimes | |||
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"To be honest I seldom look at the winks I get." Winks .. lol | |||
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"I get a sense of excitement logging on and seeing messages. I don't mind winks either but prefer the personal touch. " I like Winks I guess cuz it encourages me to send a message in return not feeling I'm not being a time waster | |||
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"To be honest I seldom look at the winks I get." Not surprised, we have a few single female friends on here and they can’t get through the messages never mind the winks | |||
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"To be honest I seldom look at the winks I get. Not surprised, we have a few single female friends on here and they can’t get through the messages never mind the winks " I message but very rare get an answer back | |||
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"Don't think I've ever sent a wink. To me it says "I'm interested in you but only if you are prepared to put the effort on first"" it's just a wink man! | |||
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"I personally message. I rarely wink. I find that probably 90% of my messages go unread anyway haha. You aren’t alone there, we probably send more than we receive lol " There must be some fools on here to ignore your messages. I send a few and always make sure it is personalised to the persons profile, then it sits un read. So I do wink, but they go ignored as well. I sound bitter but I'm really not, there is always someone for every body even if it takes some time | |||
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"I would wink if I didn't perfectly match a profile requirement and if I get a wink back I would follow up with a message, it's like getting permission if you are unsure." Yeah same | |||
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"I would wink if I didn't perfectly match a profile requirement and if I get a wink back I would follow up with a message, it's like getting permission if you are unsure. Yeah same " I always feel winks get ignored at least with a message you can show a bit character. | |||
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"So we aren’t averse to the occasional wink but have people just gave up on messaging now? Messages are without a doubt a preference for us as an intro and will always get our attention and I’m pretty confident most would prefer this. Am I wrong? Mr " If you were closer and interested in meeting men I’d definitely message, but it’s a risk as the percentage of replies is slim so I’m reasonable careful about messaging but your profile looks quite good I used to wink but it seems pointless as most ladies say they don’t even look at them .. My take on it | |||
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"So we aren’t averse to the occasional wink but have people just gave up on messaging now? Messages are without a doubt a preference for us as an intro and will always get our attention and I’m pretty confident most would prefer this. Am I wrong? Mr If you were closer and interested in meeting men I’d definitely message, but it’s a risk as the percentage of replies is slim so I’m reasonable careful about messaging but your profile looks quite good I used to wink but it seems pointless as most ladies say they don’t even look at them .. My take on it " We get winks all the time from profiles who don’t even bother to look at who we are looking to meet and how far away we are. | |||
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"So we aren’t averse to the occasional wink but have people just gave up on messaging now? Messages are without a doubt a preference for us as an intro and will always get our attention and I’m pretty confident most would prefer this. Am I wrong? Mr " I always prefer to either send or receive a message Have to be honest I'm never to sure what a wink means For me it's quite simply I really like your profile/pics, which I've put at the bottom of my profile..for the few people who read profiles So there's times I'll wink at people from the South of England But if I receive a wink I don't know what to take from it, maybe that's more my problem than the winkers tho | |||
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"I take anything lol" lol bold statement | |||
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"I take anything lol lol bold statement " | |||
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"I like to show interest with a wink, if I get a reply or a wink back in very happy to send a message, you can write a nice message take a bit of time and then get nothing in return not even a check of your profile, seems a bit pointless sometimes" That’s the norm though, not everyone will respond. | |||
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"I like to show interest with a wink, if I get a reply or a wink back in very happy to send a message, you can write a nice message take a bit of time and then get nothing in return not even a check of your profile, seems a bit pointless sometimes That’s the norm though, not everyone will respond. " It is what it is I suppose, just my two penneth ! | |||
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"Winks shared are a good way of showing interest, I think that they should always be followed up with a message though if a wink is sent back." Hmmm yeah agreed, I think our frustration with this is unnecessary winks from people we are clearly not looking to meet. We wouldn’t wink or message someone who wasn’t looking to meet couples that fit our profile x | |||
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"I take anything lol lol bold statement " Mean I look at both and answer to both, doesn’t cost anything to be responsive | |||
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"A wank is good to break the ice or message is nice to " Wank or wink? | |||
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"I take anything lol lol bold statement Mean I look at both and answer to both, doesn’t cost anything to be responsive " Some say this but we’ve seen a female friends account and she gets thousands of winks and messages every day. There’s no way she could respond to all or even have the time to look at all of the accounts. | |||
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"My thoughts are that being a mature single guy in a sea of literally thousands, a wink will get you nowhere, and probably not even get your profile viewed. A carefully crafted message in response to what someone is looking for generally gets read. They are responded to about 20% of the time, even if it's a polite not for us. I can live with that" I would say this is bang on Mr | |||
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"I would wink if I didn't perfectly match a profile requirement and if I get a wink back I would follow up with a message, it's like getting permission if you are unsure. Fair play, makes sense. Out of interest do you ever get any responses back from this though?" We do the same | |||
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"Be careful tho , some wink and when you wink back they block , strange world we live " Lol yeah, also like when people block you for not reading a message within 10 mins | |||
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"Be careful tho , some wink and when you wink back they block , strange world we live Lol yeah, also like when people block you for not reading a message within 10 mins " I’d wait days for you | |||
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"I would wink if I didn't perfectly match a profile requirement and if I get a wink back I would follow up with a message, it's like getting permission if you are unsure. Fair play, makes sense. Out of interest do you ever get any responses back from this though?" Yes, sometimes a polite thanks and a few exchanges and one has led to a regular meet and friendship with a couple who's age range I was outside of, I'm outside of most people's age range so ha e to take a gamble. | |||
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"In all the years we've been on sites like this we've never sent a wink or replied to one. If people can't be bothered to read our profile and write a proper message why would we bother to reply? " We do respond but sometimes get so many we just delete all x | |||
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"In all the years we've been on sites like this we've never sent a wink or replied to one. If people can't be bothered to read our profile and write a proper message why would we bother to reply? We do respond but sometimes get so many we just delete all x" ...and let that be a message to all the winkers... | |||
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"I wink to show I'm interested, if I receive one back then I'll send a message " Exactly, the way Fab intended it to be | |||
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"Prefer messages I never know how to respond to a wink" If you like the person's profile and you'd like them to message you, you wink back, simple really. | |||
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"I prefer to receive a message to a wink as well. However because majority just get deleted or stay unread a wink is a quick and easy way to see if someone is interested. If I get one back I then message. If not I don’t tend to bother as I assume not interested. Works for me. Everyone has their own preferences though " Same for us. Normally if we get a wink back then we message. | |||
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"It’s a tricky one and I think most fabbers have different reasons for sending. For me I send if I have an interest in the profile. Though I also send even if I know the wink isn’t reciprocated. And OP how can you not get replies. " Same as any other profile on here, either the people we’ve messaged think we are munters or we have shit craic lol Mr | |||
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"I really think people should read what the founding fathers of Fab have written about how to use Fab and what they believe we should understand when we receive or contact others, it's not difficult Fabsters, can we not embrace and learn together? " What are you suggesting we do differently here then? | |||
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"It’s very rare for me to look at winks unless it’s part of a forum game, I prefer the personal touch of a message but has to be a refreshing message." I read that as personal touch of a massage... Getting slightly ahead of myself lol | |||
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"I really think people should read what the founding fathers of Fab have written about how to use Fab and what they believe we should understand when we receive or contact others, it's not difficult Fabsters, can we not embrace and learn together? What are you suggesting we do differently here then? " I'm sorry but I don't quite understand what you mean | |||
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"I really think people should read what the founding fathers of Fab have written about how to use Fab and what they believe we should understand when we receive or contact others, it's not difficult Fabsters, can we not embrace and learn together? What are you suggesting we do differently here then? I'm sorry but I don't quite understand what you mean " Same lol x do you think we should be looking at this from a different angle? x | |||
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"I really think people should read what the founding fathers of Fab have written about how to use Fab and what they believe we should understand when we receive or contact others, it's not difficult Fabsters, can we not embrace and learn together? What are you suggesting we do differently here then? I'm sorry but I don't quite understand what you mean Same lol x do you think we should be looking at this from a different angle? x" Ah, sorry, I now understand I wasn't being straightforward....yes, a wink was supposed to be a "quick message" of "hi, I like your profile" then if you like theirs you wink back and leads on to a message I might be wrong but this is how I read what a wink was suppose to be about. | |||
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"I really think people should read what the founding fathers of Fab have written about how to use Fab and what they believe we should understand when we receive or contact others, it's not difficult Fabsters, can we not embrace and learn together? What are you suggesting we do differently here then? I'm sorry but I don't quite understand what you mean Same lol x do you think we should be looking at this from a different angle? x Ah, sorry, I now understand I wasn't being straightforward....yes, a wink was supposed to be a "quick message" of "hi, I like your profile" then if you like theirs you wink back and leads on to a message I might be wrong but this is how I read what a wink was suppose to be about. " | |||
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"I personally message. I rarely wink. I find that probably 90% of my messages go unread anyway haha. " Know the feeling | |||
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"I personally message. I rarely wink. I find that probably 90% of my messages go unread anyway haha. Know the feeling " This just part of life though, we should all get that we aren’t everyone’s preference | |||
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"So we aren’t averse to the occasional wink but have people just gave up on messaging now? Messages are without a doubt a preference for us as an intro and will always get our attention and I’m pretty confident most would prefer this. Am I wrong? Mr " Im pretty sure lads like me wouldn’t msg you Reason Id feel inadequate, because your absolutely stunning and wouldn’t think you would look at me in the slightest? Maybe thats why Possibly | |||
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"So we aren’t averse to the occasional wink but have people just gave up on messaging now? Messages are without a doubt a preference for us as an intro and will always get our attention and I’m pretty confident most would prefer this. Am I wrong? Mr " Indeed, I thought that a match preferred a message unless they are watching you on cam in a chat room. | |||
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"So we aren’t averse to the occasional wink but have people just gave up on messaging now? Messages are without a doubt a preference for us as an intro and will always get our attention and I’m pretty confident most would prefer this. Am I wrong? Mr " As I single male contacting couples or single ladies I do tend to send a wink over message! Only the fact is most couples get tons of people contacting them! A wink is more like I like you let me know if you like me back! | |||
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"So we aren’t averse to the occasional wink but have people just gave up on messaging now? Messages are without a doubt a preference for us as an intro and will always get our attention and I’m pretty confident most would prefer this. Am I wrong? Mr As I single male contacting couples or single ladies I do tend to send a wink over message! Only the fact is most couples get tons of people contacting them! A wink is more like I like you let me know if you like me back! " Absolutely | |||
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"I prefer to receive a message to a wink as well. However because majority just get deleted or stay unread a wink is a quick and easy way to see if someone is interested. If I get one back I then message. If not I don’t tend to bother as I assume not interested. Works for me. Everyone has their own preferences though " Some of us don’t even look at our winks | |||
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"I prefer to receive a message to a wink as well. However because majority just get deleted or stay unread a wink is a quick and easy way to see if someone is interested. If I get one back I then message. If not I don’t tend to bother as I assume not interested. Works for me. Everyone has their own preferences though Some of us don’t even look at our winks " Maybe you should, think of all that untapped opportunities! | |||
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"I prefer to receive a message to a wink as well. However because majority just get deleted or stay unread a wink is a quick and easy way to see if someone is interested. If I get one back I then message. If not I don’t tend to bother as I assume not interested. Works for me. Everyone has their own preferences though Some of us don’t even look at our winks " I only ever look at winks when a post like this appears in the forums and reminds me that winks exist. I never send winks, if I'm interested in someone I will message them | |||
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"I prefer to receive a message to a wink as well. However because majority just get deleted or stay unread a wink is a quick and easy way to see if someone is interested. If I get one back I then message. If not I don’t tend to bother as I assume not interested. Works for me. Everyone has their own preferences though Some of us don’t even look at our winks I only ever look at winks when a post like this appears in the forums and reminds me that winks exist. I never send winks, if I'm interested in someone I will message them " This | |||
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"So we aren’t averse to the occasional wink but have people just gave up on messaging now? Messages are without a doubt a preference for us as an intro and will always get our attention and I’m pretty confident most would prefer this. Am I wrong? Mr " I tend to message but you never know what they are thinking I would prefer if they aren’t interested to delete the message rather than just reading and not getting back to you | |||
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"I personally message. I rarely wink. I find that probably 90% of my messages go unread anyway haha. You aren’t alone there, we probably send more than we receive lol " Who is daft enough not to message you back | |||
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"So we aren’t averse to the occasional wink but have people just gave up on messaging now? Messages are without a doubt a preference for us as an intro and will always get our attention and I’m pretty confident most would prefer this. Am I wrong? Mr " Personally I send messages unless unverified but do struggle trying to be creative and standout each time. Each msg takes me a fair while to write and then getting no reply at all is draining. | |||
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"The problem I get as a single guy is you write say 30 or 40 messages and either you get no response or the messages are deleted. So in the end you just sort of give up and send winks" My other pet peeve is you read the profile, it says one word messages etc will be ignored, read our profile, be creative etc. So I try to write one or two paragraphs on them me and get a bit of chat going and then get a one word message back that says hi or hiya | |||
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"Nothing wrong with a friendly wink " We aren’t saying there’s anything wrong with it, just seems hardly anyone sends us a message in the first instance these days, maybe it’s just us lol x | |||
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"Nothing wrong with a friendly wink We aren’t saying there’s anything wrong with it, just seems hardly anyone sends us a message in the first instance these days, maybe it’s just us lol x" Cant speak for othera but i feel the addition amount of males on here since covid as led to most getting les replies than before to the point where a wink and then spending that 5 minutes crafting a good first message is more befitting once one knows that the mutual interest is there | |||
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"We've returned many winks from couples, but no message has followed. Either they wink accidentally, or they're very very shy " We’ve came across this a lot, part of the reason we prefer messages | |||
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"We've returned many winks from couples, but no message has followed. Either they wink accidentally, or they're very very shy We’ve came across this a lot, part of the reason we prefer messages " We're not the only ones! Confused.com | |||
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"We love a wink!!!! Breaks the ice better….it’s like a first eye contact for us! Xxx" Same here, thats how I see winks too. | |||
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"So we aren’t averse to the occasional wink but have people just gave up on messaging now? Messages are without a doubt a preference for us as an intro and will always get our attention and I’m pretty confident most would prefer this. Am I wrong? Mr " Usually I save winks for people I’m not sure about, since people usually prefer to message first. If I get a green light with a wink back or see something interesting in the profile, I’ll message. | |||
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"Good old lil wink lol " Lol can't wink;) | |||
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"So we aren’t averse to the occasional wink but have people just gave up on messaging now? Messages are without a doubt a preference for us as an intro and will always get our attention and I’m pretty confident most would prefer this. Am I wrong? Mr Usually I save winks for people I’m not sure about, since people usually prefer to message first. If I get a green light with a wink back or see something interesting in the profile, I’ll message. " This must mean everyone is unsure of us then | |||
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"To be honest I seldom look at the winks I get." I can understand that as you must get loads of them every day. | |||
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"I wink to see if there is a mutual attraction. There has been a number of times where I write a well constructed opening message which is read and not replied to. If everyone was polite enough to reply, I would be more encourage to message rather than wink. " This.... | |||
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"I wink to see if there is a mutual attraction. There has been a number of times where I write a well constructed opening message which is read and not replied to. If everyone was polite enough to reply, I would be more encourage to message rather than wink. This.... " Couldn’t disagree more, why is it polite to reply? | |||
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"I think replying to a message is, generally, deemed polite. But then I’m not a single F on here so don’t experience the volume of messages !!" It’s not just about volume of messages for us we can’t be arsed with having to explain ourselves, when we say we are looking to meet couples we always get “I have a female friend I can bring” then it goes sour so why bother getting harassed when we’ve said no once already? | |||
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"I think replying to a message is, generally, deemed polite. But then I’m not a single F on here so don’t experience the volume of messages !! It’s not just about volume of messages for us we can’t be arsed with having to explain ourselves, when we say we are looking to meet couples we always get “I have a female friend I can bring” then it goes sour so why bother getting harassed when we’ve said no once already? " Seems reasonable !! | |||
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"I think replying to a message is, generally, deemed polite. But then I’m not a single F on here so don’t experience the volume of messages !! It’s not just about volume of messages for us we can’t be arsed with having to explain ourselves, when we say we are looking to meet couples we always get “I have a female friend I can bring” then it goes sour so why bother getting harassed when we’ve said no once already? Seems reasonable !!" A lot choose to ignore for this reason I think, from what I know most start with replying to everyone then experience this response so sack it off. I responded to someone the other day saying we only look to meet couples and got a load of shit back saying “well you should block single guys”. We leave it open so we can see if anyone local that we may know is viewing our profile | |||
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"I think replying to a message is, generally, deemed polite. But then I’m not a single F on here so don’t experience the volume of messages !! It’s not just about volume of messages for us we can’t be arsed with having to explain ourselves, when we say we are looking to meet couples we always get “I have a female friend I can bring” then it goes sour so why bother getting harassed when we’ve said no once already? Seems reasonable !! A lot choose to ignore for this reason I think, from what I know most start with replying to everyone then experience this response so sack it off. I responded to someone the other day saying we only look to meet couples and got a load of shit back saying “well you should block single guys”. We leave it open so we can see if anyone local that we may know is viewing our profile " They can still view your profile if you say not looking for single guys. Do they still show up on your who's viewed list if you have single guys blocked? | |||
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"I think replying to a message is, generally, deemed polite. But then I’m not a single F on here so don’t experience the volume of messages !! It’s not just about volume of messages for us we can’t be arsed with having to explain ourselves, when we say we are looking to meet couples we always get “I have a female friend I can bring” then it goes sour so why bother getting harassed when we’ve said no once already? Seems reasonable !! A lot choose to ignore for this reason I think, from what I know most start with replying to everyone then experience this response so sack it off. I responded to someone the other day saying we only look to meet couples and got a load of shit back saying “well you should block single guys”. We leave it open so we can see if anyone local that we may know is viewing our profile They can still view your profile if you say not looking for single guys. Do they still show up on your who's viewed list if you have single guys blocked? " This is our point, we want to be able to see who’s viewed but can’t if we block so leave our filters open for this reason | |||
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"I think replying to a message is, generally, deemed polite. But then I’m not a single F on here so don’t experience the volume of messages !! It’s not just about volume of messages for us we can’t be arsed with having to explain ourselves, when we say we are looking to meet couples we always get “I have a female friend I can bring” then it goes sour so why bother getting harassed when we’ve said no once already? Seems reasonable !! A lot choose to ignore for this reason I think, from what I know most start with replying to everyone then experience this response so sack it off. I responded to someone the other day saying we only look to meet couples and got a load of shit back saying “well you should block single guys”. We leave it open so we can see if anyone local that we may know is viewing our profile They can still view your profile if you say not looking for single guys. Do they still show up on your who's viewed list if you have single guys blocked? This is our point, we want to be able to see who’s viewed but can’t if we block so leave our filters open for this reason " Ah right, I didn't realise they wouldn't appear on your who's viewed you list of you block single guys. It explains why many couples write not looking for single guys on their profile but don't use the block single guys function. | |||
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"Well I used to spend alot of time typing a message and the majority of the time it would be deleted and not even read. So I do send winks and if they wink back I will compose a message. " 100% agree. In the past I have read profiles in detail taken time to craft an eloquent message to them only to have it deleted or ignored | |||
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