FabSwingers.com forum: It's not for us.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well after much debates about controlling the way I feel and the jealously that comes with it. We have took your advice and decided to opt out of swinging.!!

For now. But who knows what the future holds eh.

I do however enjoy showing my wife of.

Apart from sharing our photos and videos of ourselves to you guys and girls. We also cam as regularly as we can.

Question is. Is there any other way of showing her off. She enjoys it. And so do I.

Thanks peeps.

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

Go to a club, but play with each other.

This can be fantastic for couples!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Go to a club, but play with each other.

This can be fantastic for couples!"

This is also what's on my mind.

I love the thought of my wife sat there at a bar with her pussy on show a little. It's a big turn in so maybe will be giving this a go. We found a lovely swingers bar they have meets so we definitely going again. Just be about us 2 tho. Thanks for the advice

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Great that you could discuss this sensibly.

Who got jealous and why? Fantasy better than reality?

We wish you luck in whatever you decide

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Great that you could discuss this sensibly.

Who got jealous and why? Fantasy better than reality?

We wish you luck in whatever you decide

xxx"

That would be me getting jellous Tommy talking. The wife is absolutely fine. Me however am not. But weirdest thing is tho. It is my fantasy and not hers. So it's a tough one for me

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Get a few days on the nudist beaches too. Lots of people to watch and lots of people to look at you.

Gbat

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I have to say that it's really good to see people actively discussing swinging and acknowledging exactly what they want .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is such a refreshing post. Love it

So many couples join, over excited, thinking it will all be ok, push the boundaries, have major issues and end up deleting their account after it all goes wrong. Well done to tou both. Good luck in your journey. Respect

Mrs C xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You love showing your wife off but you get jealous?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

refreshing to see a couple who talk and sort and come to joint decisions.

nothing to stop you going to clubs to have fun and show off many do this already and with some it can move them on at thier pace ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You love showing your wife off but you get jealous?

that not what was said

he does not want anyone touching big difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well after much debates about controlling the way I feel and the jealously that comes with it. We have took your advice and decided to opt out of swinging.!!

For now. But who knows what the future holds eh.

I do however enjoy showing my wife of.

Apart from sharing our photos and videos of ourselves to you guys and girls. We also cam as regularly as we can.

Question is. Is there any other way of showing her off. She enjoys it. And so do I.

Thanks peeps.

Where does it say touching?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Go to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there's any jealousy between you for looking.or touching then I'd av a sit down it's what you both want not what one part wants

Or it's a divorce waiting to happen

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Well after much debates about controlling the way I feel and the jealously that comes with it. We have took your advice and decided to opt out of swinging.!!

For now. But who knows what the future holds eh.

I do however enjoy showing my wife of.

Apart from sharing our photos and videos of ourselves to you guys and girls. We also cam as regularly as we can.

Question is. Is there any other way of showing her off. She enjoys it. And so do I.

Thanks peeps.

Where does it say touching?"

The op has discussed this in another thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well after much debates about controlling the way I feel and the jealously that comes with it. We have took your advice and decided to opt out of swinging.!!

For now. But who knows what the future holds eh.

I do however enjoy showing my wife of.

Apart from sharing our photos and videos of ourselves to you guys and girls. We also cam as regularly as we can.

Question is. Is there any other way of showing her off. She enjoys it. And so do I.

Thanks peeps.

Where does it say touching?

The op has discussed this in another thread.

My bad sorry apologies xx

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Have you considered soft swinging, it's a way of being involved without going all the way?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Have you two thought of having exhibitionist sex in a club, no one will touch you but you can enjoy teasing and showing each other off in front of a group

Great news that you both have come to a mutual decision that works for your relationship

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just to put for the record as straight as I can.

Showing my wife off is not a problem. Guys looking does not faze me. Its a huge turn on massively for both of us.

We talked about swing. And everything was fine it was a go ahead. We went through rules that's when the jellous kicked in. These simple words was

I need to have a connection with them Tommy.

Although yes obviously clearly needs to be some kind of connection but in my minds eye that connection was my wife looking into another mans eyes laughing and smiling away. I had that vision and I was like wtf.

Call it insucure or jellous or even stupidity.

Gutted its not for us as fantasy wise I see my wife and me and another couple all just having fun. Fuking sucking and everything else.

But then in reality.

It Hurts

It's a shit situation to be in of I'm honest.

But we are pretty adventures and I'm sure we will be filling in that gap one way or another

Thank you all again for the kind kind comments

Much respect to you all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"These simple words was

I need to have a connection with them Tommy.

Yet 5 days ago she started a thread saying she just wanted to be fucked by them

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"These simple words was

I need to have a connection with them Tommy.

Yet 5 days ago she started a thread saying she just wanted to be fucked by them "

That might have made tommy a little bit angry and a little bit erect

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

OP if jealousy is an issue then your very much correct in wanting to stop.

It will only cause issues.

As a couple swinging is 100% about trust.

If you have any doubt then just delete account.

You can go to places like BGHS in Brighton where can both be naked without any pressure of playing.

The strict rules dicate this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"These simple words was

I need to have a connection with them Tommy.

Yet 5 days ago she started a thread saying she just wanted to be fucked by them

That might have made tommy a little bit angry and a little bit erect

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