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Do men masterbate before meets?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As above, do men masterbate before meeting, ?

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By *moothpussyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I would hope not although men that are premature ejaculators probably do.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Speaking for myself nope

On the other hand what if the meeting ends up being a flop wouldn't that be a wasted 3 months to produce sperm

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

It's called a tactical wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have had two meets, neither could finish ??

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By *jkuk72Man
over a year ago

London & Herts


"It's called a tactical wank."

I've done it once, a couple of hours before the meet . The meet itself was still good

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By *goodlengthMan
over a year ago

near Trowbridge

I don’t. If the level of sexual tension is high and I don’t think I’ll last as long as I’d want to, I tend to move from penetration (where I’m more likely to cum) to something else. I also try and focus on something else to reduce the likelihood (the mind is after all the most powerful sex organ).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbf if i feel like i'm about to cum i'll just stop and have a water break, some food, maybe see what's on Sky. Then when i've settled i'll go back to work. She's usually asleep anyway to be honest

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"As above, do men masterbate before meeting, ?"

Nope. Which makes it worse if I get ghosted or it gets cancelled!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think that is only a good idea for men who suffer premature ejaculation, I do not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

Want as big a load as possible

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

I normally abstain for a day or so so that’s a big no no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbf if i feel like i'm about to cum i'll just stop and have a water break, some food, maybe see what's on Sky. Then when i've settled i'll go back to work. She's usually asleep anyway to be honest "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had two meets, neither could finish ??"

We've had several guys with this and the other obvious problem, not all single guys either.

Maybe they should find another hobby?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"We have had two meets, neither could finish ??"

Some medications including viagra can affect a mans ability to ejaculate.

We know women can enjoy sex without achieving an orgasm, the same is true for men. I don’t dwell on it. As long as people have fun thats all that should matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By *reedyHMan
over a year ago

bellingham

Fucking funny

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By *reddiefingers300Man
over a year ago

preston

I will earlier that day so I’m not going into battle fully loaded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped a week before so when I did cum on the meet it was plentiful and I was able to cum more times then if I had masturbated

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Definitely not, I try and abstain for at least 2-3 days beforehand. Great way to build up the sexual tension

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally do not, but know folks who do. The one's I spoken to say it helps keep them calm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had two meets, neither could finish ??"

Crikey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to build mine up,

Love exploding x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely not, I try and abstain for at least 2-3 days beforehand. Great way to build up the sexual tension "

This is my tactic.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

No but I've been known to have a wank after- depending on how long the session lasted

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant


"We have had two meets, neither could finish ??"

I never have wanked before a meet.

By the same token there are times when I've not 'finished' either. Sometimes it's like a switch in my head. Switch to off and I can go for ages and still not cum. It's not down to the person I'm with, I can retain an erection, just never finish. I know when it's not going to happen. I enjoy the physical act and sometimes that's all I need without the physical ending.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Masterbate ???

Perhaps I sometimes Masturbate ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no it's a waste nothing like delivery of a big load

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By *hirling_DervishMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"We have had two meets, neither could finish ??"

I did have that issue once, on my first ever meet here with a couple. Sex was great, but I think it was just nerves stopped me getting there. They were very kind and considerate and invited me back where there was no such issue, several times, on the repeat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before, during and on the bus home after.

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs


"We have had two meets, neither could finish ??"

I’ve had occasions where I’ve not been able to finish, none of which were the result of bashing one out beforehand. Sometimes it’s nerves, sometimes stress. Pressure to do so, either real or perceived, can affect it too.

It’s not necessarily that those guys had a ‘tactical wank’, but I know some guys do do it in order to last longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a weird thing to do, some guys cum before their meets to last longer, but the poor woman and her defibrillator cant get that thing working afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The old inbetweener scene comes to mind the old tactical wank ??

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton


"We have had two meets, neither could finish ??"

That maybe due to being nervous or like me if I feel the woman ain’t enjoying it I feel I can’t finish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely would for a social. If it was a definite sex meet or a possibility of developing into one I'd probably keep my powder dry

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By *orwich SocialCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I reckon the ones that do are the ones that don't turn up.

A quick tactical and they lose interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's called a tactical wank."

^^^^^^^ This

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"As above, do men masterbate before meeting, ?"
Whats a meet hehe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont get why guys worry about cuming to quick its no biggie just a little rest then of you go again surely ??

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By *eorgeo1Man
over a year ago

Slaley

No stop 2 days before a meet, and prey it’s goes ahead. Spoils the fun of a good load.

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By *angerous123Man
over a year ago

Leeds

No because I usually find it difficult to cum at all on the first meet. Even if I do cum quickly then I can get hard again pretty much straight away so it doesn't worry me

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By *ecretsAndPleasuresCouple
over a year ago

Swingville

Some do and it can be a downfall

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

No, I had one this morning so no short-notice invitations for tonight please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dicks a lot harder the first time before cumming so I tend not to wank before fucking someone

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Definitely not

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Wanking before a meet would imply that you could get it up

Unfortunately as we've found , that's not always the case

Apparently, it can happen !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had two meets, neither could finish ??"

That could be down to a condition called delayed ejaculation.

I suffer with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No can’t say I have ever before a meet, Previously though I had trouble ejaculating due to having a restricted foreskin. Then got circumcised and it no longer a problem. I’m guessing unless they’ve said they masturbated before a meets and you think they where telling the truth, then there can be a number of reason why they struggle. Anxiety, stress or other mental health issue, fatigue, medical issues, medicines etc. None of them are a reflection on anyone else it just not widely discussed. That were the problem really stems from. I think really men still can’t talk about having any issues. For a lot of men I think it is still very difficult to even acknowledge as there is still the stigma that anything effecting the penis is a bad reflection of their manly-ness when most of the time it has nothing to do with either, it stems from something else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lot of “stayers” on here, we’ve only found two guys that can last and finish to be honest xx

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln


"i dont get why guys worry about cuming to quick its no biggie just a little rest then of you go again surely ??"

Guys worry because most can’t control it. A lot of people are very negative towards men that cum quick like they have a choice about it.

It can be very stressful for the guy.

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By *ave1963MexboroughMan
over a year ago

Mexborough


"As above, do men masterbate before meeting, ?"

Absolutely not! I've never had a problem with cumming too quickly and besides, one of my ladies would be quite cross if I were to do that as she wants it all for herself.

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By *angerous123Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"i dont get why guys worry about cuming to quick its no biggie just a little rest then of you go again surely ??"

Lots of guys cum once and then theyre done for the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbf if i feel like i'm about to cum i'll just stop and have a water break, some food, maybe see what's on Sky. Then when i've settled i'll go back to work. She's usually asleep anyway to be honest "
haha

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek


"We have had two meets, neither could finish ??"

Just a thought, but maybe that’s not the guys fault?

What’s the common demonstrator here ?

Maybe pelvic floor exercises or change your technique..

Maybe they didn’t fancy you in person?

Just been devil’s advocate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as I know, most people don't. But I have premature ejaculation problem. So I do it before meets. But sometimes my mistress doesn't allow me to do it

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough


"It's called a tactical wank."

They all do!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"It's called a tactical wank.

They all do! "

I don't

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Bit of an odd one… I can come so quickly and I’m so worried I just might let the lady down, however I don’t want to waste it as I come really heavy so find edging myself works

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By *ittyndCouple
over a year ago

Oldham/Birmingham

I would prefer if they do so that they don’t cum quickly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont get why guys worry about cuming to quick its no biggie just a little rest then of you go again surely ??

Lots of guys cum once and then theyre done for the day. "

Do they well i must have been lucky because rarely ive met a guy who only cum once ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t

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