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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do the majority on here prefer a simple "Hey, howre you?" Or a lengthy intro about yourself and what you like?

I'm a newbie to the scene I'll admit, struggling to get responses, all advice is welcome x

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex


"Do the majority on here prefer a simple "Hey, howre you?" Or a lengthy intro about yourself and what you like?

I'm a newbie to the scene I'll admit, struggling to get responses, all advice is welcome x"

I would have thought a simple " Hey how are you?" or variations of it were guaranteed to get you ignored and probably blocked.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire


"Do the majority on here prefer a simple "Hey, howre you?" Or a lengthy intro about yourself and what you like?

I'm a newbie to the scene I'll admit, struggling to get responses, all advice is welcome x"

I prefer more than just one line messages.

They are just hard work, like pulling hens teeth to get some sort of idea of the person contacting me.

If they can't be bothered to string a decent message together then why should they get a decent reply from me?

Lack of content tells me to scroll on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do the majority on here prefer a simple "Hey, howre you?" Or a lengthy intro about yourself and what you like?

I'm a newbie to the scene I'll admit, struggling to get responses, all advice is welcome x

I prefer more than just one line messages.

They are just hard work, like pulling hens teeth to get some sort of idea of the person contacting me.

If they can't be bothered to string a decent message together then why should they get a decent reply from me?

Lack of content tells me to scroll on."

^this^

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do the majority on here prefer a simple "Hey, howre you?" Or a lengthy intro about yourself and what you like?

I'm a newbie to the scene I'll admit, struggling to get responses, all advice is welcome x

I prefer more than just one line messages.

They are just hard work, like pulling hens teeth to get some sort of idea of the person contacting me.

If they can't be bothered to string a decent message together then why should they get a decent reply from me?

Lack of content tells me to scroll on."

Thank you, this has really helped!

Guess I'm too used to starting coversations at the bar haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do the majority on here prefer a simple "Hey, howre you?" Or a lengthy intro about yourself and what you like?

I'm a newbie to the scene I'll admit, struggling to get responses, all advice is welcome x

I prefer more than just one line messages.

They are just hard work, like pulling hens teeth to get some sort of idea of the person contacting me.

If they can't be bothered to string a decent message together then why should they get a decent reply from me?

Lack of content tells me to scroll on.

Thank you, this has really helped!

Guess I'm too used to starting coversations at the bar haha"

"Can I buy you a drink?" would still work with some on here

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield


"Do the majority on here prefer a simple "Hey, howre you?" Or a lengthy intro about yourself and what you like?

I'm a newbie to the scene I'll admit, struggling to get responses, all advice is welcome x

I prefer more than just one line messages.

They are just hard work, like pulling hens teeth to get some sort of idea of the person contacting me.

If they can't be bothered to string a decent message together then why should they get a decent reply from me?

Lack of content tells me to scroll on.

Thank you, this has really helped!

Guess I'm too used to starting coversations at the bar haha

"Can I buy you a drink?" would still work with some on here "

So what can I get you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Irrespective of how you opened up, I'd wonder are you a single guy or a couple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do the majority on here prefer a simple "Hey, howre you?" Or a lengthy intro about yourself and what you like?

I'm a newbie to the scene I'll admit, struggling to get responses, all advice is welcome x

I prefer more than just one line messages.

They are just hard work, like pulling hens teeth to get some sort of idea of the person contacting me.

If they can't be bothered to string a decent message together then why should they get a decent reply from me?

Lack of content tells me to scroll on.

Thank you, this has really helped!

Guess I'm too used to starting coversations at the bar haha

"Can I buy you a drink?" would still work with some on here

So what can I get you? "

Blood orange G&T please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always polite in messaging.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I like intelligence so well written first messages are most likely to get responses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey, a thread about opening messages.

Not seen one of these before

Sorry OP, but these are becomming a daily occurance.

Might be a good idea to search the forum for 'first message' and 'opening message' and see what responses others have had to this question

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By *erlins5Man
over a year ago

South Fife

I don't go for one liners as that just seems ride and probably guaranteed to be ignored. I also write each message individually and never copy and paste a generic message, I read a profile to make sure we have something in common and we have something to offer each other. No point in just randomly messaging every one, only interesting or potentially interested people. I don't make my first message huge though....one paragraph normally as no point in boring someone straight off ( I can do that later ) and also it takes time to write what I think is an interesting message and as so many messages are sent to ladies and couples there is the danger of the mass delete so I tend to focus on later messages if I get a reply

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

I take it “Spit Swallow of Gargle?” Won’t work ….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wrote a post about this, link at the bottom of my bio

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Do the majority on here prefer a simple "Hey, howre you?" Or a lengthy intro about yourself and what you like?

I'm a newbie to the scene I'll admit, struggling to get responses, all advice is welcome x

I would have thought a simple " Hey how are you?" or variations of it were guaranteed to get you ignored and probably blocked. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we get a message that is less than 5 syllables it gets ignored or deleted.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

I’d normally but in a bit of effort, shows I’m actually interested not that it pays off or anything

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

A medium length message is best. Show you've read someone's profile and you have similar interests.

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