FabSwingers.com forum: Blow job and sti

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So goes without saying for most of us meeting and haveing safe sex (condoms). But what about just meeting for oral sex is the chance of catching an sti much lower ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So goes without saying for most of us meeting and haveing safe sex (condoms). But what about just meeting for oral sex is the chance of catching an sti much lower ???"

it is lower, but still possable to catch something

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

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You can catch something but the risk is much less. I do not use condoms for oral and have given a lot of oral.

I get regular checks including throat swabs x ( well did. Currently only getting them every 3 months due to not meeting others)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So it's possible but the chance is low , has anyone been unlucky enough to catch anything? I'm not sure if anyone would own up to that mind lol .

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

There's no shame in saying you've had a sti. People have mentioned that they've caught gonnorhea in their throat from oral sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Your right tgere shouldn't be any shame I suppose it's the nature of the beast being on a swingers site . Obviously sexual heath is very important, maybe fab should do sexual heath screening?

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"Your right tgere shouldn't be any shame I suppose it's the nature of the beast being on a swingers site . Obviously sexual heath is very important, maybe fab should do sexual heath screening?"

Sexual health screening is free in the UK, in pretty much every clinic I've gone to it's also anonymous.

I don't see why fab should, or would offer something that is already easy to access and free at point of use. (and you can get loads of free condoms and lube etc when you go!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No it was just an idea , fab could post your sexual heath check status as clear and up to date maybe give some kind of discount on there services for doing so.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"No it was just an idea , fab could post your sexual heath check status as clear and up to date maybe give some kind of discount on there services for doing so."

And how would they police that? They aren't a health care provider....

and discount on their services??

It costs me £30 for over a year of silver membership and the site is perfectly useable for free...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok then they could charge a small fee for everyone who wanted to be on there list of sti up to date checked and veted if you didn't want to pay you wouldn't have to , I bet z lot of people would though.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"So it's possible but the chance is low , has anyone been unlucky enough to catch anything? I'm not sure if anyone would own up to that mind lol ."

I haven’t but I was contacted by a woman, who I had met for a social with my then husband , who had tested positive for oral chlamydia a few days after meeting us .

Although we’d only snogged and the doctor had explained to her that it would be unlikely to catch it through kissing, she felt “guilty” and wanted us to get tested to put her mind at ease,

Oral chlamydia and gonorrhoea are quite common but highly treatable hence most people do practice “unsafe” oral .

It is a risk that I’m personally prepared to take

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So is oral clymidia and gonnorea not the same as if you have it on your knob or pussy ?

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"So is oral clymidia and gonnorea not the same as if you have it on your knob or pussy ? "

Well yes and they are easily treatable too ,

My main concern about unprotected penetration would be hiv whereas the transmission of hiv though oral sex is theoretically near impossible and carries a very low risk.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To be honest even if we had upto date heath checks on fab I think unprotected full sex would be a step to far for me better to be safe then sorry .

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"So is oral clymidia and gonnorea not the same as if you have it on your knob or pussy ?

Well yes and they are easily treatable too ,

My main concern about unprotected penetration would be hiv whereas the transmission of hiv though oral sex is theoretically near impossible and carries a very low risk.

The risk of HIV can be mitigated with the use of PrEP. The bigger issues are Hepatitis (which you are able to be vaccinated against but it's weirdly harder to get than PrEP in some cases)

But the biggest concern is actually that chlamydia, gonorrhoea and syphilis are all mutating into antibiotic-resistant strains.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's no shame in saying you've had a sti. People have mentioned that they've caught gonnorhea in their throat from oral sex. "

In the throat! I’d be livid

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