FabSwingers.com forum: Couples who regularly look at your profile but never contact you!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So how many of you constantly find couples/individuals viewing your profile but not a wink or hint of a message leaving you questioning the reason behind it all!

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough

I mean, is it really such a mystery? Sometimes folks just like a good perv. There's loads of couples we find attractive, but either we aren't currently looking to meet (real life is a bitch), or they're a bit more vanilla than we'd like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t be shy pm me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time but public pictures are there to be looked at so not a problem.

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has happened to us with one couple literally looking at us two or three times a day for AGES!

We sent them a message saying hello, asking questions etc… got no reply but the continued to look and like our stuff

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By *urtleJRCouple
over a year ago

Ystradgynlais

"I mean, is it really such a mystery? Sometimes folks just like a good perv. There's loads of couples we find attractive, but either we aren't currently looking to meet (real life is a bitch), or they're a bit more vanilla than we'd like. "

Agree with above. Usually, we're not meeting or probably won't be for a few weeks, but would still like to nose at potential profiles, or one (or both) of us liked the pictures and wanted to see more - even if we likely wouldn't meet.

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

Yep

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

Once I realize a profile is looking at mine multiple times a day I will say hi, if they don't read or reply in 24hrs I block... had enough of seeing those profiles in my list and 90% of the time am inclined to believe it's just a single guy with pics of his unknowing wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a few reasons why I'd be visiting a profile without contacting them.

Most likely is I'm looking to see if I have already contacted them or if not is there anything in their profile that would mean they wouldn't be interested (facial hair etc.)

Or I really fancy them and don't want to blow the one and only chance of making contact with a shit message, so I am trying to think of the perfect way to introduce myself.

Or, I think they are well out of my league, and I'm plucking up the courage to send that first message.

Or a tragic combination of all of this

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

And like many others after a few views, they too join the endless block list.

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By *ane dickCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Don’t think anyone looked at ours

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By *amdenfunMan
over a year ago

London

As well as reasons already given, often we just can't remember - some of the avatars and names are pretty bland.

But several times a day for days? That is odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple doing that.

They send s friend request but their profile is hidden.

I did message them but got no reply so I guess their not interested (no response = no interest as per site rules)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s because they can see my nob I think.

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

"As well as reasons already given, often we just can't remember - some of the avatars and names are pretty bland.

But several times a day for days? That is odd. "

I've blocked at least 50 profiles that have looked at my profile 10+ times a day, before I became so strict about blocking I would say hi and leave it unread and generally auto deleted by them only to see them back on the viewed me list....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And this is why so many women and couples browse in

mode.

They may hace viewed your profile once and then come back to it to remind themselves what was on it, or why they hadn't contacted you the first time.

Think about it, no-one is going to know if tgey might want to meet you until they've looked at your profile, so just becayse someone's looked, doesn't mean they're interested.

I had a quick glance at a takeaway menu that had been posted tgrough my door the other day, before I threw it in the bin.

If they want to get in touch, they will

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

"And this is why so many women and couples browse in

mode.

They may hace viewed your profile once and then come back to it to remind themselves what was on it, or why they hadn't contacted you the first time.

Think about it, no-one is going to know if tgey might want to meet you until they've looked at your profile, so just becayse someone's looked, doesn't mean they're interested.

I had a quick glance at a takeaway menu that had been posted tgrough my door the other day, before I threw it in the bin.

If they want to get in touch, they will

Did you look at that menu every day on the hour 7-13 hours a day for a week Before you binned it?

I tend to find after the 2nd or 3rd time I know what's on the menu and if I wanted anything from it would have made contact with the restaurant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I do that not often no big deal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don’t think anyone looked at ours"
well I personally looked at your profile just to answer your question ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here, quite a lot of people look around but I guess hesitant to make the first contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once I realize a profile is looking at mine multiple times a day I will say hi, if they don't read or reply in 24hrs I block... had enough of seeing those profiles in my list and 90% of the time am inclined to believe it's just a single guy with pics of his unknowing wife "

Maybe you are right. Never thought of it like that before

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

This is why I perv in stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And this is why so many women and couples browse in

mode.

They may hace viewed your profile once and then come back to it to remind themselves what was on it, or why they hadn't contacted you the first time.

Think about it, no-one is going to know if tgey might want to meet you until they've looked at your profile, so just becayse someone's looked, doesn't mean they're interested.

I had a quick glance at a takeaway menu that had been posted tgrough my door the other day, before I threw it in the bin.

If they want to get in touch, they will

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:- absolutely agree with what your saying but if I look twice at beef chop suey it’s because I’m flirting with the idea of eating number 44 on the menu so eventually I’ll place that order not just browse it for the next couple of days and die of starvation.

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

Strangely one couple who have posted on this thread regularly look at us. Send a message and we’re sure we can take it further

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strangely one couple who have posted on this thread regularly look at us. Send a message and we’re sure we can take it further

Please do and let us know what the outcome is x

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

We are definitely guilty of this at times sometimes it’s because one of us has seen your profile and then we want to show the other one, other times we are looking to see your pictures, it might be we aren’t looking to meet due to vanilla life etc… but most of the time if we check out your profile a few times in the same day it’s probably because we find it a great profile.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"So how many of you constantly find couples/individuals viewing your profile but not a wink or hint of a message leaving you questioning the reason behind it all! "

It browsing just because you don't receive anything it might be that your not what they are looking for I get couple's viewing and either they make contact or I do but those who don't tick my boxes I don't Simple

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton

There's a couple that regularly looks at my profile but haven't made contact. Guess they like checking out my profile and nothing more so i just ignore it.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's window shopping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you find out who's been looking at ones profile?

Didn't know you could so haven't looked for it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often look at profiles that I have no intention of meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for random message, quick couple questions.. how do you approach couples as a single man? And secondly if I have no experience going to events or parties, how can I get involved? Because of the amount of sleazes on here, it makes it impossible to even get a initial conversation.. rant over

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By *ulu and MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Lol lots

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

colchester

Why do you care?? You check people out to see if there what your looking for and people check you out. Why does it bother you if they don't contact??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do you care?? You check people out to see if there what your looking for and people check you out. Why does it bother you if they don't contact?? "
. A lot of egos on here. Because the ridiculous proportion of male to female.. it seems a lot of people on their high horse. This isn’t a dig at anyone. Just my experience.

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By *erms and conditionsCouple
over a year ago

Alton

"We are definitely guilty of this at times sometimes it’s because one of us has seen your profile and then we want to show the other one, other times we are looking to see your pictures, it might be we aren’t looking to meet due to vanilla life etc… but most of the time if we check out your profile a few times in the same day it’s probably because we find it a great profile.

xx"

Agree with this

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

colchester

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By *arryg2000Man
over a year ago

Whitton

Agree somewhat....I never seem to get reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do you care?? You check people out to see if there what your looking for and people check you out. Why does it bother you if they don't contact?? . A lot of egos on here. Because the ridiculous proportion of male to female.. it seems a lot of people on their high horse. This isn’t a dig at anyone. Just my experience. yeh your not wrong! I do not understand why blokes post in forums asking how to get women on here??? Thats a desperate sign straight away! Yes there is more guys than women and alot of men iv heard are vile to women if there not interested so yeh we all get tied with the same brush. But come on....not every male or female is gonna everyone's type. Just go with the flow. There wil be women interested haha "
it’s not I’m desperate at all mate. Not even close... I just joined this site to meet like minded ppl and on same page.. I can happily accept not being someone’s cup of tea but not even getting a response based on the fact you Havnt slept with 10 woman is bizarre. I’ve had plenty interest but not from who I want. Anyway lockdown ain’t helped I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's weird innit? Like lately there's a couple in another country who viewed my profile about 10 times over two days. I go to message them but my sex is blocked.

It's nice to be perved on, don't get me wrong. Talking would be even better. Maybe I have a booger in one of the photos, idk?

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

colchester

"Why do you care?? You check people out to see if there what your looking for and people check you out. Why does it bother you if they don't contact?? . A lot of egos on here. Because the ridiculous proportion of male to female.. it seems a lot of people on their high horse. This isn’t a dig at anyone. Just my experience. yeh your not wrong! I do not understand why blokes post in forums asking how to get women on here??? Thats a desperate sign straight away! Yes there is more guys than women and alot of men iv heard are vile to women if there not interested so yeh we all get tied with the same brush. But come on....not every male or female is gonna everyone's type. Just go with the flow. There wil be women interested haha it’s not I’m desperate at all mate. Not even close... I just joined this site to meet like minded ppl and on same page.. I can happily accept not being someone’s cup of tea but not even getting a response based on the fact you Havnt slept with 10 woman is bizarre. I’ve had plenty interest but not from who I want. Anyway lockdown ain’t helped I suppose "
wasn't aimed at you mate at all just in general

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