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By *odKnowsImGood OP   Man
over a year ago

Harpenden

Impossible for new people as everyone wants verifications etc…..oh well…..it’s still good for perving ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

goto a social event in your area/club , just chat/banter and some people will veri you a few days later..

Then profit in pussy on fab after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"goto a social event in your area/club , just chat/banter and some people will veri you a few days later..

Then profit in pussy on fab after "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get absolutely ripped with muscles a 10"+ cock have money to spoil

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Get absolutely ripped with muscles a 10"+ cock have money to spoil "

Or have none of these, talk to women without being deluded or bitter and failing that, put on a wig and a dress.....

Trust me you don't need any of the things you've said

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

“Get” women.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“Get” women.

V x "

I don't get some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get absolutely ripped with muscles a 10"+ cock have money to spoil "

Really, none of these.

Just treat us like we’re actual people, that’s always a good start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get absolutely ripped with muscles a 10"+ cock have money to spoil

Really, none of these.

Just treat us like we’re actual people, that’s always a good start "

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

How about send some respectful messages and be interesting? So many single men on here are looking for a quick shag…try being different!

The focus should not be to ‘get women’ it should be to make friends, have a laugh and see what happens!!

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By *orovoyeurMan
over a year ago

Cumbria


"How about send some respectful messages and be interesting? So many single men on here are looking for a quick shag…try being different!

The focus should not be to ‘get women’ it should be to make friends, have a laugh and see what happens!!"

Yep, I agree.

It does seem like lots of people join the site and think that they have some god given right to get meets instantly or that flashing a cock pic will get you laid in no time. I’ve always found that if you’re friendly, genuine and patient then you just never know where it may lead on here

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade


"How about send some respectful messages and be interesting? So many single men on here are looking for a quick shag…try being different!

The focus should not be to ‘get women’ it should be to make friends, have a laugh and see what happens!!

Yep, I agree.

It does seem like lots of people join the site and think that they have some god given right to get meets instantly or that flashing a cock pic will get you laid in no time. I’ve always found that if you’re friendly, genuine and patient then you just never know where it may lead on here "

Oh, and flashing your job title on your profile may come across as a bit arrogant…suggest taking that bit off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about send some respectful messages and be interesting? So many single men on here are looking for a quick shag…try being different!

The focus should not be to ‘get women’ it should be to make friends, have a laugh and see what happens!!"

I agree but then you do get women and guys moaning it’s a sex site for sex so don’t want to chat

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

You will never understand (get) women on here or anywhere else.

If we knew what went on in their minds then there would be no fun.

Mr M.

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade


"How about send some respectful messages and be interesting? So many single men on here are looking for a quick shag…try being different!

The focus should not be to ‘get women’ it should be to make friends, have a laugh and see what happens!!

I agree but then you do get women and guys moaning it’s a sex site for sex so don’t want to chat "

I’m sure that happens and I’m just giving my view on the correct way. If the OP wants to take that stance he can, and it may work for him…

Some advice I had from a friend on here, is treat this place as a pub…be nice, respectful and polite - but don’t be afraid to be cheeky from time to time…that stance would be more likely to get a response from us rather than ‘can I lick your pussy’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By not whingeing that you can't get women on here.

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade


"By not whingeing that you can't get women on here."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By not whingeing that you can't get women on here."

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"“Get” women.

V x

I don't get some "

Ooooh “get” as in “understand”. I read it as “get” as in chattel or object rather than an actual person.

??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“Get” women.

V x

I don't get some

Ooooh “get” as in “understand”. I read it as “get” as in chattel or object rather than an actual person.

??"

Get you

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk


"By not whingeing that you can't get women on here."

This and having an interesting profile can help

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend


"How about send some respectful messages and be interesting? So many single men on here are looking for a quick shag…try being different!

The focus should not be to ‘get women’ it should be to make friends, have a laugh and see what happens!!"

It is in mens nature to look for a quick shag, if you want someone to lie to you & pretend they are looking for something else, what else are they lying about ?

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade


"How about send some respectful messages and be interesting? So many single men on here are looking for a quick shag…try being different!

The focus should not be to ‘get women’ it should be to make friends, have a laugh and see what happens!!

It is in mens nature to look for a quick shag, if you want someone to lie to you & pretend they are looking for something else, what else are they lying about ? "

BUT…this is not a dating site. Generally, you are asking couples to become involved in their sex life - also we all ‘pretend’ on a daily basis. No one suggest lying, but is it too much to ask for some charm?

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"“Get” women.

V x

I don't get some

Ooooh “get” as in “understand”. I read it as “get” as in chattel or object rather than an actual person.

??

Get you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry just my sense of humour didnt think people would take things so serious ...

Be genuine and if they like you they will reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about send some respectful messages and be interesting? So many single men on here are looking for a quick shag…try being different!

The focus should not be to ‘get women’ it should be to make friends, have a laugh and see what happens!!

Yep, I agree.

It does seem like lots of people join the site and think that they have some god given right to get meets instantly or that flashing a cock pic will get you laid in no time. I’ve always found that if you’re friendly, genuine and patient then you just never know where it may lead on here "

Yeah I agree

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend


"How about send some respectful messages and be interesting? So many single men on here are looking for a quick shag…try being different!

The focus should not be to ‘get women’ it should be to make friends, have a laugh and see what happens!!

It is in mens nature to look for a quick shag, if you want someone to lie to you & pretend they are looking for something else, what else are they lying about ?

BUT…this is not a dating site. Generally, you are asking couples to become involved in their sex life - also we all ‘pretend’ on a daily basis. No one suggest lying, but is it too much to ask for some charm?"

A previous poster was suggesting men lied about their muscles endowment & finances ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“Get” women.

V x

I don't get some

Ooooh “get” as in “understand”. I read it as “get” as in chattel or object rather than an actual person.

??

Get you

"

Speak soon xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go into the chat rooms make friends , attend socials in your local area , oh and don’t whinge lol ( unattractive quality )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need the platinum membership, which will guarantee you 3 shags.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need the platinum membership, which will guarantee you 3 shags. "

I thought this was common knowledge by now ffs

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade


"How about send some respectful messages and be interesting? So many single men on here are looking for a quick shag…try being different!

The focus should not be to ‘get women’ it should be to make friends, have a laugh and see what happens!!

It is in mens nature to look for a quick shag, if you want someone to lie to you & pretend they are looking for something else, what else are they lying about ?

BUT…this is not a dating site. Generally, you are asking couples to become involved in their sex life - also we all ‘pretend’ on a daily basis. No one suggest lying, but is it too much to ask for some charm?

A previous poster was suggesting men lied about their muscles endowment & finances ? "

Sorry! Misunderstood your point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“Get” women.

V x "

The old cardboard box on a string with some perfume underneath a la Whil E Cyote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need the platinum membership, which will guarantee you 3 shags. "

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

This site aint much good for male cishets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site aint much good for male cishets "

Wrong. The ones with enormous cocks and profiles full of pics of them and who constantly post about their penile magnificence, those dudes are swimming in clunge.

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By *arte_Blanche_NECouple
over a year ago

Northern


"Get absolutely ripped with muscles a 10"+ cock have money to spoil "

Lol what a load of shite, trying to talk to people with respect and find out what they are actually looking for and interested in is normally a good start

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"“Get” women.

V x

The old cardboard box on a string with some perfume underneath a la Whil E Cyote "

Hmmmmm, it never worked though . Road Runner was just too smart.

V x

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Impossible for new people as everyone wants verifications etc…..oh well…..it’s still good for perving ??????"

If you were nearby we would meet up with your for a quick drink and verify you in the morning. It can be that simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do a cake social.

Be like the playboy mansion around ya pad

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

You don't get women. If your what the ladies want, then they will find you. Just be patient.

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Read their profile, send a polite well thought out msg and keep your fingers crossed.

Also you're own profile needs to stand out from the crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't get women. If your what the ladies want, then they will find you. Just be patient."

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley


"Read their profile, send a polite well thought out msg and keep your fingers crossed.

Also you're own profile needs to stand out from the crowd."

Yes but then you get to much attention.

Swings and roundabouts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Impossible for new people as everyone wants verifications etc…..oh well…..it’s still good for perving ??????"

Well Barry,

I'd happily meet you for a coffee, if nothing else you'll get a veri

Missy x

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Impossible for new people as everyone wants verifications etc…..oh well…..it’s still good for perving ??????"

Get yourself on the cam on the site I'm sure some lovely people who you connect with would be happy to verify you

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By *lovebustyladiesMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Try talking to the women you like you never know they might pm you back maybe swap number might even meet u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the opposite “ how do you get a man on this site “

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be genuine, be a gentleman who puts the lady's needs and wants as paramount. Be persistent but not with the same person, just generally, but understand that rejection is a part of life and don't take it personally. Good luck

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By *itchayWomanTV/TS
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Honestly your profile is very off putting. Start there.

Then stop acting like a horny teenager haha

Respect and a decent conversation goes a long way.

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By *scar-lopez182Man
over a year ago

london


"Impossible for new people as everyone wants verifications etc…..oh well…..it’s still good for perving ??????

Well Barry,

I'd happily meet you for a coffee, if nothing else you'll get a veri

Missy x"

Could I invite you for a coffee some time Missy? just looking to be verified

Oscar x

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley


"How about send some respectful messages and be interesting? So many single men on here are looking for a quick shag…try being different!

The focus should not be to ‘get women’ it should be to make friends, have a laugh and see what happens!!"

I find I get no reply and deleted just as much if I send a well written and thought out 1st message as I do sending the "my dick should be inside you" kind of messages.

This site is not a predictable thing.

I've had 3 day message threads where I've only been talking in song lyrics only to be blocked once the song was done lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it’s not about getting women in the first place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“Get” women.

V x

The old cardboard box on a string with some perfume underneath a la Whil E Cyote

Hmmmmm, it never worked though . Road Runner was just too smart.

V x "

Damn, I should never have bought those shares in ACME

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"You don't get women. If your what the ladies want, then they will find you. Just be patient."
thought this was only every leap year

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

Why does it seem to be rocket science to say 'just talk to women like they are actually people'

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm, OP, you've been here a while and you're verified - albeit 9 years ago.

Maybe I'm missing something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Impossible for new people as everyone wants verifications etc…..oh well…..it’s still good for perving ??????"

Be respectful. Go to clubs. Do a social. We all started this way. Dnt expect them to fall in your lap they wnt

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Get rid of the anger

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Why does it seem to be rocket science to say 'just talk to women like they are actually people' "

For normal decent guys it’s not.

But like saying to a small child really struggling with a quadratic equation , clueless and can barely add 2+2, just be really smart and clever , you can do it little Jonny ….. this the advice given here

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

The same way you would before the internet existed.

Approach people, don’t be a dick, don’t expect anything from them, accept you will strike out, don’t put your cock first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get rid of the anger"

And the sense of entitlement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot advocate strongly enough that conversation is king here !

get yourself established within a chat room, be yourself, relax have a good time but dont be all about meeting..it will come eventually..people are still people they want to know you, trust you have a laugh and at times support others..

too many of us lads go in like a bull in a china shop and we know what happens there right?

allow for shared interests and humour to flow..your personality is far more attractive that any material object or status in life.

and yes, there will be the 10+ inch brigade but from experience, they get far fewer offers and zero respect most of the time. Sadly guys with darker skin are often objectified unjustly too..

be yourself, have fun respect all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get absolutely ripped with muscles a 10"+ cock have money to spoil

Lol what a load of shite, trying to talk to people with respect and find out what they are actually looking for and interested in is normally a good start "

Touchy ain't you !!like I said I was joking but i see you dont read posts and just jump the gun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Impossible for new people as everyone wants verifications etc…..oh well…..it’s still good for perving ??????"

This a question ? Maybe Instead of making threads about perving

Go on the threads and have a laugh.. always meet new people

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Damned if I know ! Taking lots of notes before I sign up for platinum membership

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The club scene isn't really an option over here as there are only a couple of clubs on the entire island.

Both are only open a couple of nights a month and it's by invitation only.

Therefore only verified men can attend.

Meet and greets are privately run events which are also for verified people only so that's not an option either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t lead with your sense of entitlement, or a clock pic. Get involved in the scene, visit your local club and get verified.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"The club scene isn't really an option over here as there are only a couple of clubs on the entire island.

Both are only open a couple of nights a month and it's by invitation only.

Therefore only verified men can attend.

Meet and greets are privately run events which are also for verified people only so that's not an option either. "

Well the OP is in Stevenage. There are a fuck load of clubs accessible to him.

For you, can you visit clubs when you are on holidays? What about cam meets? I know it's tough as a single guy, but basically, do what you can or don't.

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You also need to change your profile. Sounds like a teenage boy wrote it.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Try treating everyone with the respect they deserve. Women are not on here to meet the needs of guys. We are on here to have our needs met and have fun doing so.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"The club scene isn't really an option over here as there are only a couple of clubs on the entire island.

Both are only open a couple of nights a month and it's by invitation only.

Therefore only verified men can attend.

Meet and greets are privately run events which are also for verified people only so that's not an option either.

Well the OP is in Stevenage. There are a fuck load of clubs accessible to him.

For you, can you visit clubs when you are on holidays? What about cam meets? I know it's tough as a single guy, but basically, do what you can or don't.

Gbat"

I've no interest in clubs and have never been to one. I don't have the problem the op is having so my comment was just in general terms for those giving advice to get to a club as it doesn't apply everywhere.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Try treating everyone with the respect they deserve. Women are not on here to meet the needs of guys. We are on here to have our needs met and have fun doing so. "

Hmmm before you speak for “women on here”. It’s not how I see my time here nor what I am looking for….. I’d rather things be equal and mutual.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try treating everyone with the respect they deserve. Women are not on here to meet the needs of guys. We are on here to have our needs met and have fun doing so.

Hmmm before you speak for “women on here”. It’s not how I see my time here nor what I am looking for….. I’d rather things be equal and mutual.

V x "

As it should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Impossible for new people as everyone wants verifications etc…..oh well…..it’s still good for perving ??????"

Well Barry

Agreeing to meet for a coffee then deciding its too far just for a coffee is not going to get you very far

I'm not surprised you're left to perv

Missy

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"“Get” women.

V x "

Maybe we are like Pokémon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Impossible for new people as everyone wants verifications etc…..oh well…..it’s still good for perving ??????

Well Barry

Agreeing to meet for a coffee then deciding its too far just for a coffee is not going to get you very far

I'm not surprised you're left to perv

Missy"

Seriously?! If coffee is too much effort, I can only imagine how lazy he is in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don’t it’s a myth .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Impossible for new people as everyone wants verifications etc…..oh well…..it’s still good for perving ??????

Well Barry

Agreeing to meet for a coffee then deciding its too far just for a coffee is not going to get you very far

I'm not surprised you're left to perv

Missy

Seriously?! If coffee is too much effort, I can only imagine how lazy he is in bed."

Yep

You just can't help some people

Missy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need the platinum membership, which will guarantee you 3 shags. "

Is that a joke.... ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Impossible for new people as everyone wants verifications etc…..oh well…..it’s still good for perving ??????

Well Barry

Agreeing to meet for a coffee then deciding its too far just for a coffee is not going to get you very far

I'm not surprised you're left to perv

Missy

Seriously?! If coffee is too much effort, I can only imagine how lazy he is in bed.

Yep

You just can't help some people

Missy x"

That was this dude? Oh well, it's obvious he's not getting any better offers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need the platinum membership, which will guarantee you 3 shags.

Is that a joke.... ????? "

No, my free shags came last week. Only used 2 so far, keeping the last one for my birthday next week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try cam ppl will veri u that way then u should get meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Impossible for new people as everyone wants verifications etc…..oh well…..it’s still good for perving ??????

Well Barry

Agreeing to meet for a coffee then deciding its too far just for a coffee is not going to get you very far

I'm not surprised you're left to perv

Missy

Seriously?! If coffee is too much effort, I can only imagine how lazy he is in bed.

Yep

You just can't help some people

Missy x

That was this dude? Oh well, it's obvious he's not getting any better offers. "

I'm quite happy to meet up with fellas for a coffee if they need verification

Some just can't be helped!

Missy x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Impossible for new people as everyone wants verifications etc…..oh well…..it’s still good for perving ??????

Well Barry

Agreeing to meet for a coffee then deciding its too far just for a coffee is not going to get you very far

I'm not surprised you're left to perv

Missy

Seriously?! If coffee is too much effort, I can only imagine how lazy he is in bed.

Yep

You just can't help some people

Missy x

That was this dude? Oh well, it's obvious he's not getting any better offers.

I'm quite happy to meet up with fellas for a coffee if they need verification

Some just can't be helped!

Missy x"

I could do with a veri? How does 10am tomorrow (Tuesday), Nero Kendal sound?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Impossible for new people as everyone wants verifications etc…..oh well…..it’s still good for perving ??????

Well Barry

Agreeing to meet for a coffee then deciding its too far just for a coffee is not going to get you very far

I'm not surprised you're left to perv

Missy

Seriously?! If coffee is too much effort, I can only imagine how lazy he is in bed.

Yep

You just can't help some people

Missy x

That was this dude? Oh well, it's obvious he's not getting any better offers.

I'm quite happy to meet up with fellas for a coffee if they need verification

Some just can't be helped!

Missy x

I could do with a veri? How does 10am tomorrow (Tuesday), Nero Kendal sound? "

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham


"Try cam ppl will veri u that way then u should get meets"
good advice

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We are really struggling to find meets atm and we are a couple with a verified and well written (well i like to think) profile.

When looking for a single guy im looking for these things:

A well written profile complete with pics.

Pics that aren't just of your cock, a nice arse or body shot wont go a miss.

Someone who is prepared for a social meet first.

Someone genuinely single or playing with full consent.

Someone who sends a well written respectful message

Verified not the end of the world but photo Verified if not.

Its mostly the profiles that let me down.

Yours isn't too bad btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can say is if you are struggling online actually go to a club or a social event to meet like minded people, who are there to meet others…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Impossible for new people as everyone wants verifications etc…..oh well…..it’s still good for perving ??????

Well Barry

Agreeing to meet for a coffee then deciding its too far just for a coffee is not going to get you very far

I'm not surprised you're left to perv

Missy

Seriously?! If coffee is too much effort, I can only imagine how lazy he is in bed.

Yep

You just can't help some people

Missy x

That was this dude? Oh well, it's obvious he's not getting any better offers.

I'm quite happy to meet up with fellas for a coffee if they need verification

Some just can't be helped!

Missy x

I could do with a veri? How does 10am tomorrow (Tuesday), Nero Kendal sound? "

Round trip just a tad too far I'm afraid x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ctionman11Man
over a year ago

maldon

Miss Layed

I am closer. Xxxxxx lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Miss Layed

I am closer. Xxxxxx lol "

And yet I'm unable to view your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Impossible for new people as everyone wants verifications etc…..oh well…..it’s still good for perving ??????"

You probably stand less chance now after this

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By *ctionman11Man
over a year ago

maldon


"Miss Layed

I am closer. Xxxxxx lol

And yet I'm unable to view your profile "

Says I can’t see yours either. , I have not blocked you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Miss Layed

I am closer. Xxxxxx lol

And yet I'm unable to view your profile

Says I can’t see yours either. , I have not blocked you "

Possibly I have blocked you, my list is long!

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By *ctionman11Man
over a year ago

maldon


"Miss Layed

I am closer. Xxxxxx lol

And yet I'm unable to view your profile

Says I can’t see yours either. , I have not blocked you

Possibly I have blocked you, my list is long!"

Well you should not be so sexy then ….lol

Such a shame

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By *ctionman11Man
over a year ago

maldon

You can always unblock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need the platinum membership, which will guarantee you 3 shags. "

Don’t give admin ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about send some respectful messages and be interesting? So many single men on here are looking for a quick shag…try being different!

The focus should not be to ‘get women’ it should be to make friends, have a laugh and see what happens!!"

Agreed

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

How do get women on fab?

This reminds me of the old joke about how to get to Carnegie Hall (in NY), that was featured in one of the Father Ted episodes, but was originally made many decades earlier, about amateur and professional performers who desired to make a breakthrough into the big time.

Practise!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Impossible for new people as everyone wants verifications etc…..oh well…..it’s still good for perving ??????

Well Barry

Agreeing to meet for a coffee then deciding its too far just for a coffee is not going to get you very far

I'm not surprised you're left to perv

Missy

Seriously?! If coffee is too much effort, I can only imagine how lazy he is in bed.

Yep

You just can't help some people

Missy x

That was this dude? Oh well, it's obvious he's not getting any better offers.

I'm quite happy to meet up with fellas for a coffee if they need verification

Some just can't be helped!

Missy x

I could do with a veri? How does 10am tomorrow (Tuesday), Nero Kendal sound?

Round trip just a tad too far I'm afraid x"

Nice to know you actually considered it though x

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

You have to build your profile and socially network on fab. A lot of my meets over the years have come from women recommending me to others. It takes years guys! Not what you want to hear but it’s a fact .

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

.


"How about send some respectful messages and be interesting? So many single men on here are looking for a quick shag…try being different!

The focus should not be to ‘get women’ it should be to make friends, have a laugh and see what happens!!

Yep, I agree.

It does seem like lots of people join the site and think that they have some god given right to get meets instantly or that flashing a cock pic will get you laid in no time. I’ve always found that if you’re friendly, genuine and patient then you just never know where it may lead on here

Oh, and flashing your job title on your profile may come across as a bit arrogant…suggest taking that bit off"

Maybe the OP needs the job title to impress people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Impossible for new people as everyone wants verifications etc…..oh well…..it’s still good for perving ??????

Well Barry

Agreeing to meet for a coffee then deciding its too far just for a coffee is not going to get you very far

I'm not surprised you're left to perv

Missy

Seriously?! If coffee is too much effort, I can only imagine how lazy he is in bed.

Yep

You just can't help some people

Missy x

That was this dude? Oh well, it's obvious he's not getting any better offers.

I'm quite happy to meet up with fellas for a coffee if they need verification

Some just can't be helped!

Missy x

I could do with a veri? How does 10am tomorrow (Tuesday), Nero Kendal sound?

Round trip just a tad too far I'm afraid x

Nice to know you actually considered it though x"

If you're ever in Essex..

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christ I'd be over the moon if I got an invite to meet over a coffee.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Not all of us want women , so I can't comment personally but I'm told very often that by the straight men that few women actually want to meet

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine


"Impossible for new people as everyone wants verifications etc…..oh well…..it’s still good for perving ??????"
how new would you class as new. your rpofiles says member over a year and also already have a veri ?

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Get absolutely ripped with muscles a 10"+ cock have money to spoil

Really, none of these.

Just treat us like we’re actual people, that’s always a good start "

Simple really

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Christ I'd be over the moon if I got an invite to meet over a coffee. "

If you don’t make the effort.... fill in the blanks lol

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By *hocCock1Man
over a year ago

Southampton

Rule number one.....don't moan about not getting say meets

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By *hocCock1Man
over a year ago

Southampton

Any

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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

'Get women' lol just like that... I need to go out and get milk in the morning but shall be courteous and dignified when I do so...

Would suggest but not treating them like milk but be dignified and courteous, if you're confident go to a social, join in on the forums etc and don't hold your hopes up

Unlike milk, they're real people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Impossible for new people as everyone wants verifications etc…..oh well…..it’s still good for perving ??????"

Dude I think that attitude speaks volumes. Why don't you get to know people, (go to socials , get verified, spend time in forums) rather than seeing them as potential fucks......jeeze

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Impossible for new people as everyone wants verifications etc…..oh well…..it’s still good for perving ??????"

Tell them you know Chunky Gent.

A guaranteed meet.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Impossible for new people as everyone wants verifications etc…..oh well…..it’s still good for perving ??????

Tell them you know Chunky Gent.

A guaranteed meet. "

Worth a pop lol

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"'Get women' lol just like that... I need to go out and get milk in the morning but shall be courteous and dignified when I do so...

Would suggest but not treating them like milk but be dignified and courteous, if you're confident go to a social, join in on the forums etc and don't hold your hopes up

Unlike milk, they're real people"

I'm milk bottle white, if that helps? But I'm a real laydeeeeee too. Not an object

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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough


"'Get women' lol just like that... I need to go out and get milk in the morning but shall be courteous and dignified when I do so...

Would suggest but not treating them like milk but be dignified and courteous, if you're confident go to a social, join in on the forums etc and don't hold your hopes up

Unlike milk, they're real people

I'm milk bottle white, if that helps? But I'm a real laydeeeeee too. Not an object "

Colour irrelevant but exactly my point

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough


" I agree but then you do get women and guys moaning it’s a sex site for sex so don’t want to chat "

I don’t want to have endless boring chatter! This IS a sex site!!! I ask guys to meet me at Rios!

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Offer them Tea & Cake

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

By following the compass

West is women

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