FabSwingers.com forum: Nude beaches

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, thinking of going to a nude beach today. I've never been to one before so not sure of the etiquette... Is it okay to have an erection whilst there?

I understand not everyone wants to see that but sometimes it can't be helped and I wouldn't want to go there and have everyone freak out at me for being a perv or whatever!

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

No, it's not okay. It's a public place that could have families, children, people who like an overall tan without being propositioned. This is like asking how your granny would react if you approached the Sunday dinner table with an obvious hard on under your shorts.

If you want to see naked people and get a hard on, go to a club. Don't mix naturism with swinging.

However, that said, there are nude beaches with a dogging area nearby and of course, lots of people fuck on the beach in the middle of the night.

Choose wisely.

Gbat

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

It probably wouldn't be OK to freely walk around with one as you may get families.

If it happens which is just human, cover up of do a Kevin & Perry!

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

One of the benefits of getting older ......I (Bry) need a lot more stimulation to get hard so don't think I'd have to worry about nude beaches!

Think the general advice is to make sure you have a towel handy, cover yourself up if it seems an inappropriate time to have a boner.

Or crack one off the wrist before you visit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It's OK if you are discreet about it. Lie on you front or cover yourself with a towel or sit in a position that doesn't draw attention to it. That's OK. What you should do is walk around saying "Oh dear, I got a boner".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well on the nude beach we go to in cliffony in eire the only erections we have seen are the ones that were playing and having fun. Never seen anyone walking around wirh one, think that's guys initial fear when they first visit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah just to reiterate I'm not planning on going and getting an erection, but sometimes I'm like a 15 year old boy and it just happens

Sounds like it's fine if I'm discreet and turn over that's okay. Will just make sure to put suncream on my backside so I don't end up with a very red arse!

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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Simple, if it happens sit down and cover it with a towel

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

"No, it's not okay. It's a public place that could have families, children, people who like an overall tan without being propositioned. This is like asking how your granny would react if you approached the Sunday dinner table with an obvious hard on under your shorts.

If you want to see naked people and get a hard on, go to a club. Don't mix naturism with swinging.

However, that said, there are nude beaches with a dogging area nearby and of course, lots of people fuck on the beach in the middle of the night.

Choose wisely.

Gbat"
Well said above. It is definitely NOT ok.

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By *udeSpaLoverMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I think you'll be surprised at how un-stimulating it actually is at a nude beach! Especially in the UK where it's 95% men (assuming you're straight) and 5% mature couples.

In Spain it's normalised and there's no stigma so you get a representation of the everyday population at the beach, so an even mix of gender and yes, some sexy younger women too. Yet you still don't find yourself getting a hard on, it's just not that type of environment. Maybe a teenage boy would but if a grown man can't deal with the sight of naked women in a mature manner then he probably needs to stay away from the beach!

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Blackpool, Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

Yes, it's a lot less common than guys think, even if the first time starts with a frisson of excitement it quickly becomes 'normal'.

It's not ok to deliberately get yourself erect or flaunt it - most people don't want to see that, despite the impression you might get from some of the swinger-oriented online forums and discussions. If it happens, just be sensible about it. Sit up or turn on your stomach, cover up, and equally importantly I thing, don't act all 'oooooh nooooo I've got a hard on, I'm soooooo sorry, whatever should I do?' There's no need to draw attention at all, just be discrete and sensible about it.

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

"Yes, it's a lot less common than guys think, even if the first time starts with a frisson of excitement it quickly becomes 'normal'.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Go, enjoy yourself. If you get aroused cover up and think of Ann Widdecombe

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

"Go, enjoy yourself. If you get aroused cover up and think of Ann Widdecombe

Ha! Some people might fancy Ann Widdecombe?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Go, enjoy yourself. If you get aroused cover up and think of Ann Widdecombe

Ha! Some people might fancy Ann Widdecombe?"

True, I'm sure some people do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go, enjoy yourself. If you get aroused cover up and think of Ann Widdecombe

Ha! Some people might fancy Ann Widdecombe?"

I must check out her profile.

Hope her and theresa may by up for a 3 some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go, enjoy yourself. If you get aroused cover up and think of Ann Widdecombe

Ha! Some people might fancy Ann Widdecombe?

I must check out her profile.

Hope her and theresa may by up for a 3 some"

cheers for that, i cant unsee that image now

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By *urvy pawgWoman
over a year ago

north

Do love a nude beach can’t beat an over tan

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By *ornynorfolkguyMan
over a year ago

North Norfolk

Is anyone going to Holkham nudist beach this week and would like some company?

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

"Do love a nude beach can’t beat an over tan "

Must be hard to find where you live.

Lol

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By *urvy pawgWoman
over a year ago

north

Yeah that’s why you drive

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

"Yeah that’s why you drive "

Always a bonus.

Don't come this way today, looks like it's going to pee down

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