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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues. And did you report them to admin? ![]() Reporting anyone to admin merely gets you blocked from seeing their profile. I reported stolen pics once on here, I was instantly blocked from seeing the offending profile yet a friend could still view the pics and profile for months after.. so doubt they’d be taken off Fab for the sake of keeping up the numbers.. | |||
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"Unfortunately that's all we seem to attract ![]() ![]() I'm making the assumption as your profile is 3 weeks old and it doesn't say you've been here before that you're new to Fab. The fake couples profile prey on inexperienced newbies. You'll spot them easily enough eventually, you'll develope a tingle-like spider sense when their mail drops in your inbox ![]() | |||
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues." Yup. I have known of a man pretending to be part of a couple going as far as to arrange an actual meet, then arrive alone to claim "wifey isn't well today, but now I'm here.... how about a shag anyway?" ![]() | |||
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"I have known of a man pretending to be part of a couple going as far as to arrange an actual meet, then arrive alone to claim "wifey isn't well today, but now I'm here.... how about a shag anyway?" ![]() Heard this before too. Hasn’t happened to us thankfully but a quick phone call with both before travel and a social first helps. | |||
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"We are the opposite! Ours is 100% us and genuine but all we seem to be finding is fake single female profiles ![]() We're real too.....but we don't get contacted by any single female profiles, not even fake ones! | |||
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues. And did you report them to admin? ![]() I have noticed the instant block after reporting I don't think they should be allowed to do that I should be allowed to make my own decisions to block | |||
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues." yep. All the time. | |||
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"Unfortunately that's all we seem to attract ![]() ![]() Thought it was only me ! | |||
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"Far to many people with too much time on there hands. There is a lot of so called straight men on here who are cock suckers. My response I can do that myself. " We REALLY don’t understand who has that much spare time on their hands to sit behind a screen just wasting time | |||
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"Far to many people with too much time on there hands. There is a lot of so called straight men on here who are cock suckers. My response I can do that myself. We REALLY don’t understand who has that much spare time on their hands to sit behind a screen just wasting time " Fuglies ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Before investing too much time in any female or couple, ask to speak or see them briefly on cam. That will expose the guys posing as females and couples who want to meet, many of whom just want some dirty chat/wank material before they get rumbled. We're still not meeting anyone for now but when we feel comfortable doing so again we'll expect to do that with the guy in question or just move on. " We always swap live kik vids straight away to verify we're all real. Amazing how many genuine profiles disappear the moment it's mentioned. Some of them may be real people, but just fantasising. | |||
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"Far to many people with too much time on there hands. There is a lot of so called straight men on here who are cock suckers. My response I can do that myself. We REALLY don’t understand who has that much spare time on their hands to sit behind a screen just wasting time " Those who are lonenly, desperate, sad and have little else in their lives for whatever reason. To be fair but not to excuse deception, some people have really shitty lives (maybe even through no fault of their own) and it's their easy, cheap, 'outlet'. That might explain it. | |||
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"Yea one guy tried asking me do I want a bj told him no the abuse I got lol I feel for the ladies if that’s what they get" Well i got called a state and Fat ride this morning from a guy asking for a bj hahahaha | |||
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"Far to many people with too much time on there hands. There is a lot of so called straight men on here who are cock suckers. My response I can do that myself. We REALLY don’t understand who has that much spare time on their hands to sit behind a screen just wasting time Those who are lonenly, desperate, sad and have little else in their lives for whatever reason. To be fair but not to excuse deception, some people have really shitty lives (maybe even through no fault of their own) and it's their easy, cheap, 'outlet'. That might explain it. " That's actually quite kind. Ye lots of couples by me are blokes who like showing off censored pics of the wife and want younto tribite them but always post statuses saying mrs is looking for someone to play with the mr. Its v desperate and sad in a tragic way | |||
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"Before investing too much time in any female or couple, ask to speak or see them briefly on cam. That will expose the guys posing as females and couples who want to meet, many of whom just want some dirty chat/wank material before they get rumbled. We're still not meeting anyone for now but when we feel comfortable doing so again we'll expect to do that with the guy in question or just move on. We always swap live kik vids straight away to verify we're all real. Amazing how many genuine profiles disappear the moment it's mentioned. Some of them may be real people, but just fantasising." Yes 100%! We are pretty new to this but quickly learnt to ask via Kik etc for a quick photo / video of them doing something specific just to prove it’s not some weirdo with a load of pictures saved on their hard drive! Amazing how quickly they totally stop responding!!! | |||
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"Before investing too much time in any female or couple, ask to speak or see them briefly on cam. That will expose the guys posing as females and couples who want to meet, many of whom just want some dirty chat/wank material before they get rumbled. We're still not meeting anyone for now but when we feel comfortable doing so again we'll expect to do that with the guy in question or just move on. We always swap live kik vids straight away to verify we're all real. Amazing how many genuine profiles disappear the moment it's mentioned. Some of them may be real people, but just fantasising." Yes. They may be real couple and it's ok for anyone to fantasise as long as that doesn't extend to lying about their intentions and stringing other people along to get something else. If that's their game they're far harder to detect but my guess would be that there are relatively few genuine couples who are timewasters here. More often, it's either a single guy or the male half of a couple (in which the female has no knowledge or interest), pretending to be a real swinging couple. Of course, refusing to chat/cam doesn't in itself make anyone guilty of anything but for us it would ring a big alarm bell and we'd walk away at that point, especially if all they wanted to do was exchange filty messages. | |||
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"Unfortunately that's all we seem to attract ![]() ![]() ![]() Frank ... No we are not new to Fab . Just seems certain areas of the UK think it's OK to Con people | |||
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues." Yes have come across quite a few. Not a lot you can do about it, if you report them and they get banned they just set up a new profile under different names. | |||
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"I have to admit that our couples profile is mainly my partner messaging most of the time but it’s my photos on our profile We haven’t been on here long and I’m still getting to grips with it, adding photos and actually checking it! We are 100% genuine though ![]() ![]() You will always get many more messages from men. Once you get chatting to couples you can usually tell. We often ask to move to kik as it’s easy enough for both to have an account and we can chat as a four. Could still be one person I guess but I’m sure you would soon tell. If people aren’t sure they can always arrange a phone call or a quick video call. If people want to get to know you there are ways to check if you are genuine. Once you get a verification it will help a lot. Good luck x | |||
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues." Many times. "Couples" wanting a Bimmf and in the last minute "unfortunately" the lady cannot play ![]() | |||
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues." What 'issues'? It's not a new thing. They want a wank and couples send pics and wank chat. Can't blame them for having fun. ![]() | |||
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"Before investing too much time in any female or couple, ask to speak or see them briefly on cam. That will expose the guys posing as females and couples who want to meet, many of whom just want some dirty chat/wank material before they get rumbled. We're still not meeting anyone for now but when we feel comfortable doing so again we'll expect to do that with the guy in question or just move on. We always swap live kik vids straight away to verify we're all real. Amazing how many genuine profiles disappear the moment it's mentioned. Some of them may be real people, but just fantasising. Yes. They may be real couple and it's ok for anyone to fantasise as long as that doesn't extend to lying about their intentions and stringing other people along to get something else. If that's their game they're far harder to detect but my guess would be that there are relatively few genuine couples who are timewasters here. More often, it's either a single guy or the male half of a couple (in which the female has no knowledge or interest), pretending to be a real swinging couple. Of course, refusing to chat/cam doesn't in itself make anyone guilty of anything but for us it would ring a big alarm bell and we'd walk away at that point, especially if all they wanted to do was exchange filty messages. " We've had a lot of 'couples' who turn out to be the guy carrying on after the woman has stopped or left or has no idea in the first place! | |||
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues." Welcome to fab, I would say at least half of them are fake. Always saying "Mrs at work, playing alone" assholes. | |||
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues. Welcome to fab, I would say at least half of them are fake. Always saying "Mrs at work, playing alone" assholes." Ruin it for the rest of us!! | |||
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"Yeeeeeep!! Loads. I always try and cross reference verifications," This as well. Cross referencing veris where the only veri is a single guy. That's the guy who set up the couples profile lol ![]() | |||
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"Yea one guy tried asking me do I want a bj told him no the abuse I got lol I feel for the ladies if that’s what they get Well i got called a state and Fat ride this morning from a guy asking for a bj hahahaha" If it ain’t hard enough for us blokes we get knobs like that | |||
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"Yeeeeeep!! Loads. I always try and cross reference verifications, This as well. Cross referencing veris where the only veri is a single guy. That's the guy who set up the couples profile lol ![]() You knowsssss it! ![]() | |||
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"Yea one guy tried asking me do I want a bj told him no the abuse I got lol I feel for the ladies if that’s what they get Well i got called a state and Fat ride this morning from a guy asking for a bj hahahaha If it ain’t hard enough for us blokes we get knobs like that " It’s not even the Insult that hurts it’s the absolute lack of originality if anything this is a sex site if you have no imagination or creativity then your in the wrong place ![]() | |||
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"Yea one guy tried asking me do I want a bj told him no the abuse I got lol I feel for the ladies if that’s what they get Well i got called a state and Fat ride this morning from a guy asking for a bj hahahaha If it ain’t hard enough for us blokes we get knobs like that " Not really in a position to be passing your opinion on other blokes being knobs are you. ![]() | |||
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues. Welcome to fab, I would say at least half of them are fake. Always saying "Mrs at work, playing alone" assholes. Ruin it for the rest of us!!" Correct x | |||
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"yeah its pretty rife on here OP, along with faux single female profiles as well tbh ... just chalk it up , bin it/block it and move on is the way forward " ![]() | |||
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" Many times. "Couples" wanting a Bimmf and in the last minute "unfortunately" the lady cannot play ![]() The female halves of couples on Fab are the unluckiest people in the world… the number of them who have to suddenly work late, get ill, lose childcare or have a family emergency is unreal. The bloke is never affected by said sudden emergency though. I got called a nosy fat cunt a few weeks ago by a guy when I said “I’m surprised she didn’t want you with her” when his wife was suddenly unavailable for our three way phone call after her mother had a terrible accident and she had to go to say her goodbyes as she wasn’t expected to make it (so the wife likely wouldn’t want to play for a while…) | |||
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"Usually the unverified accounts. The give away for verified is couples where only the guy plays. Not saying they're all fake, but we'd say most that say that are." Or 1 verification that's hidden or comes from a hidden profile. Oh they are so obvious to me ![]() | |||
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"If you do come across a profile with fake pics report it to admin. Never ever openly discuss it on the forum or accuse someone In a thread of it. This is a major no no and admin will ban you for it. It's a no win case. Just report the profile privately ![]() It is the fake adds that is the issue. | |||
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"We should start a thread for only genuine profiles no fakers that will sniff them out ![]() A bit of competition may sort this place out. | |||
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"We’re really fake. Faker than a fake thing being fake on national fake day… Steer clear of us. ![]() Seconded ![]() | |||
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"We’re really fake. Faker than a fake thing being fake on national fake day… Steer clear of us. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"We’re really fake. Faker than a fake thing being fake on national fake day… Steer clear of us. ![]() If only you were PB&J. Perfect! ![]() | |||
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues." There’s thousands of these, can normally spot it a mile off | |||
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues." Yeah I had a meet I said what I had to say and it was wrong I calmly walked out of the car went home and posted it on here am straight to the point | |||
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"Before investing too much time in any female or couple, ask to speak or see them briefly on cam. That will expose the guys posing as females and couples who want to meet, many of whom just want some dirty chat/wank material before they get rumbled. We're still not meeting anyone for now but when we feel comfortable doing so again we'll expect to do that with the guy in question or just move on. We always swap live kik vids straight away to verify we're all real. Amazing how many genuine profiles disappear the moment it's mentioned. Some of them may be real people, but just fantasising. Yes 100%! We are pretty new to this but quickly learnt to ask via Kik etc for a quick photo / video of them doing something specific just to prove it’s not some weirdo with a load of pictures saved on their hard drive! Amazing how quickly they totally stop responding!!!" that's also a tactic of thirsty guys which can dry up the wettest of clams | |||
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues." So frequently that I don't believe couples are couples until I've spoken to both. 5 times I can remember off hand I've had a couple arrange to meet and when I've arrived his wife just happened to get called into work 20 seconds before I got there | |||
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"I've recently been accused of being fake, not the first time in the eleven years I've been on Fab. But this time, this angry male individual actually thinks the many verifications of the friends that have verified me have on their profiles are also fake. It got to the point where this creep not only reported me, but also the friends that have verified me. It gets worse, he has listed on his profile that I'm a fake......it's driven me to the point where I'm not comfortable being on the site anymore." I remember you. ![]() | |||
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues." Yes, too many times. Once we were in a hotel in Farnborough and put a meet up, three "couples" messaged us and all three had an excuse of why it was the guy only who wanted to meet. Always we make sure the ladies chat on the phone first, would not even consider doing it any other way now. | |||
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