FabSwingers.com forum: Nervous but excited

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

OK hear goes.

Tommy talking hear to try and cut a long story short.

3 weeks ago we went to go to a swingers meet club. We ended up out the front giggling and nerves got the better of us and we left before making it in. There was a few factors surrounding this and concerns. But we went else where and had fun.

As u can see we absolutely new to this not a Scooby dooby!!

So I've never shared my wife yet. But wanting to just show her of a little and at best fuck her in front of someone.

We not looking for totally hardcore yet.

So tonights the night. We back out all booked to go to crowland swingers club. Any hot tips to what to expect. I've bene told its not a sex bar just a meet and greet. Please please give me and my wife some useful tips.

We going with the mindset of. It's me and you and me and you are going to have a good time anything els eis a bonus. So no expectations xx

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most importantly stick to your boundaries, have fun & let your hair down. Go with the flow, go with no expectations therfore if nothing comes with it then your not disappointed.

Im in a similar situation wanting to share but never have. Its crossing that line which is hars and im sure atleast for most once its crossed it becomes the new normal for your sex life as im sure its insanely hot!!

By *e-funcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Talk, talk and then talk some more about what can and can’t happen, discuss those boundaries and stick to them, then the next day discuss the night and see if the boundaries can move or stay the same. (be honest with each other and yourself)

Do not judge others, have an open mind (you will see things you didn’t expect) and enjoy the night. It is supposed to be fun!

By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

Relax have fun and even if there's a woman having a 30man royal rumble in the public areas if you just want to treat it like a pub do so.

And if you want to just go to a private room with 1 way glass so people can watch but you wouldn't know that's you guys taking your 1st step to whatever it is you want from this scene