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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Rapidly approaching my first DP experience eek

Please give me every tip/hint/piece of advice that you can muster.

I’m not very practiced at anal so this may be a bridge too far but let’s see

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

There is no best position, it's about finding what's the best position for you.

Do it early in the meet before the guys cum.... There may be lots of trial and error and experimenting with positions so you need the guys really hard. Also dont let the guys bring you to orgasm before dp as your orgasm will make your hole clench and make Anal penetration more difficult. Lots of oral, foreplay, fingering, rimming is good though as it will relax you and make penetration easier.

If you're nervous about the anal, then start with that. Only once you're comfortable then try the second one inside your pussy...... it will be harder to achieve anal penetration if you have the other one already inside, as you will feel filled and and your bum will be really tight.

Longest cock goes in the bum as it's less prone to slipping out..

Lastly it should be fun! So don't put the emphasis on achieving dp! Rather make the goal to explore and see how far you get.... just have fun trying and if you achieve it, then bonus!

Ps, there's no such thing as to much time or lubrication for Anal??

Enjoy!

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By *ittyndCouple
over a year ago

Oldham/Birmingham

Amazing post x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is no best position, it's about finding what's the best position for you.

Longest cock goes in the bum as it's less prone to slipping out..

Lastly it should be fun! So don't put the emphasis on achieving dp! Rather make the goal to explore and see how far you get.... just have fun trying and if you achieve it, then bonus!

Ps, there's no such thing as to much time or lubrication for Anal??

Enjoy!

Wow! Very helpful, thankyou so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rapidly approaching my first DP experience eek

Please give me every tip/hint/piece of advice that you can muster.

I’m not very practiced at anal so this may be a bridge too far but let’s see

Let me know if you need anyone for practice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try using a strapon or dildo with your partner for practise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is no best position, it's about finding what's the best position for you.

Longest cock goes in the bum as it's less prone to slipping out..

Lastly it should be fun! So don't put the emphasis on achieving dp! Rather make the goal to explore and see how far you get.... just have fun trying and if you achieve it, then bonus!

Ps, there's no such thing as to much time or lubrication for Anal??

Enjoy!

Not something I ever want to do but damn that was informative.

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By *hestercpl4funCouple
over a year ago

chester

It feels totally amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has your libido returned for a double portion?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

If you're not experienced with anal, pick guys who don't have girthy dicks. A butt plug on day and playing in the days before may be a good idea to get used to things as in douching.

I'd disagree with starting anal first, as you'll be pretty tight unless they have seriously warmed you up vaginally not least anally.

I would say keep this vaginal until you are comfortable with them and until you're warm enough, there's no reason why you can't try dvp if lube is getting thrown around, which is then easily followed onto dp.

I wouldn't bother about it being a dp meet either, it'll either happen or you'll enjoy everything else either way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Has your libido returned for a double portion?"

Not really but I’m going on holiday and meeting the love of my life there and this is something we’ve always talked about so he’s arranged for his friend to join us for the night. I’m so excited to see him so I’ve agreed.

My libido for randomers is still zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usual advice when it comes to anal. Loads of lube, take it slow, start in a comfy easy position (spoons maybe), relax as much as possible and breathe slowly and deeply. Then as others have said just have anal sex for a while until you're fully relaxed and he can pound away so to speak without it hurting. Then switch to cowgirl with the guy below in your pussy and the other guy behind doing anal doggy style. I find that the best position for DP.

Be prepared for the biggest orgasms of your life!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Usual advice when it comes to anal. Loads of lube, take it slow, start in a comfy easy position (spoons maybe), relax as much as possible and breathe slowly and deeply. Then as others have said just have anal sex for a while until you're fully relaxed and he can pound away so to speak without it hurting. Then switch to cowgirl with the guy below in your pussy and the other guy behind doing anal doggy style. I find that the best position for DP.

Be prepared for the biggest orgasms of your life!

xx"

If I’m already doing anal but we stop to change position, will it hurt again or will it already be primed so to speak?

Great advice, thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some good advice for when we ever decide to try it

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Sit on larger male and lean forward leaving perfect access for male No2

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Good advice! Weve found dvp works well for us and i think from whats been siad here about going in anal first and then vaginal makes alot of sense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be prepared for the biggest orgasms of your life!

If I’m already doing anal but we stop to change position, will it hurt again or will it already be primed so to speak?

Great advice, thankyou

The way you put that made me giggle, but yes, you should already be primed

I did this for the first time a few weeks ago, I got on top of one man who lay on the edge of the bed, with his feet on the floor, and then the other man stood behind us, so pussy first, then arse.

Hope you enjoy it

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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Be prepared for the biggest orgasms of your life!

If I’m already doing anal but we stop to change position, will it hurt again or will it already be primed so to speak?

Great advice, thankyou

The way you put that made me giggle, but yes, you should already be primed

I did this for the first time a few weeks ago, I got on top of one man who lay on the edge of the bed, with his feet on the floor, and then the other man stood behind us, so pussy first, then arse.

Hope you enjoy it

I’ve already got my coat on, which weatherspoons is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be prepared for the biggest orgasms of your life!

If I’m already doing anal but we stop to change position, will it hurt again or will it already be primed so to speak?

Great advice, thankyou

Unless you wait a while and tense back up you'll be good to in another position. The muscles around there take a few minutes to loosen up (for me at least) but once you're there they kind of remain loose for a few minutes too, even without stimulation. So switching position is a breeze, nothing like starting again, if he puts on a but more lube too then he'll be able to just shove it in without it bothering you, as long as he gets a good angle.

The biggest faff with DP is getting everyone comfortable, legs organised, and cocks in. Removing the "easing into anal" part simplifies this all so much and removes worry from you so you can focus on enjoying yourself. Mental relaxation is just as important.

Get the guy with more girth in your pussy as it feels better anyway, but girth hurts more for anal, length is no issue for anal though, its kinda the opposite of pussy when it comes to cock size and shape. The longer guy also need the "range" a but more in DP too lol.

If you're planning on more than one round then ask him to cum in you. There are some great lubes out there but I still say cum is better than anything, so great for making the next round easier!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be prepared for the biggest orgasms of your life!

If I’m already doing anal but we stop to change position, will it hurt again or will it already be primed so to speak?

Great advice, thankyou

The way you put that made me giggle, but yes, you should already be primed

I did this for the first time a few weeks ago, I got on top of one man who lay on the edge of the bed, with his feet on the floor, and then the other man stood behind us, so pussy first, then arse.

Hope you enjoy it

I’ve already got my coat on, which weatherspoons is it

Excuse me?

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Taking notes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rapidly approaching my first DP experience eek

Please give me every tip/hint/piece of advice that you can muster.

I’m not very practiced at anal so this may be a bridge too far but let’s see

Try DVP first, just let the men do the work lol, highly recommended x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Has your libido returned for a double portion?

My libido for randomers is still zero

Best of luck meeting the love of your life! Anything else is going to be a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube.

That’s my advice.

Enjoy!

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By *bzHotCplCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Our tips would be….

1) Use lots of lube

2) Guys need to be rock hard. If any guy is slightly floppy it’s not going to work.

3) We find starting with guy 1 lying on back with legs together, Fem straddling on top leaning forward and riding him for a while in pussy, then guy 2 enters ass with him kneeling with his legs on the outside of guy 1’s legs.

4) Might take a while to get both guys in, for them to stay in and to get settled with a good rhythm. Don’t give up.

5) Use lots of lube

6) Have guys that are comfortable with legs touching and dicks being very close and even touching. If they not, it’s probably not going to work.

7) Use lots of lube

8) Laugh when it’s not working and keep trying

Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the tips and hints everyone

I will let you know how it goes

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By *inkyisfunukMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I’m a big fan of DP, love it.

Like others have said - both guys need to be comfortable getting very close, and both need to be rock hard. Cowgirl/doggy position is usually the easiest at first, but once you’re well practiced at it others can be fun also. A lot depends on how long/girthy the guys are.

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By *orkscouple2003Couple
over a year ago

Dewsbury

Some fantastic tips and tricks on here. We’ve done dvp a few times, always a struggle to start with but eventually everyone finds there rhythm. Dp is definitely next on the list

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By *uninlondon69Man
over a year ago

Tower Bridge South

Not sure about DP tips. Slightly strange tasting tea.

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By *ewey613Man
over a year ago

ottawa

"Some fantastic tips and tricks on here. We’ve done dvp a few times, always a struggle to start with but eventually everyone finds there rhythm. Dp is definitely next on the list "

DVP is amazing. Especially if both men cum the inside ( with protection )

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By *ecretescapeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Not sure about DP tips. Slightly strange tasting tea. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some fantastic tips and tricks on here. We’ve done dvp a few times, always a struggle to start with but eventually everyone finds there rhythm. Dp is definitely next on the list

DVP is amazing. Especially if both men cum the inside ( with protection )"

I can’t see them being comfortable rubbing cocks unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some fantastic tips and tricks on here. We’ve done dvp a few times, always a struggle to start with but eventually everyone finds there rhythm. Dp is definitely next on the list

DVP is amazing. Especially if both men cum the inside ( with protection )

I can’t see them being comfortable rubbing cocks unfortunately. "

That's the best bit of dvp!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some fantastic tips and tricks on here. We’ve done dvp a few times, always a struggle to start with but eventually everyone finds there rhythm. Dp is definitely next on the list

DVP is amazing. Especially if both men cum the inside ( with protection )

I can’t see them being comfortable rubbing cocks unfortunately. "

There's a good chance their cocks will share at least a wee kiss at each other's heads

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some fantastic tips and tricks on here. We’ve done dvp a few times, always a struggle to start with but eventually everyone finds there rhythm. Dp is definitely next on the list

DVP is amazing. Especially if both men cum the inside ( with protection )

I can’t see them being comfortable rubbing cocks unfortunately.

There's a good chance their cocks will share at least a wee kiss at each other's heads"

I think they’ll be ok with that but I know they wouldn’t be up for dvp (unfortunately for me!)

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By *ewey613Man
over a year ago

ottawa

"Some fantastic tips and tricks on here. We’ve done dvp a few times, always a struggle to start with but eventually everyone finds there rhythm. Dp is definitely next on the list

DVP is amazing. Especially if both men cum the inside ( with protection )

I can’t see them being comfortable rubbing cocks unfortunately.

There's a good chance their cocks will share at least a wee kiss at each other's heads

I think they’ll be ok with that but I know they wouldn’t be up for dvp (unfortunately for me!)

And for them. Done it twice and have never felt anything like him cumming against me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to help a couple with this if anyone's interested oh and I don't mind if my cock touches another lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some fantastic tips and tricks on here. We’ve done dvp a few times, always a struggle to start with but eventually everyone finds there rhythm. Dp is definitely next on the list

DVP is amazing. Especially if both men cum the inside ( with protection )

I can’t see them being comfortable rubbing cocks unfortunately.

There's a good chance their cocks will share at least a wee kiss at each other's heads

I think they’ll be ok with that but I know they wouldn’t be up for dvp (unfortunately for me!)

And for them. Done it twice and have never felt anything like him cumming against me "

I’d love to do it but I don’t think he would go for it. He thinks it’s “gay” if I put my finger up his arse! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some fantastic tips and tricks on here. We’ve done dvp a few times, always a struggle to start with but eventually everyone finds there rhythm. Dp is definitely next on the list

DVP is amazing. Especially if both men cum the inside ( with protection )

I can’t see them being comfortable rubbing cocks unfortunately.

There's a good chance their cocks will share at least a wee kiss at each other's heads

I think they’ll be ok with that but I know they wouldn’t be up for dvp (unfortunately for me!)

And for them. Done it twice and have never felt anything like him cumming against me

I’d love to do it but I don’t think he would go for it. He thinks it’s “gay” if I put my finger up his arse! Haha "

As long as you say "no homo" before the meat rubs it's all good. That's the rule apparently

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

Relax, be patient, remember you are in charge and enjoy. It is an amazing experience for everyone when done right. Try reverse cowgirl with the guy underneath in your arse, you leaning back allowing the second guy to enter your pussy. Or mount the guy underneath with your legs either side of his and let the second guy enter your arse from behind. Prepare to feel amazing!

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By *olmateMan
over a year ago

west mids

Just a quick note from a medical pov!

If you are using protection fine.

If not, please don't let anyone switch between the holes with washing or proper cleaning the cock. Especially when the switch is from anal to pussy!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying no homo before cocks touch, that's so much like me too

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Very informative and sexy thread!

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By *ecretescapeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Some fantastic tips and tricks on here. We’ve done dvp a few times, always a struggle to start with but eventually everyone finds there rhythm. Dp is definitely next on the list

DVP is amazing. Especially if both men cum the inside ( with protection )

I can’t see them being comfortable rubbing cocks unfortunately.

There's a good chance their cocks will share at least a wee kiss at each other's heads

I think they’ll be ok with that but I know they wouldn’t be up for dvp (unfortunately for me!)

And for them. Done it twice and have never felt anything like him cumming against me "

WOW

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By *ave1963MexboroughMan
over a year ago

Mexborough

"Rapidly approaching my first DP experience eek

Please give me every tip/hint/piece of advice that you can muster.

I’m not very practiced at anal so this may be a bridge too far but let’s see

Regarding anal, my advice would be to get used to his size by riding him first. That way you can guide him in at your own pace.

Use plenty of lube and move slowly up and down his shaft so you get used to his size and the sensations of having him in you.

When you're comfortable with that it should be possible to change position and have him enter you without any problems.

Remember, slow and easy wins the race. I hope this helps x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all.

It’s probably running before I can walk but fuck it haha

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Lots of useful advice. Ta!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Thanks all.

It’s probably running before I can walk but fuck it haha "

Fuck ‘them’ more like……

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

Practice makes perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks all.

It’s probably running before I can walk but fuck it haha "

Just go girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is top of my fantasy list! Some really helpful posts here. Notes taken

I hope not all works out OP! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*it all works out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this was a post about tea as in PG Tips?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone. Great advice and I’ll definitely let you know how it goes

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

"Thanks everyone. Great advice and I’ll definitely let you know how it goes

There has been some very carefully considered advice given, from people who clearly love the art of DP; personally I'm looking forward to reading your experiences, in detail.

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