FabSwingers.com forum: Your ideal

By *arte_Blanche_NE OP Couple
over a year ago

Northern

Always preferred private meets but have started exploring clubs since they’ve started to open and enjoying it loads more than we expected. So what’s your ideal type of meet? Private, parties or clubs?

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By *etCloseMan
over a year ago

north

I’ve always had private meets. But I’m really interested in going to a club or something. I’m trying to get my friends to come with me

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By *arte_Blanche_NE OP Couple
over a year ago

Northern

"I’ve always had private meets. But I’m really interested in going to a club or something. I’m trying to get my friends to come with me "

Our last club visit was far better than our first experience, really wanting to go to VA and LB next

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By *678Man
over a year ago

Surrey

For me it would depend on who it is that you’re planning on meeting.

The best is someone you have physical connectivity with, and then it would be a weekend tucked away somewhere quaint, with endless sex and having time to get to know them better.

Ahhhh lovely stuff

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Always clubs - never been disappointed on a club visit, particularly because I enjoy anonymous sex with a guy (or groups of guys), and because it's easier in clubs to find another wonan to play with.

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By *inks_apeyCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We always tend to prefer clubs, especially for new meets, no disappointment then if you don't click, both can wander and find something last to amuse you. But hey, we have met other places too

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

When we started this we were too nervous to go to a club so always did private meets. Then we went to a club just before covid hit so not had a chance to explore them properly since. I think we will always prefer private meets as like to get to get to know people first however we will use clubs occasionally to mix things up a bit. I also think clubs will work better for us with couples and single women.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Never met anybody so wouldn’t know

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

We prefer private meets. Have been to clubs but more relaxed with private as we would have spoken before and know roughly what we are getting.

Lily

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Clubs, a long night of fun.

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh

"Always preferred private meets but have started exploring clubs since they’ve started to open and enjoying it loads more than we expected. So what’s your ideal type of meet? Private, parties or clubs?"

We enjoy both for different reasons. Private as you get full undivided attention and it’s quiet, clubs because if the difference in atmosphere and the chance to watch then participate if people are happy. Love both

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We've tried almost every format. Club meets end at closing time but you can be as loud as you want. Clubs also have purpose build furniture that even your most athletic moves won't break... just our thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private always

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Always clubs for us. We don't like to arrange anything so can just turn up and go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anybody been to a club and seen somebody they know personally (not off this site) a friend, family member ect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private for me, ideally a nice no pressure no expectations social and just letting things progressing naturally, have a laugh, conversation oh and definitely some flirting.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

House parties or overnight hotel meets.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I generally prefer private meets unless I am going to go to a club with someone I know.

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

I'm too shy to go to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club meets for us we have done private meets and parties...we find clubs less pushy and as we go with no expectations or arranged agenda its always lots more relaxed plus they don't always end at closing Some also have attached hotel rooms where you can continue to play...

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By *arte_Blanche_NE OP Couple
over a year ago

Northern

"We've tried almost every format. Club meets end at closing time but you can be as loud as you want. Clubs also have purpose build furniture that even your most athletic moves won't break... just our thoughts."

Yeah we tried out a few things in the club we were in last week, swings are great but we don’t have room to fit one at home lol x

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

We mix it up clubs and private

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By *ecretescapeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

This.. I get to indulge my exhibitionist streak in a club, but its more of a cerebral turn on, whereas a one to one meet is more satisfying in the orgasm sense as I can lose myself in the sensations more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weve done 2 club visits now which were great fun! Although hard to sort with childcare and work, so private meets tend to be much easier to organise.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I like private meets x

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By *inkyisfunukMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Totally depends on mood and the other(s) involved!

It’s all fun…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private meets or at a party kk or mansion ect. Dont enjoy 'clubs'

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By *arte_Blanche_NE OP Couple
over a year ago

Northern

"Private meets or at a party kk or mansion ect. Dont enjoy 'clubs'

We are looking for a mansion party, not sure if we will fit in though lol

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

Ideally it's a regular partner so all of the above, meet privately including others in our fun, but going to clubs and party's as a couple.

Seems like it's chasing rainbows though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tend to go private.

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By *leo and LeoCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

We only really play at clubs. We aren’t adverse to meeting privately though, but we do worry that play may be expected in a private setting. Especially if one has travelled a fair bit.

Private meets would be better for us if we’ve spoken extensively and/or met them a couple of times prior.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

It depends on what dynamic we are looking for.

We love the clubs but avoid couples nights.

We tend to go on a Friday if we are looking for single guys to join us and Mrs M will often go alone on a Monday if she is looking for a fem.

We also don't mind the odd local.hook up but it's finding folk that are on the same page that we find more difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One that involves a hot tub

And food.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Private meets or at a party kk or mansion ect. Dont enjoy 'clubs'

We are looking for a mansion party, not sure if we will fit in though lol "

Honestly theyre amazing, theres no snobbery or judgments, theres people from all backgrounds For me i found i didnt like the 'crassness' of clubs its just cleaner, more respectful and mature over the typical club. Also the food is amazing

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

private

never fancied a club, really not my thing

but possibly could be curious about a party if it was being run by somebody tidy, not sure I would launch into any sort of action myself, but would find it interesting to be there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to a club .. wouldn’t know what to expect or where to begin .. might need my hand held on this one lol ...

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Just something about hotel meets that excite me

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By *horstenMan
over a year ago

Somerset

Meet in club but unleash in private!

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