FabSwingers.com forum: No chance here as single guy

By *orksfunM4F OP Man
over a year ago

ilkley

Frustrating here as a single man. No one wants to meet without veri, but no way of getting a veri without a meet!

Catch 22 - any ideas on improving this welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says you have a verification?!!!

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By *eorgeo1Man
over a year ago

Slaley

Visit your local club. Someone will verify you.

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

"Frustrating here as a single man. No one wants to meet without veri, but no way of getting a veri without a meet!

Catch 22 - any ideas on improving this welcome

You have 3 verifications according to your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Frustrating here as a single man. No one wants to meet without veri, but no way of getting a veri without a meet!

Catch 22 - any ideas on improving this welcome

Depends how much effort you're willing to put in.

Social first?

More friendlier pics, not cocks.

Can you or can't you accommodate?

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"Frustrating here as a single man. No one wants to meet without veri, but no way of getting a veri without a meet!

Catch 22 - any ideas on improving this welcome

But according to your profile you already have meet verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Frustrating here as a single man. No one wants to meet without veri, but no way of getting a veri without a meet!

Catch 22 - any ideas on improving this welcome

I think it's just supply and demand, loads of guys, far fewer ladies.

Not much any one can do about that, you just need to be patient or look elsewhere.

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By *tooveMan
over a year ago

belfast

"Your profile says you have a verification?!!!

Verified by two men and a woman. He's straight. That's probably the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We personally don’t engage with anyone who hasn’t got a photo as their profile and just ignore those with a blank avatar even if they have other photos on their profile.

Maybe also include some photos of the rest of you.

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By *ydia_LovegoodWoman
over a year ago

St. Ives

You're 53, but your summary says 51, obvs haven't updated it in a while... 2 public pics of your genitalia, both 5 years old... Come on.. Make an effort!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Think of your profile as your shop window to the world….

For example…. If I was to a person looking to meet, how would I know that I was a possible…

The answer is I wouldn’t…. You don’t mention the type of person you are after at all!

Not a criticism.. more proving a point….

So… did you actually think about what you are putting in your shop window

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By *orksfunM4F OP Man
over a year ago

ilkley

Sorry, perhaps I should have said current verifications

Thanks for the tips though

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"You're 53, but your summary says 51, obvs haven't updated it in a while... 2 public pics of your genitalia, both 5 years old... Come on.. Make an effort!! "

This^

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Your update would put me off amongst other things. Looks like you are not bothered who you meet as long as you get your leg over.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Ever single man starts off with no verifications. Me included when I started on here as a single guy. But once you get a good reputation things are easier. Don't get me wrong I know its hard but we've all been there. But despite how difficult it is I think you have to at least look into yourself and/or methods for after a certain length of time rather than just blame it all on the system or others. The best approach is perseverance and positivity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're 53, but your summary says 51, obvs haven't updated it in a while... 2 public pics of your genitalia, both 5 years old... Come on.. Make an effort!! "

you wanna meet an exciting fun lady like this? you got to do the work.

no cheat codes here

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Always offer a social, no pressure.

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By *ydia_LovegoodWoman
over a year ago

St. Ives

"You're 53, but your summary says 51, obvs haven't updated it in a while... 2 public pics of your genitalia, both 5 years old... Come on.. Make an effort!!

you wanna meet an exciting fun lady like this? you got to do the work.

no cheat codes here"

Preach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're 53, but your summary says 51, obvs haven't updated it in a while... 2 public pics of your genitalia, both 5 years old... Come on.. Make an effort!!

you wanna meet an exciting fun lady like this? you got to do the work.

no cheat codes here

Preach

always good to see you lady

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Most of us look at a profile before deciding if we'd reply to a message.

I would click off yours I'm afraid, a profile picture would Help and some non cock pics too. Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 hours and he's not taken any of the advice he's been given. I can only assume he's as lazy in bed as he is with his profile. No thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need to work on your images and sales pitch ..not that I do much better! good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think of your profile as your shop window to the world….

For example…. If I was to a person looking to meet, how would I know that I was a possible…

The answer is I wouldn’t…. You don’t mention the type of person you are after at all!

Not a criticism.. more proving a point….

So… did you actually think about what you are putting in your shop window

Totally agree.

You're complaining about something that shouldn't be an issue for you - i.e. people unwilling to meet unverified users despite the fact that you are verified.

Do you really think your profile puts you in your best light?

Is it selling you well enough?

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Frustrating here as a single man. No one wants to meet without veri, but no way of getting a veri without a meet!

Catch 22 - any ideas on improving this welcome

Get a grip man, your letting Leeds down.

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By *egasusQMan
over a year ago

Ashbourne

Mate, you’re just gonna have to suck it up. If you’re a nice guy, they will come. (Ooooh errrrrr!). Seriously though, stick with being a nice guy and be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have any Verdi’s but I’ve at least got myself photo verified and when I message women I offer to send more pics if requested to prove I’m genuine. Am also in the forums more often now. That is helping, I am getting replies. Even though it’s a no, I thank them for taking the time out to reply.

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

Would you meet someone displaying your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're 53, but your summary says 51, obvs haven't updated it in a while... 2 public pics of your genitalia, both 5 years old... Come on.. Make an effort!! "

Yep this!

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