FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting without face pictures

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would you ever meet for sex if u hadnt seen what the person looked liked

A woman asked me if i was free tonight it was 45 mins to.hers i said yes chatted her likes dislikes then i asked if i could see her face pic she said no i dont show pics because of my job so i declined she got arsey.

Just wondered peoples views would u have still met and if u didnt lile juat left or would you have not met in 1st place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Did it once years ago. Luckily it worked out.

It was extremely exciting but I'm not so sure I'd do it again.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Definitely not.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We wouldn't have met in the first place.

We've had social meets where the guy has never asked to see our face picture though. They can escape from that if we turn out to be scary

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Id have had a social without face pic but not sexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we would have to agree with you on that one..have a great weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not. Attraction is a huge part of sexual chemistry.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

How will you know it’s them if you’ve not seen there face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you ever meet for sex if u hadnt seen what the person looked liked

Just wondered peoples views would u have still met and if u didnt lile juat left or would you have not met in 1st place

For sex - no. But I always meet for social only first. I don't ask for face pics to meet for social nor do I send them myself.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Yes, from a contact magazine many years ago. I met a few couples and single ladies without seeing a photograph or them of me. Occasionally a grainy b/w photo would be sent, but not often. Only one bad experience. Always were more than one meet. I guess the emphasis wasn't on, as much what people looked like but the type of person they were.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Definitely no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without a shadow of a doubt no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not! And I expect a video call before a meet too

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By *iverpool 2Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

No chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did it last year, my first Fab hookup, and it turned out really well - a very handsome, intelligent and sexy guy. We had great sex. But we'd done a lot of messages and spoke on the phone - he interested me as a person and I wouldn't have been that bothered what he looked like.

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By *hyGFnFilthyBFCouple
over a year ago

Weston-Super-Mare

Done it a few times mainly meets where it’s a quick fuck and go but can be very hot

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance in hell I’d meet someone without face pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance, im not having sex with someone who im not attracted to facially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Absolutely not,

We all need privacy, but if we didn't know if there was any attraction, we wouldnt meet.

If people don't want to show them, that's up to them.Also up to us to stop chatting at that stage.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make them turn up and place a paper bags over their head with the eyes cut out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, Defo not.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Never, even if you're privacy concious, you have to have an element of trust in someone if you're meeting

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By *lassy_but_sassyWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Nope!

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

No as don't meet for sex without a social first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I arranged a meet with another couple and they did send face pictures and was very good looking but before I could show my girlfriend. They had hidden the face pictures.

Anyway to cut a long story short my girlfriend deleted all her pictures on fab and suspended our account.

To make the point that I never arrange a meet without her seeing the face pictures first and agreeing to it.

Nowadays I can be talking to people on fab and if I've not got their face pictures I don't even bother telling the girlfriend. Until I do have some face pictures.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No never! B very awkward if u not attracted to them x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Never, I wouldn't even have a social without seeing a face pic.

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By *ydia_LovegoodWoman
over a year ago

St. Ives

Never, no, nope...

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

They have to see my picture first, face and body. I wouldn't be able to cope if they turned around on the spot, if we met, because they didn't like me.

Presumably this woman is very fit and doesn't have those kind of hang ups.

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By *aralewisCouple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Always do social meets and take it from their

That way nothing committed and if we click we can see how the rest of the night goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldnet meet somone for sex without establishing if there is an attraction first

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By *ephistoCouple
over a year ago

torrance

Nope! Too many crazies out there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ended up in a 5 year relationship from what was essentially a blind date. (her profile pics were vague but she turned out to be hot and fun)

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

It's like a lucky dip.

If they were verified so I knew they weren't a psycho then maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

Refused to meet a couple I was chatting to. They asked for a pic which I sent then refused to send one back but still wanted to meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never even talk about anything like that, without seeing a face pic... It's the bit I find physio attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance! But the amount of “Guys” that think you will is crazy

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

"No.

Refused to meet a couple I was chatting to. They asked for a pic which I sent then refused to send one back but still wanted to meet me "

I have done the same thing if they don't pass the ball back the ball game ends.

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By *95888Man
over a year ago

carlisle

I always send one if asked

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Definitely not. I want to swap face pics right at the start, before even chatting. I’ve been burned too many times where I’ve started chatting with someone, then they’ve sent me a pic and I didn’t fancy them.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

We always asked for one but we dont always a pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you sure it was a woman that messaged you?

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

douglas

Not a chance

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By *arte_Blanche_NECouple
over a year ago

Northern

"Would you ever meet for sex if u hadnt seen what the person looked liked

Just wondered peoples views would u have still met and if u didnt lile juat left or would you have not met in 1st place

It would be a no from us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a chance "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's face it the relaxin of the face mask law is going to scare the shit outta some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not.

And I’d be more concerned if you wanted to meet me, without seeing a few face pics, too! X

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I wont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely not.

And I’d be more concerned if you wanted to meet me, without seeing a few face pics, too! X"

That's ok darling .what doggys for

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Face pictures might get you a social. No face pictures, no social and definitely no blind date sex!

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By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

Bottom line not a blind date.deffo won't meet without. Won't chat without a face pic

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Face pictures might get you a social. No face pictures, no social and definitely no blind date sex!"

When they say whattap or snapchat or this or that

No just no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely not.

And I’d be more concerned if you wanted to meet me, without seeing a few face pics, too! X

That's ok darling .what doggys for

Haha sounds like one of the dodgy messages I’ve received that!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Face pictures might get you a social. No face pictures, no social and definitely no blind date sex!

When they say whattap or snapchat or this or that

No just no"

Whattsap

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We have never saw or given out face pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Face pictures might get you a social. No face pictures, no social and definitely no blind date sex!

When they say whattap or snapchat or this or that

No just no

Whattsap "

All the guys I’ve met have been asked to send a direct selfie with a condiment of my choice haha

They did it, too

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By *ombull15Man
over a year ago

essex

I done 2 in past one good one really not good different to how described

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Face pictures might get you a social. No face pictures, no social and definitely no blind date sex!

When they say whattap or snapchat or this or that

No just no

Whattsap

All the guys I’ve met have been asked to send a direct selfie with a condiment of my choice haha

They did it, too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Face pictures might get you a social. No face pictures, no social and definitely no blind date sex!

When they say whattap or snapchat or this or that

No just no

Whattsap

All the guys I’ve met have been asked to send a direct selfie with a condiment of my choice haha

They did it, too

Show me your hot sauce

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Face pictures might get you a social. No face pictures, no social and definitely no blind date sex!

When they say whattap or snapchat or this or that

No just no

Whattsap

All the guys I’ve met have been asked to send a direct selfie with a condiment of my choice haha

They did it, too

Show me your hot sauce

Ooh

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Never meet without swapping face pics. How would you know if there was an attraction otherwise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know this site is over ran with men but even if I got a message from a woman requesting a meet for sex, I wouldn’t agree unless we’d swapped face pics. Has to be an attraction.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Would you ever meet for sex if u hadnt seen what the person looked liked

Just wondered peoples views would u have still met and if u didnt lile juat left or would you have not met in 1st place

No, definitely not, not a chance …as if

NO !

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

Nope, and the amount of hypocritical profiles as well, demanding pics, face pics other details yet their profile is devoid of any photos and a single line about stating you must have pictures or be ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely not.

And I’d be more concerned if you wanted to meet me, without seeing a few face pics, too! X

That's ok darling .what doggys for

Haha sounds like one of the dodgy messages I’ve received that!"

Improvisation. You bend I'll insert.

Win win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would never even talk about anything like that, without seeing a face pic... It's the bit I find physio attractive

Physio?!? Where the fuck did that come from?! Ffs... My word suggestions need to have borders or sumin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't read whole question but its a no from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I have read the whole question

I would answer as long as she did video or what's app time with body and hide face if needed due to job then maybe yes

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By *alentino7Man
over a year ago

London

"Absolutely not. Attraction is a huge part of sexual chemistry."

Same as above

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By *aughtyDuetCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

We exchanged face pictures with a couple before a meet and everything was great. Whilst waiting for them at the bar, we barely recognised them as they approached us as their picture was clearly 10 years out of date. We did laugh………. We spent an hour with them out of politeness then parted separate company. On this occasion it made no difference seeing a face picture before we met them.

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By *aughtyDuetCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

So to answer your question, no we wouldn’t.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

Not anymore, not after we met someone that was not at all what we expected!

Maybe we’re selfish, but we need an attraction in order to play with someone. If we’re not attracted then we’re not going to have fun.

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By *ex-BombsCouple
over a year ago

Flitwick

Definitely not as attraction has to be a two way street

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not only do I want a picture I’d be pretty keen to do a video call for any future meets I’ve only had 2 and both turned out to be a nightmare, so I’m happy just being part of the forums unless someone jumps out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not anymore, not after we met someone that was not at all what we expected!

Maybe we’re selfish, but we need an attraction in order to play with someone. If we’re not attracted then we’re not going to have fun. "

Only fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely not.

And I’d be more concerned if you wanted to meet me, without seeing a few face pics, too! X

That's ok darling .what doggys for

Haha sounds like one of the dodgy messages I’ve received that!

Improvisation. You bend I'll insert.

Win win

Cheeky!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never.

We ask single guys for a live pic on kik or snap too. Been a few times its a completely different person to the pics they sent

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By *ave1963MexboroughMan
over a year ago

Mexborough

I did it recently with a couple but only because we were having a social first to see if we liked each other.

Fortunately we did and I've played with them twice since and will be doing so again.

Personally I try to make it easy for people to decide as you can see by my profile pic.

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By *othhotty81Woman
over a year ago

North West.

No. Never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have any of the people who have said NO, played in a dark room in a club, or used a glory hole?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope because what if didn't find the person attractive.

But putting things aside, a picture or even meeting. would still be under the same category (re job) hence the conversation had between so unable to trust, by sending a picture why arrange to meet, if trust isn't available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On all my meets iv never sent a face picture, sometimes it's just a social and other times its led to more . I don't think seeing a face should be a deal breaker.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've met a few people without seeing a face pic first. But I always have a social first and see how things go from there.

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance!

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By *ex-BombsCouple
over a year ago

Flitwick

"Have any of the people who have said NO, played in a dark room in a club, or used a glory hole?

Nope never I like to see who is attached to the cock or hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a couple once when on holiday and their photos were nothing like reality so it’s not always a good guide.

Needless to say it was a drink and leave situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

I ask for face pics right at the start and provide mine.

If they refuse, things go no further.

This isn't blind date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met for socials without seeing face pics…. Some of the socials turned into more.

On the flip side, I’ve met people with the intention of playing after exchanging photos and ended up not playing. Photos aren’t always a true representation unfortunately.

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By *drenaline rushMan
over a year ago

Burnley

Ok so who actually would really do this I mean really

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By *BC AndyMan
over a year ago

Richmond Upon Thames

A few years ago i met a lady from Fabs we did exchange photo's on the day of the meet the lady in the photo was not the lady who turned up, in no way shape looks or form, i politely declined and went for a pint.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve met loads of people without seeing their face pics. Then again I wasn’t meeting them for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never xx

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

Done it many years ago pre smart phone days. Some went well some not so. Prefer to see a face pic before now days

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By *reo DreamMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

For safety reasons I always like to see who I am talking to. I get so many males pretending to be females or couples its surreal.

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By *anicmouseMan
over a year ago

Greater London

Definitely a no.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Would you ever meet for sex if u hadnt seen what the person looked liked

Just wondered peoples views would u have still met and if u didnt lile juat left or would you have not met in 1st place

I wouldn’t do it personally.

There is, however, a woman near me who does this - and she’s met pretty much every great looking guy in the north west. Whilst the first one or two undoubtedly took a chance - her many veris say she’s absolutely gorgeous and physically in amazing shape (she’s in her early fifties) - so even if that’s an exaggeration one can assume she’s very attractive - therefore her newer meets aren’t taking as much of a chance.

She’s often piqued my curiosity tbh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On all my meets iv never sent a face picture, sometimes it's just a social and other times its led to more . I don't think seeing a face should be a deal breaker. "

What id there not your cup of tea and you get there

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

It’s a no from us

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I'm a bloke I dont care what they look like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to, it was all part of the excitement.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I have met people in clubs that I’ve not seen pictures but that different I guess.

A more intimate get together…. Not a fucking chance.

V x

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

I've met without seeing face pics a couple times but I will only accom in that situation just in case that couple ice been chatting to turns out to be just a bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ABSOFUCKIN'LUTELY!

I started swinging with my first partner before camera phones and we met most of out meets though personals in the local Saturday paper. No one is ever what their picture shows; how often in verifications do you read "pictures don't do them justice".

I go to meets with the expectation of meeting some, having a relaxed (with mild flutterbies) chat, hoping there's an attraction that fulfils our mutual interests. I don't call up my local takeaway and get pissy with them for not sending me a sample pack before I order. If during the meet it's clear we're not on the same vibe, be adult enough to be honest.

If you tell me every person you've met or dated _ased on you thinking they were attractive went well, I've got some shares in a bridge you might be interested in.

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