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Tied to a bed helpless

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By *oss11 OP   Man
over a year ago

eastleigh

Would you be tempted to try more things if you were tied to a bed helpless knowing you could use the excuse I couldn’t do anything to stop it an old girlfriend would only have anal sex this way as she said it was out of her control I never forced her to do this and she enjoyed the fact she was helpless

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No, I wouldn't. I enjoy the feeling of handing control to another person but only under pre agreed conditions.

I do understand what you mean though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I wouldn't. I enjoy the feeling of handing control to another person but only under pre agreed conditions.

I do understand what you mean though."
same with us on this aswell

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

No , if I'm not up for something untied, tying me isn't going to make a difference. Also, I prefer interaction rather than being tied and unable to play with the other person.

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

Tie me, gag me, spank, whip, flog. Use me, and leave me helpless. Sounds hot to me.

Happy to switch too.

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By *irmingham_Sissy_MaidTV/TS
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

I love being tied up and helpless to be used however sir or Madam see fit

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

No; if I'll do it tied I'll do it untied.

I do find a blindfold curiously liberating, but it doesn't change what I will do, just leaves me more free to enjoy sensation without me monitoring my partner's reaction.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I don’t need an excuse to try something. If I want to then I will. It’s just an extra turn on being tied up.

Kx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If been loved every second of it.

But when I'm free your getting one hell of a fucking

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

God, no!

The idea that I’d be vulnerable and at someone’s mercy while they did things I’d previously refused is truly terrifying.

I get that CNC is a thing, but for goodness’ sake don’t give people the idea that this might be a way to do things their partner says no to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sort of get what you mean OP. I don't think he's suggesting doing anything without full consent, but I think some things have a taboo element that, when tied up, you can feel liberated from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sort of get what you mean OP. I don't think he's suggesting doing anything without full consent, but I think some things have a taboo element that, when tied up, you can feel liberated from."

I'd need the finest sherpas from Nepal to help me climb off your boobs.

Lord have mercy

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

It's a thing, some people like it some don't. In theory there should pre-discusiion, negotiation and talk of aftercare.

But in reality people who would not classify themselves as kinky do it as a sexy play thing (possibly furry handcuffs may be used and old school Tom Jones playing in the background) and generally don't worry about.

Before I realised I was officially "kinky" I regularly tied girlfriends with my ties in way that now makes my kink and safety aware self shudder. However, noone was injured or turned into a submissive sex slaeve craving bondage (unfortunately).

It was just a bit of fun for both parties.

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester


"It's a thing, some people like it some don't. In theory there should pre-discusiion, negotiation and talk of aftercare.

But in reality people who would not classify themselves as kinky do it as a sexy play thing (possibly furry handcuffs may be used and old school Tom Jones playing in the background) and generally don't worry about.

Before I realised I was officially "kinky" I regularly tied girlfriends with my ties in way that now makes my kink and safety aware self shudder. However, noone was injured or turned into a submissive sex slaeve craving bondage (unfortunately).

It was just a bit of fun for both parties."

Well, that’s just disgusting, immoral, and dangerous, frankly. And I resent you advocating it.

Tom Jones during sex…..despicable!

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By *lassy_but_sassyWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I enjoy being tied up, I enjoy feeling helpless, but everything has to be consensual and so no I really wouldn't want to have things done to me that I don't consent to just because I'm tied up.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton


"It's a thing, some people like it some don't. In theory there should pre-discusiion, negotiation and talk of aftercare.

But in reality people who would not classify themselves as kinky do it as a sexy play thing (possibly furry handcuffs may be used and old school Tom Jones playing in the background) and generally don't worry about.

Before I realised I was officially "kinky" I regularly tied girlfriends with my ties in way that now makes my kink and safety aware self shudder. However, noone was injured or turned into a submissive sex slaeve craving bondage (unfortunately).

It was just a bit of fun for both parties.

Well, that’s just disgusting, immoral, and dangerous, frankly. And I resent you advocating it.

Tom Jones during sex…..despicable!"

What's up Pussycat!

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