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Equality when playing together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm hoping there are other people out there who have the same opinion as me about this. Basically you know many guys say they like to see girl on girl. As a straight female who doesn't mind playing with another female infront of their men. Afterall it's just a bit of fun doesn't mean we're lesbians. So it should be the same the other way round. Two straight guys should be willing to at least play with eachothers cocks for their partners to see, without it being a big deal. Doesn't mean thier suppressed gay and it doesn't make them less of a man. Be interested to hear other thoughts on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I people should just do what ever they want aslong as it's legal...

Dont want to touch a cock that's fine, want to that's also fine.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I'm hoping there are other people out there who have the same opinion as me about this. Basically you know many guys say they like to see girl on girl. As a straight female who doesn't mind playing with another female infront of their men. Afterall it's just a bit of fun doesn't mean we're lesbians. So it should be the same the other way round. Two straight guys should be willing to at least play with eachothers cocks for their partners to see, without it being a big deal. Doesn't mean thier suppressed gay and it doesn't make them less of a man. Be interested to hear other thoughts on this "

No... I think that women shouldn't "play with each other" just to amuse their blokes. If they're not into it, they shouldn't feel obliged.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I people should just do what ever they want aslong as it's legal...

Dont want to touch a cock that's fine, want to that's also fine. "

Hi Chloe. I agree with you 100%. But what about when guys say to females that they'd look really hot n sexy with another female. That's when I'd like the females to reply saying something like 'sure, I'm happy to lick her pussy if I can see you wanking her other half'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you play with someone you didn't fancy?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also... Why would you want to see someone do something they didn't want to do?!? Where's the fun in that?!

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If you're happy to engage in sexual fun with someone of the same sex, that makes at the very least bi-curious. In my opinion.

In my experience straight people have no interest in any sexual actions with someone if the same sex, in fact many would find it s huge turn off.

I'm bi by husband is straight. I wouldn't even consider that he would want to touch another guys cock in a sexual way...

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

As a straight female I have no interest in playing with another woman's pussy just like seeing 2 straight men playing with each other wouldn't amuse me.

If a woman is only doing it to please the bloke then she needs to give her head a wobble, should only do it if she wants to and can't see how you could get into it unless you were on the bi side.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Also... Why would you want to see someone do something they didn't want to do?!? Where's the fun in that?! "

This... swinging should be about mutual fun, not persuading your partner to do something for your enjoyment only

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm as bi as it comes. I wouldn't want to play with a straight woman only doing it for the amusement of her partner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm hoping there are other people out there who have the same opinion as me about this. Basically you know many guys say they like to see girl on girl. As a straight female who doesn't mind playing with another female infront of their men. Afterall it's just a bit of fun doesn't mean we're lesbians. So it should be the same the other way round. Two straight guys should be willing to at least play with eachothers cocks for their partners to see, without it being a big deal. Doesn't mean thier suppressed gay and it doesn't make them less of a man. Be interested to hear other thoughts on this

No... I think that women shouldn't "play with each other" just to amuse their blokes. If they're not into it, they shouldn't feel obliged.

Cal"

Hi Cal.. Exactly right. Its too often that the fella suggests girl on girl but they are shocked & offended when the girl suggests they do like for like. Females are more easily flattered by the attention of pleasing the men. I reckon it shows a more open minded, confident guy, if he's willing to do the same.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I wouldn’t do anything if I wasn’t into it and I wouldn’t expect anyone else to either.

If they are not enjoying it then it isn’t a turn on for me.

Kx

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By *erb51Man
over a year ago

Northants

Reminds me of the scene in American pie X

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I don't agree, if you're straight you don't tend to play with members of the same sex.

I'm totally straight and would never play with another woman as I don't think of them that way,my partner knows this and wouldn't dream of suggesting it.

I don't think it's right to expect people to play in a way that is only for the benefit of another.

If you're happy to play with other women then that's your choice.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Reminds me of the scene in American pie X"

Hahahhahha yeahhh I'd forgotten about that, but absolutely the same sort of thing. Brilliant haha

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I'm hoping there are other people out there who have the same opinion as me about this. Basically you know many guys say they like to see girl on girl. As a straight female who doesn't mind playing with another female infront of their men. Afterall it's just a bit of fun doesn't mean we're lesbians. So it should be the same the other way round. Two straight guys should be willing to at least play with eachothers cocks for their partners to see, without it being a big deal. Doesn't mean thier suppressed gay and it doesn't make them less of a man. Be interested to hear other thoughts on this

No... I think that women shouldn't "play with each other" just to amuse their blokes. If they're not into it, they shouldn't feel obliged.

Cal

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Hi Cal.. Exactly right. Its too often that the fella suggests girl on girl but they are shocked & offended when the girl suggests they do like for like. Females are more easily flattered by the attention of pleasing the men. I reckon it shows a more open minded, confident guy, if he's willing to do the same. "

Nobody should ever feel coerced or pressured into doing anything, that would be totally the opposite to having fun.

Cal

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By *nvincible ButterflyWoman
over a year ago

LEEDS

Swinging isn't about doing something your not in to for the amusement of your partner. Its about enjoyment for all involved.

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By *nvincible ButterflyWoman
over a year ago

LEEDS


"I'm hoping there are other people out there who have the same opinion as me about this. Basically you know many guys say they like to see girl on girl. As a straight female who doesn't mind playing with another female infront of their men. Afterall it's just a bit of fun doesn't mean we're lesbians. So it should be the same the other way round. Two straight guys should be willing to at least play with eachothers cocks for their partners to see, without it being a big deal. Doesn't mean thier suppressed gay and it doesn't make them less of a man. Be interested to hear other thoughts on this

No... I think that women shouldn't "play with each other" just to amuse their blokes. If they're not into it, they shouldn't feel obliged.

Cal

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Hi Cal.. Exactly right. Its too often that the fella suggests girl on girl but they are shocked & offended when the girl suggests they do like for like. Females are more easily flattered by the attention of pleasing the men. I reckon it shows a more open minded, confident guy, if he's willing to do the same.

Nobody should ever feel coerced or pressured into doing anything, that would be totally the opposite to having fun.

Cal"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm hoping there are other people out there who have the same opinion as me about this. Basically you know many guys say they like to see girl on girl. As a straight female who doesn't mind playing with another female infront of their men. Afterall it's just a bit of fun doesn't mean we're lesbians. So it should be the same the other way round. Two straight guys should be willing to at least play with eachothers cocks for their partners to see, without it being a big deal. Doesn't mean thier suppressed gay and it doesn't make them less of a man. Be interested to hear other thoughts on this "

No, it SHOULDN'T BE

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"I'm hoping there are other people out there who have the same opinion as me about this. Basically you know many guys say they like to see girl on girl. As a straight female who doesn't mind playing with another female infront of their men. Afterall it's just a bit of fun doesn't mean we're lesbians. So it should be the same the other way round. Two straight guys should be willing to at least play with eachothers cocks for their partners to see, without it being a big deal. Doesn't mean thier suppressed gay and it doesn't make them less of a man. Be interested to hear other thoughts on this

No... I think that women shouldn't "play with each other" just to amuse their blokes. If they're not into it, they shouldn't feel obliged.

Cal

Hi Cal.. Exactly right. Its too often that the fella suggests girl on girl but they are shocked & offended when the girl suggests they do like for like. Females are more easily flattered by the attention of pleasing the men. I reckon it shows a more open minded, confident guy, if he's willing to do the same. "

I think it shows an absolute push over who will do something they don’t want, to please someone else.

I feel very sorry for anyone on this position

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By *inkyeroticaCouple
over a year ago

Ampthill


"Also... Why would you want to see someone do something they didn't want to do?!? Where's the fun in that?!

This... swinging should be about mutual fun, not persuading your partner to do something for your enjoyment only "

That’s our view too!

Neither of us would except the other to do something they didn’t want to do purely for the others enjoyment. It should be mutual pleasure for all concerned.

Equally, neither of us would expect or be happy with one part of a couple being coerced into an act they had no want, need or desire to participate in.

The thin line between sexual pleasure and sexual abuse.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Completely agree. Shouldn't be any double standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is only one condition I place on a women

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I'm bi I however, do not put on any kind of show for M. It's about who I'm sexually attracted to. M is not bi and never in a million years would I expect him to play with another man just because I do with women. It is not double standards whatsoever it's about respecting people's sexual preferences.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

If a straight female is comfortable playing with another female that does not mean the male should have to do the same, what it means is the female is comfortable playing with a female. That’s all. If a female is being pushed into it or feels pushed into it, that’s an entirely different matter. But no. Equality is not the thing you’re describing lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone should do anything they wouldn't naturally want to do, just to put on a show for their partner. I'm straight, and I'd never play with a woman just to amuse a guy. I'd never expect him to either.

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